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Laura McCaskey Obituary

Laura Jane McCaskey, of Cornelius, North Carolina, a brave, strong woman until the very end, passed away at age 56 on April 10, 2018. Laura was born on May 13, 1961, in Asheville, North Carolina, to Betty McPherson and the late Grover McPherson. She and her brother David grew up in Winston-Salem, where she later met the love of her life, John McCaskey. They recently celebrated 28 years together. After graduating from Western Carolina University, Laura worked in sales and marketing for most of her business career, culminating in opening several of her own companies as an entrepreneur. Her greatest joy in life was her son Alex, and she was beyond proud that he just started college at Appalachian State University. Laura was treasured as a kind, loving, and generous friend. She enjoyed boating, listening to music, lounging at the beach, attending Carolina Panthers football games, running races and most of all playing with her beloved dog Spencer. Laura recently said of her trying times that "God does not promise clarity in tragic situations, but he does promise to be our rock and our fortress". She is survived by her husband John McCaskey and son Alex, mother Betty McPherson of Winston-Salem, brother David McPherson and wife Vanessa of Charlotte, "sister"/cousin Kathy Crutchfield and husband Brian of Boone, sister-in-law Cindy Brown and husband Bob of Boone, sister-in-law Kim McCaskey of Los Angeles, California, sister-in-law Sherrie McCaskey of McLean, Virginia, as well as a loving circle of cherished friends, nieces, nephews, and cousins. Her funeral will take place at 2 PM on Friday April the 13th at Davidson United Methodist Church at 233 South Main Street, with a reception to follow in the fellowship hall. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to a charity very near and dear to the McCaskey family, The Jamie Kimble Foundation for Courage, 1850 E. 3rd Street, Suite 110, Charlotte, NC 28204 or online at jkffc.org/donate. James Funeral Home of Huntersville is assisting the family. Online condolences may be made at www.jamesfuneralhomelkn.com.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Apr. 12, 2018.

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Anne B Lemere

April 6, 2021

Remembering JJ's sparkling eyes and beautiful smile today.

Ronnie Vagnne

April 19, 2018

John and Alex, I am so very sorry to hear of Laura's passing. It breaks my heart. She was always so full of energy with the best smile on Lake Norman. Prayers to you both during this difficult time.

Kris Bruton

April 17, 2018

John, I was so sorry to see that Laura had passed away. She was such a lovely, charming person inside and out. Although I hadn't seen her in many years, I have thought of her, especially when I would run into you on the bus. I wanted to let you know that you and your family are in my thoughts during this difficult time. Kris Bruton

April 13, 2018

We loved Laura as a friend and as a business acquaintance...Really enjoyed knowing her and meeting Alex when he was just a little fellow....God bless John and Alex. Phyllis Andrews, Distinctive Fabrics and Furniture, Inc. Cornelius nC

Sam and Diane Drakulic

April 13, 2018

Laura was such a positive spirit and I always enjoyed our time together. Sending our condolences.

Joan Schwanz

April 13, 2018

We have lost a loved friend . I remember the day she brought Alex home and how proud she was, Which never changed. Her smile lit up a room, and she made everyone feel welcome, even if she wasn't feeling well, or was busy. All our love to John , Alex and the whole family.
Dr. Joan and Gary Schwanz

Lilly Raymond

April 12, 2018

John,
It was heartbreaking to hear about Laura. I have fond memories working with her at Bank of America and seeing her smiling face and cheerful personality in our neighborhood. I'm so sorry for your loss. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Anne Lemere

April 12, 2018

Laura (JJ) was one of the strongest women that I've ever known of. Strong and brave to the very end. Her contagious smile, inner strength and positive spirit will forever be remembered. Alex she is so proud of you and you will always have her love. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your Dad.

Ron Sailers

April 12, 2018

John, & Alex, you have our deepest thoughts and prayers during this time and your loss. Laura, was a wonderful person , and we were blessed to have known her and experience her wonderful spirit. Ron Sailers

Cindi Ferguson

April 12, 2018

This was such a shock to read in the paper this morning because I haven't kept up with Laura in recent years. However I have very fond memories of working closely with her on the board at the Ada Jenkins Center. She had lots of energy and ideas and I am so glad our paths crossed. John and Alex, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I know she will be forever missed.

April 12, 2018

Such a lovely, kind woman. I am so sorry for your loss. Sending our condolences. - The Partridge Family

Pam McGlothlin

April 12, 2018

John, Alex & Family
Our Lauras passing this week has been such a heart breaking shock!
How do we continue without her?
The smiles, the laughter, the sunshine, the love, the caring that she extended, can never be replaced.
But boy did she love & live life!
Making everyones world a better place.
Everyone wanted to be with & around Laura & John. They were the place to be.
We all need to be like Laura!
Thank you for sharing her with us.
Love & many prayers for this beautiful family.

Her loving friend, Pam!

April 12, 2018

My condolences to the MCCaskey family,losing a love one is never easy,Isa 61:2 offers comfort in your time of need.
dh

April 12, 2018

John and Alex,
Clarke and I are so saddened to hear of Laura's passing. She was such a kind, giving and loving soul. Our fondest memories with her are all those we made on the Chamber trips for years. Please call on us if we can comfort you in any way.
Hugs and Love to You!
Cyndie and Clarke Hobson

Terri DeBoo

April 11, 2018

John and Alex,
I am so sorry for your loss. Laura was an amazing spirit, a beautiful soul and a wonderful lady. Her smile would light up the room. Mark and I will keep you both in our prayers and our memories of sweet Laura in our hearts.

Donna Sink

April 11, 2018

John, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your immediate family seem so connected, I hope that you can find strength and solace there. You will be in my thoughts.

April 11, 2018

My best wishes to the family, most especially her husband & son, and her mother Betty whom I knew well when Jane & I were buddies in Hope Valley and RJR - we lost touch over the years, but I know her contagious smile has warmed many hearts over the years- and memories of her great laugh will keep her spirit alive in our hearts forever. Blessings to you all, with great loving memories, from Emily OConnell, former neighbor in Hope Valley

April 11, 2018

John and Alex,
The Manning family's thoughts and prayers go out to you both. She enjoyed life with her great spirit and was especially proud of both of you. She had so much life left to live. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you.
Love The Manning family (Mike, Sharon and the girls)

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