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Patrick Cheney Obituary

Patrick Cheney

Concord, NH - Patrick Cheney, a caring son, brother, uncle, nephew and friend, died suddenly and unexpectedly on July 22, 2024, due to a heart attack. He was 41.

Born September 11, 1982, in Peterborough, NH, Patrick grew up in Bow and attended the Bow schools. As a young man, he lived in Antrim before finally settling in Concord.

Patrick was always active and loved the outdoors. In his youth, he excelled at hockey and soccer. He was a devoted fan of the Boston Bruins. His love of the outdoors also lead him to snowmobiling, fishing and boating. With his grandfather and cousins Kevin and Chris he came to know the North Country trails as well as those in his own backyard of Bow. In summer Patrick spent at much time as possible at his other grandfather's cottage on Lake Winnipesaukee. With his brother he became a certified deep water scuba diver.

Patrick worked outdoors most of his adult life. He was multi-talented learning concrete work from his cousin Kevin and tiling and stonework from his cousin Gordon. Patrick's favorite medium, however, was wood, and he took great satisfaction in building structures of all types. In his spare time he did landscaping and kept a small vegetable garden with his mother Sherri. Patrick lived a simple life spending his downtime with his family and friends, collaborating frequently with his dad and brother on home renovation projects, and being the good uncle to his niece Clara and his best friend's daughter Jade. He was known for his generous spirit and could often be found helping family, friends, and neighbors, whether it was clearing off a snowy vehicle, renovating a room, or moving furniture.

He had a creative spirit. Patrick found a passion for photography, especially for capturing beautiful sunsets, skylines, and the evening twilight. Under the tutelage of his natural mother and housemate Kelly he even became a really good cook – a talent truly hidden during his youth. With Kelly, Patrick raised and trained his beautiful Siberian Husky, Zeus. For 16 years Zeus was the center of his universe and his best pal. He took great pleasure and found real peace in his many walks with Kelly and Zeus along the Merrimack River and picnics by the shore of Nubanusit Lake.

Patrick was much loved by his friends and family, and the world was a better place with him amongst us. He will be dearly missed by all who knew him.

Patrick is survived by his parents, Bob and Sherri (Reed) Cheney of Bow, his natural mother, Kelly McCarty of Concord, his brother Sean, sister-in-law Megan, and niece Clara of Concord, and many other aunts, uncles, cousins and friends in New Hampshire and Connecticut.

He was predeceased by his grandparents, Robert and Marie Cheney, and Harry and Wanda Reed, and his beloved dog Zeus.

A private graveside service will be held for the family. There will be no calling hours.

In lieu of flowers please consider a contribution in Patrick's memory to the Concord SPCA, NAMI-New Hampshire, or your favorite charitable organization.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Concord Monitor on Jul. 29, 2024.

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Kristen R Stenberg

August 9, 2024

kelly, i am so sorry to read this! what a tragic loss. my heart aches for you .
kris hennessy

The Hill family

August 4, 2024

Bob and Sherrie,

Jerri and I are so saddened to hear the news of the loss of your son, Patrick. Our heartfelt condolences go out to you and you family.

Bob and Jerri Hill

Sandi

August 2, 2024

Bob and Sherri,
My sincerest condolences. I´m so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful life Patrick enjoyed with you and your family. I pray you hold onto memories.
Sandi (aunt to Kelly)

Cathy Parkerson Lord

August 2, 2024

Bob and Sherri, I am so saddened by this news. What a terrible loss. I didn´t know Patrick, but he sounds like a beautiful human being. May your sorrow and tears turn to laughter and great memories soon. Know that I will be holding you close in my thoughts and prayers. Cathy Lord

Bonnie

July 30, 2024

Bobby and Sherri, we are so sorry to lose a special member of our extended family. Patrick was a special gift to the whole family and such a good person and kind to everyone. We know the heavens have opened their gates and the "gang" is there to greet him with open arms. They now have 2 special "angels" that left us way too soon. You gave him a wonderful life and made many special memories. He lived life as he chose. A lucky guy with many who loved and supported him. Rest assured he is in good hands. We love you and are here for you. Sincerely your family.

David Caswell

July 30, 2024

I am sorry for the loss of your son, brother, cousin and nephew. My sincere condolences during this trying time for the entire family.

Jack Griffin

July 30, 2024

Bob & Sherri - We are so saddened by reading about the loss of Patrick. Sounds like he had wonderful spirit and creativity. Love to you and all your family.
Jack & Joan Griffin

Darryl & Mary Peasley

July 29, 2024

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Jeff Smith

July 29, 2024

Bob and Sherri - My heart goes out to you and your family in this time of loss. May your memories last forever.

Jeff Smith

Janet (Soden) and Steve Sprague

July 29, 2024

Bob and Sherri- So sorry to hear of the sudden loss of your son. Gone way too soon. He sounds like he was a great young man. May the memories you shared with him help you through this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Duncan Matthews

July 29, 2024

Bob and Sherri so sorry to
hear of your loss.
I only hope that the both of you can find the strength to carry on through this awful time.
Please know that Mary and I are thinking of you.
Duncan and Mary Matthews

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