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Marita Donovan Pinkel

1927 - 2020

Marita Donovan Pinkel obituary, 1927-2020, Memphis, TN

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1927

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2020

Marita Pinkel Obituary

Marita Donovan Pinkel

Marita Donovan Pinkel passed away at the age of 92 on Feb. 29, 2020 in Saratoga, California, surrounded by her family. Wrapped in her beloved St. Jude's blanket, she drew her last breath as she listened to one of her favorite songs, "We Shall Overcome," during the final verse: "We Are Not Afraid."

In the week before, learning that their grandmother was terminal, several of her grandchildren gathered at her bedside one last time for the stories only she could tell, and for singing and laughter. It was a fitting tribute to a woman who had devoted her life to her family and who had instilled a sense of fun and adventure in all her grandchildren.

Born and raised in Buffalo, New York, Marita graduated from Holy Angels Academy and received a degree in home economics from Buffalo State Teachers College. She married a young medical student, Donald Pinkel, in 1949 and taught kindergarten in the Buffalo public schools before staying home to start a family. She and Don lived with their growing family in New York, Massachusetts, Tennessee, and Wisconsin before re-locating to southern California in 1979. She was essential to Dr. Pinkel's success as a pioneer in the treatment of childhood cancer, guiding him through his recovery from polio - after he became disabled in 1954 during his service as an Army doctor - and supporting his efforts to build St. Jude Children's Research Hospital into a world-class institution. The couple divorced in 1981.

A central experience in Marita's life was moving to Memphis in 1961 when Dr. Pinkel became the founding medical director of St Jude's. The hospital was still under construction when the family arrived. Marita was a big support to her husband, hosting dinners and parties for researchers and clinicians from all over the world. Her warmth and outgoing nature put the families of St. Jude recruits at ease in what was a very different culture in an unsettling time.

Living in Memphis in the 1960s and early 70s, Marita worked for civil rights in very pragmatic ways when it was not socially acceptable or popular to do so. Her home was open to all; she was courageous at a time when there was a price for having courage.

After raising her family, Marita became a travel agent in downtown LA. She was also active in the National Alliance for the Mentally Ill (NAMI) and All Saints Episcopal Church in Pasadena. In 2012, the San Gabriel Valley Chapter of NAMI created the Marita Pinkel award in honor of her extraordinary service. In recent years, she volunteered in the inter-generational art project at Holy Family School in South Pasadena.

Marita Donovan Pinkel is survived by her sister, Elizabeth Donovan Giblin of Saddle River, NJ. She leaves her eight surviving children: Rebecca (Frank Amthor) of Birmingham, Alabama; Nancy (Jack Muench) of Los Gatos, California; Mary (Daniel Quinn) of Anchorage, Alaska; Thomas of Anchorage, Alaska; Anne Noelle (Bruce Greene) of Huntsville, Alabama; Dr. Sara Pinkel (Casey Wimsatt) of San Jose, California; John (Susan Shyu) of Los Gatos, California; and Ruth (Ted Jordan) of La Canada, California. Marita's third child, Christopher, passed away one year ago. Marita is also survived by sixteen grandchildren and four great-grandchildren.

Marita is preceded in death by her parents, Thomas and Angela Donovan; her sister, Patricia Donovan Jacobi (Donald); and her brother, Thomas Donovan Jr. (Mimi).

The family wishes to thank Hospice of the Valley and Our Lady of Fatima Villa Assisted Living for the excellent care Marita received in her final days in Saratoga and the Right at Home Caregivers and the Villa Gardens Community for their kindness during her last year in Pasadena.

Services will be held at All Saints Episcopal Church in Pasadena, California at a date to be announced. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Marita Pinkel Fund at St. Jude Children's Research Hospital or the San Gabriel Valley Chapter of the National Alliance for the Mentally Ill (NAMI).

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Published by The Commercial Appeal from Mar. 13 to Mar. 15, 2020.

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Elaine Roberts

April 11, 2021

Donald, Cathryn and Michael, I'm very sorry about Marita! I didn't know her, but she was a beautiful lady.

Maureen McMullen (McCleary)

March 23, 2020

I have wonderful memories of Marita from a 1980 trip cross country with her niece Margaret. We stayed a week with her & had a fantastic time. She gave me a copy of John Steinbeck's "Travels with Charley" which I just re-read in her memory.
RIP Marita.
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Harriet Barksdale Runkle

March 15, 2020

I'm so sorry about your mom Pinkels! She and you were always so welcoming to me as your next-door neighbor! I have so many fond memories of her and y'all! I remember making art with Nancy and Annie, playing the piano with Sarah and playing spades with Tom and Chris in the basement. I had a mad crush on Tom! Eating dinner with y'all was always a trip. Your mom taught me how to make salad and her ever-present smile is forever etched in my mind. I remember your house filled with lots of people all the time and of course all the fun times we had in your pool. I could go on forever. I'll always remember coming to visit you in Milwaukee after you moved awayso heartbreaking. It looks like Annie and I live close to each other! I'm in Sewanee, TN, less than an hour away. I would so love to reconnect with any and all of you. I'm on FB and my email is [email protected]

Cathy Bertanzetti

March 15, 2020

Oh, how to begin about Grand Marita's many touches in my family's lives. One of the most important things she gifted me with was, the stones she placed as a pathway from her daughter Becky's home to mine. These stones have sustained the hundreds of times my feet, our children's feet as well as Becky and her family's to and fro thru for 32 years. And so I say, thank you Grand Marita for this invaluable path.

Next delightful memory was witnessing her singing while baking cookies with her grandchildren as well as a few tag alongs from next door. Best Sugar Cookies Ever!

Thank you notes,Grand Marita was meticulous about those. She was such a thankful woman. Even as she entered her late eighties and early nineties, she would labor to write her thank you notes. And this was not an easy task for her. As recent as November she tried to send me a Thanksgiving card. Somehow it didn't find its way to me, but across the country back to her. Perhaps it was mid December before it arrived finally. I knew who it was from, even though she forgot to sign it, she had addressed it.

Grand Marita, you were grand, and you will never leave my heart and soul for the lessons you taught me about life. How you kept going when it was so hard, again and again. And the best thing to me was that you NEVER gave up on people, you always loved.

And so I wish each of you reading this: the lucky occasion of being behind an ice cream truck, having its doors open and spilling all of its ice cream on the road and roadside. Yes, Grand Marita made the best of it and the family had strawberry? Ice cream for months.

I will miss you dear lady, but I have delightful things and experiences to look forward to with your Grandchildren, your lovely classy daughter Becky as well as everyone else who I am gifted to meet that was blessed by knowing you. I love you and I miss you so much.

Ellen Stinson Rardin

March 14, 2020

I wish I could send you all a letter directly but this little online note must suffice. Your mother was such an influence on me! I was exposed to a new way of looking at the world and I absorbed it more that she may have guessed or giving a thought to those many years ago . I was always listening to Dr and Mrs Pinkel talk about many ideas and topics and was enchanted as an 11 year old! Not to mention that Mrs Pinkel was so much fun and had a wonderful sense of humor! And yes, I have her recipe for Irish soda bread, my mother kept it taped to a kitchen cabinet door for years. We should all strive to follow in your moms footsteps, she was a person of character. May the Lord grant her eternal light and peace

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