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Geraldine Toth Benton

1943 - 2021

Geraldine Toth Benton obituary, 1943-2021, Fairfield, CT

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1943

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2021

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Geraldine Benton Obituary

Geraldine Toth Benton
Geraldine Toth Benton, age 78 of Fairfield passed away peacefully on Friday, September 17, 2021. Born on April 20, 1943 in Bridgeport, CT, she was the daughter of Frank Toth and Margaret Ballinty Toth. Geri was a graduate of Harding High School in Bridgeport and a homemaker for eighteen years.
In 1985, Geri opened her own nail salon in Fairfield Nail Creations by Geri and operated Dave and Geri's ice cream Shoppe at Captain Cove Seaport where many would come from afar just to enjoy her frozen cappuccinos and homemade chocolate fudge brownies. She worked many years at Pitney Bowes Mailing Systems, receiving recognition for her outstanding sales. Geri also worked for various Physician offices where she met and greeted many patients many who became lifelong friends.
When her son Brad's Little League team needed a coach, Geri stepped up becoming the first female to coach in the League with the team winning the championship that year. Geri cared deeply about helping those who needed a hand spending many weekends cooking very large pots of soup that she served to the homeless under a bridge in Bridgeport. She volunteered and eventually worked for the Center of Family Justice helping the domestic violence victims at the Centers safe house. Geri enjoyed volunteering with her children for many years with Holy Family Church on Emmaus retreat weekends.
Geri loved to fish and came alive whenever the ocean was near. She loved to cook Sunday dinners and prepare containers to go filled with her delicious home cooking for family and friends. Geri's Hungarian cookies, mashed potatoes, pasta fagioli, meatloaf and cabbage noodles were her trademark dishes.
If you were lucky enough to have met Geri, call her your friend or were one of her care givers the last few years you knew she made everyone she met feel special. While she wore many hats, her family always came first. Geri was her children, her brothers, and her grandchildren's biggest fan, doing whatever she could to help them achieve their dreams and root for their success.
Geri will be lovingly remembered by her three children, daughter Brenda L Kupchick, her husband Peter of Fairfield, son Bradford L. Benton his wife Lisa Benton of Shelton, and daughter Lisa J. Benton Fabrizi of Shelton. Geri's pride and joy were her five grandchildren, Peter Christopher Kupchick of Fairfield, Alexandria Rae and Gianna Mary Fabrizi of Trumbull, Chase Anthony and Jeremy David Benton of Shelton. Geri is also survived by her beloved brother David F. Toth and wife Jill of Black Rock; her stepdaughter Laura Carmanica of Las Vegas; former husband, Leonard Capozziello Benton; her cousins Carolyn Demers and Linda Casanova of Hartford; her sister (best friend) Peggy Capozziello of Fairfield; many nieces and nephews. Geri was predeceased by her daughter Laura Capozziello.
Calling hours for family and close friends will be held Thursday, September 23, 2021 from 4 to 7 p.m. at the Lesko and Polke Funeral Home, 1209 Post Road, in Fairfield Center. All other services will be private.
Memorial contributions may be directed to either: Operation Hope of Fairfield (www.OperationHopeCT.org) or The Center for Family Justice (www.CenterforFamilyJustice.org). For travel directions or to sign her online guest register, please visit www.LeskoPolkeFuneralHome.com

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Published by Connecticut Post on Sep. 20, 2021.

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Adele Bahamonde

September 24, 2021

To the whole Benton family especially Brenda, Lisa and Brad I want to express my deepest condolence. I am really sorry for this great loss. As you know Geri and I shared a very special friendship. We shared a lot of good memories and some of the happiest times in my life. Our friendship was such that we didn't have to visit every week or be on the phone all the time to know that we were there for each other no matter what.
I know people go to wakes or funerals to say their final good byes but I chose not to go because I don't want the last memory to see her like that. I spent a few hours with her a few weeks ago and we reminisced and laughed about the crazy things we did. We laughed so hard I thought they might throw me out. This is what I want my last memory to be.

Geri you are finally home. God speed and rest in peace. You will always be in my heart. Now that you have your wings please watch over us. Love You.
Delly

The Holly Family

September 24, 2021

Dear Brenda, Brad and Lisa,

Your beautiful mother, Geri will be dearly missed. Geri reached out with sincere kindness and consideration to everyone she knew and touched our hearts in many ways.
Rest In Peace, lovely Geri and thank you for all the memories we once shared.
Our deepest condolences, may all the angels watch over your beautiful mother until you meet again.

With deepest sympathy to all,

Lois, Lisa and Lucretia

Joe Boudreau

September 23, 2021

Dear Brenda & Family,
My deepest sympathy on the loss of your Mom.
I have warm memories of your Mom on the Emmaus weekend.
Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you.
God Bless you,
Joe Boudreau

The Staff of Lesko-Polke Funeral Home

September 23, 2021

Offering our sympathies at this time.

Susan Linnane

September 22, 2021

My deepest condolences....
As a friend of Lisa´s we had a few FaceTime conversations with Mama Benton that were always fun and I loved her energy.
I´m so very sorry for your loss.
Prayers to the entire family.

Pete Stansfield

September 22, 2021

Brenda. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Carol Prater

September 22, 2021

Dear Brenda, Lisa, Brad i am so sorry to here about Geri passing. She was a beautiful lady. Heaven gained another beautiful Angel RIP

Kathy Mastronardi

September 21, 2021

Dear Brenda, Lisa, Brad, and the entire Benton Family,
My sincere condolences on the loss of mom. She was a wonderful person and I loved talking with her periodically when I would see her. She will always remain in your hearts, and may all the beautiful memories you have of her help ease the pain during the coming months. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
With much love,

Kathy

Donna Werfelman

September 21, 2021

Dear Brenda & Family:

We would like to offer our condolences with the passing of your mom. Although, I didn't know her personally everything that I have ever heard was just a litany of praise. I hope she will rest in peace and I hope you hang onto all those wonderful warm memories of her. She will always be close by.

With Our Deepest Sympathy,

Donna Werfelman
Fred Santucci

Chip Lake

September 21, 2021

Brad, Brenda & Lisa,
While raising your Mom up in prayer, I'm remembering Emmaus weekends and other occasions I had the pleasure of spending time with Geri. I grieve the tremendous loss to you and your families. May God bless you all.

Stephen M Kupchick

September 21, 2021

Brenda, Brad, & Lisa. Sorry to hear of your Mothers passing. She always encouraged me when times were tough in my life. I will remember her smile & kindness.

Shanti Forte

September 21, 2021

I was saddened to see this news. I am a high school friend. We reconnected at a Starbucks around 2013 to catch up. She remained beautiful and vibrant as she was at Harding. My condolences to her family. Peace on the journey you will be remembered.

Joyce Capozziello

September 21, 2021

Our sincere condolences Lisa, Brenda, and Brad. May she RIP. Aunt Joyce and family

Dawn Ross Olson

September 21, 2021

To the Benton Family - I worked at Pitney Bowes with Geri. She was a wonderful lady who gave wonderful advice. She once held my wedding ring and told me that I would have 2 children -at the time I was having issues getting pregnant. She said it with such conviction I knew she was telling me the truth. It made me relax and I was pregnant with in a fee months. She was truly a very special soul.

Tom Rogers

September 20, 2021

I remember her from Dover St. When us guys were playing catch in the street, she would always join in. RIP

Joyce Lynk Wrigley

September 20, 2021

Dear Lisa & family
My deepest condolences to you and your family in the passing of you mom she sounds like she was a wonderful women . May she RIP .
Joyce Lynk Wrigley

Charlie and Pattie MacDonald

September 20, 2021

Thinking of you at this most difficult time with deepest sympathy.

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