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Dr. John William Wilks
October 10, 1933
January 18, 2012
Dr. John William Wilks, prominent Roanoke, Virginia retired Gynecological Surgeon and Infertility Specialist, passed away January 18, 2012 at The Stewart Health Center on the campus of The Cypress of Charlotte due to complications resulting from a valiant eight year battle with Alzheimer's Disease. Born in Blytheville, Arkansas on October 10, 1933, he was the only child of Robert Henry Wilks and Grace Webb Wilks. Dr. Wilks graduated from Blytheville High School in 1951, attended the University of Mississippi for three years, after which he graduated first in his class at The University of Tennessee School of Medicine in 1957. He then completed his Internship at The John Gaston Hospital in Memphis, Tennessee, an affiliate of The University of Tennessee School of Medicine before serving two years as a captain in the United States Air Force.
Dr. Wilks completed his residency in Obstetrics and Gynecology in 1963 and then moved to Roanoke, Virginia where he became a long time partner with The Jefferson Surgical Clinic, Inc. Dr. Wilks was Board Certified by and a Fellow of The American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology and held Membership in both the American College of Surgeons and the American Fertility Society. Dr. Wilks served as a Clinical Professor of Gynecological Surgery at Carilion Hospital, Roanoke, Virginia, a division of The University of Virginia School of Medicine. Dr. Wilks was the physician member of a team consisting of two Senior Hospital Administrators and several attorneys who successfully received, after numerous hearings over a two year period in Washington, Federal approval of the Merger of the two large hospitals in the Roanoke Valley. This merger was the initial action in the development over a 20 year time frame of Carilion Health Care System, presently one of the largest Health Care Systems in the Commonwealth of Virginia. Dr. Wilks was for many years a Member of the Board of Directors of The Community Hospital of Roanoke Valley. After the merger he was a Member of The Board of Directors of Carilion Health System until he retired from the active practice of medicine in 1999.
John was a calm and caring gentleman and friend who brought infinite joy and happiness to his patients throughout the Virginias and North Carolina who before meeting him had little hope of having children. He was loved and revered by his patients, as evidenced by the hundreds of Christmas cards and family photos they sent him each holiday season to acknowledge his invaluable influence on their lives. Following his retirement, he selflessly gave of his time and expertise in the non- profit sector. He regularly volunteered at The Free Clinic of Roanoke Valley and later at the Naples, Florida Senior Friendship Medical Center.
John was a student of Civil War History, and he enjoyed dancing, opera and classical music, as well as working in the yard. He was an avid fan of all sports, particularly those teams his son and most recently his grandsons, played for: SteelFab in Dilworth Little League and the South Park Falcons football program. He was a member of Sigma Chi while at Ole Miss and the medical fraternity, Alpha Omega Alpha. He was a proud member of the Rotary Club during his professional years.
John was preceded in death by his parents. He is survived by his beloved wife of over 53 years, Margaret Whitfield Wilks, his son, John Whitfield Wilks, and two adoring grandsons, John Bennett Wilks and Andrew Eberhart Wilks, all of Charlotte. He is also survived by a brother-in-law, Frank Young Whitfield of Atlanta, GA, his brother-in-law Charles Herbert Whitfield, Sr. and wife Ruth, of Greeneville, TN, his brother-in-law, Theodore Krouse Whitfield, Sr. and wife, Lucia, of Signal Mt, TN, and a first cousin, Bobby Ann Caraway of Memphis, TN.
A memorial in celebration of John's life will be held at 12 noon on Monday, January 23, 2012 at The Second Presbyterian Church in Roanoke, VA. A private Internment service will be at the Columbarium prior to the memorial and a reception for all friends will follow the memorial.
Additionally, a service for John's friends in Charlotte will be held at 11 am on Saturday, January 21, 2012, in the Francis Chapel at Myers Park United Methodist Church. The family extends sincere appreciation and heartfelt gratitude to the staff of the Stewart Health Center for their compassion and care. Special thanks are given to Dr. Wilks' private caregivers Robyn Massey, Theresa Smith, Cynthia Adams, Nancy Burghart and Lisa Lindsay.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations in John's name be made to either the Alzheimer's Association, Western Carolinas Chapter, 3800 Shamrock Road, Charlotte, NC 28215, Hospice & Palliative Care 1420 East Seventh Street Charlotte, NC 28204 or The Columbarium Fund at Second Presbyterian Church, 214 Mountain Ave. SW, Roanoke, VA 24016.
Arrangements are in the care of Simply Cremations of Charlotte.

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Published by Charlotte Observer from Jan. 19 to Jan. 20, 2012.

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Hugh Sawyer CPA

February 8, 2012

John was the best client I have ever served. I learned much more from him than he ever learned from me. The value system he taught me carries me every day.

Bob Smith

February 6, 2012

I first met John in the seventh grade
Biology class at Blytheville Jr Hi. He was always quite and
considerate of those around him but it
was very obvious that he was an exceptional person and destined to become
someone of great importance.
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john white

January 30, 2012

I knew John as a quiet, compasionate teenage student during the 1945-51 period and along with many others who knew him, recognized him as one of God's best children who left memories of kindness in our world..
John C. White, Blytheville Senior class of 1951.

January 24, 2012

What a wonderful gentleman and doctor. Dr. Wilks helped to give me a son, the most precious gift. He enhanced the lives of many.

Wanda Wright

January 24, 2012

To Dr. Wilks' family,
May God's comfort be yours in the days and months ahead. Dr. Wilks was an amazing doctor. He never gave up on finding the medical condition that I suffered with....his knowledge was above most in his field. His compassion for his patients was outstanding and his kindness was always appreciated. The medical field has lost a wonderful man, and I know his family has lost the same.

January 24, 2012

When Dr. Wilks retired, I didn't know what to do. Not only was he my doctor, but he was also the doctor of all the women in my family and most of my friends. There was not another physician like him then and there will never be another like him. Dr. Wilks was compassionate, thorough and respectful. I appreciated him so much!

"Well done, good and faithful servant." Matthew 25:21

Please accept my sympathy for your loss.

Pam & Mike Caraway

January 23, 2012

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Wanda English

January 23, 2012

I am very sorry to her of Dr. Wilks passing. He was my doctor from an early age until I moved to Charlotte in 1998. He knew exactly what was wrong and knew exactly how to make it well. He was a fantastic doctor. So kind and understanding. May God be with you at this difficult time.

Vicki Palmer

January 23, 2012

Dr. Wilks was my doctor back in the early 1980's and I have never known a nicer doctor. He performed major surgery on me and took the best care of me a patient could ask for. The medical field lost a good doctor when he retired. My condolences to the family of Dr. Wilks.

Lisa Lindsey

January 22, 2012

To say the least...kind, caring and compassionate is an understatement in describing Dr. Wilks personality. He was a God given Angel and now has taken his so deserved place. I was with him in his final days, and I am honored to have had the privileged to do so. We had alot of fun on music days, music on wine and cheese days,(though he didn't pay any attention to the wine & cheese) he really and truly enjoyed the sound of music and dancing!! We were friends and he will truly be missed! Farewell my friend...until we met again. Sincerely...

Linda Early

January 21, 2012

Dr.Wilks was the most kind,caring Dr. I ever met. I was his patient for 25 years and he always had time for you. He never tried to rush you out of his office and he always asked about the family. He was a true gentleman and will be greatly missed.My prayers go out to your family

Dwayne Cales

January 21, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss.
I met Dr. Wilks when I worked at a local hospital. I admired his honest and real friendship. I am thankful for getting to know him.

Valerie Harvey

January 21, 2012

Dr. Wilkes was my doctor in the '80's. I will never forget his kindness and compassion. He was a shining star in his profession. Thank you, dr. Wilkes. You will be missed.

Joyce Epperly

January 20, 2012

My deepest sympathy to the family of Dr. John Wilks. I was patient for many years until he retired. Dr. Wilks was a great physician. He was a very kind and caring doctor. He would take time to listen to your problems and didn't rush you out of his office until you were ready to leave. He will certainly be missed by everyone that knew him. I sure did miss him when he retired. My prayers go out to all of his family. God Bless all of you.

Monica Carden

January 20, 2012

So sorry to hear about Dr,. Wilks, he was a wonderful, kind and caring doctor. I was his patient for several years and missed him so much when he retired. The family is in my prayers. God Bless

Donna Dame

January 20, 2012

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Julie Holland

January 20, 2012

My deepest sympathy to the family of Dr. Wilks. He was my doctor for many years until he retired. When he performed surgery on me, I was scared to death. He held my hand until I was under anesthesia. He was the kindest and most considerate doctor I have ever known! I know he will be greatly missed!

January 20, 2012

Dr. Wilks was a great physician and compassionate person. I was blessed to know him as a patient and employee. The world is a better place because of people like him.Prayers out to the family and think of all your beautiful memories. RIP

Dottie Crush Vinton, Va.

Judy Mitchell

January 20, 2012

Dr. Wilks was a true Southern Gentleman. I had the pleasure of working with him for many years in the operating room at Community Hospital and he was my Doctor. He was an excellent teacher and a compassionate caring physician. My heart goes out to you but remember he is whole again and in a much better place.

January 20, 2012

Sorry for your loss, Dr Wilks was my first gyn dr, he was a very good dr, and a very nice man! My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sincerely,
S. Rucker
Vinton, VA

Shirley Sprouse

January 20, 2012

To the family of one of the most gentle and caring Doctors, he was my physician from 1957 until he retired. He never was in a hurry always had time for you. He will be missed. God Bless

Janet Donahue

January 20, 2012

Dr. Wilks was a nice caring physician who I enjoyed working with at Roanoke Memorial occasionally in surgery. My prayers goes to your family.

January 20, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss, Dr. Wilks was a great man. He was my Doctor years ago and he took very good care of me. May God be with you at this time.

Trish West

January 20, 2012

I' am so sorry to hear of Dr.Wilks passing,he was my doctor for many years.He was one of the kindest doctor I ever had..I am so sorry for your loss.

Lucas Snipes

January 20, 2012

A most caring and compassionate physician John Wilks was a special gentleman. I was one of those administrators that worked with John on the merger and his goal throughout was to improve the care of patients. He saw the potential benefits through the eyes and experience of a briliant and dedicated physician. His vision was fulfilled and his legacy lives on.
Thank you John for sharing your life, your dreams, and your passion for quality patient care with our community.

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