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Jacob Barnes Swimmer

1997 - 2025

Jacob Barnes Swimmer obituary, 1997-2025, Charlotte, NC

BORN

1997

DIED

2025

FUNERAL HOME

McEwen Funeral Service - Pineville Chapel

10500 Park Road

Charlotte, North Carolina

Jacob Swimmer Obituary

Jacob Barnes Swimmer

August 12, 1997 - February 2, 2025

Charlotte, North Carolina - It is with deep sadness we announce the passing of Jacob Barnes Swimmer, 27, who left us far too soon on February 2nd, 2025. A ray of charismatic sunshine in the lives of all who knew him, Jake was unapologetically himself, and his passing leaves an irreplaceable hole in our hearts.

Jake exuded kindness, compassion, and warmth - the fearless star of every show who always had a way of making everyone around him feel included and seen. His natural connection with animals and children was a testament to his unconditional love for all walks of life. Beyond his gentle spirit, it was Jake's unwavering generosity that defined him, always ready to lend a hand or offer up some of his "Jake wisdom."

He is survived by his parents, David and Kirstin Swimmer, his sister, Natalie Swimmer, his grandfather, Harry "Gramps" Swimmer, and his dogs, Leia, Olive, and Duck. He is now in the arms of his grandmothers, Marilyn "Grandmolly" Swimmer and Molly Maughan, and his grandfather, Charles "Beep" Barnes.

The Swimmers will honor Jake's life with family and close friends at his favorite place - Misty Meadow Farm. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to a charity of your choice to commemorate Jake's innate desire to help others and his altruistic spirit that will live on forever.

Condolences may be offered at www.McEwenPinevilleChapel.com

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Published by Charlotte Observer from Feb. 6 to Feb. 9, 2025.

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Dottie Coplon

February 21, 2025

Kirsten and David,
Sincere condolences on the loss of Jake.

Ann Langman

February 18, 2025

Dear Kirsten and David,
I was shocked to hear of your son´s passing. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kim Rice Andry

February 11, 2025

I am so very saddened for the loss of this fine young man. I did not know him, but as a native Charlottean, I have had the pleasure of meeting this lovely family at different times and in different places. As soon as I saw this child´s photo, I knew exactly who his father was by the resemblance. Prayers for all the Swimmer family.

Meredith Ellisor

February 10, 2025

My heart is aching for all of you. Praying that your loving memories can sustain you through this difficult time.

Stefanie Weiner

February 9, 2025

Sending my heartfelt condolences to the Swimmer family. May you find comfort in Jacob´s memory in the days ahead.

Dolly and Buddy Green

February 9, 2025

Our sincere condolences to the Swimmer family. We are so very sorry for your loss. Jacob sounds like a wonderful and special man!

Maria Elena Conaway

February 8, 2025

I am so sorry for your lost. My prayers are with your family.
I just heard about today. I just remember him as a happy neighborhood little boy that wanted to play with my son.

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Preston Lawing

February 6, 2025

Dear David and Kirstin,
We are so saddened to hear if the tragic loss of you son. Know that there are many, many people who are sending warmth and wishes to comfort you and your family. I did not know Jacob, but he sounds like an amazing spirit, and words can never sooth the loss, but the memories and stories you will hear and share in the coming months may give you greater strength than you know.
I hope to catch up with you on my next visit home to Charlotte, and have appreciated your continued connection to my family.

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