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David Thibodeau Obituary

David Thibodeau

Concord, NH — David Thibodeau, age 75, of Eastside Drive, passed away on August 17, 2021 at Concord Hospital Laconia.

He was born in East Providence, RI the son of the late Lucien and Virginia (Bishop) Thibodeau. He was a Vietnam Veteran served in the US Navy as Seabee from 1966 to 1967.

David moved from Rhode Island to NH at the age of 21, although still loved spending his summers in Rhode Island with his family. He was a Lieutenant for the Concord Police Department for many years, the Head of the SWAT team and head of the Juvenile Program. After his retirement from the Police Department, he worked as Chief Bailiff at the NH Supreme Court.

He was a Mason, a member of the Shriners, He was a High Master Rifleman and belonged to the NRA and shot competitively competing at Camp Perry in Ohio. He was an avid, hunter, boatsman and motorcycle enthusiast.

David had a fierce love for his family and he strived to make sure his daughters and grandchildren were cared for, because thats the kind of man he was.

In addition to his parents he was predeceased by his daughter, Michelle Elizabeth Dashnaw, his brother, Paul L. Thibodeau, and one great granddaughter.

He is survived by his 3 daughters, Ann M. Anderson of Tiverton, RI, Amy Beth Thibodeau of Boscawen, and Aurelle Thibodeau of San Diego, CA; grandchildren, Michael Planchet, Kaitlyn Anderson, Devin and Brittany Grant, Hannah, and Kalli Sargent, Elizabeth Dupont and Riley and Caleb Smith; and 4 great grandchildren.

Private Services will be held at the NH Veterans Cemetery in Boscawen at the convenience for the family.

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Published by Concord Monitor on Aug. 25, 2021.

Memories and Condolences
for David Thibodeau

21 Entries

Brian Chase

August 19, 2024

Aww, Dave. I will never forget you, brother.

Donald Fontaine

February 16, 2023

I met Dave Back in the early 1990s. Shooting high power Rifle. Always helpful to newbies. we shot together a many Ranges around new england, and Camp Perry Ohio. Enjoyed talking to him about shooting. he loved to shoot. Always saw him at local Gun shows working at the Entrance. always had a smile and a big hello. Rest Well Dave.

Brian Chase

August 19, 2022

It remains so hard to believe that Dave is no longer with us. I will always remember the great times at CPD!

Art Silva

September 11, 2021

David was a one of a kind man. His heart and home were open to anyone who he met. His friendship and guidance meant the world to me and he influenced me more than he will ever know. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

David C. Collins

September 7, 2021

My condolences to David´s family. I knew David for many years. He used to work details and traffic while I worked for New England Telephone Co. His sense of humor was great. We became good friends. I worked a short time under his supervision at the Court House. He will definitely be missed by all that knew him. May He Rest In Peace.
David C. Collins

Mike Philbrick

August 29, 2021

My condolences to Dave's Family. I knew Dave for a long time and he was one of the great guys. He had a laugh that is a good memory for anyone who knew him. Rest In Peace Dave.

Brian Murphy

August 28, 2021

I am saddened to learn of Dave's passing. We were sworn in to CPD together in 1967. Though I was older, both being Navy vets, we were fast friends and spent time together off the job. Dave was a mischievous man with a great sense of humor, and one had to be alert to what he was up to next. Though I moved on from CPD, we remained friends and continued to prank one another. Dave served his country and his community honorably. He was a good Cop. I will keep Dave and his family in my prayers. "Sailor, Rest Your Oar...."

kelly geary

August 28, 2021

so sorry for your loss. lots of memories

Glenn Northrup

August 27, 2021

I loved hearing stories about Dave. Before I met him I was told he used to wear a red hunting jacket on midnights as a patrolman, that he was the bomb guy for CPD, and he wore several knives hidden on his uniform. I was a bit wary of him. When I finally met him I found him to be warm, friendly, with a great sense of humor. He will be missed. I'm not sure of how many of the stories are true, but I hope they were. RIP.

john a. dyer

August 26, 2021

I feel very lucky to have visited with Dave several times at the nursing home. My brother in law was there and my wife noticed his name on one of the rooms. We both were surprised and had praise for one another. Dave and I worked at the court for a lot of years and had a great friendship during that time. He would invite me to his house for supper and I invited him. For a while we'd find a good restaurant and buffets. He said we were the Buffet Kings, :) Time spent with Dave never lasted long enough. Goodnight David, your time on earth was fun and full.
John*

Jim Peale

August 26, 2021

First met Dave when we rented an apartment from him during law school. Always a cordial, professional guy with a riotous sense of humor bubbling close to the surface. He'll be missed by many.

Carl Lakowicz

August 26, 2021

Dave was my first supervisor at CPD back in 1980. Memories I still carry.
A good man. My condolences for your loss.

Candace Vanasse

August 26, 2021

I will never forget the man for his kindness and generosity to my family. I met David when I was 11 years old. He was still in High School where he dated, and after serving in Vietnam, married my sister. While they moved to NH, I, my parents, and my younger brother, moved to Virginia. When my younger brother had problems and could no longer stay in Virginia, David offered to take him in to live with his family. David did his best to guide my little brother and brought him hunting and fishing and taught him many things. When my parents divorced, David also invited me and my mother to live with him. Although he and my sister had a rather small apartment, and three children of their own, he opened his house to us without ever asking for anything in return. I share this story to attest to the type of man David was. I have always appreciated his sacrifice and will always be grateful. Thank you David. You will be missed. Rest In Peace. You deserve it. I would also like to offer my deepest sympathy to his family.

Candace Vanasse

August 25, 2021

I first met David when I was 11 years old. He was still in High School and dated, then married my sister. There was nothing David wouldn´t do for family. After serving in Vietnam he and my sister moved to NH, while my I, my parents, and younger brother moved to Virginia. When my younger brother had problems and couldn´t stay in Virginia, David took him in and did his best to guide him. When my parents divorced, he also invited my mom and I to live with them. Although he and my sister had a small apartment and three children of their own, he made room for three extra in laws. I have always appreciated that gesture and will always remember him for his selflessness during my family´s time of need. Thank you David! You will be missed. Rest In Peace. You deserve it.

Kevin Partington

August 25, 2021

It was an honor to serve under Dave and learn so much from him at CPD. My sympathies go out to his family.

Richard D Holden

August 25, 2021

Sorry to read about the passing of David. I first met David when he had the midnight to 8 shift in Penacook. As an 18 year old I got to respect David and remember those Friday and Sat nights where he would find the time to talk with us. Still remember asking if I wanted to hop in the cruiser and make his rounds
I will never forget that summer

Craig Saltmarsh

August 25, 2021

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. During tough times, it is sometimes laughter or a smile that help us get through. Dave was one of those people that was larger than life...both in his actions and his laughter. I still share stories of some of his "antics" that I will always carry with me as some of the funniest and best times of my life.
I worked with Dave for 6 years in Concord and then I moved to Wyoming for a few years. One night in 1992, out of the blue, my phone rang around 11:30 pm...and when I answered Dave was on the other end of the line with the statement " where do you live, I am traveling through, and I need a bed!" I was like "who is this?" and then he laughed!! "It's Thibodeau!!"
I drove across town and brought him back to the house where we stayed up all night and laughed and laughed until he left for Montana several hours later.
That was typical Dave, and a fond memory I will always cherish.
Thank you Dave...Happy Trails and RIP. Again, my thoughts to the family during this difficult time.

Craig Montgomery

August 25, 2021

Amy,
May I offer my sincere condolences to you and your family for the terrible loss you must endure. May all your fabulous memories sustain you for the years ahead. Both our dads we're friends/ Neighbors during their time @ C.P.D. no doubt they're creating their own Mischief again! He was always very kind to me

Ralph Lewis

August 25, 2021

I worked with Dave for many years at CPD. He was a good man and will be missed. R.I.P. Brother

Bob Marchand

August 25, 2021

I first met Dave in 1976 at Concord Police Department. Our careers mirrored one another. We did all the same things and had the same interests. My thoughts and best wishes go to his family.

Brian Chase

August 24, 2021

My sincerest condolences to Dave´s family. I will never forget his wit and friendliness - it was so much fun to be around him.

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