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2013
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Kimi De Cristoforo
July 15, 2019
Alan, you are so missed by so many people. I can not get over how time flies and yet for some it was like yesterday that you went to the other world. Do know that Kathy is fine although she misses you terribly as with a lot of other people. Kimi
October 23, 2015
Oh my sweet Alan.... I guess it is because fall is here, and I miss snuggling with you in the cooler weather. Or because your birthday is in four days. Or because I looked at a lot of pictures and was flooded with memories of our life together.
I just miss you SO much today....but again, am thankful it was quick and easy for you.
xxoo always.
Your HoneyBuns

To our life together... I could never have asked for more.
December 11, 2013
Gosh, I miss you, Sweetie. More than you will ever know. I am trying to be brave, as I approach the five month "anniversy" tomorrow, and my first Christmas without you.
Thank you for loving me so much all those years...
Kathy
Patrick Poppe
August 11, 2013
Thinking about Alan and about you Kathy.....you never walk alone...he is on your side. Patrick
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Kathryn S
August 8, 2013
I am blessed to have known him, even though not for long. May you find comfort in all the love that surrounds you and in all the wonderful memories you made together. He will be greatly missed.
August 8, 2013
Kathy,
You are lively in my heart and prayers. May you find comfort in the peace which surpasses all understanding.
Sandra Miller
Thanksgiving Community
August 8, 2013
Kathy, You are in my thoughts. Elaine Rawes
Jude Eastman
August 8, 2013
Kathy--I send you love.
lisa hall
August 8, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. Cherish your wonderful memories. You had an incredible life together
Judi Wilkinson
August 5, 2013
Dearest Kathy,
Ever since hearing this news you have daily been in my thoughts and prayers. I know that the spiritual bond that the two of you love birds had with one another cannot be broken. I pray that the Holy Spirit will show you in physical ways that Alan is ever present with you and will always be near. The riches that he invested in your life can not be diminished by his untimely passing. Your many, many friends love you and are here for you.
August 3, 2013
This is one of the most beautiful tributes I have ever read. Kathy, my heart goes out to you and Marek, Tori and the kids, and to Alan's children. I very well remember the twinkle in Alan's eye. He was an incredibly gentle soul, and such an easy person to be around. What a fabulous, complementary couple the two of you made! Wrapping you tightly in love from afar. Wish I could be there to do so in person. Love, Tanya
Noelani Musicaro
July 28, 2013
Alan was the epitome of a gentleman and the most caring and sweetest man, who remains in my heart and prayers. Thank you for you, Alan. Truly it was an honor to have known you.
Marilyn Phelps
July 27, 2013
I worked with Alan at the County in the early 80's in SIPS. He was a great co-worker that I remember fondly. Last time I saw him was at the Jazz Fest with his family having a great time. I am so sorry for you loss.
Suzanne Canell
July 22, 2013
Kathy, Again I am so sorry for the loss of your soul mate. My heart breaks for you and yours...May you have solace in the memories of your years together.
Suzanne Canell
July 22, 2013
Kathy,
I am deeply sorry for your loss of Alan. He was a really nice man and the description of him is beautiful.
Kay
July 21, 2013
We are so sorry for your great loss. May God comfort you Kathy in your grief.
Marie and Rich
July 21, 2013
Kathy,
Once again i am so sorry for your loss, Alan was truly a sweet and gentle man. Rob and I send our condolences and love
Rosalie
sue Chaban
July 21, 2013
Kathy, My heartfelt sympathy for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Kimi de Cristoforo
July 21, 2013
Kathy, I am so sorry for your great loss. Please take some comfort in that many, many people are praying for you and Alan.
Cynthia Macdonald
July 21, 2013
Kathy, I hope that your grief can be replaced with an enduring pride in all the good that Alan accomplished, fueled by your love for him. Fondly, Cynthia
Charlotte Maggio
July 21, 2013
Dear Alan I will always be thankful for the opportunity to meet you, and I'd wished that we might meet again one day. Little did I know there would not be another time. Rest in peace in a better sphere, and may your loved ones and all those you touched, always know that even now, in their grief, that underneath, they are supported and surrounded by the Everlasting Arms of Love.
Dick Doerr
July 21, 2013
Please accept my sincere condolences on Alan's passing away. He was a wonderful, warm and caring person. A great friend. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
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