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Neil O'Reilly Obituary

Neil J. O'Reilly, age 47, of Downers Grove, beloved husband of Victoria; devoted father of Timothy and Chelsea; loving son of Ann (Ted) Diersen and the late Paul J. O'Reilly; dear brother of Brian (Paulette) O'Reilly and Daniel (Andrea) O'Reilly; also survived by aunts, uncles, nieces and nephews, brothers-in-law, sisters-in-law; and many friends. Visitation Sunday 3 to 9 p.m. at Hallowell & James Funeral Home, 301-75th St., Downers Grove, where Services will be held on Monday at 9:30 a.m. Interment Queen of Heaven Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorials to the Neil J. O'Reilly Memorial Fund c/o Mid America Bank, Attn: Denise Galczak, 7351 Lemont Rd., Downers Grove, IL 60516. 630-964-6500.

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Published by Chicago Tribune from Feb. 15 to Feb. 16, 2003.

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BILL MINOTT

March 12, 2003

I JUST HEARD TODAY THAT NEIL HAD PASSED. I MET NEIL IN 4TH GRADE IN LA GRANGE AND WE REMAINED BUDDIES THRU HIGH SCHOOL. I LAST SAW HIM I MAY 2002 AT A LUNCHEON FOR THE D.G NORTH WORK PROGRAM THAT WE BOTH SPONSOR. ALL MY BEST TO NEIL'S FAMILY AND TO BROTHER DAN (WHO I WORKED WITH AT JEWEL IN THE 70'S)

ALAN & CELINE KILBURG

February 26, 2003

OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO NEIL'S FAMILY. WHAT A VERY SPECIAL PERSON YOU WERE, MY FRIEND. YOU WILL BE GREATLY MISSED. NEVER FORGOTTEN.

Dana Mesler

February 23, 2003

What can I say? From climbing the water tower and writing our names, bussing tables together at Johnny Mikes, throwing snowballs at passing cars and learning the abc's of younger life.. I will forever miss my friend Neil.. Your Buddy, Dana....

mike iozzo

February 21, 2003

Neil,



Many people say that the more generous we are on earth, the higher place we will have in heaven.



If that is the case i don't think you will be above Mother Teresa but

not far below.



Thank you for the generosity you showed my family and me.

Laura Marshall

February 19, 2003

It was just a week ago tonight at 8:30 time when Vicki called and asked me to come sit with the kids cause she needed to take the Neil to the hospital. If I only had a clue of what the outcome would be. Somehow my "see ya later babe" as he was wheeled out of the house seems so inadequate now. It's unbelievable to think of all that has occured in the last week. I think Kyra said it best when she said she felt like she'd aged two years in a matter of two days. Well Neil, I think the wake, funeral and following luncheon would have made you proud. I am still in awe of how many lives you touched. Vicki, Dave and I will always be there for you guys, even if you don't want us there. You'll need to kick us out if we're in your hair too much, you know we don't take hints well. I love you, from your seester.

Gaylord Whiting

February 18, 2003

I just don't know what to say. I'm shocked and saddened. Ann I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you and the family - Brain, Danny et al. Hang in - I can't image and I hope I never have to experience it. All my love, Gaylord

Bo Waldo-Grant

February 18, 2003

To Neil's friends and family,



I am so sorry for your loss. Every time I eat a Krispy Kreme I think of Neil.



He was so kind to me, as a relative stranger, right from the beginning.



I know Neil will be missed by thousands.



May he thrive in God's arms.



With love and sympathy,

Ms. Bo Grant

Jerry and Gail Gallup

February 17, 2003

Over the past 15 years, Neil was indeed a very special friend to our family. Buying my 1st Lincoln from him led to many happy and joyous visit to the dealership where Neil was always so helpful. A great hand shake and smile that made everyones world better. My entire family got to know Neal and we all will miss him. He was a very special person. Our deepest sympathy in the time of loss. Our prayers are with the family.

Paul Burch

February 17, 2003

Neil was a great friend of mine and my entire family (our extended families) really had memories that can go on for ever. My thoughts go out to Vicki and the kids, Brian, Danny,Mom and please realize that Neil will never be forgotten. Neil never met a stranger, so please lets not forget Neil and his family! We used to laugh about not cheating our self in life.....Neil did not get cheated but the entire world did by his passing. Neil please let that sweat drop on me from time to time. Paul Burch

Sam Smith

February 16, 2003

I meet Neil in 1985 whe he sold me a car and has been a great freind to myself and my family ever since then. He always found time for us and never was down. We'll miss him very dearly.

Joe and Barb Gapastione

February 16, 2003

We are deeply saddened for you loss. Neil was a great man, he will be missed dearly. Our prayers are with you.

vicki schneider

February 16, 2003

Oh Neil, how blessed we have been-your smile, your big heart, your spirit, it all lives on -for you left such a deep impression on us all-the sadness is deep-known you since high school and my children were always charged to see you at Ogden Motors-it was just your way-miss you so much-my prayers are with you vicki, timothy, and chelsea; he was a proud husband and father. God Bless you all.

Rob Woods

February 16, 2003

I met the O'Reillys when I was 10, Neil was on my Little League Team, and I was fortunate to grow up with Neil and Dan, and around Brian and their Mom. What a pleasure! The memories are endless, caddying at LGCC, playing hoops, cards, golf, swimming in their backyard, the famous brotherly "boxing matches"...., it was truly an all-american childhood. Everyone loved Neil, he always greeted you with a smile and hearty handshake, and touched everyone he came in contact with.

He will be greatly missed but never forgotten. Heartfelt condolences to the O'Reilly family.

Janet Iovinelli Raabe

February 16, 2003

I am truly saddened to hear of this tragedy. Neil and Vicki were always an important part of the Guerrieri family. Neil was a star player in our annual July 4th baseball game. Always know that we are here for you at all times. That is what one's FAMILY is all about.



Janet, Adam and Joanna (Iovinelli) Raabe

Deb Whiting

February 16, 2003

It's not for my lack of kind words I have for Neil since I have many. It's my inability to formulate those words into my memories of him. So with that in mind I will just say that Neil has touched a part of my heart that will never leave. He'll always be just a thought away. You will be missed.

The LoBianco's

February 16, 2003

We will feel an emptiness each time we look out our back window. Neil was truly the most friendly, generous, and cheerful neighbor anybody could have. Neil, you will be missed!!!

Tom & Triss Pigman

February 16, 2003

Dear Vickie and family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Please let us know if there is anything we can do fr you. Your are in our hearts now and always.

steve rybinski

February 15, 2003

I'm in shock at the moment...I just landed from Arizona a couple of hours ago to find a letter from Ogden. I've known him for almost 20 years. I just stopped to see you a couple of weeks ago. What happened my friend!!

I'll miss ya, man-----Go White Sox!

From your favorite Cubs fan.

dan oreilly

February 15, 2003

I know that for all of you "crazy cats" that were fortunate enough to have known Neil,"Believe me when I tell Ya... " to be lucky enough to call him my brother is like winning the lotto. still "howsomever, I feel like a french frie . "

Fred Whiting

February 15, 2003

Everytime we ever got together, from little kids, high school, to our family parties as adults, I always enjoyed a good laugh and would always say to myself, "This guy enjoys life and knows how to remind others how to have fun and lighten up".

Neil, "we love ya man! Thanks for all the good times."



Fred Whiting

Jim and Pat Wong

February 15, 2003

Neil and his family have been our friends since our boys Steve and Tim were in kindergarten. Our families have enjoyed alot of happy times together. Neil always opened his home to us and we will always remember his generosity, love of life, and warm smile. He touched alot of lives and will be truely missed.

Angelo Fraticola

February 15, 2003

Neil was a great guy.

My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Andrew Herstel

February 15, 2003

Neil was my friend; an affable thoughtful and caring person. I will miss him, and think of him each

time I drive the Mercury Marquis, or visit the dealership.

Peggy Williams-Manzer

February 15, 2003

Neal will be missed very much!He was truely a very kind and helpful person and alot of fun too.My thoughts and prayers are with his family, especially his children, Timothy and Chelsea.

David Nelson

February 15, 2003

In the future whenever friends gather, my rememberence of a great friend will undoubtedly fill my thoughts. Neil was uniquely one of a kind. I knew he cared about me and I will greatly miss him and his smiling personality and upbeat character. Everyone loved "The Doctor."

Chuck and Betty Faron

February 15, 2003

Neil was a good, friendly neighbor. We will miss his smile in the neighborhood.

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