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Jeff Reid Obituary

Jeffery Lynn Reid CHARLOTTE - Jeffery Lynn Reid, 53, passed away unexpectedly and peacefully in his sleep at his home in Charlotte on Sunday, September 2, 2012. He is now picking and grinning with the Angels. He was born in Statesville on December 28, 1958 to Jean Madison Reid and the late Jack Myers Reid. He graduated from Statesville High School, Mitchell Community College, Pheifer College and received two degrees from Appalachian University. He was also a licensed Real Estate Broker. He had worked as a computer programmer, computer systems analyst, college recruiter, real estate developer and was currently employed as a Real Estate Division Manager for the City of Charlotte. He was a life long member of Oakland Presbyterian Church where he loved to entertain the congregation with his guitar talent and his beautiful voice. He was also a regular on "Breakfast Sunday" at Love Valley Presbyterian Church where he loved to join his good friends the Benfields in their musical presentations. He loved making music with his family, friends and anyone else who wanted to join in. His talent, love, friendship and sense of humor will be greatly missed by all who knew him. He is survived by his mother, Jean Madison Bingham, brothers, John Reid (Vicki) and Jim Reid (Freda), sister, Ginger Benfield (Phillip), Nephews, Abe Reid, Luke Reid, Justin Reid, Jesse Reid, Jackson Reid, Josh Benfield, Issac Benfield and niece, Corrie Benfield, Great nephews, Kaleb Reid and Hank Reid, great nieces Maggie Reid and Oli Reid, of all whom he had a special bond with. He is also survived by his stepchildren Simeon Sistare, Lara Rouse and their children Mac, Greyson, Ely and Jake who he loved dearly. Also left to cherish his memory is his special friend Sarah Wells. His "Harley Riding cousins" Mike, Steven and Tony also held a special place in his heart. He loved and enjoyed spending time with all his cousins, aunts and uncles. The family will receive friends at Nicholson Funeral Home on Friday, September 7, 2012 from 7:00 until 9:00. A service to celebrate his life will be held at Oakland Presbyterian Church on Saturday, September 8, 2012 at 11:00 AM with Rev. Steve Snipes officiating with a graveside service afterwards at Oakwood Cemetery. At other times family will be gathered at his mother's house on Alexander St. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Oakland Presbyterian Church, 531 North Oakland Avenue, Statesville, NC 28677 or Love Valley Presbyterian Church, 156 McCarran Trail, Statesville, NC 28625 in Jeff's memory. Online condolences may be made to the family at www.nicholsonfunerals.com Nicholson Funeral Home is serving the family of Jeffery Lynn Reid.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Sep. 6, 2012.

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Bob Percival

December 10, 2012

I just today learned of Jeff's passing. I had the priviledge of working with him for many years on assignments for the City of Charlotte. He was always the most professional yet fun person to work with, and I truly looked forward to his calls. We spent many hours talking about our mutual love of Harley's and the mountains.
I am very sorry for the loss of one of the nicest guys I know, and my sincere condolences go out to all of his family.

Dean Mundhenke

September 18, 2012

Just learned of this very sad news today. Jeff was a lifelong friend that will be dearly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his mother and family who I think are the finest family in all of North Carolina. See you on the other side my friend.

Mykel Myers (Joey Inscore's daughter)

September 15, 2012

My prayers are with all of the family and may God grant you peace during such a difficult time. Your family has always been very special to my dad and I have fond childhood memories of the Reid's. I am so sorry for your loss.

Sheryl Lucas

September 12, 2012

May God grant you all peace to replace the sorrow that you feel at this time. I wish I had known about this sooner, J.R. My heart goes out to you and the rest of your family.

Glenn Payne

September 8, 2012

Jim and J. R., I learned of Jeff's passing last night. My condolences to you all.

Julia (Beaver) Tolbert

September 6, 2012

We are so sorry for your loss. We have such fond memories of Jeff, beginning with the Sunday School Nursery and on through high school graduation. The Reid family has always had a very special place in our hearts. You are in our thoughts and prayers
Sincerely, Julie, Michael and Daniel Beaver & Larry and Gale Beaver

Tammy Hall

September 6, 2012

To the family and friends of Jeff Reid. I went to school with Jeff, but really did not know him. Until about 3 years ago. I knew him through Sarah. He was kind, caring and will be greatly missed. I am so sorry, but being in Heaven is the most Wonderful Place. We will meet him there one day.

Karen Justice

September 6, 2012

I will always remember Jeff fondly.

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