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STEPHEN TAPP Obituary

Stephen Kyle Tapp was born April 20, 1949, in Memphis to Kyle Tapp, deceased, and Sylvia Mathews Tapp Caudle. Mr. Tapp attended Idlewild Elementary, Memphis University School, and Bellevue Junior High, before graduating Memphis Central in 1967 with highest academic honors. He was a National Merit Scholar and one of two seniors from Tennessee chosen by the LBJ White House as a Presidential Scholar that year. He was a member of the Harvard Class of 1971, returning to complete his A.B. there in 1981. He graduated from the University of Memphis Cecil C. Humphreys School of Law in 1990, and he was a proud member of the Tennessee Bar Association, until his death of an apparent heart attack, which was discovered on March 12, 2014. The depth and breadth of Steve Tapp’s interests and hobbies was immeasurable—from computer science to gardening, playing blues guitar, writing poetry, reading Eastern philosophy and cooking. He was fascinated with politics and the impact of laws on our society. He held strong opinions on most topics and never feared questioning authority or ridiculing attitudes which he felt threatened the principles upon which the United States was founded. For many years, Steve shared his concerns on his blog, the Daily Docket, often under the pseudonym “Wintermute,” named for an artificial intelligence character in the novel Neuromancer. Steve Tapp is survived by his mother Sylvia (91), stepfather Stanton (Steve) Caudle (93) and his younger sister Denise Tapp, all of Memphis. He will be remembered today, which would have been his 65th birthday, by his immediate family and a few friends, with the planting of a memorial tree.

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Published by The Commercial Appeal on Apr. 20, 2014.

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Tav Falco

April 14, 2024

My memory of Stephen Tapp is a benign, happy, and grateful one. When I first came from Arkansas to live in Memphis seeking how I might develop as an artist, Stephen was among the first of those few with whom I found an affinity. He supported my efforts on an artistic levels sharing ideas and inspiration. On a practical level, he understood the day to day challenges I faced primarily in finding a place to live. He introduced me to everyone whom he thought might be of help. He even had me invited to the parlor of a kind lady - perhaps a relative - living in a well-appointed flat in Annesdale to discuss my situation. He himself was living in an apartment at the time in the Buntyn area where we listened records and talked about the many performers in Memphis during this vibrant period in the aftermath of the turbulent '60s. For me, Stephen Tapp embodied the gentle, yet strongly self-defined spirit of Memphis in its hospitality, interest, and support of those seeking to express what cannot be seen, what cannot be bought, and what cannot be thwarted.
- Tav Falco
bangkok 2024

Casey Fisher

January 22, 2021

He was my knight in shining armor...he taught me so much..sooo much...he came to ne in a very intense dream...years ago...i knew he was gone...i think about him all the time...giant influence in my life..the biggest...i knew when he passed....he was there for me in a very real dream...and he he was in his heaven...and i went there..and he was young and handsome...and he rescued me...no man ever made me feel as loved and valuble as Stephen Tapp...best man besides my dad..ive known or ever will...soo soo important to me

Tav Falco

April 22, 2014

My god, we're really gonna miss you Stephen. I had no idea you were ill. You were one of the first people I met in Memphis, and from the beginning were a supporter up to the last minute of me and of many other artists in memphis who sang the song of truth, beauty, justice, and the fraternity of man. Not only a gentleman of impeccable taste, you were 100% Memphis in the most positive way. Love you, Stephan.

Cynthia Anne Albertson

April 21, 2014

I met him at Harvard He was one of a kind and was a very bright light.

April 21, 2014

My condolences. May you find comfort knowing that God is near you and is a refuge during this difficult time.
Psalms 9:9

April 21, 2014

Sorry for your loss. I went to Snowden with a Mark Tapp, any kin?

Beth Brooks

April 21, 2014

Stephen was one who gave to the larger community in his blog, always funny, smart. I met him in 1970. Proud to say he was my friend.

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