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Mary Hendrick Obituary

Mary Tucker Hendrick
Mrs. Hendrick, age 88, of Charlotte passed away on Monday, August 8, 2011 at Carolinas Medical Center in Charlotte, NC surrounded by her loving family.
Fondly referred to as 'Miss Mary,' she was born January 11, 1923 in Savannah, GA to John Lewis Tucker and Laura Spencer Tucker. After a short time in Savannah, her family moved to South Hill, VA where she lived for the majority of her life.
She married Joseph R. 'Papa Joe' Hendrick Jr. on December 29, 1945 at Grace Episcopal Church in Palmer Springs, VA following his return from World War II as a decorated veteran. Papa Joe remained her best friend and partner for almost 60 years until his passing in July 2004.
Together, they raised two wonderful sons, Rick and John, teaching them the value of faith, family and friends. While living in Virginia, she was very involved with her church, playing the piano and teaching Sunday school. Mrs. Hendrick also worked as a teller at the Bank of Virginia until retiring after more than 30 years of service.
Following Papa Joe's retirement from farming in 1979, the Hendricks moved to Charlotte to be closer to their sons. After relocating to North Carolina, Mr. and Mrs. Hendrick soon became fixtures at Hendrick Motorsports and City Chevrolet, part of the Hendrick Automotive Group dealerships. In turn, they became two of the organization's most beloved family members. Both loved racing and she is listed as the team owner of the No. 5 Chevrolet driven by Mark Martin. She never missed watching or listening to the races each week.
In June 2004, then Gov. Mike Easley presented Mr. and Mrs. Hendrick with the Order of the Long Leaf Pine, the state of North Carolina's highest honor bestowed on a citizen for dedication and extended length of service to his or her organization.
Mrs. Hendrick was most proud of her family, especially her two sons and their families. They were the center of her life and she talked about them all the time. She loved hosting family members for meals and special occasions, spending quality time together and watching them grow up.
Known for her generosity, dry wit and passion for life, she will be greatly missed by all whose lives she touched. While she remained passionate about her independence, the family is grateful for those who cared for Mrs. Hendrick later in her life, including the many doctors, friends, and caregivers who routinely visited and checked on her daily.
Mrs. Hendrick is survived by son Rick Hendrick and his wife Linda; daughter-in-law Cathy Hendrick; grandchildren, Lynn Carlson and her husband Marshall, Alesha Gainey and her husband Mike; great-grandchildren Kate, Hendrick, Ricki, Jocelyn and Joseph; several nieces and nephews and close family member Emily Maynard.
Mrs. Hendrick was preceded in death by son John Hendrick and grandchildren Ricky, Jennifer, and Kimberly.
Visitation will begin at 12:30 p.m. on Wednesday, August 10 and will immediately be followed by a 2 p.m. memorial service at the Central Church of God, 5301 Sardis Road, Charlotte, NC. A small graveside service will be held at 11 a.m. on Thursday, August 11 at Union Chapel Methodist Church in Palmer Springs, VA.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that contributions be made to the Hendrick Foundation for Children, P.O. Box 240070, Charlotte, NC 28224 or to the Mary Hendrick Fund, care of the Hendrick Marrow Program, 4400 Papa Joe Hendrick Boulevard, Charlotte, NC 28262.
Lowe Funeral Home is serving the Hendrick family.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Aug. 10, 2011.

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Linda Fox

August 4, 2022

Miss Mary you are a fine example of how to raise your boys and lead your own life. I`m sure you have found your place in heaven, God bless

Ron Kirby

August 20, 2011

Rick, Our Thoughts and Prayers are with You and the Family. I will always cherish the days of making sure Ms Mary, Ms Myrick amd Ms Crews were seated at the races . We didn't use golf carts then. She is in the Greatest Place . May God Bless You.

Kelly Girting

August 15, 2011

Mr. Hendrick & Family,
I am really sad to hear that Miss Mary has passed. I really enjoyed her on my flights and loved her sense of humor. I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray that God will comfort you and your family in your time of sorrow. She was an amazing woman and I will never forget her.

Jimmy and Vicki Hendrick Copeland

August 14, 2011

We were so sorry to hear about Mrs. Hendrick. Even though we did not know her, we felt like we did through racing. Our thoughts and prayers will be with each of you during this difficult time.

Nikki Dumencich, RN

August 13, 2011

Rick and family,
I am so sorry to hear of Mrs. Hendrick's passing. I am thankful for the opportunity I had to care for her at CMC. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!

Carol Kilgore

August 13, 2011

So sorry to hear about your mother passing. She was always so sweet and kind. Prayers are with all of you in this time of need,

Sam Moore

August 13, 2011

Very sorry for your loss Mr. Hendrick and family im a huge fan of HENDRICK MOTORSPORTS............

Susan Farrell, RN

August 12, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. I was so glad I could help during Miss Mary's stay at CMC. She remineded me of my own grandmother and even gave me a few chuckles! My prayers are with the family.

Dave & Valerie Hinant

August 11, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Janet Blanton

August 11, 2011

My deepest sympathy to the Hendrick family.

With love, Janet Blanton

Randy Burbage

August 11, 2011

Rick, Sorry about the loss of your mother. We will keep you and yours in our prayers.
Randy Burbage and the boys,
Randy Burbage Equipment Co., Charleston

renee olinger

August 11, 2011

im sorry for ur lose, but we are the ones who suffer the most when god takes our angels from us butknow that god has her for a reason to watch over another angel in heaven im sorry u have lost ur loved one renee olinger

H & F Racing

August 11, 2011

Rick and Linda, we are sorry for your lost.

She will be watching over all of the drivers now and is with those drivers who have went ahead.

angel thompson

August 11, 2011

praying for your family

Selina Pennington

August 11, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family

August 11, 2011

Rick and Linda and all your family, my sincere sympathies. You have given so much and now you have given us another angel. Miss Mary was a terrific lady and my prayers are with you in your time of loss.

August 11, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Hendrick Family at this sad time on the passing of Miss Mary who will be missed by all who knew her. Remembering the many memories and good times she has shared with your family.

Pam Solomon, Marlene and Chris White
Huntersville, NC

Mika

August 11, 2011

Our prayers are with you and your family

Heidi Corzine

August 10, 2011

Rick, Linda and Family - May the God of peace fill your hearts in a very sweet and special way during this time. May His presence comfort you and may your find continual joy in remembering the beautiful and very special life Mrs. Hendrick lived. I love you all so much and I am keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers!
(Linda's friend Heidi in TN.)

Donna Foster

August 10, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God Bless each and every one of you. God has a new angel, Miss Mary.

August 10, 2011

Rick our prayers are with you and your family. May God Bless you in your time of sorrow he will be with you. Kay Lender (Clearfield Pa)

Donna Winter

August 10, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with the Hendrick Family at this time. I pray that God will bring you comfort as only He can.

Ladening Bryant

August 10, 2011

My prayer are with you and family God bless you all.

Julie Suiter

August 10, 2011

So sorry for loss.

August 10, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with the Hendrick Family duriing the passing of Mama Hendrick! May God comfort you during your time of bereavement! Delphine Wiggins (Rocky Mount, NC)

Cheri Gully

August 10, 2011

Loosing a parent on death is horrible, no matter the age of parent or child.....keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Ecclesiates 9:5

Regina Shepherd

August 10, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with the Hendrick Family. May God bless you and bring you comfort.

Linda Cutone

August 10, 2011

My sincere condolences at the loss of Miss Mary. May God bless you, your family and all of HMS. Heaven has another angel to watch over us.

Mary Mitchell

August 10, 2011

My sincere condolences to you and your family, Mr. Hendrick...My prayers are with you at this time.God Bless You.

Arlene Harris

August 10, 2011

I have the utmost respect for your son, Rick, and the way he manages his racing team. You can tell the drivers have so much respect for him. It is apparent he was raised by loving parents who taught him to respect others, and in return they have respect for him. I am sure that all of the drivers feel as if they, too, have lost a mother/grandmother. Hope you are having a Magnificent Reunion with those who have gone before you. Rest well, Miss Mary.

Lyn Jones

August 10, 2011

Many prayers are being lifted by all the race fans. I'm a 69 year old that receives much joy from Nascar. May God give you peace and comfort during this time.

Shiela Cochran

August 10, 2011

My prayers are with you today

Brenda Graver

August 10, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Hendricks family with the loss of Mrs. Hendricks . May God watch over and bless you during this time.

Dayna Lesthaeghe

August 10, 2011

I am soooo sorry for your loss. Mr. Hendrick and the Hendrick family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Rebecca Young

August 10, 2011

You were a great woman who raised a great man who loves Nascar.May the Nascar Heavens watch over you.R.I.P,you will be missed by all.(48)

Charlyn Jordan

August 10, 2011

Prayers and condolences to Mr. Hendrick and the whole Hendrick family at this sad time. God Bless.

Danni Koche

August 10, 2011

Sorry for your loss. Your entire Hendrick's Family and organization are in my thoughts and prayers. God need an and has an angel now. God Bless all of you always and in your time of need.

Michelle Jewell

August 10, 2011

I bless you and your family for your loss.My prayers are with you.

Angela Olmstead

August 10, 2011

you are in my prayers sorry about your loss!she is in good hand and looking down on you and praying for you ! god bless you

Marilyn Van Pelt

August 10, 2011

I's so sorry for your loss our hearts and prayers will be with you in your time of greif May God bless the whole Hendrick family

Jackie Epley

August 10, 2011

My prayers and condolences go out to Mr. Hendrick and His family for the loss of his Mom Mary! God Bless you all and keep you strong through this difficult time.

Tabatha and Randy Clark

August 10, 2011

we are so very sorry very sorry for the loss of Miss Mary...may God keep you all wrapped in His loving arms during this time of loss...God Bless...

Debbie F

August 10, 2011

While I don't know you all personally I feel as though I do. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of loss. May God grant you all peace and comfort now and days to come.

Kathy Atherton

August 10, 2011

I am so very sorry for your loss of your mother! Thoughts & prayers for the whole Hendrick family!

Tami Sablan

August 10, 2011

Thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.May god bless you.

Carol Dahlberg

August 10, 2011

My deepest sympathy to the Hendrick family. I know Miss Mary will be sorely missed.

A race fan.

August 10, 2011

You are all in my thoughts and prayers this week. It is so hard to lose a mom regardless of age. Mom's are special. Your heart may ache but the Lord will give you the strength to let her go and enjoy the many many memories she has left.

kathy mc

August 10, 2011

Please accept our heartfelt condolences ,Our Thoughts and Prayers are With You All At This Difficult Time,,,,,,,God Bless You All

Always professional in moving inc. Lavigne

August 10, 2011

My sympathy Mr Hendrick and family on the Loss of Miss Mary.

Judy Sandoval

August 10, 2011

All our prayers are with you and your family. And she will always be in our hearts

Steve Behrent

August 10, 2011

Things that mean the most to us are how we're remembered. And Mary Tucker Hendrick is womeone who led the way helping others and loving life.

Kathy Davis

August 10, 2011

Very Sorry to hear about the loss to the Hendrick Family, there just isn't any words that can say enough as far as what we feel at this time. Just keep your memories alive and with you. God Bless You All.

D. Adams

August 10, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.

Adrienne Soloman

August 10, 2011

My prayers and Sympathy to Mr Hendrick and family on the loss of Rick's Mom Mary! God Bless

August 10, 2011

sorry for the passing of your mom.. prayers to you and your family. Another angel will be watching over you and your family

Rebecca Cearley

August 10, 2011

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Jessica Leonard

August 10, 2011

My condolences go out to all of the Hendrick family and friends. All of the loving memories you have will help carry you all through this time of sorrow.

fux michéle

August 10, 2011

toughts and prayers are with you and your family... condolence from Switzerland

Mary Murray

August 10, 2011

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Deanna Craig

August 10, 2011

Mr. Hendrick I am sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers, May she rest in peace..she will be in all our hearts and never forgotten

D. Gardner

August 10, 2011

Prayers and thoughts are with Mr Hendrick and his family with the loss of Mary Hendrick. May God bless you and may she RIP <3

Lorna Levine

August 10, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Tara Cassidy

August 10, 2011

Sorry for your loss. Prayers & comfort headed your way

Gina Barlow

August 10, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with The Hendrick Family with the loss of Miss Mary. My heart bleeds for this family, such wonderful people. May god hold your hands threw this difficult time. God Bless.

Tammy Shirley

August 10, 2011

Mr. Hendricks and family ...I'm sorry for the loss of your mother ....may she RIP..she will be in your hearts forever ...she is a beautiful angel in heaven with God watching over you all...sending prayers and love to all...Love you all...!

Tammy Shirley

August 10, 2011

Mr. Hendrink I'm so sorry for the passing of your mother....I'm sending prayers and love for you all...may she RIP...she will be forever in your hearts...God had received another angel who will be watching over you all....Love you guys and God bless you all!

Rick Lyon

August 10, 2011

Mr Hendrick all of us in the parts department at Hendrick BMW hope you and your family can find peace in this time of loss. I didnt get to meet your parents but I have met you and from how you are it shows that your mother taught you well on how to treat people as well as your dad. May God be with you and your family.

JoAnne Holliday

August 10, 2011

My sympathy Mr Hendrick and family on the Loss of Miss Mary.

A race fan

August 10, 2011

As you look at the footprints in the sand know the lord is carrying you and your family during your lost, God Bless Ken Byrum (Matthews,N.C.

G. C. Roberts

August 10, 2011

My the fondest memories bring a smile, a laugh or grin to you, as you remember your Mom loved, lived and laughed.

Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. May God bless you.

August 10, 2011

My prays are with ya.God bless.Bob Barbour

Jack Martin

August 10, 2011

Rick I was so sorry to hear about you mothers passing!I only worked for you a short time with Bill,Jeff and Michelle at Hendrick Sportswear but I always felt like I was a member of the Hendrick Team! I was lucky enough to take Papa Joe home a number of times from the office on sharon amity! This is the hardest time of our life having to bury our family we all know these feelings! Thinking about you and your family in thoughts and prayers!

patti olivieri

August 10, 2011

so sorry for your loss - Rick and Family - I am a nascar fan and luv dale jr and hope you get all the prayers from all the nascar fans in the us. Remember your MOM and all she did for you and the nascar family. God Bless
Patti Olivieri/Fort Pierce/FL

Marcia Harms

August 10, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Susan Kiebler

August 10, 2011

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Janet Krause

August 10, 2011

My heart goes out to Rick and his family. I lost both of my parents at the ages of 83 & 86 during the month of December of 2008. I have found memories of Papa Joe being the owner of the 25 driven by Ken Schrader.

F Clontz

August 10, 2011

Rick and John, sorry to hear about your mom. I know she will be missed by many. May God be with the family in this their time of sorrow.

Bobby Cook

August 10, 2011

God bless Miss Mary and the entire Hendrick family.

Joseph M. Clark

August 10, 2011

Rick and Family, Regardless of age, health, or any other circumstance in life we are never ready to lose our loved ones, particularly a Mother. The only comfort has to come from our Faith in the Sovereignty of God and the manifested concern of caring friends. I am thinking of you at this time and will hold you in my prayers. Joe

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