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Daniel O'Leary Obituary

Daniel William O'Leary, 72, unexpectedly passed away at home with his wife, Nancy Kathryn (Lewis) O'Leary on December 14, 2019, the day of their 50th wedding anniversary. Known by most as Dan, he was also Danny to his

childhood friends and family, Mr. O'Leary or Mr. O to his countless students, Coach to his softball players from his many years as KRHS coach, and Poppy to his cherished granddaughters.

Dan and his three brothers, Paul, Gerald and John were raised in Somerville, MA, the children of John and Katherine Agnes (Otto) O'Leary, Sr. Dan's education and career were rooted in his Classics education from Boston

College High School where he was the youngest in his class and studied Latin, Greek and German. Dan received a BA in German Language and Literature from Boston College in 1968 and a Masters in English Education from Boston State College in 1975. In between Dan married Nancy, had two children, was drafted and served in Vietnam and was a salesman for Beatrice Foods. Dan had many objections to the war in Vietnam, not the least of which was that his daughter was five months old when he saw her for the first time.

Having grown up in the city, Dan said he couldn't sleep for a week after moving to rural New Hampshire because it was so quiet and dark. He moved there in 1975 for his first teaching job at an open concept high school with no walls, Kearsarge Regional High School (KRHS), in North Sutton, NH. He went on to teach English and Latin for more than 30 years teaching critical concepts such as "semper ubi sub ubi" and introducing his students to the likes of John Irving, Ernest Hemingway, John Steinbeck and Kurt Vonnegut the last two of which were his favorite authors. His caring, empathetic, supportive and involved approach to education is on display in the hundreds of tributes from former students and colleagues that have flooded onto his social media timeline over the last few days. Although humble and unassuming, Dan would have been touched to see just how many lives he impacted. His kind and giving nature served as a role model for so many of his students including many who went on to become teachers, helping to exponentially grow an already vast legacy.

During the KRHS years, Dan spent his summers on ladders and scaffolding as part of the unofficially named Flying Zucchini Brothers Painting Company (named thus for the fact that they had each fallen from the ladder while

working) with his friends and colleagues Albert and Dan along with many other teachers needing to earn some extra income painting houses. Dan spent many of his nights teaching at New Hampshire College (now Southern New Hampshire University in Manchester, NH) during 20+ years as an adjunct professor of English and Education. Dan was currently teaching Latin at Trinity High School in Manchester, NH. He started there in 2008 after realizing that he could not turn off the desire to teach after leaving KRHS. This was to be his final year at Trinity as he was going to make another attempt to retire.

Dan was devastated by the untimely deaths of his younger brothers Paul and Gerald and was honored to help be a father figure to his nephew Ryan. He was thrilled to see Nancy recently meet her brother Bill, fulfilling a lifetime desire to find out who her biological family was. Dan had so many meaningful friends that he cared about, only a fraction of which are mentioned here. It was hard to go anywhere local with him as so many people would stop to talk, something he always made time for. Dan loved many things such as a good crossword puzzle, podcasts, Baby Gramps, looking up the etymology of words, trivia nights with Peter and countless colleagues, former students and friends who joined on a regular basis, the annual baseball park summer trip with Dave and Ernie, and trips to see Tom and Mary in the little town of Carlanstown, County Meath, Ireland, where he knew more relatives than he knew in the whole USA.

Most of all Dan loved his family and was deeply devoted to his wife, Nancy. He attended countless events and traveled many places with them including everyone's favorite week every summer at Old Orchard Beach. He also

captured most of that on video and in photographs which he edited into family films with amazing soundtracks that will be treasures to enjoy for years to come. Dan is survived by his wife Nancy, his brother John O'Leary, Jr. and Kathleen, his son, Christopher O'Leary and Bree Johnson of Wilmot, NH, his daughter, Bernadette O'Leary Austin and Chuck Austin of Warner, NH, two granddaughters, Ailish and Iona, and various family members including John III, Vanessa, Drew, Jack, Maeve, Erin, Carol, Michael, Debby, Ryan, Bridget, Paige, Tom, Mary, Thomas, Gillian, Emma, Nathan, Bradley, Liz, Ken, Michael, Avril, Patrick, Jack, Eddie, Blayne, Kayden, Bill, Ron, Jim, Angie, Allie, Nathan, Erin, Sean, Jason, Jeni, Hudson, Lucca, Peg, Dick, Deb, the Fields, the Ottos, the McCormacks, and the Hickeys.

Calling hours are Friday, December 27th, from 3-6, at the Chadwick Funeral Home, 235 Main Street, New London, NH. A celebration of his life will be held on January 18th at noon at Colby-Sawyer College's Ware Student Center's

Wheeler Hall. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Daniel W. O'Leary Scholarship Fund, c/o MainStreet Warner, Inc.

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Published by Concord Montior on Dec. 18, 2019.

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Jack

May 22, 2022

I knew Dan during our days at BC High but drifted apart after High School. I lived west of Boston and Dan lived in Somerville but we would occasionally get together on weekends focused on BC High school competitons. Even then Dan had the personality to be an outstanding teacher. I'm glad to see he pursued teaching as a career and that he was well esteemed by his students and peers.

February 13, 2020

Lighting a candle for one my absolute favorite teachers [1975 and 1976]. Besides being a wonderfully knowledgeable, patient, and effective teacher, Mr. O'Leary was also a mentor and muse to me. My heartfelt, soothing thoughts are for you and yours, Nancy.
Respectfully,
Roxanne

DAVID KARRICK

January 13, 2020

So very sorry for the untimely loss of such an accomplished and good man, Daniel O'Leary. He did so much for so many.

Jane Ragazzo

January 10, 2020

Dear Nancy and Family,
Our hearts are breaking. Dan was such a special and wonderful man and teacher.
We are grateful as well as thankful that we worked with him and our children had him not only as a teacher, but also a friend, and mentor.
Our community as well as the world is a better place because he touched so many lives positively.
May you find comfort and peace in your memories. You all remain in our thoughts and prayers!
With Love,
Jane and Rob Ragazzo

Sherry Young

January 2, 2020

The time we spent together in Ireland is all the more precious now. Dan was one of those larger-than-life people who touched so many lives, who made a difference.
Bernadette, I'm hoping you will drop me a line when you are able. I have lost your e-mail address and would like to keep in touch with you and your family. sherryATnewwwDOTcom will do it.

Carlton Fitzgerald

December 30, 2019

Nancy,
I am so sorry to hear about Dan's passing. He was such a good man. Dan touched so many people as a teacher, father, coach, and friend. Together you have given so much to the people of the Kearsarge District. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Carl Fitzgerald

Mel Regnell

December 29, 2019

Oh Nancy...I was so sorry to hear of Dan's passing. In a world with so many challenges and so many not-nice people, it was a gift to trust my son to him - and to you. He was one of the "good guys". Someone so loved is never really "gone". My deepest sympathies for your loss.

Carlyse Evans

December 28, 2019

So sad to hear about the suddne passing of one of my favorite high school teachers. Mr. Oleary was my Latin, Greek and English teach at KRHS. A wonderful teacher, kind, caring and genuinely interested in his students. Through literature he open my eyes to new wolds some full of struggles and others full of adventure. He and Wally Sanders inspried me to study other languagues which lead me to travel the world and lead a life neither I or anyone who knew me in high school would have expected. Thank you for teaching me so much!

Jessica (Johnson) Snider

December 28, 2019

I never had Mr. O' Leary as a teacher at KRHS but many of my friends did. He was the teacher that was always there, no questions asked. He inspired his students to reach their highest potential. My thoughts and prayers are with the O'Leary family. Class of 95

David Tanklefsky

December 24, 2019

A wonderful guy who I had the joy of getting to know through his nephew Ryan, one of my good friends. Sat on the Green Monster with Dan back in 2003 in a game when the Red Sox set a big league record by scoring 10 runs before making an out. He was truly tickled. Glad I got to reconnect with him briefly last summer. A great guy. Deepest condolences to all his friends and family.

David Boughton

December 23, 2019

Dan, you were a lover of language and learning, a scholar in the truest sense, a friend, the kindest of men, and an inspiration to so many people in so many walks of life. Our earthly existence is but a blink of an eye - but your legacy will remain forever in those you touched. Ar dheis Dé go raibh a h-anam dílis. (your faithful soul sits at the right hand of God). Dave Boughton and Sherry Young, Dungarvan, Ireland

Christina M. Tomao

December 23, 2019

Mr. O'Leary was my Latin teacher for only a semester at Trinity High School in 2010, but his kindness, knowledge, and enthusiasm for the subject made a lasting impression on me. He was one of the best teachers I have ever had. My deepest sympathies to his family and friends.

Patricia Schwing

December 22, 2019

Nancy, we were so very sorry to hear about Dan. He was a wonderful teacher, husband and dad. Our prayers are with you and the family. NOEL. Troy, Robin and Scott send their sympathy too. Sincerely, Pat and Erv Schwing May Psalm 23, John 14:1-6 be a comfort to you

Katherine Bruno Lackey

December 21, 2019

Mr. OLeary was one of my favorite teachers. His classes were inspiring and thought-provoking. I have thought of them often over the years with renewed appreciation. Sending my deepest sympathy to the OLeary family.

Jane Hart

December 20, 2019

Such an extraordinary man . . . husband, father, Poppy, brother, teacher and much, much more! So many will carry the ache & grief in your hearts along with you. Its truly moving to read what an outstanding legacy he leaves. We are sending endless love to all of you.~ Aunt Jane & Peter

Pillsbury Free staff Library

December 19, 2019

Our sincere condolences to Nancy, Bernadette, and other family members. Dan was always generous with his time and skills and we will miss his quiet easygoing presence, especially at our Library plays which he filmed so beautifully.

Bob & Linda Jackman & family

December 19, 2019

To the O' Leary family: When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. Sorry for your loss se, Dan was one of a kind.

Mary Jo Battersby

December 19, 2019

Mr. O I will never forget the lessons you have taught. You have touched and improved many lives.

Sarah Wall

December 18, 2019

My sincere and deepest condolences to Dans family and friends. He was one of my favorite teachers and was a big influence both in high school and later as a mentor while I was in college. KRHS class of 94.

Deb Lippincott

December 18, 2019

Dan, your wisdom, knowledge and love for teaching was what you strived for every student. You are a hard act to follow in every classroom. Thank you for being part of my boys life.

Jen Saladyga/Drusendahl

December 18, 2019

Mr O. was my last English teacher in high school. I moved to KRHS my senior year and was lucky enough to have him before I graduated. I was so sad to hear of his passing and have so many fond memories. So much sympathy for your loss.

Robeta Hall/Nunn

December 18, 2019

Mr. O' Leary I never had any of your classes BUT you were always kind smiling at us as our classes were changing to the next.
I am so sorry for your family you were a good human being rest in peace.

Lorraine & George Edmunds

December 18, 2019

Our condolences to Nancy and family on a great loss. Dan was an inspiration to my children, where they gained a true love for literature, especially Steinbeck and Hemmingway. You are in our prayers.

Stephanie Wheeler

December 18, 2019

My sincere sympathy for your loss. Dan was my teacher, as he was a teacher to so many. He was kind, always even-keeled and helpful in the classroom. He was the calm in any storm. I hold fond memories of Dan. May he rest in peace.

Janet Rucker

December 18, 2019

I am so heartbroken as I think about Dan, Nancy and the entire O'leary family. Dan and Nancy were the first people to make me feel welcome when I can to KRHS as a para so many years ago. Their ability to foster that sense of comfort and goodness is what I carry with me always. Soar with all the Angels Dan!

Heather Astle

December 18, 2019

Dan was a delightful icon at KRHS and I always loved chatting with him about my son Joey at many parent-teacher conferences. We would frequently get off-Latin-topic and he would elaborate a bit about my son as a person, or sometimes about other unrelated topics. More recently, I have had the honor of getting to know his family a bit more, working with his amazing daughter, Bernadette. My heartfelt condolences to the entire family. By all counts, Dan was a legend, and I know that he was adored and will be missed by many, many people.

Lisa Violette

December 18, 2019

Mr O'Leary made such an impression on me in high school and as a grown adult I had the honor of being his friend. He was so kind, compassionate, thoughtful, helpful and will be sorely missed. Nancy and Bernadette, my heart goes out to all of you and your families I'm so sorry for your loss.

Kate Leonas

December 18, 2019

My heart aches. It's amazing to think about how many lives he touched in a significant way; he was so much to so many: a second father to me. I will always remember him as a great listener and for his ability to unexpectedly make me laugh uncontrollably. Hugs.

Lorraine Butler

December 18, 2019

I don't know you I'm so sorry to hear about your husband passing he is now resting in peace may god be with you and your family you are all in my prays always remember the good times you had with him

Brian Perry

December 17, 2019

Dan was an amazing teacher and a good friend. I enjoyed his posts on Facebook, where his love of teaching was only surpassed by the love for his family. Brian Perry KRHS 1978

Laurie Mathison

December 17, 2019

My deepest sympathies to your family! He was a mentor and friend to my daughter Amber and will be dearly missed. My prayers are with your family.

Carolyn Valiquet

December 17, 2019

If Webster had invented a dictionary of phrases rather than words..an the phrase define A Good Man was listed..the citation would read..see Dan OLeary. A Good Man..A Great Teacher..An example for all his students to aspire to become. I ran into him two weeks ago at the grocery store. He said Hi Carolyn and I smiled and said how are you Mr. OLeary? He said Carolyn its been almost 40 years since you were my student..you can call me Dan. I looked him in the eye and said No Sir..not going to happen ever..I have too much respect for you to ever presume that I could or would call you by your first name. Rest easy Sir..you taught so many of us about the importance of education and giving of oneself for the betterment of others and our community. I for one will miss you greatly..God Bless You

December 17, 2019

Mr. OLeary was a fabulous teacher and such a nice man my thoughts are with him and his family at this tragic time. May his contributions to our community be forever remembered and cherished

Eric Pascoal

December 17, 2019

You will be extremely missed, Dan. Thank you for all of your insight on teaching. You make me want to be better at what I do so I may reach even a quarter of your legacy. Thank you. Until we meet again.

Daniel Kocsis

December 17, 2019

Hey Pal, my best friend, I know you're in heaven looking down on Albert and me. Forty years of amazing friendship! You were the brightest person I ever knew; quick witted, well read, a true scholar. Would not have been able to instruct Latin at St. Joe's if it hadn't been for you. We shared so much together. The Zucchini Brothers have so many memories. Hard work, lots of laughs and great whiffle ball games. One of the most important things in life is the friendships we make. Thank you for being like a brother. Alter ipse amicus!

Dan

Peggy Lorden

December 17, 2019

Mr. O'Leary, my message to you where you now dwell: you are one of my favorite teachers and always will be! You inspired me in the two classes I had with you so many years ago. Steinbeck and Hemingway was most memorable. You brought depth into my world and made it a brighter place. Always so kind and positive. I think you were A LOT of people's favorite teacher. Thank you so much for all your hard work, consistency, your love of literature, and passing that on to me. I look forward to seeing you and your smile again one day.

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