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Paul Gray died in his sleep at his home in West Windsor, NJ on Saturday, September 11, 2010.
Paul Edward Gray was born in Joliet, Illinois in 1940. His father, Donald J. Gray, was a purchasing agent for the Chicago Tribune. He attended the University of Mississippi as an undergraduate and earned his PhD at the University of Virginia in 1964. Paul went on to teach at Princeton University. While there, he published a humorous piece in The New Yorker Magazine. He left Princeton in 1973 and began writing the press section at Time Magazine. He wrote book reviews there for 25 years and many cover stories on a variety of topics. After his retirement in 2001, he contributed to The New Leader and The New York Times. A committed journalist for most of his life, Paul began his career at age 14 as a disk jockey at a radio station in Laurel, Mississippi, and soon graduated to The Laurel Leader-Call where he wrote obituaries and covered drag races.
Paul is survived by his wife Betsy, two children, Margaret Gray of Los Angeles, California; David Gray of Wilmington, North Carolina; and four grandchildren. He is also survived by his mother, Erma Gray of Jackson, Mississippi, brothers Brian Gray of Fair Oaks, California, Bruce Gray of Jackson, Douglas Gray of Columbus, Ohio, and a sister, Martha Lovett of Phoenix, Arizona.

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Published by Clarion Ledger on Sep. 14, 2010.

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Thomas Smith

September 8, 2024

I remember Paul from Time Inc. when I went to the Time Book Review section. I use to collect books to donate to various charities. He was a very good person to talk to - and knew a lot.

September 30, 2010

I worked with Paul until I left Time Inc. I have very fond memories of talking to him. A great man

Thomas Smith

Teresa RN

September 16, 2010

I was so sad when I learned of Mr. Gray's death. We always had some very interesting talks. I hope I was able to ease his discomfort at least a little bit in his last couple of weeks. I looked forward to each of our visits. My prayers are with you Mrs. Gray.

Period Six

September 15, 2010

Mrs. Gray--

You were THE BEST high school teacher I had at South (no debate whatsoever). Please stay strong and stay the golden teacher you have always been =)

I remember you bringing in his articles in class and they were always amazing and a writing goal to work towards. Thank you for your guidance and support and you and your family will be in my prayers.

Earl Schneider

September 14, 2010

I met Paul shortly after his family moved to Laurel in Jr. High School, We were roommates at Ole Miss as Freshman. We were farturnity brothers. Lost track after college only to be reunited by his sister Martha via internet after Katrina. Paul was very interested in the damage to his hometown and the old neighberhood. For his family, who I have never meet,Paul showed his leadership ability at an early age. I feel I have lost a good friend. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family.

Glynne "Sprout" Simpson

September 14, 2010

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September 14, 2010

I was saddened to read of Paul's death. He was a precious person. We were in the same class at Laurel. I had one date with him. We double dated and went to see "Giant" in Hattiesburg one night.

June Rimes Thaggard

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