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Nancy Stemwedel Obituary

Nancy McDonough Stemwedel, age 76, of Northbrook, died suddenly in Portland, Oregon, while celebrating her granddaughter's first birthday. She is survived by her husband of 40 years, Charlie, two daughters, Clara (fiancé Matt McMillen) Stemwedel and Annie (Allan) Rudwick, one adored granddaughter, Mary Rudwick, a brother, John M. McDonough (Susan Moran), and many, many friends and relatives. Nancy was a devoted parishioner of St. Norbert Parish for 37 years. Her unending energy, enthusiasm, and positivity were a blessing to those who knew her. She will be truly missed. Visitation will be held Saturday, April 25, 2015, 9:30 a.m. until time of Funeral Mass 11:30 a.m. at St. Norbert Church, 1809 Walters Ave. Northbrook, IL, 60062. Interment Sacred Heart Cemetery, Northbrook. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Maryknoll Fathers and Brothers, P.O. Box 302, Maryknoll, NY 10545-03022, http://www.maryknollsociety.org.Info: www.donnellanfuneral.com or (847) 675-1990

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Published by Chicago Tribune from Apr. 22 to Apr. 23, 2015.

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MARY MEINIG

April 15, 2020

If I remember correctly, Nancy and I were both April girls, and she died on my birthday, April 18. I always thought that. even without any training in theatre arts, she could step into the role of Auntie Mame -- the loving, warm-hearted, big-presence star, ready to lead or follow but always participate.

Kevin Donegan

May 11, 2015

Dear Charlie, Kathy and I wish you and daughters our deepest sympathies. Many fond memories of Whale of a Sale and parties attended. Our prayers are with you

April 27, 2015

Charlie and Girls:
Nancy was my fanfare introduction to Chicago in 1968 and remained a great old friend all these years. We are so very glad we got us all together again in Chicago a few years ago. We had the chance to reaffirm that old friends are best friends. We will miss her.
Mary and John Meinig, Evergreen, CO

April 24, 2015

My sincere and deepest sympathy.

Donald LaValle

April 24, 2015

She was Nancy with the smiling face. She will be welcomed in heaven with other St. Norbert legends: Msgr.Hagerty and Fr. Valker. She was everywhere in our church doing kind deeds. As I walking into church recently, she slowed down her car & shouted out a compliment. When i light candles at Mass I knew she had put them there, so I will be lighting candles for your family. Deepest sympathy,Joan Stephenson

Linda Bradley

April 24, 2015

Rest in Gods loving arms dearest Nancy. You will ALWAYS be held in our hearts. Our deepest sympathy to her beloved family. She LOVED you all so much. Fondly, the Patrick Bradley Family

April 23, 2015

Dear Charlie, Clara a d Annie, There are no words to express my sympathy to you all at the loss of our most treasured Nancy. She was among my very closest and dearest friends for almost sissy years, and I cannot imagine life without her. Just that voice over the phone, oh Pen, dear friend, how are you and how soon can we get together, always made my day. The stories and the fun we shared were endless. They always contained the latest episodes of the girls love lives and challenges, Charlie's. Job or a re ent trip to Michigan, Portland, wherever. When I found the most reasonable airfare to be 875, I made the decision not to be with you on Saturday, but you know my thoughts and prayers will be with you throughout the whole day. Please take heart in the realization that you were her whole existence. She so adored and was so proud of all of you. No one could have been more loved than you were
.My dearest love to all of you. Penny and Frank

Theresa Golden

April 22, 2015

Dear Charlie, Clara & Annie
We are so sorry for your loss. We will all miss Nancy She was such a joy to be with. I am sure she is smiling down on us all with great love. Especially little Mary. Looking forward to meeting her and seeing you. God bless. Love & prayers
Theresa & family.

John Chapman

April 22, 2015

Charlie--I was very shocked to hear of Nancy's sudden passing. She was a wonderful friend to me, and never failed to make me feel happy with her incredible sense of humor and contagious laugh. My sincere and deep condolences to you and her whole family. You all are in my prayers.

April 22, 2015

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Jean Britt, Wilmette, Il

April 22, 2015

Charlie- I read the notice of Nancy's death with sadness. I well remember the pain and shock of a sudden death- with my husband and your friend Ray 10 years ago. My heart goes out to you. The loss is so sharp. Please feel free to get in touch with me if you want - [email protected]

Lois Cross

April 21, 2015

Nancy's was a life well lived and I hope the memories you cherish will console you all. I'm sure she's up there watching over you all and playing a great game of tennis!

sue ockerlund

April 21, 2015

Nancy was an inspiration for her long volunteer service on so many levels...admired her for many years!
Sue Ockerlund

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