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William Stewart Jr.

1952 - 2012

William Stewart Jr. obituary, 1952-2012, Asheville, NC

William Stewart Obituary

WILLIAM CLARENCE

STEWART, JR.

ASHEVILLE - William (Jay) Clarence Stewart Jr., 60, of Asheville, N.C. and Ft. Myers, Fla., died on Monday, September 17, 2012, after a courageous battle against cancer. His beloved wife of 32 years Nancy was by his side.

Jay was born in Frankfurt, Germany on September 24, 1952 to Bill and Betty Stewart. He spent his early life growing up in Germany and Northern Virginia. His family's travel experiences would inspire him with a love of travel and adventure that would continue until the end of his life. He graduated from Berlin American High School while his father was stationed in Germany. When the family returned to the States, he enrolled at Hamilton College and later at the College of William and Mary. It was there, while walking across a bridge on campus, that he met Nancy Birdsong Joyner who would become his wife and the love of his life. They were married in 1979 in Williamsburg, Va. at historic Bruton Parish Church.

Jay and Nancy began their married life by traveling west in a small travel trailer to explore the West Coast. They settled in San Jose, California, where Jay began acquiring experience in real estate appraisal, investment, and development. After five years honing his skills in real estate, they decided to come back to the East Coast to be closer to family and friends and start another phase of their life together. In keeping with his spirit, he decided they would get back to the East Coast by continuing west. He and Nancy visited the Orient, India, the Middle East and Europe. They saw new places, as well as places Jay wanted to show Nancy that he had been to as a youth. It was a memorable trip that they would talk of often.

When they returned to the East Coast, they chose Asheville, N.C. for its mild climate, dramatic mountain scenery, and breath of creativity that existed there. In Asheville, Jay continued to expand on his real estate knowledge and experience working for a number of years at Beverly-Hanks and Associates. Upon leaving Beverly-Hanks, Jay and two partners established business parks in Woodfin and Black Mountain by renovating former industrial facilities. Jay considered these business parks to be incubators for small private businesses and he took particular pride in his part in leasing space to people who brought innovative ideas and jobs to the Asheville area. He was a mentor to many of his tenants, who respected his business acumen and humor. He believed in the early re-development of downtown Asheville and helped bring to the community Asheville's first micro-brewery Highland Brewing, housed in Barley's Taproom on Biltmore Avenue.

As a member of the Asheville community for 28 years, he was a participant in Leadership Asheville and served on the boards of Habitat for Humanity, WCQS Radio, WNC Tennis Association, Eagle Market Street, and Black Mountain Economic Development. He was a NC licensed realtor and a real estate appraiser. He also loved tennis and was a formidable opponent on the court.

Even though they settled in Asheville, Jay and Nancy still found time to travel frequently, staying at Goat Island near Charleston, S.C. and Fort Meyers, Florida, where he had fond memories of spending time with his parents.

Jay never met a stranger and valued the friendships of many people, not just in Asheville but those he had touched around the world. His smile was always there to greet you and he made you feel like you were important. He spent many hours entertaining family and friends with a multitude of selections he played on his beloved guitar. His love of his family, friends, and life never diminished during his illness; he left this life with courage, grace, and that unforgettable gleam in his eye.

Survivors include his wife, Nancy J. Stewart; his mother, Elizabeth B. Stewart of Albany, Ga.; three sisters, Deborah Naquin and husband, Doug, of Ashburn, Va., Patricia Underdahl and husband, Ron, of Albany, Ga., and Helen Banks and husband, Jim, of Calabasas, Calif.; three nieces, Kelly Underdahl Powell and husband, Aaron, Kaely Naquin Davis and Julie Naquin; and two nephews, Brian Underdahl and wife, Samantha Paustian-Underdahl, and Ronnie Underdahl; one great-nephew, Gavin Powell and one great-niece, Abby Powell. Additionally; he is survived by his father-in-law, Dick Joyner of Durham, N.C.; sister-in-law, Elizabeth Taylor and husband, Jeff, of Richmond, Va.; and brother-in-law, Rick Joyner of Cary, N.C.; niece, Morgan Joyner and nephew, Richardson Joyner.

A private gathering will be held to celebrate Jay's life at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Asheville Area Habitat for Humanity, 33 Meadow Rd., Asheville, NC 28803, www.ashevillehabitat.org; or, Tumor Bank of WNC, 40 North Merrimon Ave., Suite 302, Asheville, NC 28804.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Asheville Citizen-Times on Sep. 19, 2012.

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Mike Breen

September 5, 2024

See you soon I'm sure!

Mike Breen

September 5, 2024

Nancy you were a lucky woman.I can only guess how special Jay was to you! He was a gunuinely good guy to all! Mike

Mike Breen

September 5, 2024

JAY, I have to return to say I am constantly remembering our times together at Stephen's & the tennis courts. Damn I miss you buddy!

Mike Breen

January 31, 2022

Jay this is belated but I will always remember our gatherings at Steven's Pub and our political discussions. I regret not staying in touch when I moved to Florida. You were a friend that has not nor will be forgotten. RIP Mike Breen

Todd Galaida

September 25, 2012

Nancy & Family:

I am so sorry to hear of Jay's passing. I can honestly say he is one of the most incredible people I've had the pleasure of meeting in my life.

The world lost a lot in Jay's passing...

Ron Blain

September 24, 2012

I sure wish I had known and stayed in touch with Jay for over forty years, but I can only say I first met him about that long ago. I was lucky enough to be included in his circle of friends, which included Dave, Mark, and Kevin, and we established the wildly popular band known as The Cloud. We performed in numerous garages and basements, and were legends in our own minds. Then, as often happens in life, we each went our own way.

Certainly, humor may seem inappropriate now, especially on this particular day, one which so many of us had hoped that we could share with Jay. But Jay seemed to inspire smiles, happiness and laughter, and I think he'd be okay with it.

Wonderfully, a few years back, The Cloud was able to reunite. We never quite understood where all of our fans went, but we very much enjoyed each-others company and we played and sang as if we were teens again. We went to a bayside restaurant with live music, and before we were through, Jay (and Dave) had joined the performer on-stage and were belting out tunes to wild applause.
It was another lesson for me; be yourself, let go, and appreciate the moment.
I will probably think of Jay most every day.
And Nancy, I only met you once (in Virginia) but my sadness, and joy in knowing him, joins yours.

Dave Stout

September 21, 2012

Jay and I met in 1965 when he moved in three houses down the street in Vienna, Virginia. We immediately became close friends. His sense of humor, quick wit and adventurous nature made it a true pleasure(often a bit crazy) to grow up with Jay.
Years later, we would reminisce about "the old days" and more often than not, just burst out in uncontrollable laughter. Those are memories I'll treasure the rest of my life. Thank you Jay, you were a very special friend.

September 21, 2012

Nancy, I am sending you love and hope that you will find comfort in knowing so many of us care about you.
Love,
Betsy Hobbs

Laura Williams

September 20, 2012

Jay's grace, his sense of humor, and his broad smile are memories I shall always have of him. Nancy, Bob and I wish you peace in this sad time. Our thoughts are with you. Love, Laura

Gary Abernethy

September 19, 2012

Nancy & family: Our warm thoughts are with you as you adjust to life without Jay. His attitude and demeanor during his illness was quite an inspiration. He made a good Blue Devil fight! Right now I'd say Jay is on the "Add Court;" ready with a chuckle.

NORMA TURNER

September 19, 2012

I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR OF JAY'S PASSING. MY HUSBAND MET HIM SEVERAL YEARS AGO. HE WAS A FUN GUY TO BE AROUND. HE WAS ALWAYS THE SAME.I LOST MY HUSBAND DEC. 15 2011. I KNOW WHAT YOUR GOING THROUGH. NEVER MET YOU BUT YOU WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS. GOD BE WITH YOU IN THE DAYS AHEAD.

Kathy Hobbs

September 19, 2012

I remember the days at William and Mary with you and Jay. Lots of love.

Doug Beatty

September 19, 2012

Most people can name five people who most influenced their lives. For me, Jay Stewart was one of those five people. Jay's belief in me and my visions for different business concepts were paramount in moving those ideas to fruition. I can never thank him and Nancy enough for their support over the past 2 decades. Without them, businesses like Barley's and many other Asheville stalwarts would most likely have never been. Jay's guidance and friendship have been important to me and so many others. Thanks again my friend. I will miss you.

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