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Helen Massey Obituary
Arden - Helen Taylor Massey passed away peacefully on March 7 at Givens Estates at the age of 83.
Helen was born on May 8, 1935. A native of Buncombe County, she resided in her younger years in Lexington, NC with her brothers and sisters at the Junior Order United American Mechanics Home.
She was the daughter of the late James and Daisy Bell Taylor and was preceded in death by a sister, Margaret Stewart, and 6 brothers, James Taylor, Johnny Taylor, David Taylor, Robert Taylor, Ronald Corn, and Tommy Corn.
Helen worked for over 20 years at the Magnavox facility in Arden and then became a substitute teacher in the Buncombe County school system, primarily working at the Glen Arden and Avery's Creek schools. Helen enjoyed her long daily walks and her gardens. She loved working with flowers and landscaping. Known as "Nana" by her grandsons, she loved her family immensely. Her grandsons were the joy of her life. Helen was well known for her constant smile. Known as "Smiley" in high school, she never stopped smiling, which is a dear memory her family is blessed to have. A great day for Helen was to go for a walk, work in her flower garden, eat vegetables from the garden, and have a visit from her family. Helen never had to leave her home to enjoy her life - her home is what made her happy.
Helen is survived by her son, Wes "Randy" Elingburg, his wife Cathy and their son Nolan, and a daughter Brenda Schreiber, her husband Stan plus their sons Scott and Brett. She is also survived by her husband, Coy Massey, and 3 sisters, Mary Nash, Dorothy Ann Morgan, and Donnie Grindstaff, along with many nieces and nephews.
The family would like to thank the staff at Givens Estates for their care of Helen the past 2 years. Your kindness is very much appreciated. The family would also like to thank the staff at Memory Care for their care of Helen.
A Memorial Service will be held at 3:00 PM Tuesday, March 12, 2019 at Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian. Friends will be received following the service at the funeral home.
Memorials may be made to Memory Care, 100 Far Horizons Lane, Asheville, NC 28803.
Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian is assisting the family.
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Barbara Sutton
March 14, 2019
I am extending my condolences to the family and friends. May all of you find peace in knowing that God cares and will help you during these difficult times. 1 Peter 5:6,7*
March 11, 2019
Dear Brenda and Randy,
So many sweet memories of Helen over the years. She and Coy were great neighbors, especially to mom. Sending you much love during this difficult time. Hugs.
Dana
Coy Massey
March 9, 2019
My Dearest Helen,
Due to health problems, I am not able to be there. You are and always will remain in my heart.
I love you,
Coy
Danny and Ruth Ann Payne
March 9, 2019
Danny and I'm always enjoyed our dinners with Coy and Helen. Coy loved Helen with all his heart and took such special care of her until his health would not allow him. Our prayers are with this family.
Coy Massey
March 9, 2019
My Dear Helen,
Due to my health problems, I am not able to be there. You are and always will be in my heart.
I love you,
Coy
Jerry & Pat Rigsby
March 9, 2019
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thought are with you. Helen was a very special lady and sister in-law.
Judy Ward
March 9, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss. Helen was a tremendous person & her smile would always light up a room! I'm sure her smile is shining brightly in heaven.
Terry Cutshall
March 9, 2019
Sorry for your loss, I will keep you and your family in my prayers Coy, love you cuz.
John
March 9, 2019
So sorry for the family's loss. No words can ever express the loss of a loved one. May all of you find comfort and peace in all the loving memories you've shared together. Please be comforted in knowing that God understands your grief and he cares for you. (1 Peter 5:6,7
Cathy Barnhardt
March 8, 2019
Brenda and Randy, I am sorry for the hurt you feel at the loss of your Mom. It is never easy. We are praying for you all to have peace and to know so many care. i remember when I first met her at your home Brenda. Your Mom was kind and fun. Love to you all. Gary and Cathy
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