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Alison E. Steferak

1993 - 2017

Alison E. Steferak obituary, 1993-2017, Fairfield, CT

BORN

1993

DIED

2017

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Alison Steferak Obituary

Alison E. Steferak
Alison E. Steferak, age 24, of Fairfield, passed away suddenly Saturday, December 16, 2017 in Memphis, TN. Born in Bridgeport, Alison had been a lifelong Fairfield resident. She graduated from the Academy of Our Lady of Mercy, Lauralton Hall and received her B.A. Degree in Political Science from Stonehill College. While in college Alison studied abroad in Ireland, Russia and Armenia, and was fluent in French and was conversational in Russian. Alison was currently teaching 9th grade Biology at MLK College Prep High School for Teach for America in Memphis, and also had worked as an intern at CivilNet T.V. in Armenia. Alison loved nature and was dedicated to many social causes as well as the environment. She will be sadly missed by her parents, Lisa Manente Fabrizi of Fairfield and Thomas Steferak and his wife Bonnie of Palm Springs, CA; her adoring younger sister, Gabriella Fabrizi of Fairfield; her devoted grandmother, Elizabeth Manente Power of Fairfield; her special uncle, Jeff Manente and his wife Nicole of Fairfield; her dear cousin, Michael Manente of Fairfield, and many more aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. She was predeceased by her grandfather, Robert E. Power. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Wednesday, December 27, 2017 at 10:00 a.m. at Holy Family Church, 700 Old Stratfield Road, Fairfield. Interment will follow in Lawncroft Cemetery. Family and friends may call Tuesday from 4-8 p.m. in the Spear-Miller Funeral Home, 39 South Benson Road, Fairfield. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to MLK College Prep High School, 1530 Dellwood Avenue, Memphis, TN 38127, or Teach for America Tennessee, 1350 Concourse Avenue, Suite 437, Memphis, TN 38104. For information or to offer an online condolence, please visit www.SpearMillerFuneralHome.com.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Dec. 21 to Dec. 24, 2017.

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Packy & Cathy Paules

December 15, 2020

There is nothing I or anyone can say to take away the emotional pain of losing a loved one. I pray you your tears give away and leave only beautiful memories of Alison.

January 10, 2018

Tom and Bonnie, there are no words to express how sorry we are for the loss of your daughter Alison. She accomplished so very much with your guidance and love. You both gave her opportunities to grow into such a beautiful girl. She will be sorely missed by our family. Our deepest sympathy. Linda and Vinnie Lebonitte

Chadwick Hunter

January 2, 2018

To Lisa and Gabriella:

Please remember that your tears will dry faster in the sun, so stay in the light that Alison left behind for you. My thoughts and heart are with you in these dark hours. God bless.

Kate Sicona

January 1, 2018

Uncle Tom and Aunt Bonnie, I am so sorry for your loss. You both were such amazing parents to such a beautiful, intelligent, one of a kind young woman. Such a tragic loss to our family. She will be greatly missed by many.

Audrey Lavalle

December 31, 2017

I am so sorry for all your loss, especially Alison, I wish I could of helped you more Alison... I want to share this with all affected.. Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in the mornings hush. I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. So not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there, I did not die.>>>> Love to All, Audrey, by Elizabeth Frye

deedee& bob sicona

December 30, 2017

Tom & Bonnie, just wanted to tell you that although we weren't around a lot, you two were a big part of the person that she became. you gave her a lot of opportunities to succeed her achievements through your love and guidance. she accomplished a lot in her short time here. you two were great parents, and i'm sure she appreciated that fact.

BRIDIE MURRAY

December 27, 2017

God bless Alison in your final journey today. You were a beautiful spirit in the life of others and we thank you for the gift of your company for too few years. Much love to all the hurting family members you leave behind

Joseph & Carol Pluchino

December 27, 2017

Words cannot express our sorrow at hearing of your loss. Our prayers go out to you, Tom and Bonnie as well as your family during this difficult time. May God bless and strengthen you now more than ever. Please accept our deepest sympathy.

Angela Szantyr

December 27, 2017

Lisa, Elizabeth, Jeff and family,
My sorrow for your pain in the loss of beautiful, intelligent, fun-loving Alison cannot be fully captured by words. I grieve with you, dear friends.

Maureen Hough-Mocker

December 26, 2017

Elizabeth, My heart aches for you and your family. As you know, I had the pleasure to have Alison as a student many years ago. I enjoyed hearing about all of Allison's accomplishments through the years, She will be missed. A much loved angel will be watching over her precious grandmother and family. I will keep you all in my prayers.

Theresa Grencik

December 26, 2017

My deepest condolences to all who loved Alison -- her family, her friends, her students.

Joan Greenwood

December 26, 2017

Dear Elizabeth,
My sincere condolences to you on the passing of your granddaughter, Alison. It is a great loss for your family. I hope the condolences of your friends will bring you some comfort.
Peace & Hugs,
Joan Greenwood

Danielle Stempert

December 26, 2017

Growing up with you in our circle made for so many memories and sooo many laughs throughout the years. You were one of my best friends closest friend and i will remember you always. The ever so original voice, the way you laughed and that precious smile. I'm so sorry your precious life has been ended so soon. You will truly never be forgotten, and your smile will forever be in my mind. Rest in paradise beautiful girl

December 26, 2017

Dear Tom & Bonnie
Lisa & Family
All of our love and prayers are with you. We are heartbroken for you.
With Our Deepest Sympathy
Lori & Michael Brunetto

Keith Haydon

December 26, 2017

Please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of Alison. My thoughts and prayers are with Alison and her family.

Mary M Palmer

December 24, 2017

How can anyone comprehend the loss of a child? Impossible to do. My heart aches for you, Lisa.

December 24, 2017

Lisa, Elizabeth and family,
Ellen and I are sorry for your devastating loss. Reading the accomplishments of Alison and her sudden demise makes no sense. Our sincere condolences. David Cerreta

Donna Spigarolo

December 24, 2017

Dear Elizabeth, Lisa and family,
The loss of Alison is beyond words. I am deeply sorry for your loss. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am sorry not to see you in person as I am in TN for the week. Please know I surround your family with my love and prayers.
Donna Spigarolo

Milton Jacoby

December 24, 2017

So sorry to hear about Alison. Please accept my sincere condolences.

Catherine

December 23, 2017

Dear Family and Friends of Alison,
Please accept condolences from your wider circle of family and friends as you mark the passing of your lovely Alison.

These are the harder parts of our life journey to try to make sense of but we are all here for one another through thick and thin.

Each person in someone's life, especially close family and friends, keeps the love and connection of a loved one glowing like an ember of inspiration as the future unfolds.

The mysteries of life and 'the other side' are being honored and explored around the world.

Taking each day with grace is one way to allow for wisdom and peace to find its way into the mysteries.

We will remember Alison and all of you in a special way as this Christmas season arrives. Much peace and love, Catherine and family

Vinny Carbone

December 23, 2017

Tommy, I am so sorry to hear about the sudden loss of your daughter Alison. Praying for you and the rest of your family.

Gail M. Marton

December 23, 2017

My heart aches for you, Elizabeth...I am so very sorry. I never met your grand, but reading what I did made me feel like she made a difference.
She was obviously very special. Sending you and those with you lots of healing vibes.

Pat McDonnell

December 23, 2017

Every grandchild is special and Alison had wonderful talents.All my prayers are with you and your family.

Catrece Allen

December 23, 2017

Ms.steferak me and you were so Close as teacher and student,we used to always hang out after school together,it'll be just me and you.Sometimes will talk about what we will do a couple years from now,you told me that you were gonna teach a couple years and then you wanted to become a professor.You wanted me to go to your college,you even wanted to write a recommadaton for me to your college.You always told me "if you keep doing what you are doing your life is gonna be great,You gonna be someone".You believed in me you wanted me to become something great.You were there for me all the time when I needed help with some work.I remember one time after school,we were inside your classroom,you were smiling at your phone,I said "what are you smiling at ms.steferak",you sayed "am smiling at how many likes I got on my picture",you were so happy that day when you hit all those on just a selfie.I have so many other memories of me and you,but we were so Close ms.steferak.I knew you so well.Ms.steferak I see how you can love and care for someone in just a short amount of time. Ms.steferak i want be able to attend your funeral,even though i wanted to,because it's in Connecticut but I will be at anything else they decide to have in memphis.And ms.steferak I always thought I would meet your family someday with you,I dont know if I ever will now.Man it hurts a lot that you want be at school anymore,I dont know what am gonna do without you there now.I don't think you knew this but you are the only teacher I could connect with.Rest well and in peace.I will always miss and remember you.

Linda Hartzer

December 23, 2017

Elizabeth, I am so saddened by the tragic loss of your grand daughter. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mark Rudolph

December 23, 2017

Crushed by this news..losing such a brilliant, cool lady. I'm away but wish the family to feel my love and support..be strong all who lost this star- Elizabeth, Gabby, Mom..

James Crone

December 22, 2017

What is there to say about Alie, even the kindest words would not do. She was such a bright light in a dark world. Her and I would talk for hours. She always knew she could come to me with her problems and I to her. I will certainly miss our chats and be very fond of all the good times we spent together. Heaven gained a special angel. Rest in heavenly peace. <3

Paula Sweeley

December 22, 2017

I can't even begin to imagine the extent of grief which Alison's family and friends are experiencing. Although I never knew her, I can tell just from reading about her and seeing the comments from former students, that she was an extraordinary young woman, very gifted and very giving. My heart goes out to all of you and especially to her grandmother, my friend, Elizabeth Power.

James Cameron

December 22, 2017

Can't believe this tragic news. We only met once in Tallinn and were hoping to meet again, I'm so said we never got the chance. For the short time I got to know you I knew you were special. Rest in peace Alison x

Packy Paules

December 22, 2017

I can not fathom losing someone so young. You have my deepest sympathy and prayers to ease your pain in your time of need.

The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home

December 23, 2017

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.

Tahlyah Small

December 22, 2017

. MS STEFERAK I CANT BELIEVE THIS ! IMMA MISS YOU ! && I JJST WANTED TO SEE YOUR FACE ONE LAST TIME ! , THEN YOU FUNERAL IS SO FAR AWAY IDK HOW IMMA BE AVLE TO MAKE IT WITHOUT SEEING YOUR FACE AGAIN ! , BUT IMMA MAKE IT IN SCHOOL && EVERYWHERE ELSE FOR YOU ! , YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE A PLACE IN MY HEART ! && YOU WILL ALWAYS && FOREVER LIVE THROUGH ME ! I LOVE YOU MS.STEFERAK && IMMA MAKE IT FOR YOU I PROMISE PLEASE WATCH OVER ME && MAKE SURE IM DOING EVERYTHING RIGHT ! RIP.SWEETLADY

Tahlyah Small

December 22, 2017

. Ms Steferak I Never Thought That You Would Leave So Soon! You Were AN Angle To Me ! && I Honestly Dont Know How To Manage Know That You Aren't Coming Back ! && I Just Wanna Thank You Got Every Thing !!That's You Have Thought Me ! && Told Me ! I Will Always Love You ! && You Will Always Live On On My Heart ! ILOVE YOY MS.STEFERAK && IMMA MISS YOU IMMA MAKE IT FOR YOU , RIP.SWEETLADY

Chaundra Wright

December 22, 2017

Miss.steferak i miss u so much u was the most coolest teacher i have had this year u gone but never forgotten.

Jason Zelich

December 21, 2017

Alison, you will be missed by your extended family and trust you are in a more peaceful place now. Free from pain and suffering.

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