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Barbara Desser Obituary

DESSER Barbara Ann Desser (Rosenberg) of Monroe, passed away Saturday, March 28, 2009 at the Connecticut Hospice in Branford after several stays and out-patient treatments at Yale-New Haven Hospital. She was the wife of Phillip Desser and was predeceased by her parents, Rose and Sam Rosenberg. Barbara was born April 17, 1942 in Derby and grew up in Queens, N.Y. She graduated from Jamaica High School and was a theatre major and graduate of Hofstra University. Barbara's early life centered on a semi-professional acting career, first in college and the Queens area and then most actively at the Polka Dot Playhouse on Pleasure Beach in Bridgeport. She worked as communications director for DM Read's Department Store and for Physicians Health Services. She spent her early years as a teacher of professional children in New York City and later as a substitute teacher in Bridgeport. Among the more than 40 roles Barbara played, were the leads in Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, Night Watch, Wait Until Dark, Barefoot in the Park, The Runner Stumbles, and A View from the Bridge. She was production secretary and publicity chairman for Polka Dot for several years. Barbara also appeared at the Southbury Playhouse, Sacred Heart University, University of Bridgeport and several area dinner theaters. Besides her husband, Barbara is survived by three children, her daughter, Pati Taylor and her husband, Jay Thrift of West Yellowstone, Mont.; her sons, Scott Taylor and his wife, Valerie of Port Washington, N.Y. and Jason Desser and his wife, Christine of Monroe. She leaves one sister, Patty Brownstein and her husband, Alan of Dobbs Ferry, N.Y.; and a brother, Robert Rosenberg and his wife, Laura of Manalapan, N.J. Barbara leaves six grandchildren, Brittany, Leah and Kevin Taylor of Port Washington, N.Y., Emily and Kayla Desser of Monroe, and Christopher Dietl, currently serving in South Korea with the U.S. Army. Barbara is also survived by her adoring cousin, Karen Garrity of Seymour, as well as several other cousins, nieces and nephews, and her former husband, Charles Taylor of Miami, Fla. A memorial service will take place in the Riverview Funeral Home, 390 River Road, Shelton, Tuesday at 2 p.m. Friends may greet the family beginning at 12:30 p.m. until the time of the service. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Barbara's memory to MADD, 565 Washington Ave., North Haven, CT 06473 or online at www.madd.org. If you are unable to attend, you may offer condolences to the family online at www.riverviewfh.com.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Mar. 29 to Mar. 30, 2009.

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Christine Desser

April 17, 2009

Happy Birthday, Barbara! I wish we could be together today so you could sit back and watch Emily and Kayla do their thing. I'm sure you're watching our precious little girls from Heaven and smiling down.

I miss you so much.

Love you forever.

Pearl Zucker

April 1, 2009

To Dear Phil,My deep condolences go out to you on the loss of your dear wife, Barbara. May the sweet memories of your life together console you in the difficult days that lie ahead. May her memory be for a blessing. Pearl Zucker

Elaine Piotroski

April 1, 2009

To Barbara's family

I worked with Barbara for many years at Read's. Barbara and Jason and my son Billy and I spent a long weekend at Cooperstown and the Baseball Hall of Fame many years ago. Barbara introduced me to theatre and whenever I see a show I think of her. Unfortunately we lost touch over the years. I always thought there would be time someday to reconnect. I am deeply sorry that never came to be. To everyone who knew her Barbara was an exceptional person. I loved her and will miss her. My deepest sympathy to all of her family and friends.

Ana Kogan

March 30, 2009

Phil, Jason & Family.

My thoughts & prayers are with you.

With sincere sympathy,

Ana & boys

Lucy Howard

March 30, 2009

Dear Phil & Family, Thinking of you and remembering all the good times and hard work at Polka Dot Playhouse and Ffld. U. Barbara was always 'up' and helpful to all.

John Morris

March 30, 2009

Phil, Jason & Christine:
Sorry for your loss! I'll remember all my visits just before tax time every year. We'll miss her.

Kerry Packard Krysiak

March 30, 2009

To Barbara's family -

I worked with Barbara at PHS for years. We still kept in contact via christmas cards and once in a while I would see her name pop up on IM and I would check in. She was such a wonderful person and I will miss her very much.
With my deepest sympathy

Patricia Clark Sperling

March 30, 2009

Pati ~

I am so sorry for your family's loss.

It's been a very long time, but I have very fond memories of your Mom from when you and I were playing together as youngsters - way back when!

My prayers go out to your and your family.

March 30, 2009

Jason and family,
Thinking of you all at this time.
So very sorry for your loss.
With Sincere sympathy.
Deb Ryan -Norwalk CT

Aleta Manning

March 29, 2009

To Barb's Family.
We worked together at PHS and had many lunches together. Lots of laughs and support. Barb and Arlene visited me after surgery in 2005 and took me to my post-op doctor appointment. She had a great spirit. I will miss her.

Suzanne Cassara

March 29, 2009

My husband and I send our deepest sympathy. We had both worked with Barbara for many years and are extremely saddened to hear of her passing. She was a wonderful and sweet friend; we will miss her. Our thoughts are with you.
Sincerely, Suzanne & Hector

David Halliwell

March 29, 2009

Phil, Jason, Scott, and Patti.
I wish I had the words to say how sorry I am about the loss of Barbara. The world is a bit less bright without her. With deepest sympathy and prayers.

March 29, 2009

Dear Pati and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you----
With sincere sympathy,
Mary Girard
West Yellowstone, MT

Marylee Woitowitz

March 29, 2009

Dear Phil,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time. Thinking of you.

Marylee Woitowitz and family

Marion Conklin

March 29, 2009

My thoughts and prayers go out to Barbara's family in this time of loss. I worked with her at HealthNet (PHS) in the 1990s. As co-workers do, we shared the good and the bad . We knew we could count on each other as friends and confidants. Her Christmas letter and card will now be treasured by me. I miss her.

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