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Vivian Paley Obituary

Vivian Paley nee Gussin, 90. Beloved wife of Irving Paley. Loving mother of David (Elaine) Paley and the late Robert (Jane) Paley. Cherished grandmother of Daniel Paley, Michelle (Andrew) Spisak and Deborah (Benjamin) Burruss. Great-grandmother of Will, Charlie and Norah. Dear sister-in-law of Judy (the late Zave) Gussin. Fond aunt of Asher, Nancy, Robert, Mark, Michael and Betsy. Service Thursday, 1:00 pm at Congregation Rodfei Zedek, 5200 South Hyde Park Blvd., Chicago. Interment Oak Woods Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorials to the Jewish National Fund, (JNF) 78 Randall Ave., Rockville Center, NY 11570 www.jnf.org would be appreciated. Arrangements by Chicago Jewish Funerals – Skokie Chapel, 847.229.8822, www.cjfinfo.com

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Jul. 30, 2019.

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August 6, 2019

I have never met Vivian, but I have been teaching her philosophy and pedagogy for a number of years in the early childhood degree course here in New Zealand. My class felt quite sad when i notified them of her passing. She has shaped the thinking of many budding early childhood professionals and will do this for many years to come. My condolances to her husband and family.

Vivia Schwass, Christchurch, New Zealand

August 4, 2019

Vivian had been my friend since she came to New Orleans almost 70 years ago. I will cherish her memory.
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Estelle Palevsky

August 3, 2019

Jerry and I send our sypathy and warmest wishes to Irving, David and all the family.

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Nara Garber

July 31, 2019

I had the opportunity to meet Vivian once while working on a documentary about the social pain inflicted by ostracism and rejection (The film was called "Reject;" thank you to Ruth Thomas Suh for that opportunity!). It was shortly after the 2008 election, and all of Hyde Park seemed to be thrumming with the sense of new possibilities. Our time with Vivian amplified this sense of optimism, but my fondest memory of all was of the moment Irving who had hidden himself away while we were filming so as not to distract us re-appeared at four o'clock, just as we were wrapping up. Ruth and Vivian were still going over some logistical matters, so I was happy to speak with Irving while he was waiting. He explained that unless one of them was traveling or there was pressing business demanding their attention, he and Vivian always took a break at this hour for a glass of wine or sherry and conversation. He looked across the room at his wife of 50 years and said to me, marveling, "Isn't she amazing?" She was. They were. I think of Vivian when I think of kindness and inclusion and respect, and what better tribute can there be. May her influence carry us through these unkind times. Sincere condolences to the extended family.

Dorothy Freedman

July 31, 2019

In fond remembrance of a fellow Lab School Teacher and wonderful friend.

Lou Rosemblum

July 30, 2019

Lya and I send our sincere condolences.
We live in Evanston at the Mather. Love Lou

Sheila Goldberg

July 30, 2019

I am so sorry to learn about the passing of Vivian Paley. I never met her, but I knew her by reputation and through her writings. I taught kindergarten and first grade for thirty-three years and subbed for another twelve years. Mrs. Paley had a big influence on my teaching and I greatly admired her writing. My condolences to her family.

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Congregation Rodfei Zedek

5200 South Hyde Park Blvd, Chicago, IL

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