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Henry Mandela Obituary

Mandela, Sr., Henry C.
Henry C. Mandela, Sr., age 94, of Derby entered into rest on Saturday, February 6, 2016 at Birmingham Health Center with his loving family by his side. He was the devoted husband of almost 60 years to Joan (Watts) Mandela. Hank was born in Derby, on November 6, 1921, son of the late Charles and Anna (Hargas) Mandela and was a lifelong Derby resident. Prior to enlisting in the Army, he worked at the Civilian Conservation Corps Camp in Voluntown to help support his family. He served as a Staff Sergeant with the U.S. Army during WWII. Hank was the owner of Mandela Brothers Garage until his retirement in 1983. After his retirement, he taught Automotive Collision, Repair and Refinishing at Platt Technical High School. Along with his friends, he built his family home. In his retirement years, Hank was an avid reader, gardener, and enjoyed tinkering in his garage. Most of all, He loved spending time with his grandchildren. Hank offered to introduce Shelton High School students to the Automotive Body Repair career. He is the beloved father of, Lawrence and Kristyna Mandela, Henry Mandela, Jr., Carolyn and Vincent Garofalo, Jr., Rita and William Ray, and Audrey and James Vasilas, brother of, Mae Marganski and Sophie Pronewicz. Hank is the loving grandfather of, Bryan, Matthew, Nicole, Eric, Michael, Billy, Bobby, Jimmy, Jessica, Timothy, Michael, Caitlin and Sean, great grandfather of, Tyler, Evan, Chloe, Jordyn, Jayden, Breanna, Jada, Noah, Jonah, Cameryn, Jude, Sean, Jr., Serenity, and Cayman. He is also survived by several nieces and nephews. He is the predeceased by a son Charles Mandela, four brothers, Joseph, Charles, Walter and John Mandela, and three sisters, Millie Orlowski, Irene Sicilia, and Claire Kolochuk. Friends may call on Saturday from 2:00 - 4:00 p.m. at the Edward F. Adzima Funeral Home, 253 Elizabeth St., Derby. His funeral service will follow at 4:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial contributions may be made to the VA CT Healthcare Systems, 950 Campbell Ave., West Haven, CT 06516. Friends may leave condolences at www.adzimafh.com.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Feb. 11 to Feb. 12, 2016.

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James & Dawn Garofalo

February 18, 2016

JOAN, CAROLYN,HENRY AND FAMILY so sorry to hear of HANKS passing. We know how much he meant to each and every one of you. He was a soft spoke , gentle man with abundant wisdom. Truly a man with integrity. Dawn and I will pray for y'all each and every day.

Halina & Gary Gronowski

February 13, 2016

Joan, Larry, Kris, Tim, Meghan and family,
Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your spouse, dad, grandpa and patriarch. A strong, quiet, yet warm and passionate man. We see a little of him in all of you. May your spirits be lightened and hearts lifted in knowing you are the best of him. God bless you all. You have honored him. Much love to you all, your sister and brother-in-law, aka Halina and Gary Gronowski

February 13, 2016

Dear Joan and Family
Please accept my Deepest Sympathy during this sad time.
Elaine Mandela

Ruth Bloxam

February 12, 2016

Dear Joan,

Sorry to hear of your great loss. Our thoughts and prayer are with you all at this very sad time.
Love, Ruthie and Tom Bloxam

Renee Grailich

February 12, 2016

Carolyn and family, your Dad was a very special man to me and I will forever cherish the memories of spending so much time with your big, wonderful family back when we were teens. My love and sympathy to you all.

JoAnne Salinsky

February 11, 2016

Aunt Joan, Larry & Krys, Henry, Carolyn, Rita & Audrey - my heart is broken for you. Uncle Hank was always my favorite. I'm sorry I won't be able to attend the service, as I am in Mexico. I will be with you in spirit. May my Uncle Hank rest in eternal peace.

John & Jeanne Mattei

February 11, 2016

Sorry for your loss, our families have been neighbors for over seventy years. I remember catching raccoons with Hanks father in his garden. May he rest in peace.

Mrs, Dominic (Betty) Ippolito

February 11, 2016

My sincere regards to the Mandela Family.

Ronda Zalenski

February 11, 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.

Bill Ray

February 11, 2016

A man I'll always call Poppy despite wanting to be grandpa. Thank you for all the memories, especially the treat of going downtown Shelton on a Saturday morning in the truck to get a paper and some candy for us kids. I'll always fondly remember you savoring your dinner long after everyone else had finished all the while having a small notepad in your pocket. RIP, we'll miss you but, know you're shining down on us all.

Henry Mandela Jr.

February 11, 2016

To my Dad who will be forever missed.I know your in a better place now and you are looking down on us with a big smile on your face....may you rest in peace.Love your son Henry

Mary Feigen

February 11, 2016

Our sincerest condolences to all of the Mandela family.

John Marganski

February 11, 2016

Aunt Joan, and all of the family, I share your loss. I owe Uncle hank everything I know mechanically.

Antoinette & Bob Tworkowski

February 11, 2016

to the Mandela family...our deepest sympathies...Hank was a most kind and gentle man..ever so thoughtful..a true family patriarch.May he rest in peace.

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