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David Lackey Obituary

SENECA ~ David M. Lackey, 16, of Seneca, died Friday, Oct. 3, 2003, at the scene of a car accident north of Seneca. He was born Feb. 5, 1987, at Seneca, the son of Galen and Marilyn Kramer Lackey. He grew up in Seneca and graduated from Sts. Peter & Paul Grade School in 2001. He was a junior at the Nemaha Valley High School in Seneca where he played tight end and line backer on the football team. In school he liked computers and shop. During the summer he played baseball and helped coach Seneca youth football. He also enjoyed playing golf. He was a member of Sts. Peter & Paul Church, and Troop No. 71 of the Boy Scouts of America, where he had earned the first class badge. Survivors besides his parents are a brother, Brad Lackey, Lenexa; two sisters, Jennifer and Sara, both of Manhattan attending Kansas State University; his grandmother, Alma Kramer, Goff; aunts, uncles, cousins and many other relatives. Mass of Christian burial will be 10:30 a.m. Monday at Sts. Peter & Paul Church in Seneca. The burial will be in the church cemetery. The rosary will be recited at 2 p.m. and a prayer service will be at 7 p.m. today at Lauer Funeral Home in Seneca, where friends may call after 8:30 a.m. Sunday. Memorials may be given for Sts. Peter & Paul School or for the Nemaha Valley High School and sent in care of the family.

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Published by Topeka Capital-Journal on Oct. 5, 2003.

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Sarah Strathman

November 2, 2004

Everyday we think of you and everyday you bring a smile to our faces. To David and his family: you will always remain in our prayers and in our hearts. We won't ever forget ya Dave.

Amanda Hermesch

November 2, 2004

Hey Dave...I just wanted to let you know that I still miss you like crazy! And I am sorry that you can't come party with me in Lawrence like you used to say you would, but just know that I am thinking about you and the rest of the Lackey family.

Jake Dalinghaus

October 31, 2004

We miss u crazy Dave

JoAnnah Fager

October 30, 2004

"If tears could build a stairway, and memories a lane... I'd walk right up to Heaven, and bring you home again." You're in my prayers always.

Much love,

JoAnnah

Sara Kohake

October 30, 2004

We miss you crazy Dave. Know that you are in all of our thoughts and prayers each day that goes by.

Lisa Runnebaum

October 12, 2004

To David Lackey and Family, you are still in our prayers, and will continue to be. God bless.

Valerie Allen

October 9, 2004

Dave..i can't believe its been a year already! i think about you everyday and miss you so much! You were an awesome person! Take Care and lots of love..Miss ya #2! Valerie

Danielle Hammes

October 8, 2004

Hi Dave! I can't believe it has been a year since that horrible night when you passed away. Everyone misses you and wishes you were here. You will always be in our prayers. You have truly made an impact on how I live my life today. Thank you for your friendship!

Adam Hermesch

January 15, 2004

To David Lackey and Family, you are constantly thought of and continue to be in our prayers. The times continue to be hard for many students throughout the school. Play hard and play fair while your up there David. Let #2 live on FOREVER!

Ashley Rothers

January 8, 2004

Hey Dave- i won't call u crazy dave knowing how much u hated that...but i will say the name did fit u well! you were an awesum person...and probably the funniest guy around! There is so much i could tell you right now but most of all i want to let you know how much you have changed our class! things just aren't the same w/you gone! but don't worry Ryan is keepin it real for ya...its so hard even saying his name w/out u right along with his! i remember the nite of the homecomming olympic games when i was right by u for the toilet paper game and u were havin the toughest time getting it over ur shoulder without it tearing...ill remember you forever...and happy early birthday! luv always

P.S.- no one calls me Ashie the way u did and i can still here u say it!

Sarah Strathman

December 12, 2003

I know its been a long time since anybody has written in this guestbook but I'd just like to tell you all that David will always be remembered, no matter how many people sign this book. Even though its been a little while since David's death, he has never been forgotten. Everytime I stop and think about him I start to cry. Galen and Marilyn, you guys are awesome and I love talking to you about school and stuff. If I wasn't so busy I'd be over there everyday. We still miss you Dave, always will

Thanks for the memories

Molly Emmert

November 7, 2003

there are lots of people who miss you. You were a great guy!

Tara Grauer

October 26, 2003

We'll miss you, David.

Hayden Cross

October 25, 2003

You never really realize how much you love a person until he or she is gone....I LOVE YOU DAVE!

Courtney Summers

October 25, 2003

I miss ya DAVE!!!

Ariel Esslinger

October 25, 2003

I will always remeber ya DAVE!!!

Courtney Summers

October 25, 2003

I mmis dave

Alex Cross

October 25, 2003

All of us 6th grade girls from centralia today talked about David, we might not of known him, but we knew that it was very hard on all family members and friends, so i'm here to say this...WE ALL LOVE YOU DAVID!!!

Jessica Brucken

October 22, 2003

Dear Dave,

I had fun working with you at Bob's. We didn't talk all that much at work and now I wish we had so I could have gotten to know you better. I will never forget when you dressed up for rainbow day with those blue boots of yours. Everyone says how funny you were and I believe it. Your smile could always light up a room. But I guess it just goes to show, God broke our hearts to prove to us that he does take the best. R.I.P - - Thoughts and prayers go out to the Lackey Family. WE MISS YA

Natalie Parker

October 21, 2003

I'm so sorry. I really didn't no him but I've heard good things about him from Shayla.

Lori Fenton

October 19, 2003

I was Brad's supervisor at Hale Library at K-State. We've just found out about your tremendous loss and all of us in Interlibrary Services want to express our deepest sympathy to you, Brad, and to your family during this time. My prayers are with you all. May you find comfort in God as you continue life's journey.



Sincerely,

Lori

Amber Parrish

October 18, 2003

Dave was a great person, and an excellent cook at Bob's. He always had a great big smile on his face, but I know he will be shining down on us from heaven! God Bless and Dave is in our prayers.

Ciara Stallbaumer

October 16, 2003

I did not know David But I know some people who did know him that are very sad and I want him and his family to know that I am praying for them always.

Cliff Kramer

October 12, 2003

David was a great person, cousin, and friend. He will never be forgotten, my sympahty goes out to the Lackey family.

The Nick Huerter Family

October 12, 2003

To the Lackey Family:

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you!

The Huerter Family

October 12, 2003

To the Lackey Family:

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you!

Brita Visser

October 12, 2003

I Never Knew David But From What I Hear He Was An Awesome Guy And It's A Tragedy That His Life Was Taken At Such A Young Age, I Was At The Funeral With My Friend Nikki, And That Was The Most People I've Ever Seen At A Funeral And That Shows Me That He Really Will Be Missed, I Hear Alot Bout His Smile, And How He Was Always There For People And Thats Something That Touches Peoples Hearts Forever I Know He'll Be In My Thoughts And Prayers For Eternity Til I Meet Him In Heaven, God Bless His Family And All His Friends And Teachers,

Love,

BritaLena Erica Visser (Brit)

Ashley Duryea

October 12, 2003

Dave,

You were the greatest person that anyone could ever have as a friend..You were so much fun to hang out with..Even though most people don't think we knew each other that well because we didn't go to grade school together, i think we did since we lived in the same hood for a long time!..Maybe you don't remember it as well as i do, but that's alright. I will never forget all the fun times we had back in the day playin football with Jeremy and Brycen. You will never be forgotten and are always in my prayers! Love you #2!

Gary & Lori Huerter

October 12, 2003

We are so very sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

joann osterhaus sandmann

October 11, 2003

To the Lackey family

So sorry to hear about David,your in our prayers.

I am a daughter of Henry and Frances Osterhaus,

One never knows what God has in store for us. God bless your family

Jen Osterhaus

October 11, 2003

Dave, I'll always remember the time you and Austin drove down main backwards! That was the funniest thing ever to watch. I'll always miss you and never forget how great of a friend you were. I Love You, Dave!

Jessica Cornelison

October 10, 2003

We will all miss you david its a tragedy for this to happen to all of the ones that loved and cared so deeply about you, you will always remain in our hearts we will never forget you.

Erin Kohake

October 10, 2003

When you were with Dave, there was never a dull moment! You will be missed! Luv ya #2!!

Lierz Amy

October 10, 2003

My thoughts and prayers are with the whole Lackey family! Never forget love, it pulls us through the hard times.

Julia Stallbaumer

October 10, 2003

Dave was such a great friend to both of my brothers and they constantly talked about how funny he was and how much they liked to hang out with him. He will never be forgotten! My Sympahty goes out the Lackey Family.

Matt Strathman

October 9, 2003

I didn't really know you but your dad and my mom are blood and so i guess that makes us blood. And when blood leave us there is a part inside us that leaves also. So a part of me has gone with you. So R.I.P and i will keep that piece of you that you left us all and i hope you keep that piece i send to you. Blood is love no matter what. So i guess R.I.P and i'll see you someday so we can take thoughs pieces of each other inside us and unite like blood that we never know we were.

Love You Dave and my love goes out to the family.

Ashley Hermesch

October 9, 2003

Dave was a great kid, he always had a smile on his face. As Amanda said in her poem, I know that Dave will always be one step behind us all, whether it be in the football game, school, or at home...he will always be missed~

Terry Plumberg

October 9, 2003

The hurt will fade, but the memories will last forever. God must have needed you more than us.

Brie Engelken

October 9, 2003

Although I didn't know Dave that well my younger brother, Dylan, had only good things to say about him. For years he considered him one of his best friends, and his presence in our neighborhood will be greatly missed by all. My heart goes out to his family, friends, and classmates. Dave will always be in our prayers.

Katie Steinlage

October 8, 2003

We miss you Dave!!!

Christy Boden

October 8, 2003

I'll never forget the night i met you, when you had a black eye and i really thought thats how you looked all the time...i'll miss talking to you and Mr. smiley. Those were some great times! ¤Love Ya Dave¤

JoAnnah Fager

October 8, 2003

Dave, I have already signed this once but I saw two poems that stuck in my heart forever and I will forever think of you when I hear them and the song "I'll be missin you" The poems are.. "No farewell words were spoken, no time to say goodbye, you were gone before we knew it, and only god knows why." and "If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to Heaven and bring you home again." Crazy Dave you were awesome. So much fun to hang around and to watch those fake seasurs. You're greatly missed and I plan on seeing you soon in Heaven. Save my a spot by ya! Always in my heart with love.

Jeff Hermesch

October 8, 2003

Dave, you were a great friend and a good teamate. We will never forget you. You da man.

Ryan Shinn

October 8, 2003

Hey Dave,

whats up man. We had some good times together and I will never forget anything that we did together. It's just messed up that your gone, its not going to be the same without you. I'm sorry I never got to say good bye, I'm just glad I was with you in your last moments. I love you man and will never forget you.

Brenda Osterhaus

October 8, 2003

"Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear. When you were born you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Dave lived his life so that when he died, he was the one smiling and everyone around him was crying." -unknown

megan summers

October 8, 2003

we will all miss him. no more seen him leaving to go to school in the morning. it will be hard to let him go.

Daren Ronnebaum

October 8, 2003

Daren Lee Ronnebaum...Gonna Miss Ya Man...

Stephanie Nordhus

October 8, 2003

You will never be forgotten Dave. We love you #2!

Tara Kabriel

October 8, 2003

I didnt know dave but i heard alot about him. after i heard his last name i knew i was related to some lackeys but i didnt know if it was him. I talked to my dad the day after i heard about the accident and my dad told me i was related to him but farther down the line. i wish i could of meet him just once to know how nice of a cousin i had. im sorry for all his friends and family. we all will miss him alot!

Sara Lackey

October 8, 2003

D--Words can not explain how much I am missing you. I love you soooo much. You are not only by brother, but my best friend. I could tell you anything and I knew you would not tell a soul. There is so much I wish we could have done together, but I will never forget all the good times I had with you. I guess we'll just have to wait till I can come join you. I know you will make sure that God lets me in the Gates of Heaven to be with you. Just know that I will be thinking of you with each passing day. You are the best and I will be with you again someday, until then your spirit will be in my heart. Dave it's going to be hard without you, but I know you'll give us the strength to keep going. I love ya bro. XOXOXOXO

Amy Kurtz

October 8, 2003

I am very sorry that this had to happen.. I feel for all of you and if there is anything that i can do to help just let me know by emailin me..

Cody Whitman

October 8, 2003

this is Cody's sister... but, Cody can't write this for himself, and I know that he would be happy that I did it... R.I.P. Dave...

Sherri Carr

October 8, 2003

R.I.P. dave we all miss u very much guess ur in a better place now just look down on us all the time take care of us LOVE U DAVE

Jackie Harold

October 8, 2003

Didn't really know him...But i know alot of his friends...And for everyone who did know him..Im sorry about your loss!

Daska Jegdic

October 8, 2003

I didn't hang out much with Dave, but I knew him, I talked to him a few times. He was really nice. Losing Dave is a great loss for everyone. Rest in Peace Dave!

Shadow Ellington

October 8, 2003

#2 On The Feild #1 In Hearts

Emily Van Hauen

October 8, 2003

Hi, I didnt know Dave but just bein nice even if you dont know him you still can tell people your sorry to hear this...So I thought I would sign...

Timothy Spiker

October 7, 2003

Even though I didnt know you I am very sorry for what happened. You will always be in my heart.

Mandy Burger

October 7, 2003

I didn't know Dave but I know a lot of people who did. From what I hear about him he was a great guy who will be deeply missed. So my deepest sympathy goes out to all of his family and friends.

Kayla Boeckman

October 7, 2003

I will never forget your smile Dave or your friendship. You were a really great person and will be in my heart forever. Weightlifting class just wont be the same! ; Don't be hittin on to many angels up there Dave. :P We love you #2! I guess this is goodbye until we meet again someday. ;) My deepest sypmathy goes out to the entire Lackey family.

Amanda Winkler

October 7, 2003

Weightlifting class just won't be the same without you, Dave. You are missed by all. May you RIP and keep smiling down on us from heaven.

Dusty Rottinghaus

October 7, 2003

Hey Dave,

There weren't many things we did together but the one thing that sticks out in my mind is when you tried to show me up in your car. with that said... there is a song that says the good die young... now i see it is true. i miss ya and love ya Dave

OHBHAVE Brett Haverkamp

October 7, 2003

I never really started to hang out with dave till this summer when baseball started. I believe it was the Holton game when i was up to bat all of a sudden i hear dave yell out OHBHAVE everyone started laughing. Thats how it was around dave, never a dull moment. Someone was always laughing. Dave was over at my house the day of homecoming. Ill never forget when i told him he was going to spill his milkshake, what does he do he hits it with his hand and it goes all over the couch. Then he walks outside and the door hits his arm and spills it all over the door. Ill never forget you dave peace brother

Lori Niehues

October 7, 2003

Its always hard losing someone great like David. But he's with God now and we ask for his prayers to help us get to heaven. Thou it may seem unjust, God does have his reasons.

Josh Heideman

October 7, 2003

I think if anyone knew Dave they knew that Dave had not one enemy in his life. Your the most lovable guy Dave and always will be. Love Ya Man. Take care up there.

Danielle Haverkamp

October 7, 2003

Dave, you were an awesome guy and you are going to be missed very much. Although i didn't know you very well, i know you were a great guy. With luv.

Amanda Kramer

October 7, 2003

I luv ya cuz... i'll always be thinking of ya

Michelle Altenhofen

October 7, 2003

Dave, you were such an awesome person. If you were in a bad mood you would be the one to brigten up our day by telling a joke, and making us laugh. I will never forget that grin of yours, and the memories that we have shared. I know that you are in a better place, and that God is taking great care of you. You will be in my heart and prayers everyday. I will never forget you! I love you Dave! My sympathy goes out to the Lackey family, and if you need anything just let us know.

Dylan Kramer

October 7, 2003

Even though I didn't know you I hope you live a happy eternal life with our heavenly father



I love you Dave M. Lackey

Jason Suther

October 7, 2003

Dave, we'll always remember you forever man. You were one of my favorite cousins and I'll never forget all the fun times we had together. We all love you #2.

Jeremy Love

October 7, 2003

I'll never forget all the days you, Brycen, Charlie, and I spent together hanging out in the old hood as kids. I'll never forget you.

Dana Deters

October 7, 2003

To the Lackey family,

Words cannot express how we feel for you. A loss like this is unimaginable. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you forever. Even though it is hard, take one day at a time. Look around and see that a whole community feels your loss and that everyone is there to support you. If you ever need anything, just ask and we will be there for you.

Jason, Dana (Heinen), and Nathan Deters

Michelle Niehues

October 7, 2003

I never thought you'd be gone so soon. I had so much fun with you this summer I wish I would have known you better sooner. You will never be forgotten. Save a place for me up there cuzz.

Brooke Glissman

October 7, 2003

We will ALWAYS miss you #2! You were an awesome guy and had a great smile.No one will ever forget you. Luv ya Dave!!

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