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for Eugene Markham
Tawnya Zeller
November 14, 2009
Gene was my grandpa. I want to mention that not only did he and grandma give me a special mother in DeLaine, but they also gave me some of my very dearest friends in my aunts and uncles. I cannot imagine life without them. I am so thankful I was in Topeka and was able to visit with gpa on Thursday and Friday. That time will always be speical, just like the thousands of times I have shared with him during the 40 years he was my grandpa. Grandma, I love you dearly, but you already know that since we talk so often. To my aunts and uncles...thank you for the examples that you all have been to the neices and nephews of loving marriages and charity to those that you care for. I am glad to be one of those people.
Dawn Markham Lindner
November 13, 2009
I wish to thank all of you who came to my dad's visitation and funeral. So many friends, family and relatives. The love and support from colleagues has meant so much to me, as well. I am overwhelmed by the compassion shown to my family during this time. I have been sad, of course, but I know that I will again see my dad and others whom have gone before. The funeral was a time of sharing dad's life and it was a good experience to share him with those in attendance. It's been very cathartic to be able to talk about his death and I want to thank those who have allowed me the opportunity to express myself. I know that I have always thought it to be taboo to ask about one's departed loved one, thinking it would make them sad or upset. But, now I know it helped me in handling it. I am glad that Gene Markham was my father and his loyalty to his family and friends was evident throughout his life. If somebody needed help, he would do whatever he could to help them. I know I got the loyalty part of the genes, and I am continually working on the helping part. Thank you again for all of the cards and notes on Facebook, too. God Bless You. I pray you will know Jesus as your personal Savior. Ephesians 2:8, John 3:16, Romans 10:8-10.
christine steinkuehler
November 11, 2009
Dawn,
I am so sorry about the loss of your father. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
What a wonderful man your father must have been. The picture and the obituary are a lovely tribute to him.
Christine Steinkuehler
Arlie & Patti Persell
November 11, 2009
To the Markham Family
Our deepest condolences to you all. Arlie and I are so sorry we can't be with you in person, but know we are with you in spirit. You all have been an insperation to us as a loving and very spiritual family. Your devoted sharing of Agape love in the Emmaus Community has been a gift to all. Your dad is enjoying all the blessings of heaven now. In Christ's love. Arlie and Patti
Duane & Rosie Henson
November 10, 2009
Dear Markham families -
Know that we will hold you in our thoughts and prayers.
With sincere sympathy -
November 10, 2009
Drew and Kathy,
My prayers are with you during this difficult time. May God surround you and your family with His love and peace.
Marta Jackson
Kaye Hines
November 10, 2009
Dear all,
You are each one precious to me. I was accepted by your family from a young age when I moved here from Penna. in 1969. I spent a wonderful Christmas with you and joined in a Romans Bible Study with Verna and several other TBc women. What a joy to be able to call you,'Loved.' Please know that God uses ordinary families to His glory and to show others the way to better know and serve Him. Thank you for your friendship, I will truly miss Gene very much;but I am sure He is rejoicing and made whole!!! In His Love, Kaye & Phil Hines
November 10, 2009
Dawn and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
~Susan Moody
November 10, 2009
Dawn, Peter and Family,
The passing of a loved one is never easy. However knowing that our Savior and Lord, Jesus Christ, awaits us somehow softens the blow. What a wonderful legacy your Father left to his entire family; one of commitment, faith, courage, humor and humility. May each of us learn those virtues from the lives of those that have gone on before us. We are thinking
of you today. Friends and colleagues,
Gary and Linda Kentch
Jim & Judy Austin
November 10, 2009
We offer our heartfelt sympathy to all the Markham families. I can picture the arm of Jesus around Gene saying, "Well done thou good and faithful servant" What wonderful families he leaves to carry on his legacy. May the peace of Christ which passes all understanding abide with you during this time of great loss.
Elizabeth Shepherd
November 10, 2009
My deepest sympathies to all the wonderful Markham family. Dawn, I remember your dad as I last saw him, in the mid-1970s, sitting at his kitchen table, probably tired from a long day's work, his house filled with six children he loved and cared for. What a shining example of love.
Brenda Bickford
November 9, 2009
Dawn, I am so sorry about your family losing a loved one. Please know that our prayers are with you. I too have lost my father and mother and know how hard it is. Keep the memories and joy in your heart always. Brenda and Steve Bickford
Connie Goodnow
November 9, 2009
Dawn and family: Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your father, father-in-law, grandfather (and best friend). Words can only comfort - memories will last forever. God bless you and yours. Topeka Area Association of REALTORS
Becky Burghart
November 9, 2009
Dawn: I just heard about your Dad. I have you in my thoughts and prayers. Just let me know if there is anything I can do.
Linda Uhl
November 9, 2009
Dawn,
I know how hard it is for us to lose our parents. I am glad you were there for his departure on this earth and I know that will help bring you comfort. Glad you have good memories of your father and those will be what gets you through this hard time.
I love you, your friend,
Linda Uhl
Keith Bond
November 9, 2009
Drew and Kathy,
Our sincere condolences in your time of loss. You are in our thoghts and prayers.
Keith Bond and family
November 9, 2009
Danna and family
Sorry to hear of the loss of your father. There is nothing one can say to ease the sorrow. Just remember the good times. I know he will be missed as I still miss my Dad. Will keep you and yours in our thoughts and prayers. He is in a better place and is not suffering.
Our condolences
Gary and Sheila Knoll
November 9, 2009
Danna and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. It's never easy losing a parent, but, thankfully, you were able to be with him when he passed.
-Jackie Shufelberger
Sandy Kirk
November 9, 2009
Danna and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Beth Parks Moore
November 9, 2009
Dear Verna and family, I am so sorry to learn of Gene's homegoing, but am happy to know where he is right now. He like so many of our friends from Temple Baptist in Hutch are probably having a great time of reunion in heaven. I had inquired of you when we were at Don and Ruth Ann's last month and now they sent me notice of your loss. I too have so many great memories of you all-----from all of the Sunday's at church to the fun times of singing and laughing late at night with all of the kiddo's sleeping wherever they fell! We will be praying for comfort for you and the family as you walk thru this difficult time. Love, Beth
Don & Ruth Ann Schwart
November 9, 2009
Gene leaves behind a wonderful family. Our prayers are with each of you as you grieve his loss. May you feel the comfort of our loving Heavenly Father.
Love,
Samuel Gene Markham
November 9, 2009
Eugene Markham was my uncle. My middle name is “Gene”, I was named after him, something I have always been proud of, though we knew him as “Uncle Bud”...
My dad was John Winferd Markham, Jr, and Bud was his little brother Gene. They were the two youngest of six brothers and very close as kids, and they remained close until my dad’s passing in 1972. It was always quite the occasion when they came to Ellsworth, Bud and Verna and the kids, full of love and laughter.
I remember when Uncle Bud lived in Hutchinson Kansas. He worked at the paper in Hutch before moving to Topeka, but what I remember most was that he used to have a cotton candy stand at the Hutchinson State Fair. As a little boy from Ellsworth I was extremely impressed by that. He knew everyone at the State Fair. I thought he was famous or something. And I am sure if I had thought to ask him at the time, he would have smiled his slow smile and said, “Yeah, I’m famous…”, while he looked me in the eye. Uncle Bud was famous for that. His smile, and the way he could look you in the eye and you knew he was looking just at you, and that you were something special.
Uncle Bud married a special lady, who by coincidence was my aunt Verna, and he raised a family of very special kids. Each one special: DeLaine, Drew, Debbie, Dawn, Dane and Danna. His family had a special love for one another and for others that you can’t help but notice. Something I have always admired and will never forget.
I will miss you, Uncle Bud…
With love,
Deb Lindsay
November 9, 2009
Dawn, Peter and family,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your father/grandfather. Trust in your faith and the lord will see you through this very difficult time. May he rest in peace. God Bles all of you! Hugs. Deb Lindsay
pat and tom whitten
November 9, 2009
Delaine, Chuck, Tawny, Matt, and family, please accept our deepest condolences in the homegoing of your dad and grandfather. I wish we lived closer so we could be there with you, but know you are in our hearts during this season of grief. May our Lord grant you peace and comfort in the days ahead. Blessings, sweet "sister", Tom and Pat
Steve and Diane Hitchens
November 8, 2009
Dawn, Peter, Sam, and Family;
We are very sorry to hear about Gene. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of great loss.
November 8, 2009
Verna, please know that you and your family are in our prayers. Sincerely in Christ, Ron and Kathleen Cobb
November 8, 2009
Condolences from my family to yours.
From; a recent pioneer.
John Whittington
November 8, 2009
Dawn and family,
Our thoughts go out to you at this time with the passing of your dad. May God give you much comfort and His peace which passes all understanding.
In His love,
Jim and Teressa Plank
November 8, 2009
Please accept my condolences & know you're in my prayers. May God's love surround you during this time & bring you peace.
~ Detria (Henson) Anderson
November 8, 2009
Dawn and Family,
We are so sorry to see that your father passed away. May God's love and comfort be with you at this time. Dwane Pudge Family
November 8, 2009
Verna,DeLaine,Debbie,Dawn,Drew ,Dane& Danna
.
We thought so much of Gene he was truly unique. I will always remember his wit , smile and love of friends and family. Gene had a real talent for telling a story or joke. He could make Dad laugh like no one else. I can still see him and Dad sitting around telling stories and jokes and laughing uncontrollably. Both your Mom and Dad were great friends to our family. There are so many memories that keep coming back to me now. These are just a few,the fourth of July stand, the camping trip along the Arkansas,the voice in the box , weddings,& anniversaries celebrations. Also all the times Gene and Verna came to visit Mom and Dad for 40 + years. I know that Gene and Dad our seeing each other in heaven right now , how wonderful is that !
Love You Guys
Sally Stewart Wonsetler
Betsy Rohleder
November 8, 2009
Danna and family - my thoughts and prayers are with all of you as we walk much of the same path. My hugs to you all at this difficult time of losing a parent. Keep the memories close.
Dawn Markham Lindner
November 8, 2009
My dad was Eugene (Gene) Arthur Markham. His last day on earth was a good one. I had the privilege, along with my mom, Verna, and my sisters, Debbi and Danna to be with my father as he left this earth. He had been joking with friends and the nurses all day. We wanted him to sleep, but he just couldn't. He ate a good breakfast, but just didn't want anything else the rest of the day. His last day on earth, which we didn't expect it to be, was full of nostalgia. Gene was clearly seeing angels. We couldn't see them, but he was aware of their presence. He was visited for the last time on earth by long-time friends,Bill and Clarelyn Stewart. His nephew, John W. Markham, III. Daughters, Debbi Markham Simon, Dawn Markham Lindner, Danna Markham Petrik. His eldest son, Drew Markham. A grandson, Ted Lindner and his fiance, Heather Cairns. A granddaughter, Tawnya(Klusener)Zeller and her husband Pat Zeller. Gene had a really good student nurse named Angela. He rested very comfortably for a few hours. He then suddenly sat up in bed and said, "Mom! Mom!" and at 8:25 pm died. He was known for his "Silent joke" and always had a story to tell. He liked to tell us about when he was a little boy growing up during the depression and seeing his dad, whom he called "Pop" driving home one day with a red wagon in the back of his truck and he knew that wagon had to be for him for Christmas. He had to pretend he hadn't seen it and he knew he had to act surprised on Christmas morning. My father raised us up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. I am so thankful I was a part of Gene Markham's life. God Bless You all. [email protected]
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