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Jones Pharr Byrd

Asheville - Jones Pharr Byrd passed away peacefully in his sleep on January 27, 2020.

Jones was raised in Sanford, North Carolina before attending college and law school at his beloved Wake Forest University in Winston-Salem. He met the love of his life, his wife Sandra, while she was attending Salem College there.

He began the practice of law in Raleigh working for the Attorney General's office before moving to Asheville, where he spent the bulk of his professional life - first with Patla Straus Robinson & Moore and then for many years with the Van Winkle Law Firm. Jones devoted his professional life to helping those in need - people badly injured, people in jeopardy of losing property without just compensation, families of persons wrongfully deceased, people suffering at the hands of abuse, and countless others. His service through the law is that to which all fellow lawyers aspire. He was proud to be a lawyer, counting his successes in terms of the many lives he touched along the way, and those that touched his life.

Jones was a proud member of the North Carolina Advocates for Justice (formerly the North Carolina Academy of Trial Lawyers) and served as Legislative Chairperson and Chair of the Eminent Domain Section of that organization. He recently was awarded the Eminent Domain Section's first Lifetime Achievement Award for his lifelong dedication to protecting clients' rights through advocacy, understanding, and by allowing them to tell their story.

Jones was also a member of the Buncombe County Bar, American Association for Justice, American Bar Association, Harry C. Martin American Inns of Court, North Carolina Bar Association (for which he served as Litigation Section Council Member and Co-chairperson of the Legislative Committee), the North Carolina State Bar, and the United States Supreme Court Bar.

Jones was a longtime member of The Cathedral of All Souls, where he served as Junior and Senior Warden of the Vestry, and on the Endowment Committee. He was a former chair of the Buncombe County Board of Elections, and served on the Boards of many organizations, including Wake Forest University School of Law, the YMCA, and Pisgah Legal Services. Jones graduated ROTC from Wake Forest, and was a Second Lieutenant in the United States Army, where he served in the Reserves for 6 years in the Judge Advocate General's Corps before his Honorable Discharge. He also belonged to the Blue Ridge Bicycle Club, was a graduate of Leadership Asheville, and was a member of the Rhododendron Brigade of Guards.

Jones loved the outdoors, spending countless hours fishing, hunting, hiking and bicycling - usually with a spirited crew of good friends. Throughout his life, he was rarely without his canine companions. He was a Demon Deacon fan through and through. He loved hard, laughed often, and fought for those in need. He was loved by many. We will miss him more than words can adequately express.

Jones was preceded in death by his parents, Virginia Pharr Byrd and Worth Miller Byrd, as well as his father-in-law Christ Michael Pappas. He is survived by his wife, Sandra Pappas Byrd; his daughter Julia Isobel Byrd and her husband Joe Dukes; his son Jones, Jr. and his wife Whitney; his granddaughters Anna and Macie Byrd; his mother-in-law Julia Zakinthinakis Pappas; his brother Sam Miller Byrd and his wife Ashley Byrd; his sister Sarah Byrd Turner and her husband Tim Turner; and many beloved nieces, nephews, and cousins.

A memorial service will be held at 1:00 pm Saturday, February 1st at The Cathedral of All Souls. The family will visit with friends following the service in Zabriskie Hall.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to The Cathedral of All Souls, Koinonia outreach, 9 Swan Street, Asheville, NC 28803 (allsoulscathedral.org) and Pisgah Legal Services, PO Box 2276, Asheville, NC 28802 (pisgahlegal.org).

Jones' family would like to offer heartfelt gratitude to all of the friends and caregivers that have offered steadfast and loving care, grace, and support as we have walked this road together.

Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian is assisting the family and the memorial register is available at grocefuneralhome.com.



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Published by Asheville Citizen-Times from Jan. 27 to Jan. 31, 2020.

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Susan Gaddis

January 30, 2020

Jones was a good man and a great advocate. He will be missed in our legal community. Jones demonstrated an ongoing selfless service to the legal profession. The academy of trial lawyers was made better because of his tireless commitment to serving others.
My sympathy goes to his family during this difficult time and the comfort in knowing we will see him again.

Guy Crabtree

January 30, 2020

I have known Jones for many years professionally and worked with him on various NCAJ matters. I always enjoyed any time I spent with him. His smile and positive demeanor always brightened my day and made me feel better. He will be missed.
Guy Crabtree

Ben Trotter

January 30, 2020

I and countless others will long remember Jones as a uniquely warm, caring and compassionate person. He brought a lot of laughter and love to a lot of lives. Everyone who knew him is a better person for his presence in our lives.

James Terrell

January 30, 2020

Jones was the best co-counsel I ever had .

Penelope Clark Kilpatrick

January 30, 2020

Among his many positive qualities, Jones will be valued and remembered for his commitment to doing the next right thing as best he saw it, his love of Sandra and so proud of his children & their families, his enthusiasm for living a full life, his sense of humor, his faith in people's goodness, and for personally helping me pass geometry. His Sanford High School friends and I send uplifting thoughts, prayers and support as we extend our love and condolences to you, Sandra, and your beautiful family. Here for you...

Debra Simons

January 29, 2020

To the family of Jones,
I am sorry for the loss of your devoted husband, loving father and grandfather..
I will always remember him as having a wonderful smile, kind heart and a large laugh.. along with a love for his family and dogs.. Again my condolences at this time, Debra R Simons

Bud and Dianne Hughes

January 29, 2020

Your family is in our prayers

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Carol & Bob Fabrey

January 29, 2020

We are saddened to hear of Jones' passing. He will always be remembered as our wonderful friend and neighbor.

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Bunny Hinkle

January 29, 2020

Sending lots of love and blessing to Sandra, Sam and Family! Jones was a truly great person. Bunny Hinkle

William Herman

January 29, 2020

Sandra, I'm shocked to read about Jones. He was a funny and friendly person to me and many others. My prayers go our to you and your family. Rusty Herman

Katie Kalarovich

January 29, 2020

I had the pleasure to work with Jones on several of his cases. He was always open to questions and very patient in his responses. I miss his laughter.

Warren Anderson

January 29, 2020

I first came to know Jones as a lawyer -- and found him to be tenacious and brilliant. Then I came to know Jones as a friend -- funny, delightful, warm and embracing. I was so lucky to have known this great man. We all were.

Denise Arthur Steve Jones

January 28, 2020

Words cannot express my sadness upon the loss of this wonderful man. A friend far above and beyond the definition and always such a joy. We will always love him and remember him.

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January 28, 2020

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