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Bryan Koehler Obituary

Bryan P. Koehler, unexpectedly, of Glencoe. Sweet husband of Catherine nee Goldstein. Loving father of Grace and Clare Koehler. Dear son of Betty and Terence Koehler. Beloved son-in-law of Anne and William Goldstein. Brother-in-law of Deborah (John) Sobel. Uncle of Philip and Frankie Sobel. Funeral Wednesday 11:00 am at Piser Funeral Chapel, 9200 N. Skokie Blvd., Skokie. Interment Memorial Park Cemetery. In lieu of flowers memorials appreciated to The Night Ministry, 4711 N. Ravenswood, Chicago IL 60640-4407. Information 847-679-4740.

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Published by Chicago Tribune from Nov. 25 to Nov. 26, 2013.

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December 23, 2022

I wish I could see you again. I miss you.

Stephanie

November 28, 2022

I still miss you.

Vince Kunkler

January 31, 2014

My couple of contacts with Bryan I will remember always, as his kindness and professionalism. Please be assured of my prayers.

jeff mcghee

December 19, 2013

Bryan will be missed...I enjoyed working with him and conversing with him as often as possible. My coldolences for your loss...

Judi Lowell

December 18, 2013

I was so sad when I heard this. I worked with Bryan at IT Corp in the early 90's. He was so good at his job, but he was also a good friend and so much fun. I am so sorry for your great loss.

Dejan Ristic

December 17, 2013

Bryan was always a friendly colleague. He will be missed. My condolences to the family.

Glenn VanDerpoel

December 16, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of knowing and working with Brian over the years and am a better person for it. My heart goes out the Brian's family at this difficult time.

Marsha Morozowich

December 16, 2013

I knew Bryan for years through work, although I never knew him personally. He was always very helpful. I am so sorry for your loss. May his memory comfort you.

Peg Hopkins-Oehler

December 14, 2013

Bryan was not only a dear friend but also a very talented professional partner and mentor to me for many years. Our busy schedules kept us from saying in touch over the past few years...I will miss him greatly and will miss that lunch he and I kept talking about having but never found the time to set up. Sending my deepest sympathy to you and your family.

The Chavin Family

December 12, 2013

Dear Cathy, Grace & Clare - Sending you our fondest wishes and love at this time. We remember Bryan's kindness and are mourning him from faraway. XOX - Romy, Sabine, James and Melissa

David Swingle

December 12, 2013

I am sorry he is gone. We worked together for several years here at Los Alamos National Laboratory, and he was a nice person and a professional.

Alex Romero

December 11, 2013

My hopes and prayers go out to all of the family. I pray that you find peace and comfort during this difficult time. I worked with Bryan in Los Alamos and I really enjoyed his friendship. If you need anything, call me at 505-412-5286.

Ken Clayman

December 10, 2013

I'm very sorry to hear of Bryan's passing - we worked together only briefly, but I remember him with respect. Condolences for your loss.

Judy Skolnik

December 7, 2013

I Am so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you during this very sad time. Judy Skolnik (Sherman )

John & Annette Vincent

December 7, 2013

Cathy, Grace, Clare, Anne, Bill and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May Bryan's memory bring you happiness and hope in the years ahead.
The Vincent family

Max Retsky

December 7, 2013

I m so devastated for you and your family that I am speechless. Please let me know what I can do to help.

December 5, 2013

Dearest Cathy, Grace, Clare, Bets and Terry

Such a beautiful, thoughtful young man our Bryan. I am so very sorry for your loss. I have carried his picture taken at 2 years old at his Grandmother Smith's home on Easter.
With love and prayers

Aunt Sheryl

elena sonnenschein

December 4, 2013

Dear Cathy, Grace and Clare,
My sympathy and warmest thoughts are with you now.
Lots of love
Elena Sonnenschein

December 1, 2013

Dear Cathy, Grace and Clare,
It takes my breath away to know that my Cousin Bryan is no longer with us. I can picture him giving me a hug at each of the last funerals and weddings with a hi Kit! In July we vowed no more funerals, but a family reunion instead. Let's keep that in mind? With much love from Cousins Kit, Mike, Katie and Daniel

November 29, 2013

Cathy, Grace, Claire, Anne and Bill et al:
Words cannot express how sad we feel at the notification we have just received about your loss of Bryan. Our sincerest condolences to you all.

Cousins Solette & Lawrence Gelberg,
King City, Ontario. Canada

Reena & Mike Hais

November 29, 2013

Dear Cathy, Grace, Clare, Anne, Bill and families,
We were so saddened to hear of your loss. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy.
Reena & Mike Hais

November 27, 2013

We are at a loss of words to express our sympathy for all of you. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Kari and Matt Wendt

Dick and Pat Johnson

November 27, 2013

Cathy, Grace, and Claire--We are so saddened by the loss of your dear husband and father. We have wonderful memories of a young Bryan as he grew up with our children in Fairview. We were always so happy to hear of his career accomplishments and his wonderful family. Bryan was an exceptional man.

Skylar Aronson

November 27, 2013

Grace,
I am so sorry! You are a great friend! I am thinking of you! Love to get together when you feel up to it!

<3 Sky

Meg Murphy

November 27, 2013

Cathy, Grace and Clare, We are so sorry for your loss. Bryan was an amazing person and we know he will live on in all of you. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this time. The Murphy Family

Eric Watabayashi

November 27, 2013

Cathie, Grace & Clare, I had the pleasure of calling Bryan my boss. I describe him in one word - caring. Now, he is still caring, watching over all of us. Much aloha.

David and Mariska

November 27, 2013

Bryan was a great friend and a great guy. We shared lots of laughs and good times. He will be greatly missed My thoughts are with Cathy and the Girls..

Julie & Jim Clark

November 27, 2013

We know there is nothing to say that will make your loss any easier...You could see the love that he had for you, Cathy, and the girls. Always a smile and kind word. What a true blessing. Condolences to all the Koehler family.

Madonna Pence

November 27, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. Bryan was an extremely capable and thoughtful colleague, but also a ray of sunshine in the office. We will miss him very much.

Troglia Family

November 27, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our prayers.

Sroussi Family

November 27, 2013

Cathy, Grace & Clare, and the extended Koehler Family,

We are so so sorry for your loss. Our family is thinking of you and sending out prayers and thoughts. We are here for you and will support you in any and every way that we can.
Eva, Herve, Michelle, Hannah and Noah Sroussi

Zeke Carpio

November 27, 2013

Bryan was a good friend and a good man. He dug into his life with both hands. The old adage, "It's not the years in your life but the life in your years" was certainly true of Bryan. Our thoughts and prayers are with Cathy and the girls. Peace.

Nancy Fiore

November 27, 2013

Cathy, Grace, and Clare, I am so very sorry for your loss. Bryan will always be watching over you. We are here for you whenever you need us.

Mary Anne Saag

November 26, 2013

Cathy, Grace, Clare, Anne, Bill and family,
Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers and we were so saddened to hear of your tragic loss.

Leora Druckman

November 26, 2013

Cathy, Grace and Claire and family. I am so so sorry for your loss. He is gone way to soon. Sending you all the light and comfort we can. May you be surrounded by love and support during this very difficult time.

Steve Treadway

November 26, 2013

Cathy, my prayers are with you, Grace, Clare and all of Bryan's dear family during this time. Bryan and I traveled numerous miles and enjoyed lots of meals together with our work and I enjoyed the time spent with your wonderful husband and with having the privilege of calling him friend. I'd come home from these travels and share our discussions with my wife and she felt that she knew Bryan and his family from how we'd shared. Bryan was glad to change jobs and be at home with his family each night and I believe that this is how the Lord prepares us for unknown changes. I'll miss talking to my good friend and colleague and we are here for you and your family.

Meghan and Matt Allen

November 26, 2013

We're going to miss Bryan so very much. Holding you close in our hearts Cathy, Grace, and Clare.

Walter Gross

November 26, 2013

I will miss you, my friend. Thank you, Bryan, for the good times we shared.

KEVIN KOEHLER

November 26, 2013

CATHY,GRACE,CLARE I AM SO VERY VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. WATCHING BRYAN GROW UP I ALWAYS NEW HE WAS SPECIAL. HE WAS WELL BEHAVED,POLITE AND SMART. AFTER READING ALL THESE WONDERFUL MESSAGES IT IS OBVIOUS THAT HE TOOK THESE ATTRIBUTES AND MANY MORE EVERYWHERE HE WENT. BRY, YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART AND THOUGHTS.

Shelia Koehler

November 26, 2013

I WAS SO SORRY TO HEAR OF BRIAN'S PASSING. HE WAS A TERRFIC NEPHEW. AND A BEAUTIFUL FATHER. AND . SON AND DADDY And Husband

Ben Bullen

November 26, 2013

I am very sorry to hear about Bryan's passing. I didn't get to work with him long at all before he left the company. But I felt he genuinely cared about us. My condolences.

Steve Butala

November 26, 2013

I have only known Bryan for a couple months as we worked together on some projects at Argonne. Bryan was very knowledgeable about quality assurance and helped make significant improvements to our processes. He was also very kind, pleasant, and funny. I and many others here at the Lab will miss him.
My thoughts and prayers are with Bryan and his family.

Erin Daughton

November 26, 2013

I worked with Bryan at Shaw and I greatly admired his intelligence, quiet humor and obvious devotion to his family. He is gone too soon. May your memories of Bryan sustain you through this difficult loss.

Chaca Quintana

November 26, 2013

We were all so lucky we had the privilege of.having Bryan be in our lives. He was a wonderful person. We will miss you. Hope you, my JC and Sammy are Rock n Rollin. Love yoo Chac

Linda Pierce

November 26, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. Bryan was an exceptional person, a great person to work with. He spent the extra effort to understand the issues and worked hard to make meaningful and lasting improvements for QA at Argonne. Always, with a pleasant attitude. I will miss him greatly. My thoughts are with his family.

November 26, 2013

Bryan had a way of always making us laugh. He was a special friend to all of us and we will miss him greatly. Cathy, Grace and Clare, we love you and are here for you. We are also certain that Bryan is in heaven playing ball with Sami!

Greg, Anne, Ben and Daniel Zeter (Albuquerque, NM)

November 26, 2013

I was so saddened to hear the news and want to express my deepest sympathies to Cathy, daughters Grace and Claire, and the Koehler family for your loss. I had the pleasure of knowing Bryan both professionally and personally with the lines often blurred. He was a true professional to work with, always contributing and providing the right sense of balance in guiding the quality part of the business. Outside of work, he was considerate, had a wonderful sense of humor, and was the type of person you always enjoyed being around.

Roy McKinney
Albuquerque, NM

Shari Miller

November 26, 2013

The Miller family sends its deepest condolences and prayers of comfort and strength to each of you, Cathy, Grace and Clare. May Bryan rest in peace and may his beautiful memory live on forever. We are so sorry for your loss and we are thinking of you during this very difficult time.
Shari, Andrew, Leo and Max

Melissa Helphingstine

November 26, 2013

Bryan will be missed. I liked his unique perspective on things with a touch of sarcasm. He loved his family immensely and gleamed whenever he spoke about them. My sincere condolences to Bryan's family for their loss.

David Marcum

November 26, 2013

Bryan was a friend whose judgement and integrity were unquestioned. He provided advice and help whenever asked and I will miss him greatly. My condolences to his family. My prayers are with you.

Laura Avery

November 26, 2013

My prayers are with you and your entire family. May you find strength through faith and community. With deepest sympathy, the Avery's (Chase)

Mike Zustra

November 25, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. I worked with Bryan for several years with Shaw and came to know him as a kind, caring person who loved his family very much. He will be missed.

Caralyn Graham

November 25, 2013

Deepest condolences to the sweet Kohler girls. We will miss our neighbor and friend.

The von Varga's

Perry Lopez

November 25, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to Bryan's family. Bryan and I were peers for 7 years while working for The Shaw Group....as we navigated the corporate landscape together we developed a friendship few are lucky to experience in a work setting. He truly was a remarkable man whose intelligence, work ethic, and dedication was second to none. I'm sure God has a pretty good quality control program in place but knowing Bryan, he will be there to help if called upon. Rest peacefully my friend.

Pebbles, Erik and family.

November 25, 2013

Although our time together was very short, we will forever be touched by the joy, kindness and laughter you shared with us. We are deeply sadden by this sudden departure but the memory of you will always live on in our hearts.

Christina Jost

November 25, 2013

Words can't express how saddened I was to hear of your loss. Please accept my most heartfelt sympathy and know my thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Geralyn

November 25, 2013

Cathy, Grace, Clare and family, words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. Bryan was an amazing person and a best friend. He always knew what to say and how to make difficult times easier. I am so very grateful that Bryan was part of my life. I will miss you so very much. I love you Wilb

Sophia Lilliebridge

November 25, 2013

Clare,
Sorry for your loss. You now have your very own guardian angel

Lilliebridge-Kelly Family

November 25, 2013

Our hearts go out to your family. Catherine, on the loss of your husband. Grace & Clare, on the loss of your father. You are in our thoughts & prayers. Our sincerest condolence. Amy, Pam & Sophia

Jonathan Myers

November 25, 2013

I worked with Bryan for many years when he lived in New Mexico. I will always remember the high quality of the work that he did, and how he set an example for all those around him. He will be missed.

Sonya Pointer

November 25, 2013

My husband and I both worked with Bryan in Baton Rouge, LA, he was such a sweet man ... thoughts and prayers are with his family ... Sonya and Jim Pointer

John

November 25, 2013

Bryan will be missed by those who knew him. May his soul return to peace and celebration of his goodness, and his family know comfort.

Michael Wagrowski

November 25, 2013

I am so very sorry for the loss felt by all who had the great fortune of knowing Bryan. He was a devoted father and husband who was willing to do whatever it took to take care of his family. Certainly, the NSAE community will always keep the Koehler family in our thoughts and prayers.

November 25, 2013

Please accept my sincerest condolences. My God and your fond memories give you peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Ms Porter

Jeffery L. Williams

November 25, 2013

Bryan was a good friend, mentor, and colleague. Valerie and I prayer for you Cathy and the girls that his fond memories are plentiful and eternal peace covers your hearts. "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted". Matthew 5.4.

Dinah DeVry

November 25, 2013

To the dearest family at this terrible junction. Bryan was such a caring, loving and giving person. My thoughts of Bryan will remain with me always.

Bryan you might be gone but never never forgotten. In peace you rest.

Michael Rosenow

November 25, 2013

I've only worked with Bryan tangentially at best, but whenever I saw him he was always smiling! His impact will be missed here at Argonne. Prayers for his wife and daughters.

November 25, 2013

Bryan was a true professional and good person to work with! May God bless Bryan with eternal peace and bless the family with strength to go through grief!
Kaushik Joshi

Dave Johnson

November 25, 2013

I am so sorry to hear this news. My heart goes out to Catherine, Grace, Clare, and Mr & Mrs Koehler. Bryan and I were nearly inseparable for about 10 years starting when his family moved to Fairview. With just 1 house between his and mine we grew up together goofing around in the summer, walking to school, playing football, eating Mrs K's pancakes with blueberry syrup (the best), watching SNL, lifting weights, shoveling snow, breaking the neighbors picture window, … Together we went from boys to teenagers to men; looking back I realize how much he helped me through that process.

November 25, 2013

Dear Cathy, Grace, Claire and Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sad and difficult time. Bryan was a kind and warm-hearted person with a wonderful smile. We will remember him fondly. Please accept our deepest sympathy for your loss. Sincerely, Peter, Katie, Cray & Madeline Taylor

Nancy Pass Gurwin

November 25, 2013

Dear Cathy, Anne, Bill and family, I am so sorry for your loss. May Bryan's memory forever be a blessing to all. Please know you are in my thoughts. Love, Nancy

Bruce

November 25, 2013

I'm very sorry to hear of Bryan's sudden passing. I knew him as the very personable manager of Argonne's quality assurance program and was impressed by his commitment to effecting improvements in the program. Rather than admonishments, he offered support. Although he was here only a short time, he will be missed and I will miss him.

The thoughts of others disclose that he was the same sort of person away from work. I pray that his family and friends find some measure of peace knowing how well liked and admired he was by those with whom he worked.

Don Janz

November 25, 2013

Heaven will be a better place in which such a great man that came to visit way to early in life. Bryan was a dear friend and will be missed by all. My prayers and thoughts go out to Cathy, Grace and Clare and the rest of the Koehler family.

Lauren Wylie

November 25, 2013

I cannot express the overwhelming sadness news of Bryan's death has brought. He was a good friend and colleague and will forever be missed. God bless his wife, girls and family. We shall all keep his memory alive far into the future.

Cheryl Prince

November 25, 2013

The world has lost a good and kind man far too early. His friendship was a treasure that I and others are truly blessed to have had and will miss the remainder of our lives. My family and I offer heartfelt condolences to Cathy, his beloved daughters and his whole family.

November 25, 2013

Although we have not met, I am sorry for your terrible news. Nina will be as supportive as possible to Grace at school. Take good care.
The Scheyer Family

Anil Thakkar

November 25, 2013

My deep sympathies to Bryan's family. A very hard working person, great loss for Argonne's ESQ division.

John Patin

November 25, 2013

Bryan was a fantastic person that we will tremendously miss! My thoughts and prayers go out to Cathy, Grace, and Clare.
- John W. Patin

Mike and Marie Schulz

November 24, 2013

Bryan was the best of friends and we'll miss him dearly. All of our love to Cathy and the girls.

Elizabeth Demmery-Potter

November 24, 2013

I really feel that there is a special spot in Heaven for Bry, known him since he was just a kid in Fairview, PA. ! Great Guy, Everyone liked Bryan! He will be greatly missed by many, May God send Strength & Blessings to all, especially his "Girls".. Cathy, Grace & Clare... Prayers continue for all his beloved family!
Sincere Sympathies from The Demmery Family.

Lauren Zisman

November 24, 2013

I can't tell you how sorry I am for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your sweet, amazing little girls.

Lauren Zisman

November 24, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss... I loved working with your whole family and can't tell you how sorry I am... My thoughts and prayers are with you and your sweet, amazing little girls.

Ann Bystedt

November 24, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with you as you grieve the tragic loss of a wonderful man. The NSAE community has many wonderful memories of Bryan as a dedicated father to Grace & Clare. Our doors are always open to you and your family.

Pat, Colleen, and Chanin White

November 24, 2013

Words, however kind, can't mend your heartache, but those who care and share your loss wish you comfort and peace of mind. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Mike & Lynn Zalepa

November 24, 2013

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times with Bryan as you celebrate his life.

Vicki Pence

November 24, 2013

May memories of Bryan and the love of family and friends surround you and give you strength in the times ahead.
Friends of Betty and Terry - Vicki and Brent Pence of Warren, PA

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