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Dr. Joseph Iverson Riddle Sr.

1931 - 2017

Dr.  Joseph Iverson Riddle Sr. obituary, 1931-2017, Morganton, NC

BORN

1931

DIED

2017

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Sossoman Funeral Home - Morganton

1011 South Sterling Street

Morganton, North Carolina

Joseph Riddle Obituary

On May 9, 2017, a life well-lived came to a peaceful close. Joseph lverson Riddle was born on April 25, 1931 to Harry Lee Riddle, Sr. and Helen Atlanta Davis. Two beloved siblings, Judge Harry Lee "Chick" Riddle, Jr. and Mira Davis Riddle, pre-deceased him. Dr. Riddle grew up in Morganton, North Carolina, raised by a family steeped in the value of service to others. His life evidenced to the fullest that caring. He attended the McCallie School in Chattanooga, Tennessee, and the University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill, graduating Phi Beta Kappa. He went on to attend the School of Medicine at the University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill, completing a residency in psychiatry with an emphasis in child psychiatry. Following a tour of duty in Charleston, South Carolina as a Lieutenant Commander in the United States Navy, Dr. Riddle returned to Morganton. There, he became, in 1962, the founding director of Western Carolina Center, a regional treatment facility for people with developmental disabilities.

It was as director of Western Carolina Center, now the J. lverson Riddle Developmental Center, that Dr. Riddle's caring became a calling. One of the country's first psychiatrists to focus on the treatment of people with significant, life-long disabilities, his passion for excellence, penchant for ground breaking innovation, and ardent advocacy became near-legendary. Dr. Riddle directed the Center for 44 years, until his retirement in 2006. In addition to his work there, he gave to his community and state in other ways. Dr. Riddle did pioneering work with children with Attention De�cit Disorder (ADD), much of it in a weekly private practice; worked late nights for more than 25 years in the Foothills Mental Health Area Program; and treated young men at the Western Youth Institution (Foothills Correctional Institution) for 28 years. At various points, he was a member of the staff at Grace Hospital, Morganton, and the �rst physician member of its board of trustees, was the director of North Carolina's western regional mental health services; served as a charter member of both the North Carolina Child Advocacy Institute and the Governor's Advocacy Council on Children and Youth; directed Broughton Hospital and the North Carolina School for the Deaf at Morganton; founded a national organization for directors of state-funded developmental centers, chaired the Burke County School Board; and led the North Carolina Division of Mental Health, Developmental Disabilities and Substance Abuse Services from 2000 to 2001. Dr. Riddle summed up his approach to his life's work this way: "When joy and happiness are added to individual[ized] attention... treatments are much more effective. Joy and happiness are the treatment of choice." In his spare time, Dr. Riddle took great pleasure in renovating old cars, with his son, and in reading about the Civil War and WWII.

With his �rst wife, the late Caroline Huntley Riddle, he was the father of three children, all of whom survive him: Helen Catherine "Holly" Riddle of Chapel Hill; Ruth Riddle Jones of Morganton; and Joseph lverson Riddle, Jr. (Beth), also of Morganton. Dr. Riddle and his second wife, Marsha Baxter Riddle, who also survives him, are the stepfather and mother, respectively, of Keith Milton Brown, II (Jeannine). A sister-in-law, Sally Best Riddle is also surviving. He was the proud grandfather of Stuart Wayne Robinson, Jr. (Kathy); Jacob Colter "Cole" Jones (Lisa); William Iverson Riddle; Soren Adrianus Harmsen; and Joseph Davis Riddle; and the great-grandfather of James and Sarah Robinson and Jacob and Gray Jones.

The family will receive friends from 5 to 8pm, Friday, May 12, 2017 at Sossoman Funeral Home (1011. S. Sterling Street, Morganton, NC 28655). A memorial service will be held at 11am, Saturday, May 13, 2017 at Bess Chapel United Methodist Church (6073 Flay Road, Cherryville, NC 28021) with the Rev. Bill Taylor and the Rev. Dr. Wade Dellinger officiating. A memorial celebration of Dr. Riddle's life will also be held at the J. Iverson Riddle Developmental Center on Wednesday, May 17, 2017 at 2pm in the gymnasium (300 Enola Road, Morganton, NC 28655).

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the J. Iverson Riddle Developmental Center Chapel Fund or to Bess Chapel United Methodist Church, 2741 Hwy 274, Cherryville, NC 28021.

Sossoman Funeral Home and Crematory Center is assisting the family.

Condolences may be sent to the family by visiting www.sossomanfh.com.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on May 11, 2017.

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August 16, 2017

Dear Marsha and Iverson Jr.and family, Iverson meant so much to me even more so to my dad Pat Johnson. I just now found out about his passing and it seems just like yesterday my husband and I just visited. He always told me he would be my God Father and he truly looked after me. My prayers go out to all and I wish all great memories of a man that always gave love to everyone
Wayne and Tonya gentry

Norm Ledgin

May 22, 2017

Marsha, you and your husband were fortunate to find each other and enjoy your time together. Please smile at the good memories.
Norm Ledgin

May 19, 2017

Marsha, my heart is with you and your family as you share the grief of your loss. Be gentle with yourself i the coming days.
Aloma Brintle Sibley

May 12, 2017

Marsha, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Jo Rivenbark Wooten

Lewis Hill Jenkins Jr.

May 12, 2017

Dear Iverson Jr.,so sorry to here about the passing of your father!! I enjoyed meeting he and you both here at Jenkins Interiors! Hope the both of you enjoyed the 57 Eldorado! Again sorry for your loss, take care and come see me sometime! Sincerely, Hill Jenkins

Mary Tripp

May 12, 2017

Ralph Waldo Emerson once said that "the purpose of life is .... to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well." Such is the mark Dr. Riddle made in this world. May you find peace and comfort in the days, weeks and months ahead. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jacquie Sohovich-Henry

May 12, 2017

Dear Marsha, I am so sorry for your loss. He was a wonderful man and you took such good care of him. I will keep you in my prayers.

Laurie Taylor

May 11, 2017

So very sorry to hear of his passing. My prayers go out to the entire family, especially his little Ruthie.

May you feel the Peace from all that is, during this - your most difficult time.

Stephen & Kimberly Lajzer

May 11, 2017

Ric Zaharia

May 11, 2017

A really bright light has disappeared from our world. Adios amigo!

Beck & Karl Hefner

May 11, 2017

You & your family are in our thoughts & prayers.

May 11, 2017

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Lisa Dean

May 11, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. He was a wonderful man who affected many lives. May your hearts be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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May

12

Visitation

5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Sossoman Funeral Home - Morganton

1011 South Sterling Street PO Box 2608 (zip 28680), Morganton, NC 28655

May

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Memorial service

11:00 a.m.

Bess Chapel United Methodist Church

6073 Flay Road, Cherryville, NC

May

17

Memorial service

2:00 p.m.

J. Iverson Riddle Developmental Center

300 Enola Road, Morganton, NC

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1011 South Sterling Street PO Box 2608 (zip 28680), Morganton, NC 28655

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