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James Chase Shockley

2018 - 2020

James Chase Shockley obituary, 2018-2020, Wesley Chapel, NH

BORN

2018

DIED

2020

James Shockley Obituary

James Chase Shockley (16 months), affectionately known as baby James by his family, passed away suddenly at his home in Wesley Chapel, Florida on March 19, 2020.

James was born on November 20, 2018 in Concord, New Hampshire. He is survived by his parents, Abby and Charles Shockley; two loving brothers, Graham and William Shockley; grandparents, Cindi (Nunn) Shockley, Charles Shockley and Doreen Shockley; great grandmother, Ramah Nunn; uncle, Clint Shockley; and countless friends, family and strangers who have been blessed with his gummy smiles, infectious laughter and forehead kisses.

He is predeceased by his maternal grandparents, Leo Bourgeois and Mary (Becky) Gallagher, who are undoubtedly gracious for their chance to shower him with love.

Nothing prepares a family for a tragedy like this, but baby James left each and every person he knew with a lifetime of joyful memories in his brief time on earth.

His passing came at a time of so much uncertainty and fear in our world yet also served as a poignant reminder of what truly matters in life. Our family was home practicing social distancing together in his last days, instead of racing off to work and school. His final day was filled with strawberries, family dance parties, playtime in the sunshine, and his first real steps.

Although he was on this earth briefly, we hope his legacy will live on in every person that is touched by this obituary. As parents, it is easy to forget how precious every moment with our children is. We challenge you to say yes more. Emails can wait. Laundry can wait. The dishes will be there in 5 minutes.

Read an extra book, let them into your bed, sing another song. Do all that you can so they rest their heads each night feeling like the most important person in the world. They are.

A memorial will be held for baby James at a later date, when restrictions on large gatherings have been lifted.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Concord Montior on Mar. 29, 2020.

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Ashley Wilder

April 10, 2020

Beautifully written memorial, Abby. Thinking about you, Charles and your boys and wishing you all nothing but love.

Liliana

April 9, 2020

A child is always with us. First in their lifetime, then forever in our memory! My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

John Garvey

April 3, 2020

I am so very sorry. Thanks for sharing your love for him and others through this moving tribute. You are in my heart. John Garvey

Bill & Marianne Plenge

April 2, 2020

Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family as you suffer and endure this tragic loss of your precious little boy. May God grant you His peace knowing our heavenly Father is too good to be unkind and too wise to make any mistakes. Our thoughts are with you.

Noelle Pelillo

April 1, 2020

I don't know you, but I want to extend my sympathies on the passing of your baby son. God bless you in your time of grief. I'm so sorry.

March 30, 2020

Darr and Abby-

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Baby James was a special boy! Our hearts are breaking for you! May you always remember all the special moments that you shared.

Daryl and Peggy Promey

March 30, 2020

I am so sorry the hear of James' passing. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you during this terrible time. Terry Knowles

Audrey Blodgett

March 30, 2020

Charles and Abby, I was so sorry to hear of James' passing. Please know you and your family are in our prayers here in New Hampshire.

March 29, 2020

Don't know your family but as a father of 2 with a 3rd a month away your message said what I try to feel inside with every rushed moment. A deep breath and a hug will last a lifetime to a little one. Be strong XOXO

Kelley Cap

March 29, 2020

Abby and Charles, keep on shining James light for all the world to see. Lifting you all up in prayer!

Debbie Estes

March 29, 2020

My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.

Katy + Peter Thomes

March 29, 2020

Abby and family,
Our deepest sympathies. We are so sorry for your loss.

Karen Jennings

March 29, 2020

Beautifully written, encapsulates the wonderful life of baby James- he touched everyone's heart and will serve to remind us that life is too short to put off the important things like family. In our hearts forever.

March 29, 2020

Sending so much love to you Darr, and your family.
Love, Cathy and Andy

Denise Sherburne

March 29, 2020

Abby, our family lifts your family up in prayer at this difficult time in which there are no words.

Theresa Finnemore

March 29, 2020

We are very heavy heartened by your loss. Wishing you the strength to remember the blessed times.

Diane Jousset

March 29, 2020

A beautiful boy so well loved. My deepest sympathies.

March 29, 2020

Charles and family. I am so very sorry for the tragic loss of your son James. My prayers and thoughts are with you all. Chris Gauntt.

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