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Nicholas Laskowski Obituary

Nicholas Michael Laskowski
'The Little Messenger'
'Sugarbear'
Nicholas Laskowski, 3 months, of Charlotte went to be with our Lord Jesus on Wednesday, March 15, 2006. He passed at home in the loving arms of his parents Michael and Maggie Laskowski.
Nicholas was born in Charlotte on December 5, 2005. His short time on this earth will have a life long impact on those who knew and loved him.
His message was clear, sacrifice is part of this life and life is short, so draw close to God. Nicholas was preceded in death by his grandfather Leonard Laskowski.
Nicholas is survived by his parents, Michael and Maggie Laskowski; grandmothers, Helen Laskowski and Melinda Vincik; grandfathers, Michael McCarty and Vince Vincik; 9 uncles, 7 aunts, 44 cousins and countless members of a very special extended family.
The family will receive friends on Sunday, March 19th from 4:00 to 6:00 PM at Carolina Funeral Service & Cremation Center, 5505 Monroe Rd, Charlotte. A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered on Monday, March 20th at 11:00 AM at St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic Church, Suther Rd., with Father Martin, celebrant. Interment will take place at Charlotte Memorial Gardens.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be sent to Kids Path, 1420 East 7th Street, Charlotte, N.C. 28204.
Carolina Funeral Service and Cremation Center is entrusted with the arrangements.

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Published by Charlotte Observer from Mar. 18 to Mar. 19, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
for Nicholas Laskowski

Sponsored by Friends of Nicholas, Maggie and Mike.

132 Entries

Tim, Michelle, Lauren, Aubrey, and David Laskowski

November 9, 2024

Good morning Nicholas, Just a short message to let you know you are a part of the Saint Thomas More Catholic Church month of November 2024 prayer group " I am the Resurrection and Life" started on All Souls Day - November 2nd. You are gone from this earth, but not forgotten and will always be in our Thoughts , Prayers, and our Hearts. We Love you and miss you and believe this message will reach you in heaven

Mommy, Daddy, and Jackson Laskowski

March 15, 2007

Dear Sweet Nicholas (Sugarbear),
We write this note on the 1 year anniversary of your enterance into paradise. We want you to know how deeply we miss you. There is an old saying here on earth that "time heals all wounds", well that is not true. The only thing that time does is closes the distance that seperates us from you. The emptiness we feel since your journey home will not be filled until we meet again. Until then pray for us that God gives us His grace, peace and strength to perservere. Soon your brother Jackson will be born and we eagerly await his arrival knowing you had a hand in picking your brother. Your special love and bond as brothers no one will understand but you and him, and we thank God for that. Nicholas, often we wish so much you could be with us so we could experience all the love and joys you would have offered us in this world as our son, but that would mean you would have to leave paradise. So we as a family will carry on our journey here that God has prepared for us and wait for time to bring us to you.

God how we love you and miss you!
All our love always.

Mommy, Daddy and Jackson

Megan Rody

October 2, 2006

Sugarbear,
Oh baby boy it has been a little over six months since the day you left us. And i can honestly say you have made the hugest impact on not only my life here on earth, but the life I'm destined to have with our Father in Heaven one day. I can't thank you enough for what you have done for me and my faith.
I went to camp for my church this summer and totally felt your and God's presence. I can honestly say I had never really experienced that feeling until then with our Lord. I had shared your story with the entire camp there. I gave my testimony while we were there because I knew it was what I had to do. God had called me to do it, and I know you had touched many lives there and then, with people who never got to know you. You are the greatest blessing I could ever imagine.
I love you always and forever Sugarbear.
Thanks you so very much!

Love Your Cousin,
Megan

Michael, Maggie, Sweet Pea Laskowski

September 15, 2006

Our dear sweet Nicholas (Sugar Bear) it's been 6 months since you went home and the void is still as evident as the day you left on 3/15/06. Our admiration and affection for you grows stonger each day. We thank God always for gracing us with your presence and look forward to the day that we are all with you and our Lord in paradise.

Your Mother and I along with our special new creation from God that we excitingly and eagerly await will always hold you close to our hearts. Pray for us and all our family and friends. Your example of sacrifice and bravery inspire us and guide us on our journey home. We miss you and love you more than words can express.

All our love always.

God's blessing and peace.

Mommy,Daddy and Sweet Pea

Kristy Troutman

September 1, 2006

Little Nicholas,

I know that you are so happy in heaven with HIM and that you are watching over your parents here and sending them so much love and happiness. It has become obvious recently that you and GOD want so much for your parents to not only remember how wonderful and strong their love is for you, but for another little one, also. I know you send your love and happy wishes for your Mommy and Daddy and want them to know that you are with them always!!

Jamal and Kelly McKinney

August 28, 2006

Nicholas you have touched so many people in so many ways it is amazing. Your parents love you and cherish you. What a special angel God sent us for a short while to teach us all a little something personal about ourselves and about loving others. You are missed and loved greatly by many. Peace be with those who love you.

Janet Butler

June 13, 2006

Precious Nicholas,

Just a short time on this earth, but eternal in heaven..you made an impact on so many lives.

Love and God Bless!

The Luhrsen's

June 9, 2006

Dear Nicholas,

We Love and Miss You!I promise to never forget you and the things you have taught me. I am truly sorry that you did not get to stay with us longer but, in the short time you were here you lived and shared a life time.

With Love Always,Shannon,Michael,Matthew, and Cole

Ryan Smith

June 8, 2006

Dear Nicholas,

I love you. You're in heaven, I miss you.

Love, your cousin, Ryan

Jacob Smith

June 8, 2006

Dear Baby Nicholas,

My heart is a very special place. Anyone that I love, there's a place for them in there. But for you, you have a very special big place. The day that you died was a very sad and dreadful day. But you taught all of us a lesson. The lesson was that you appreciate anything that you have even if you only have it for a minute, hour, day, or any time at all. Here with us would be a great time, but in heaven it's the best.

I love you. Your cousin, Jacob

Becky Smith

June 8, 2006

Nicholas,

I was so excited when I heard you were going to be born. I couldn't wait to see you and hold you in my arms for the first time. Even thought fate has kept us apart for now I know you are safe in a better place. Know that you are loved deeply here and you will always be with us and in our thoughts. I love you very much.

Your cousin, Becky

Jessica Smith

June 8, 2006

Dear Baby Nicholas,

You brought joy to my face every time I saw you smiling. Even though you aren't here with us on earth anymore I still continue to pray for you every time I think of you. You will always be in my heart no matter what. I love you!

Your loving cousin, Jessie

Patty Smith

June 8, 2006

Dear sweet Nicholas,

I wished for you every day before your life began. I thought of you every day before you were born. I prayed for you every day after your birth. I will love you every day until I can hold you again in heaven. Give grandfather Laskowski a great big hug and kiss for me!

I thank God for sending you to us, if only for a little while. You will always be our littlest angel.

I love you to the moon and back. Aunt Patty

Mommy

June 5, 2006

My Dearest Nicholas,

As I sit here writing this, on what would have been your 6 month birthday, I am filled with such mixed emotions...those of pain and sorrow wishing that if only I could see you and hold you in my arms once again, as well as those of pride and joy in knowing that such a small little boy, one of so few earthly days could touch the lives of so many.

I knew the moment I saw your sweet face that you were going to change my life, but in no way could I have imagined the depth to which you actually changed not only mine but others. I thank God everyday for the gift of you, and am honored to be the one HE chose to be your mother.

It is a parents dream to teach their child all of life's lessons...those of love, faith, hope, and even sacrifice, to teach them what it means to live a Christian life. I have come to realize that it is you sweet Nicholas who has taught me these lessons...the true meaning of love, faith, and above all sacrifice.

My dream for you was to provide you a life filled with an abundance of love, laughter, and happiness, and now this eternal life as you know it far exceeds any life I could have provided or dream I could have hoped for. For all that you are experiencing now, I am eternally grateful.

My peace and comfort are in knowing that I shall see you again and cradle you in my arms, but until that day, always remember...I love you like no other could, I miss you like no other, and you are and shall always be Our Little Sugarbear.

1-4-3

Mommy

Kimberly Kelly

June 5, 2006

Nicholas,

In your short life, you have given me (and others) so many wonderful and powerful lessons as well as the ability believe that everything happens for a reason. I am grateful for having had you and your parents in my life to show me those lessons.

Joe Carter

June 4, 2006

Nicholas,

You touched so many people. I am fortunate to have met you and hold you in my arms.You wrapped yourself right around my heart.Thank you!

Love, Uncle Joe

Carly Laskowski

June 2, 2006

Baby Nicholas,

you were truly an angel put on this earth by God. Your spirit and your fight has been motivation for me everyday to not take life for granted.

The Luhrsen's

June 1, 2006

Dear Sweet Nicholas, We miss you so very much!! Your Mommy And Daddy need your strength right now. They Love and Miss you more than words can express. We Love You!

Dear Maggie and Michael, We love you as well!!! You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Every night Matthew and I say our prayers for you and Nicholas. May God and Family and Friends continue to give you love and support. Love,Shannon, Michael,Matthew, and Cole

Terry Laskowski- Hamric

June 1, 2006

Mike and Maggie,

I signed in Nicholas's guest book back in March soon after he left this earth. I wanted to write another note to the two of you and let you know how much the life of your little angel meant to me. Even though I never held him in my arms I feel a closeness to that little guy that I have never experienced before. Events in our lives change us forever and seeing how Nicholas's life on this earth affected you two and so many others really , truly brought me closer to our Dear Lord. There has been a distance there for a while but all of that is now gone.

I thank God daily for my life, my faith and my family.

Life is truly precious and God's real presense in our hearts is priceless.

God Bless you both and keep smiling because you all are truly blessed to have had those months with a true angel of God.

Love you both,

Angela Craig

June 1, 2006

I never had the pleasure of meeting Nicholas, but I have to say I've never seen a "little one" make such an impact on so many lives. Mike and Maggie your faith was tested and it was untouchable. It has taught many of us about life's simple messages: Life IS short, be close to God, have Faith, Hope, and Believe.

Little Nicholas: you are blessed with such kind, caring and selfless parents and I am a better person just knowing them...Thanks! God's Blessings to all.

Anne and Dennis Luker

May 31, 2006

Dear Mike, Maggie and Nicholas,

Words cannot express what you all have taught our family. You all have had everlasting faith and gifts that God has truly given you to share with others. We think of you all often and you are always in our daily thoughts and prayers. Our wish for you is to have everlasting peace and understanding through God Almighty.

Amy Buckman

May 31, 2006

Nicholas, even though we never met- you touched my life and so many others all over the world. Thank you for that sweet angel. Watch over your parents!

I am always thinking and praying for you Mike, Maggie & Nicholas.

God Bless,

Beth Souther

May 31, 2006

Nicholas- Even though I never met you in person, I honestly have never felt closer to someone. You have touched my life so deeply. Your short little life has taught me so much, I now know you can not take one moment for granted. You have to live each day as if it could be your last. I know you are in a better place and are very happy. You now are at peace and get to spend your days with our grandfather. Nicholas, I love you dearly.

Kristy Troutman

May 30, 2006

Mike and Maggie,

Although I never met little Nicholas in person, through all of the pictures and prayers, I felt a connection with him. What an absolute beautiful little blessing he was and will always be for you!

I have no doubt he is happy eternally now and without struggle or pain. Mike and Maggie, your strength of faith is something everyone should aspire to. I admire you both so much and keep you in my prayers always. It is a comfort to know that someone as pure as little Nicholas is watching over us all.

Love and prayers to you both,

Kristy

Steve & Lisa Miller

May 30, 2006

Mere words will never ease the anguish that you feel, but please know that our thoughts, prayers, hopes and dreams are with you always. All of us who know you or have been the least bit privileged to hear your story have been given a gift. You were gifted with Nicholas' presence in your life, and we have all been gifted to see what it means to have true faith and absolute love.

Davida Hayes

May 30, 2006

Nicholas - what an absolute pleasure it was to meet you! You are truly a beautiful baby and I could tell by the way your Daddy held you in his arms that you were the greatest blessing your parents could have ever hoped for. I know that you are happy now and keepng watch over them every day. Thank God for letting us all be touched by your precious little life.

Mike & Maggie - I've never seen a little boy who was so blessed to have such wonderful parents and never have seen parents so lucky to have such an amazing child as Nicholas. I'll think of all of you everytime I see a butterfly!

Love you guys,

Davida

Dr. Wendy Haddow-Green

May 29, 2006

Maggie and Michael,

I cannot imagine the pain you both are feeling. I have 2 beautiful teenage boys that have helped me get through some really tough times in my life. I use tough experiences in my life to help others and to make myself stronger. In knowing Maggie when she lived in Jacksonville, she was a wonderful person. Nicholas was so lucky to have Maggie as a mother in his short little life.Use this experience to help others who are experiencing such pain. I wish I could have been a part of helping you both get through probably the toughest part of life you will ever have to experience.Please know that I am here for when "life goes on, but the pain still remains".

Love,

Wendy

Cara Laskowski

May 29, 2006

Baby Nicholas- You are beautiful beyond belief. The purpose of your short life is unique to each person you have touched. For me, you have strengthened my faith and inspired me to appreciate every second of life. I love you dearly

Bobbie Fisher

May 29, 2006

Dearest Maggie and Michael,

I am still at a total loss of words and can not express the exteme sorrow we feel in the loss of your child. This has been a loss for all of us. I think of the three of you quite often. I am so sorry that I did not get back from my trip in time to fly in to meet Nicholas. Thank you for sharing your photos and keeping us posted as to what was going on. My thoughts and prayers are constantly with you and your family. We love you,

Bobbie, Mark and the boys

Shea Cranford

May 17, 2006

Mike and Maggie, Thank you for sharing Nicholas with me. He will forever be a constant reminder of what it means to touch so many lives. My prayers are constantly with you.

Laurie Hicks

May 16, 2006

Michael and Maggie,

It was a privilege and blessing to have been involved with you and Nicholas. The love you showed for Nicholas came through in all that you did and in all the hard decisions that you had to make that most of us as parents never even have to contemplate. For the gift Nicholas gave me, I am truly grateful. May you find the "peace that passes all understanding."

Rudy and Mandy Alexander

May 16, 2006

Mike, Maggie and "Sugarbear",

There is a quote in life that we should all internalize and it reads like this"When your green your growing and when your ripe your rotten."

As individuals, mothers, Dads, friends and business associates we are always learning and growing in life from those around us no matter what walk of life.

Mike, Maggie and Nicholas, you have given a gift to everyone you have touched in your life. While Nicholas had a short stay in this world he changed so many lives. Children have a way of making us realize just how much we have to learn about life. Their purity and innocence helps us to become better people as we experience all they have to offer. It is not the length of time we have on earth that is important, it is what we do with the time we have while we are here to make a difference. Nichlolas made a difference in this world and touched so many lives in 100 short days. He will continue to have impact in ways we still have not disovered. We only wish that when the Good Lord calls us to eternity with Nicholas we will have made a difference in people's lives that made us all worthy of God's presence. Nicholas has already proven he has made a difference and smiles upon us each day as we are growing. If we live our life as Nicholas did, we will always be green and growing for all of eternity. We look forward to sharing eternity in heaven with Nicholas.

We Love You,

Rudy, Mandy and Payton

Von and Kim Becker

May 1, 2006

Michael, Maggie and Nicholas,

We have procrastinated in signing this guest book as we were searching for the perfect words. We don't yet believe we have those words but hope we can express the impact you have made on our family. We can tell you, without any doubt, that we hug our children more often, thank God for them more often and are more patient than just a few months ago. Nicholas has helped us appreciate the blessings that have been given to our family and because of this, we are better parents and appreciate every minute together. Fortunately, we had the pleasure of spending some time with Nicholas and even had a special Christmas Eve with him at the hospital....it was quite an evening. His life touched an enormous amount of souls and, quite frankly, changed many lives. We are thrilled to have known Nicholas and also love Michael and Maggie dearly. You guys know how much we love you both. We think of you each and every day. Nicholas will always be with us all.

Mary & Mark Myers

May 1, 2006

Dear Nicholas,

We are truly Blessed by your short but precious life. We know you have touched many, many lives and brought them closer to Jesus which is what we all need and desire. Although we had prayed and hoped you would be with us longer, we trust in God's purposes and know that each of our days are numbered by Him.

If only ALL "little ones" could be loved as much as you were (are), how beautiful this world would be.

Dear Mike and Maggie,

We continue to prayer for your healing and comfort...knowing from personal experience how painful the loss of a child is.

We send this with our Love & Prayers,

Dad

April 30, 2006

My son I miss you more that words can express. When you left a part of me left with you and I know that part of me will never be whole until we meet again. I gladly take this pain I feel knowing you will never have to feel pain again. The irony of it is that I longed to teach you so you could be where it is you reside and now it is you that teaches me what it takes to be by Jesus side.

You gave me a love I never knew one that is so honest, pure and true. My love for you will will never fade it will only grow through my final days. So hold this thought close to your heart my love for you will never depart.

You will always be my Little Messenger affectionaly known as Sugarbear.

Peggy Harrold

April 28, 2006

To our angel Nicholas,

Your precious time on earth was so meaningful.You touched so many lives. You taught the real meaning of faith in God to all those who came to know you. May you laugh and play with delight as you and your grandfather enjoy eternal peace and joy together.

Mike and Maggie,

Your love for each other and your deep faith in God has been an inspiration to all of us. May God heal the "hole in your hearts" in "God's time". You both have so much to give each other and others.

You are truly the best parents any child could ask for.

May God Bless You today and always,

All my love,

Yours in Christ,

Peggy

Kim Buchanan

April 27, 2006

Maggie, Michael and Nicholas,

There are definitely questions on this earth that we will not understand or know the answer to until we get to Heaven. I know God has used Nicholas and his parents to touch the lives of many people. The time you three had to share was too short indeed but it was a precious, priceless time of joy that will flood your soul in times of distress. Nicholas was never without love and support from his parents. Nicholas did have the opportunity to experience that unconditional parental love and I truly believe that is what kept him hanging on to life. I do know that the next time you see Nicholas there will be no pain, no crying, no sorrow or suffering, Halleluia, Amen! Nicholas was a precious, beautiful baby boy that I loved to hold and rock and "love on". He would always fall asleep after a while and then I would put him to bed. Maggie and Michael your Faith has moved me beyond words. God has touched my heart so many times through you and Nicholas. I know that God will sustain you and continue to provide comfort and support thru your family and friends as the grieving process continues. Please know that all of you hold a special place in my heart and "I Love You". Thank You for allowing me into your life. Thank You for leaving your son in my care and allowing me to freely love him as my own. Please feel free to contact me at any time (day or night) if I can be of help to you. In Christ, Kim

angela and Charlie Abbott Jr

April 27, 2006

Nicholas, today you are in a beautiful place. How wonderful it must be.Watch over your mommy and daddy, for they love you very much.God has a plan for each of us, and sometimes it is so hard to understand. We pray for all your family.

Yours in Christ.

Angela and Charlie Abbott

Jeremy and Amy Michelone

April 27, 2006

Dear Mike and Maggie,

Thank you for allowing us to share your beautiful son with you. He is forever in our minds' eye and you all are in our prayers and thoughts, too. He is truely a precious angel. God Bless you and comfort you, always.

Stefani Timpano

April 26, 2006

Nicholas,

I look forward to the time that we can laugh and play together. You have added great memories to my life and I thank you for that!! Please continue to look over us.

Mike & Maggie

Thanks for sharing your little angel with us. You two are a true inspiration! God Bless!!

Love you guys...Stefani

Kristina Hayes

April 26, 2006

Nicholas,

Thank you so much for being in my life as well as my nephew. You are truly an angel. I love you.

Jessica McNamee

April 25, 2006

Dear Nicholas, Mike and Maggie,

I have been so touched by your family that words cannot describe. Your faith is abundant and has deepened my belief and trust in the Lord. I am sorry your time together was short, but I believe that Nicholas is helping many people in ways you may never understand. I feel blessed to have been given the opportunity to know Nicholas and his mommy and daddy, and his memory will never be forgotten. I am so inspired by your strength and faith and am greatful that you have shared some of your special moments with so many friends and family. Thank you for letting me into Nicholas' life. Peace be with all of you.

Melinda Vincik

April 25, 2006

My DEAREST NICHOLAS

Thank You for being my grandson.

You are always with me

Love forever SUGARBEAR

Grandma

Peter Laskowski

April 25, 2006

Nephew you are always in my daily thoughts and most certainly in my prayers and have been since we heard you were conceived. I only ask that you put in a good word for all of us down here at this point because today you are the lucky one! Your parents are a great example of love here on earth but once again you already know that. Until we meet in paradise always know I love you Nicholas and tell my dad you don't have to shag balls if you don't want to :-)

Renee Birch

April 25, 2006

Dearest Nicholas,

Since your birth, we have been praying for you and your mom and dad. Even though we we did not hold you in our arms, we hold you in our hearts. You have touched our family in such a special way. You have taught us about our faith and the power of prayer. You are an angel!

Mike and Maggie,

It is hard to put into words the connection that we feel with you both. I think that being pregant at the same time is a part of it. The gift of life and love that God has given our families is incredible. We look forward to growing the friendship with you both and keeping Nicholas's spirit alive in us. Our family has grown in our faith journey during Advent and Lent as we explained to our 8 year old who Nicholas is and why we are praying for him. It's like he is a part of our famiy. Thank you for sharing Nicholas with us. When I look at Sophie, I think of Nicholas up in heaven playing with Jesus and other angels.

Renee Birch and Family

Jennifer and Brian Morell

April 25, 2006

We are so sorry for your loss. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. I know Nicholas touched many lives in the time he was with us. I hope that will give you comfort in your grief. That, plus the fact that he is now with God and watching over you.

Janice and George Neyer

April 25, 2006

Dear Maggie, Mike and dearest

Nicholas!

I cannot begin to express the countless ways your family experience has touched me. I've cried, laughed and spent much time in reflection and with my Lord talking to Him about the meaning of it all. As Mike said so beautifully at the funeral service, life is short for us all and now is the time to turn to the Lord!

Nicholas' short life and the tremendous impact he has made on us reinforces our beautiful faith's insistence on the worthiness of every life. The witness to love of Maggie and Mike and their acceptance of God's plan for them no matter where it leads them also testifies to the mystery of life. That mystery teaches that the abundant life Jesus wants for us includes times of joy, yes! But also times of sorrow and a willingness to endure suffering for the sake of the kingdom. Nicholas suffered, but suffers no more. Maggie and Mike sufffered and still grieve for their little one, but not with out Hope in Christ that one day they will all be reunited! Such was the hope of the Mary as she held her Son in her arms! What a witness to faith for all of us who have lost children and loved ones!

God's blessings for your witness to life and love!

Denise Beyer

April 25, 2006

Dear Nicholas,

Such a dear boy! I told your daddy before you were born that you were a very, very lucky child and I had no idea at the time the scope of what that meant. You brought such incredible meaning into the lives of all that you touched and I know that my life will never be the same because of you. In the three and one half months you were with us, you accomplished more than some people do in a life time of many years. God truly used you in mighty ways and we are all blessed to have been a part of your short life here on earth. I think of you now and I know that all of the wonderful things your mommie and daddy desired for you have now come to be and that you wait with loving anticipation to be reunited with them and them with you. You will always maintain a special little place in my heart.

Love,

Denise

Brooke Small

April 24, 2006

Dear Nicholas,

It is hard to put into words how much getting to know you and your wonderful parents meant to me. I will never forget the day you were born and brought to the NICU. I knew you were special, but to the extent, I had no idea. Taking care of you, falling in love with your sweet spirit and big eyes was very easy to do. I looked forward to seeing you everyday that I worked and I was amazed at how well you did off the ventilator. You were a fighter and you did just what your parents hoped for and that was you made it home. Oh, how I wish your time on this earth could have been longer, but I am glad your suffering did not go any further. You have the best parents a child could have hoped for and I know that you know that. I feel like you are up there in heaven smiling that sweet grin of yours and no longer in pain getting bigger and stronger everyday. I look forward to meeting up with you in the future Nicholas. Take care,

Your friend, Brooke Small

Mike McCarty

April 24, 2006

Dear Maggie and Mike,

Nicholas touched the lives of many people. You have to believe he is happy and in a wonderful place now. It is hard not to question why things happen, but let your faith in God get you through this time. He has a special place in our hearts forever. Mike and Kelly McCarty

Kathy, Thomas, Tabitha and Emma Sims

April 24, 2006

Dearest Nicholas,

What an honor it has been to get to know you. We will never forget you and the blessings you brought upon so many people. And your smile, your beautiful smile - we will always remember how it touched us! Thank you also for sharing your parents with us. They are an inspiration to us all. God Bless,

Sylvia Pacer

April 23, 2006

Dearest Nicholas,

What a gift you are. It was such a pleasure to know you and to see how your existance strengthened your parents' love for each other and their faith in God. He sent you as a special blessing, not only to your parents and your extended family, but to so many more. It is also a joy to be a witness of the love your parents have for you. Your life and your parents' love are truly a Godincidence. In Christ's love,

Ann & Terry Maher

April 23, 2006

Nicholas,

You are a special gift to special parents and made a tremendous impact on so many people.

We are thankful for you and your parents for being a part of our lives and deepening our faith with Jesus Christ.

Thank you!

Tony & Tracey Vincik

April 21, 2006

Dearest Nicholas,

You profoundly impacted so many people and taught us all the true meaning of how we should live our lives. We will always keep you in our heart and treasure all our memories of you.

Maggie and Michael,

Tony and I are in awe of how you showed us all that faith is a gift from God and we are always maturing and growing in it. You both are angels in our eyes.

Kiele Cox

April 21, 2006

Nicholas,

I never knew you here on earth, but you have brought me peace and comfort as your laughter mingles with Brody's in heaven. Your spirit will always be a part of my life.

In Christ's love,

Kiele (Brody's mommy)

Michele Carter

April 20, 2006

My Sweet Nicholas,

You touched my soul and I shall be

forever grateful. I Love You.

Aunt Chele

Bradley Simpson

April 20, 2006

Nicholas,

The 100 days you spent with us, touched us all. I regret everyday that I didnt take the time to drive 45 minutes and meet you. You have changed my life so much with the time you were here, and have brought me closer to all the friends and family that I have, you have taught me to cherish every minute with all of them. I love you little man.

M.P., Larry & Mikey Laskowski

April 20, 2006

Dearest Maggie, Mike and St. Nick! And Jesus said,"Let the little children come to me......" and He has placed you in the palm of His hand! You are continuously in our thoughts, prayers and love!!

Megan Eulberg

April 20, 2006

Dear Nicholas,

From the moment you were born right up to this very instant, I've tried so hard to find the words to express how I feel to your Mommy and Daddy and I've got to tell you, I've never had such a struggle with words in my whole life! I've decided instead to talk to you.

When I think of you, I have no room for sorrow or grief, no anguish nor despair, there's only love. It fills me and comforts me and when I see your sweet face in pictures every day, I can only smile. It was a blessing, an honor and rare priviledge to hold you in my arms, snuggle you close and kiss your precious face. I will treasure the brief time I was able to spend with you for the rest of my life and I thank you for helping me remember what's truly important. I love you,

Aunt MeMe

Susan Vincik

April 20, 2006

Nicholas,

One so small has never touched so many. Those words come to my mind every time I look at your picture. In your short time here you have blessed so many people and reminded us of what is truly important in life - serving our Lord, loving our families, and caring for friends. Thank you Nicholas, and I look forward to meeting you in Heaven.

Mike and Maggie,

Your strength and courage in this unimagineable circumstance is an incredible testimony to your faith in our Lord Jesus Christ. Your love for Nicholas is etched in my mind forever. "Love always protect, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails." 1 Corinthians 13:7-8a. I pray that you will cling to one another and rejoice in the love you share for each other and your precious Nicholas.

Love

Susan and Richard Vincik

Donna McCarty

April 20, 2006

Dear Michael and Maggie,

The joy and happiness Nicholas brought to all of us in the short time he was here on earth will always be embedded within our hearts. He pulled so many people together and helped put things in perspective on what is really important in our lives. We spend so much time focusing on our careers and trying to live a certain lifestyle that we forget about the people that mean the most to us. Children seem to grow up so quickly that we sometimes take for granted that they will always be there and that you can catch their next big game or their next recital at another time. Everyday is a blessing and if I have learned anything from the passing of Nicholas is that I want have a life with my family, not just live one. I appreciate everyday that I can speak to or spend time with my family. Thank you Sweet Nicholas for making a change in my life and keeping us all in line. I'm sure you will let us know when we start straying off the path. Your memory will always be with us all.

Your Loving Aunt,

Matt McCarty

April 20, 2006

Dearest Maggie and Mike,

It has taken me a little while to sign this book for you because I have been struggling with just what to write, be it something profound or comforting. I can not begin to imagine what or how you may feel, but I do know that our lives and the way that we look at day to day life has been forever changed. Donna and I both keep pictures of Nicholas in our offices and he is always able to brighten a tough day, or bring a smile to someone's face. The poem "God's Lent Child" is on my wall with his picture and everyone who reads about him is left with the same feelings, that life is special and not to be taken for granted. Sugarbear will always be in our lives and hearts, and that truly is a blessing!

All our Love,

Matt and Donna McCarty

Chris Laskowski

April 19, 2006

Uncle Mike & Aunt Maggie,

I taped a copy of Sugarbear's obituary in my locker about three weeks ago and I also have his picture to the left of my bed. I have shared his story with quite a few guys on the team. I tell you this to let you know that the "gospel" of St. Nick, our Sugarbear, continues to impact those who know of him. Personally, Nicholas has had an enormous impact on me and my faith and for that I will always be extremely grateful. I love him dearly!

I love the both of you and I KNOW in my heart that our Sugarbear is walking (or shaggin' balls) with Grandfather as I write this, patiently awaiting our arrival to join him.

Your Nephew Chris

Fr. Martin Schratz, O.F.M.Cap.

April 17, 2006

Dear Mike and Maggie,

It is Easter Monday. We come as a people of faith and celebrate the gift of Jesus Risen from the dead. What joy! It is also a season of hope. This joy and hope of Easter have been in the forefront of so many of us the past few months. Joy of your giving birth, hope that Nicholas would overcome his struggles, joy in seeing you two and your faith, hope building in the lives of so very many people. Our joy and hope, as well as a million other emotions overwhelmed us on March 15 as Nicholas was received into the arms of our Heavenly Father. Our hope was fulfilled and yes, our joy was shared knowing that Nicholas is with the Lord. The two have given so many of us hope in our lives because of your faith. For this I thank you! Your joy should be in knowing how good, faithful and loving you are as parents. You have taught us all a lesson. In this season of Easter joy, rest in the assurance that one day, you too will join with Nicholas and all who have gone before us, in that Kingdom that will have no end - eternal life. With joy, Nicholas will be awaiting us!

Thank you for inviting me into your lives and your family. For this I am blest.

God bless you.

Love and prayers,

Fr. Martin

"Uncle Marty"

Becky Ansted

April 17, 2006

Nicholas, You were a beautiful baby cared for by wonderful and loving parents. You touched so many lives in such a short time. We will remember you forever. A true gift from God and now you are with Him again. Love, Great Aunt Becky

Kathy Johnson

April 17, 2006

Dear Maggie and Mike, I am writing to tell you how full my heart still is concerning you and your angel Nicholas. I have asked my brother Jimmy to seek him out among the company of the saints. I have also asked my mother who is also among the company of saint to send you healing, comfort, and joy in your sorrow and strength for your continued journey. I'm not sure that I have the right words for your experiences and I have never had such an experience with a child of mine, but having Jimmy, my youngest brother so profoundly disabled, I have drunk a little of this cup of sorrow and joy mixed myself from a different perspective. There is grace and holiness in beholding the face of Jesus in the face of a suffering child and indeed in all the sufferings of life if we can have enough faith and patience to see our sorrows through to find the joy in Jesus that runs through all of them. As I have told you verbally, your child and you both have taken me back almost 30 years to when my brother was a baby and the doctor's told my family that he would never see, or speak, or walk or indeed do much else but suffer. Your experiences have enabled me to see a little more of the grace and beauty in that time, which has eluded me for many years and enabled me to say to you, there are things about you both and Nicholas that I understand in a deeper way than many. Dearest Mike and Maggie, may the God of all Creation and His Son and the Spirit bring you grace, holiness, and truth out of your sorrow and may He guide you into a future filled with joy. You are in my prayers, thoughts, and in my heart.

Love to you.

Mike McCarty

April 15, 2006

Maggie and Mike, what a tumultous 100 days Sugarbear gave us, Who can forget the joy and the tears, the laughter and the sniffles he instigated. He has reached out to countless people and left this world a better place with his passing. Godspeed Sugarbear. Grandpa

Chrissy Legassie

April 14, 2006

Dear Nicholas, Maggie and Mike,

Although I never met you, you have touched my life. I have prayed for you since the day that you were born and thought of you everyday. 11 years ago on March 15th, my younger sister, Lisa, was in a terrible car accident that took her life at age 18. I like to think that she is now helping keep watch over Nicholas. I know that God has chosen them to be special angels to look down on us. Please know that my thoughts and prayers go out to you both to continue to be strong as you get through this time of loss.

With all of my love,

Chrissy Legassie - St. Thomas Woman's Group

Juan Pablo Niebles

April 14, 2006

Nicholas was a miracle in the life of many people, including mine. He changed my life, he changed everything about me even though we never met, he is a celebrity for me. I also experienced two of the most powerful prayers when I was praying for him.

You are in my prayers. Love & Blessings.

Greg Oleksy

April 13, 2006

Nicholas, Maggie and Mike,

Thanks for truly showing us what it means to love and be loved!

Wayne Walker

April 12, 2006

Maggie and Mike,

He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.

Nicholas will live with the Lord until you are with him again.This time forever!

Jim Bower

April 12, 2006

Maggie & Mike,

My prayers are with you and with Nicholas.

Cheryl Beach

April 11, 2006

When I think of Nicholas I am reminded of a precious child that shined through his short life and touched the hearts of everyone that knew him.I also think of his wonderful parents that loved him with all their hearts! I feel very fortunate to have held Nicholas in my arms! Love & Peace.

Kelly Northcutt

April 11, 2006

You have all been in my families' thoughts and prayers. I did not get to meet Nicholas but, I consider him a great blessing and I think very highly of his parents. His life may have been short, but judging by the notes in this guest book, he touched many lives in many ways.

Pamela Mallder

April 11, 2006

Maggie and Mike

I will always cherish the moments I had with Sugarbear. By naming him Nicholas in the very beginning, you allowed me to know him and love him even before he was born. I was so excited to meet my little friend and he blessed me in so many ways. He truly is a gift that will be loved and remembered always.

Mary O'Brien Ledford

April 11, 2006

My thought and prayers are continiously with you both. It was a pure joy holding and kissing Nicholas' sweet little face. I will remember that day always.

With Love,

Mary O'Brien Ledford

Janice Pascher

March 27, 2006

Dear Mike & Maggie,

We are so sorry for your loss. We share in your sorrow. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

God Bless,

Frank, Janice and Jessica Pascher

Carol Nerby

March 25, 2006

Dear Mike and Maggie,

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you.

Love in Christ,

Dale and Carol Nerby

Sharon Fitchitt

March 24, 2006

Dear Mike and Maggie,

Our deepest sympathies are with you in this difficult time.

Lean back in the Father's arms and let Him comfort you. Drink deeply of the love that your friends and family pour out because they are the hands, arms and heart of Jesus himself.

After we lost our little one I held on to the fact that he was on loan to us and was so grateful for each and every day we had him.

We will continue to hold you up in prayer.

Much love,

Sharon and Dick Fitchitt

Pastor Bill Mason

March 24, 2006

I heard of Nicholas' short stay here from my neighbor, Jeri Plews. I must believe that our Lord had something of great importance to call your son home so early. May your hearts be sustained by the unlimited grace and mercy, that follows all who trust in HIM and His divine goodness and wisdom. We extend our heart and prayers for your peace.

Aunt Sandy Cunningham

March 24, 2006

My Little Friend Nicholas,

All the times I got to hold you and babysat you once words of love and thanks to your mom and dad for trusting me with you. I know in my heart you are at peace and your little body isn't broken anymore. It is whole now. You are free Nicholas. I love you my little friend and will miss you so very much.

Allison Nelson

March 24, 2006

Maggie and Mike,

I dont know you other than from a prayer chain that has made it to me. Know that Nicholas has touched the hearts and lives of many. How does one so little teach so much? I guess its God's way of letting us know that we are not as "big" as we think we are. Nicholas' brief time on earth accomplished more than many long stays. Your love, honor and trust of the Lord speaks volumes.

Jeri,Chris,Kallen Plews

March 24, 2006

Dearest Michael & Maggie, how blessed we were to hold up your family in prayer. Sweet Nicholas is perfect now and in the arms of our Mighty Father. Many lives have been forever changed because of Nicholas, God's Little Messenger. May our Father continue to embrace you with His Love & Promise. Keep your eyes always on Him.

Christy Walker

March 23, 2006

Maggie, Mike, and "Sugarbear" Nicholas :)

Through you and your FAMILY, God has used you to touch ALL of us!

From the first day I saw you in the hospital on Nicholas' birth day, to that very special visit in your home where I got to hold Nicholas for the first time, to being included as a "friend" in all the Nicholas email updates; you showed us what it was like to have God right there by your side. He never failed you. Even in a sad situation he allowed Nicholas to come home and for you to love him for a little longer, before he was to go to heaven and dance with God.

Nicholas is now the "little angel" in heaven who is looking at all of us and our faces, who is hearing us and all the great things we are saying about his mommy and daddy, and who is dancing in heaven with all that his little heart can do.

You will be with us FOREVER Nicholas. Dance one for me too OK.

Bill Hannon

March 23, 2006

Dear Maggie and Mike,

I believe there is a special place in Heaven for this wonderful family.I am certain you were chosen

to illustrate the strength and

extraordinary bond in the marriage

of two exceptional people and their

little angel,"Sugarbear". You have

been an inspiration to all that know you and love you.

With love,

Bill Hannon, Davidson

Yuvonne Jones

March 23, 2006

Maggie and Mike, My thoughts and prayers are with you both and will continue to be with you.

Sabrina Golden

March 23, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. I know that Nicholas will live in your hearts always and One day you will be reunited with him in Heaven and there will be a great celebration.

Karen and Todd Vance

March 23, 2006

Maggie, Mike and Angel Nicholas,

Thank you for showing all of us a love so precious and dear. God bless all of you. May you find strength in your love and peace in your heart!

Love,

Karen and Todd Vance

Pamela Uzzell

March 22, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

pam u

Dolly Green

March 22, 2006

Dear Maggie and Mike,

My prayers, thoughts and heartfelt condolences are with you today and always. I am so glad that I was able to meet beautiful, sweet Nicholas. He was just perfect - so adorable and lovable. As the days and months go by, I hope that you find comfort and peace in the beautiful memories you will forever cherish of Nicholas.

Fondly,

Dolly Green

Mary Ann Stambaugh

March 22, 2006

No other has touched my heart like you Sweet Nicholas! Thank you for showing me a new kind of love. I promise to stand by your loving parents as we all contine on our path in life, with you forever in our hearts!

Marianne Rambo

March 22, 2006

Nicholas touched so many hearts and lives during his short time here on earth. He is now that perfect little boy in Heaven, with our blessed Lord.

We mourn your loss and pray for you.

Michelle and Tim Laskowski

March 22, 2006

There is no greater gift than God's love. This is what you bestowed upon Nicholas, and all those you touched with his story. Nicholas is a baby being cuddled by God and all of those in our families there to join him. You gave him everything you had to give, and let your family and friends give to you all that you may need in the hard times ahead. Sugarbear Power! Love, Tim, Michelle, Lauren, Aubrey, and David Laskowski

Megan Rody

March 21, 2006

*Uncle Mike && Aunt Maggie,

I love you two so much and you both are such an inspiration to all us nieces && nephews. You both are so strong to have gone through what has happened. You both are so amazing and are always in my heart. I'm so lucky to have you two!

*Nicholas,

We miss you so much Sugarbear! You don't know how much you've affected all of our lives. You were the best little cousin any of us could have ever asked for. You are such an inspiration and you never leave my thoughts. I wish I had been able to meet you when I came to visit you at the hospital in December. But don't worry, we'll see each other again one day! I love you soooo much baby boy! Tell Grandpa I love him & I can't wait to meet him too! You're always in my prayers and you have so many people who love you.

God bless all three of you.

Love,

Niece and Cousin Megan

Andrea DeRienzo

March 21, 2006

Nicholas- I will never forget the nights we spent rocking together in the NICU after your mommy and daddy went home to rest. I will always be greatful to have spent Christmas Eve. and Christmas day with you and your parents. Your strength proved the doctors wrong and I am so glad you got to go home with mommy and daddy for awhile. They love you so much and would have done anything to make you comfortable. Although I am so sad you are not here with us anymore, I am rejoicing to know you are home with God and feeling no more pain. You and your family have touched me more then words could say. We will miss you!

Love Andrea (one of your favorite nurses)

Trina Chytka

March 21, 2006

NO WORDS

NO WISDOM

JUST LOVE

Love & prayer to you - Michael and Maggie

Trina Chytka

Charley Taylor

March 21, 2006

I just wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Charley Taylor

(Jenn Harrold's mom)

April Beckman

March 20, 2006

Nicholas,

From the moment I saw you in the hospital, I knew you were a special child w/ a special message. Maybe you were trying to tell us something or perhaps love in a way we have never loved before.

What I know for sure, you have the most wonderful parents, watching them gaze at you was a blessing to watch. Now you can watch over them like they did with you since you were conceived.

Love,

April

Liz Boulware

March 20, 2006

What a beautiful service. Thank you Nicholas for bringing us all closer to God and reminding us where true peace and happiness lie.

"You made my whole being ; you formed me in my mothers's body." Psalm 139:13. Max Lucado in a devotional reminds us to think on those words. "You were deliberately planned, specifically gifted, and lovingly positioned on this earth by the Master Crafts-man... let me tell you something: Jesus' plan is a reason for joy!"

Elizabeth Fleming

March 20, 2006

Dear Mike and Maggie,

You are in my thoughts and prayers daily. I am so honored to have gotten to know the Little Messenger. He has influenced my life beyond expectations. May God guide you through these difficult times. I love you. Elizabeth

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