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Shirley Kaczala Obituary

Shirley Kaczala (née Matella). Born March 27, 1939, entered Eternal Life on October 8, 2020. Beloved daughter of the late Edward and Dorothy Matella. Loving wife of the late Dr. Stanley J. Kaczala. Devoted mother of Sharon (Michael) Parbs and Kari (Richard) Ellery. Adoring grandmother of Ryan and Sydney Parbs and Brooks and Anna Ellery. Dear sister of Pamela (Terry) Kirin and Marcy King. She loved spending time with her family at their summer home near Land O' Lakes, Wisconsin, enjoying both winter and summer activities. She enjoyed traveling, especially get aways to Florida. She was a wonderful friend to many, always looking forward to their next get together. She delighted in her role as "Mama" to her four grandchildren and was so proud of each of their accomplishments. Visitation Thursday, 10:00 a.m. until the time of the Funeral Mass 11:00a.m. at St. John Catholic Church, 301 S. Cottage Grove Ave. Glenwood, IL. Interment Holy Cross Cemetery. Arrangements entrusted to Thornridge Funeral Home (Janusz Family Funeral Service) (708) 841-2300 or www.thornridgefuneralhomes.com

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Oct. 13, 2020.

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Judy (Burmeister) Saul

October 7, 2024

Couldn't have had a better friend! And since 5th grade in Northbrook, IL... time at Glenbrook North High School and Lawrence College in Appleton, WI...wonderful, fond memories

Judy Saul

October 7, 2023

A special friend since middle school in Northbrook, IL.
Had weekly long distance phone calls up until her passing. Miss her tons!!!

Ann Kearns

October 7, 2023

A very special person who I remember often as she was a formative part of my learning to be an adult. Her good humor, bright, positive outlook and unshakeable optimision have stayed with me over the sixty five plus years from when we first met. Rest in well deserved peace, Shirl, surrounded by the love of the remnant.

Judy Saul

October 7, 2022

My friend for so many yrs., and we always kept in touch across the miles...treasured our phone calls which tended to go on! and we could laugh together..such a plus!

Ann kearns

October 7, 2022

The anniversary of your passing on conjures such sweet memories of a life well lived, filled with joy and love shared. I can hear your laugh, see your smile and bask in the warmth you are shining on us, secure in the knowledge you are at peace. Much love still in my heart for you Shirl.

Judy Burmeister Saul

October 10, 2021

Wonderful memories of a friendship since 5th grade when Shirl moved to Northbrook with her family, then Glenbrook Hight School followed by some time at Lawrence U. in Appleton, Wi WE never lost touch over the years and enjoyed long phone conversations. God bless you and keep you, my friend.

Tammy Napoli

October 17, 2020

Mrs. Kaczala was an amazing next-door neighbor and friend. She was loved by all and the "block" would not have been the same without her kindness and wonderful sense of humor! She will be missed and remembered always. Sharon, Kari, and families, you have our deepest sympathies on the loss of your mom and grandma.

Judy Burmeister Saul

October 16, 2020

Shirley has been my friend since 5th grade when she moved with her family to Northbrook, IL. We attended high school together and some time at Lawrence College. We have lived states apart for decades but had a a thriving telephone relationship and remained close! I will miss her more than I can express.

Dianne Modleski

October 15, 2020

Thoughts and prayers with all of you. God bless the Ellery Family.
Love The Modleski Family

Terri Brne

October 15, 2020

Sharon and Kari so very sorry for your loss. Your mom was great, so many happy memories. Thinking of you both.

Ann Kearns

October 14, 2020

Shirley was a wonderful friend with whom i built many memories when we were in college together. She was always remembered as we celebrated reunions. Dearest Shirl, my prayers for your safe journey.

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Pam Kirin

Sent Flowers

October 14, 2020

Dear Ellery Family, We are so sorry about your loss! Please know we are praying for you all at this difficult time. Love, The Shattuck Family

Madeleine Yonker

October 13, 2020

I am so sorry to hear is Shirley’s passing. We went to Holy Ghost together for so many years and enjoyed our talks after mass. She will be missed by many.

Patti Ahlstrom

October 13, 2020

Sharon and Michael - We are sorry for your loss. Your mother was a wonderful person and we enjoyed her company the few times we were fortunate enough to be with her. Treasure the memories and find solace in the fact that she is with your father now. Take care.
Love, Patti and Rex

Patti Ahlstrom

October 13, 2020

Sharon and Michael -- I am sorry for your loss. Your mother was wonderful and I enjoyed her company the few times I was fortunate enough to be in her company. Treasure the memories. Her spirit will surely live on.

Love, Patti and Rex

October 10, 2020

Ellery family,

We are so sorry for your loss and will keep you in our prayers.

Love,
The Perkins family

The Staff of Thornridge Funeral Home

October 9, 2020

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

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