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Memories and Condolences
for Jeff Foley
Rona Waldon
December 25, 2024
Can't believe another year has almost passed. Remember you often, Jeff. Those times at The New Yorker's London office do feel like a lifetime ago yet are so fresh in my memory.
Rona
January 17, 2024
Remembering you always, Jeff and the fun times we all had at The New Yorker's London office
Helshi Lockwood Tunnell Hewson
January 8, 2024
Jeff, you will never ever be forgotten. I love you soooo very
Rona
January 3, 2023
Remembering you again today, Jeff - I am often reminded of you and continue to miss you
John tebb
December 25, 2022
Think of you all the time jeff. Hope your family is doing well. Love ya my good friend
Rona
January 7, 2022
As another year passes, I still miss you, Jeff
Billups Catherine
December 25, 2021
I knew and loved Jeff for many years including out time at TNY and trips to London and Milano. I was shocked to read that he died. I will miss him
scott cowan
July 21, 2009
Debbie,
On occasion, I will google old friends of mine, hoping to find some information allowing us to catch up, or better yet find news of a recent accomplishment or news story. I was shocked and deeply saddened to learn of Jeff’s tragic passing at such a young age.
I have always had fond memories of our days as neighbors in the garden apartments in Leonia as well as our time spent in your house in town. Although our families drifted apart, you, Jeff and your children always were in my heart, as you all were such a loving family.
Jeff’s energy, optimism, sense of humor, and his smile were always an inspiration to me. Although he achieved great success in his endeavors, to me he always came across as a simple guy, very modest, just a regular family guy from the mid west, living in the big city. A real “every man’s man”.
Although it was a terrible time for Jeff, even in adversity Jeff remained funny. I remember visiting him at Bell View Hospital following his car accident and he was expressing his dissatisfaction with the flight crew of plane that he had just taken to Hawaii. Hawaii I asked ? How did you get to Hawaii ? I snuck out of the hospital, took a cab to the airport, bought a ticket with my Amex, and jumped on a flight he said. Almost believing only Jeff could pull something like that off, I asked him, but what happened when you got there ? Through his wired jaw, he grinned, they wouldn’t let me off the plane ! Still confused I asked him “why not ?”. He then looked at me, like I was missing something…He says, gesturing to himself, well look at me.. who would let a guy in my condition off the plane ! Being the salesman that he was I think he had actually sold me this story. I have laughed about this event countless times and still makes me smile as I write.
I’ll miss running into Jeff on 6th ave or Madison in the city as occasionally we did. I’ll miss thinking that I’ll run into him again and he’ll be the exuberant person that he was. I am sure I am just one of thousands of people whose lives he touched and will miss him now and in the future. I am so, so sorry for your loss as well as your three children’s and the rest of your families. I am sorry I did not find out sooner and was not able to be there for the memorial service. Please feel free to contact me if you need any help with anything. I’m still in Bergen County and am only a call or email away.
Kind Regards,
Scott Cowan
Rona Waldon
January 18, 2009
Debbie, Garnet, Alex and Patrick - I have only just found my way to this guest book, via a search on the internet, as I try to come to terms with the loss of Jeff. I was searching to find mention of him and found this wonderful testimonial to how much he was loved, how he touched the lives of all those with whom he came in contact and how many lives will be sadder with his passing.
I knew Jeff from his time in the London office of The New Yorker and, as Simon has mentioned in an earlier entry, we were highly suspicious of having a "know all" American foisted upon us!! However, Jeff quickly won our hearts with his vitality and boundless enthusiasm. We grew to know you all during your time in London and learned how much his family meant to Jeff. I look back on the halcyon days at our Hay Hill office with great fondness, as I know Jeff did - they truly were a special time of hard work but also great hilarity and warmth. Jeff and I used to rag each other constantly about our differing opinions on matters such as politics and spelling [Jeff was always keen to inform me of the error of my political persuasions and of the "correct" ie. 'American' way to spell words such as 'favourite' and 'humour'! :o)]. After a particularly heated exchange, I would look at Jeff sternly, with what he called my "Ms WalDON look", whereby Jeff would look suitably abashed and mutter "oh my" ....
Jeff and I had lost touch in recent years but he tracked me down last November and we had a long talk on the telephone. It was as if we had met only the previous day and I was so pleased to have reconnected with him. As so many others have indicated, Jeff had a unique ability to make everyone in his life feel important and cherished. It is this quality, combined with Jeff's humour (yes, Jeff, that IS the correct spelling!), his passion for life, his affection, loyalty and integrity that I will miss.
I can only imagine what his loss means for Jeff's family and send my heartfelt condolences to you all. The loss to his extended family of friends and colleagues is clearly palpable. I know that I loved and will never forget Jeff or our shared history. He will always live on in my heart.
John DeJesu & Jeff Foley
January 15, 2009
Mary Kay Hartley
January 13, 2009
Dear Foley family,
I met Jeff during my tenure at the Italian Tourist Board in New York during the 1990's and we bonded over our "midwestern roots". Budget or not, he always made a point of calling to check in and chat, encouraging me in ways that I have always remembered. He was truly one of a kind. When I left New York in 1999, it was Jeff who gave me a key to the city of New York, something I look at fondly every day....I am so sorry for your loss.
David May
January 13, 2009
It was with great sadness that I received the news. Jeff and I had worked together for several years at the New Yorker. In fact, he WAS the New Yorker for many of us. He had a great sense of humor, but took his position seriously. Always looking out for the best interests of the magazine as well as his clients. Despite the demands of his position, he was never flustered. He remained cool, and thoughtful no matter how difficult or aggravating the situation. I will miss him and his marvelous laugh
Mike and Julie Camp
January 12, 2009
Dear Debbie - we were all shocked to hear of Jeff's untimely passing . We remember the happiest of times in your company with Jeff during our time living in Fairfield . Our Alex and your Alex were such good friends and of course Alex was also shocked when we told him . From all of us here , we send our deepest sympathy to you and the family . You are in our prayers every day .
Kathleen Connick Williamson
January 9, 2009
Dear Debbie,
I had the great pleasure to work with Jeff at Texas Monthly. In fact, I first met him the week he came back to work after his car accident. I, of course, knew immediately that he was half mad, hobbling, his face still black & blue. He was laughing and joking as he painfully made his way around the media room putting together a media kit.
Like all the other people here who have posted messages, my first impression was of a happy, funny man who enjoyed life. But I also saw the steely will that had him back working so soon.
He was a great man who'll be greatly missed.
Jeff Foley-Joyce Chorbajian - 1989 Need Anyone Say More?
January 9, 2009
Texas Monthly-1989 Jeff Doing His Thing Among the Ladies
January 9, 2009
Lisa Peterson
January 9, 2009
Jack - we were very sad to hear of your brother's passing - we hope that the time you had together was wonderful and hopefully truly some day we will all be able to meet again.
Your Friends from Pyramid Radio
Rich Balsbaugh, Lisa Peterson, Ed McMann, John Sprague, Tim Carter
Joyce Chorbajian
January 8, 2009
To Debbie & Family...
What does one say when life takes such a sudden and unexpected turn? There are not enough words to express the sadness felt when I learned that Jeff had left us.
My memories of Jeff are fond and deep. He brought joy, laughter, compassion and love to everyone he met. He was a terrific friend and co-worker--just a exceptional human being.
Our lives at Texas Monthly were close and extraordinary. Working with Jeff made each day a guaranteed event. Ever smiling, ever loyal, and ever caring.
Debbie, may you and the family continue to live life to its fullest as I know Jeff would have wanted. May Jeff travel to the greater beyond continuing with the joy that he lived on earth.
With great love to all,
Orla Carey
January 7, 2009
I was saddened to hear of Jeff's untimely death. Everyone in the travel and tourism industry who crossed paths with Jeff will miss his great charm and quick wit. Over the years I had many meetings with Jeff during which he never failed to talk about his love of Ireland, his wife and children -my sympathy to each of them on their great loss.
Ar dheis De go raibh a anam
Kindest regards
jim voss
January 7, 2009
To the Foley Family.
It has been many years since I had the opportunity to work with Jeff and stay in contact with him What I do remember is his commitment to his goals, his team, his coaches and his dedication to doing his best. I am sure he had this same trait in his adult life too.
I am truly sorry for his loss and he will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Jim Voss
Swim Coach Wash HS
susan berry
January 6, 2009
Jeff--we will never forget you! Thanks for the many laughs during our time together at Niche Media....You are one of the good guys! God Bless and we will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers. Susan B at Boston Common/Niche Media
Jane Williams
January 6, 2009
To the Foley Family:
Print magazine reps sometimes get short shrift when calling on ad agencies. Not Jeff. He visited us often in Montreal, when he worked on Travel Holiday and also the New Yorker. Jeff was always a welcome presence in our office. When he brought the family to ski at Tremblant, or was in or near Montreal for any other reason, he always dropped in on me. And we enjoyed many dinners and laughs together with others in our industry both in Montreal and at various tourism conferences over the years. My heart goes out to you, his family, of whom he often spoke and obviously loved and was proud of. My sincerest condolences on a loss that is uniquely yours, but which also affects many of us who called Jeff a friend as well as a colleague.
Anne Anderson
January 6, 2009
Dear Debbie and Children,
I worked with your beloved husband and father at Niche Media and I must say that he was one of the most kind, gentle and sincere colleagues I have ever worked with.
I am very saddened by the news of his untimely death. My sympathy.
Sincerely,
Anne Anderson
Anthony Leyens
January 6, 2009
To all the Foley Family
I only knew Jeff for 4 months but during that short period of time we spoke most days from across the pond. His personality was infectious and was a larger than life character and one of life's real 'good guys' In essence a gentleman with great integrity!
My thoughts at this sad time now are with Debbie and his wonderful children who I know he was so proud of.
Very Best wishes
Anthony Leyens
Absolute Publishing Ltd, London
Jordan Hyman
January 6, 2009
To Jeff's family-
Please accept my deepest sympathies for your loss. We at Time Inc. and the Fortune/Money Group are very saddened by your loss. Jeff was full of life, full of energy, and full of passion for his work and the people who shared in that work. He was quick to laugh and quicker to make you laugh, and we're all thankful to have had the pleasure to know him and share time with him.
With deepest sympathies,
Jordan Hyman (and the entire Fortune/Money Group)
Gretchen Scott
January 6, 2009
-JACK KEROUAC WROTE========
THE ONLY PEOPLE WHO ARE OF INTEREST ARE THE MAD ONES,
THE ONES WHO ARE MAD TO LIVE, MAD TO TALK, MAD TO BE SAVED.
DESIREOUS OF EVERYTHING AT THE SAME TIME.
THE ONES WHO NEVER YAWN OR SAY A COMMONPLACE THING.
BUT BURN, BURN BURN, LIKE FABULOUS YELLOW ROMAN CANDLES
EXPLODING LIKE SPIDERS ACROSS THE STARS.
--
WE ALL LOVE JEFF FOLEY. WE JUST DO. WE FELL IN LOVE TRULY THE SECOND WE MET. OF COURSE, IN THAT SECOND, WE WERE LAUGHING.
HE HAS THE ABILITY TO DO THAT MAGICALLY.
WHEN WE ARE WITH HIM, THE REFLECTION OF OURSELVES THROUGH HIS EYES, MAKES US LOVE OURSELVES MORE AND JUST FEEL GREAT.
THAT ABILITY MAKES JEFF SOMEONE IN OUR LIVES WE WANT TO BE WITH.
JEFF ALSO HAS ANOTHER GIFT----
MAKING US FEEL SAFE THEREBY PRESENTING OUR AUTHENTIC SELVES IN HIS COMPANY.
JEFF FOLEY IS ONE OF THOSE MAGICAL MIRACLES IN OUR
LIVES.
THINK OF HIS FACE RIGHT NOW…. THAT ADORABLE IMP FACE, DON’T YOU JUST GIGGLE..
OR
HEAR THAT INFECTIOUS LAUGH OF HIS, IT’S OK-- LAUGH OUT LOUD – YOU CAN’T HELP IT.
JEFF LOVES HIS DEBBIE AND KIDS-LOVES THEM WITH EVERY FIBER IN HIS EVER-MOVING BODY AND GIANT SIZED HEART.
WE LOVE JEFF FOLEY.
AS LONG AS WE BREATHE WE WILL.
HE LIVES IN OUR HEARTS AND MINDS FOREVER.
WHEN WE MEET UP AGAIN, WE KNOW HOW IT WILL BE- HILARIOUS. ..
AND FINALLY, JEFF---
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
Matthew Farrar
January 5, 2009
Dear Foley family
I was very saddened to hear of your loss. Jeff and I worked together at The New Yorker where he had appointed us in Asia. He was a great guy, extremely positive with a very fun side and will be missed.
With my condolences
Terence Devine
January 5, 2009
To the Foley Family,
I had the pleasure to know Jeff (having met on Metro North when I first started working in the City).
Jeff was always very upbeat and personable, quick with a smile and or story to lighten the commute after a long day. He took pride in his family and his work.
He will be missed by all who had the good fortune to know him.
My deepest sympathies.
Steven Schaffer
January 5, 2009
The cereemony on Saturday is one I will never forget.
May our hearts and prayers be with you - and provide you and your loved ones strength.
Warmest love for you all,
The Schaffers
Steven, Caroline, Aliza, Rachel and Josh
Don Cataldi
January 5, 2009
To the Foley Family,
As I read through this guest book and remember my own personal moments with Jeff, I can't help but cherish the time spent with him. I was always amazed at his love for life, his warm personality and his boundless energy. He will most certainly be missed, but never forgotten.
My thoughts and prayers are with you,
Stacy Heller
January 5, 2009
Debbie, Garnet, Alex and Patrick,
Word has traveled west of your loss and we are so saddened by the news.
Jeff was a bright light that always seemed to burn brightest around family. We always enjoyed seeing Jeff on the street - his enthusiasm was inspiring and fun.
We wish you all the best as you make your way through this difficult time.
Stacy and Pete Heller
Annie, Will, Grace & Charlie
Robeiro Canola
January 5, 2009
Dear Foley Family,
There are no words that I say that you already do not know...what an exceptional man/friend Jeff was...it goes without saying...he lived his life! I read this by Churchill and immediately thought of him. I wonder if our maker is ready for Jeff?
Winston Churchill:
I am ready to meet my Maker. Whether my Maker is prepared for the great ordeal of meeting me is another matter.
Meakin Armstrong
January 5, 2009
I enjoyed working with Jeff while I was at The New Yorker and I'm so sorry to hear about this loss.
I will miss just knowing that he is somewhere out there, giving the world with his ready smile.
Best wishes to his family in this difficult time.
Maurice Mullen
January 5, 2009
I had the pleasure of knowing Jeff for only a couple of years but he was a colleague who very quickly became a friend. His dynamism, energy and true enthusiasm made him a delight to work with and the media world is the poorer for his passing.
My sincere sympathy to his wife & family on this tragic loss.
Jan Winarsky
January 5, 2009
Dear Debbie,
My sincere condolences to you and your children. I worked with Jeff at Travel Holiday and was greatly saddened to hear of his untimely passing.
Jeff was so passionate about his family and his work in travel, he was always on the go and always a gentleman.
John Murray
January 5, 2009
Debbie,
I was pleased but not surprised to see how many of Jeff's friends turned out to celebrate his life and say farewell. It was a beautiful service.
Jeff was unique in that his colleagues, clients and competitors all became close friends.
I am thankful that I can count myself as one of his many travel industry friends.
Semi Semi-Dikoko
January 5, 2009
Debbie, Garnet, Alex, Patrick and extended families
We thank you for sharing him with us. For, in so doing, you allowed him to brighten up our lives as much as he did yours…
It will, still and always, remain a mystery to me, how the kid from Cedars Rapids, Iowa, (yes, the great plains), came up with so much humanity, universality and globality!
Our prayers are with you.
Peace and love.
Carter Jennings
January 4, 2009
Dear Foley Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss and best wishes to all of you. No one deserves such a terrible and untimely thing to happen and I'm sure Jeff loved the service.
Anida Romano
January 4, 2009
Debbie,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
Shanti,
Anida
Dana Adams
January 4, 2009
Dear Foley Family,
I was deeply saddened to hear just now about the passing of Jeff last week. I am very sorry to have missed the services I have read about within this guest book, as I am sure they paid him a great tribute.
I am one of many whom Jeff touched initially as a fellow commuter on the Metro North, and as time went on considered him a good friend -- always glad to see him for a ride back to town from the city.
I am a father of five here in town, and the strongest impression Jeff made upon me during our many train rides home was the zeal with which he talked about his family.
Though I've only met Alex (once, very briefly while you were home on break and hanging in the garage with your buddies), I can only imagine the loss you are all feeling with this fine man's passing. He always talked about his understanding and supportive wife, his beautiful daughter up in Boston, his Mountaineer, independent son in college, and lastly his youngest boy whose potential he greatly believed in.
But first and foremost, he was always interested in knowing how I was doing. And with great recall, he would ask about my own well being and that of my family -- always picking up on our last conversation.
I last saw Jeff when we ran into each other at a gas station in town in early December. He was preparing to head off to a trade convention the following week and promised we'd catch up for a ride or a beer in the New year. Always the professional, he handed me his card (not the first -- or 5th time) to make sure I had his contact info and he wished me a great holiday with his firm hand shake and earnest look in the eye. Alas, I am truly sorry we won't have that opportunity.
What can I say? I just thought Jeff was a great guy, and will miss him.
My sincere condolences,
Dana Adams
Helshi Lockwood Hewson
January 4, 2009
Debbie, Garnet, Alex and Pat,
What a beautiful service...Jeff would have been so proud of the unbelievable turn out. He was sooo loved by everyone.
My love thoughts and prayers continue to be with you.
Love you all soo much, Helshi
Bonnie Barest
January 4, 2009
To Jeff's family,
My heartfelt condolences to you on the sudden passing of Jeff. He was a great businessman and I enjoyed working with him. May his memories provide comfort.
With sympathy, Bonnie Barest, Optimedia
Terry Yoffe
January 4, 2009
Dear Foley Family,
I was so saddened to hear of Jeff's untimely death.
We worked together for many years at the New Yorker.
Jeff was full of life and so passionate about what he did.
He will be missed by all those that had the privilege of knowing him.
With Love,
Mary Beth Levine
January 4, 2009
Dear Debbie, Garnet, Alex and Patrick,
I am so very sorry for your loss. You are all very fortunate to know by the messages here, how he was truly loved by so many and loved so many...family, friends, colleagues and neighbors. I only knew Jeff from Debbie but, I do remember when he would answer the phone and say my name, it felt as if he had all the time in the world to catch up.
Be strong and enjoy your memories forever. My prayers are with you all.
Love, Mary Beth
Chris Palazini
January 4, 2009
As one of the many of Jeff's commuting friends that attended yesterday's heartwarming and enlightening service, I was able to get to see yet another glimpse into Jeff's life.
Those of us who only shared a short time of Jeff's life each day on the train were able to witness how deeply his friends and family cared for him, and he for them.
We laughed and we cried as we listened to stories of Jeff's life. We will always remember.
Simon Smith
January 4, 2009
Debbie, Foley family and friends.
Jeff came into my life as an uninvited addition to my London office of The New Yorker magazine.
I had no reason to rejoice or even welcome his arrival as it was an imposition from 'on high'. Clearly head office thought an injection of american know-how would invigorate european sales. The rest is history for me, within 48 hours of his arrival along with his family he had completely won my affection and we had some truly memorable business and personal times together. Head office had their way and I bowed out of the company but not before Jeff had become won of my best loved friends. He not only cared for me and all my family but made sure we were always in touch, especially when he made trips to London and England, places he truly loved and the brits loved him back.
As a testament to his all embracing personality it is hard to guess whether it is me or my two sons that loved him most. Both the boys were grateful for his monumental generosity with his time and attention and were entertained by him in NY. Jeff & Debbie asked Jacque and I to visit his home every single year and to my deep regret I never made the trip! We did, however, have a truly wonderful dinner a short while ago in London.
Drinks in the 'Bunch of Grapes' his favorite pub in Shepards Market followed by large steaks in his favourite London restaurent 'Chez Gerrard' in Dover Street. My son Toby and another great mutual friend Chris Stevens were able to attend and it was just like old times.
Jeff's ability to make everyone feel good and special is the most redeeming of his many talents. Jeff swore we would be special friends for life and so it turned out to be.
Laurie Sandell
January 4, 2009
I was Jeff's assistant at The New Yorker in 1994. He hired me from a temp position and gave me my first real job. I didn't know a boss could be so kind, funny, generous, and above all, genuine. He talked incessantly about his wife and kids--I remember thinking what a pretty name Garnet had--and gave me a good belly laugh at least once a day. He also stayed in touch over the years, encouraging me through every step of my career. Reading through all these guest book entries, seeing how much he meant to so many people, I am reminded of just how special he really was. Jeff Foley was one of a kind. I feel privileged to have known him.
Annalisa Damley
January 3, 2009
Dear Debbie,
We met many years ago at your home when Jeff hosted a terrific party for his New Yorker clients. Jeff was such a treasure to work with. Kind, funny, endearing. He was a devoted family man and even after all these years, I have such fond memories of him. I am so sorry to hear that he has passed away, far too soon in life. My thoughts are with you and your children.
ryan and chris morrison
January 3, 2009
Pat and family, So sorry about the lost of your Dad. Ryan and Chris Morrison
Jonathan Silver
January 3, 2009
I laughed and cried at Jeff's service and reception today. His love of life, family, friends and Iowa have enriched all who have had the opportunity to cross his path. He has God belly laughing right now. With love and sympathy to all of Jeff's family and friends.
She She
January 3, 2009
Jeff was clearly a beloved member of so many “families”… his very dear relatives, his professional family, his Iowa family, and obviously so many more who’ve written to express their love for Jeff. I speak today for some of his commuting “family”, a very tight-knit community rarely understood except by those who’ve been a part of it. Jeff was a “regular” amongst us on several favorite express trains to Fairfield, and always brought a certain brand of levity to an otherwise oft-dull daily routine. It always started with that big smile, and a warm hug (or handshake and vigorous pat on the back for the guys), whether you last saw him weeks ago, or just yesterday. He was the kind of guy who always made you feel like he was just so damn happy to see you. Then came the funny stories and anecdotes, in which the members of his many “families” were common characters, always spoken of so fondly, regardless of the context or nature of the story. Jeff was never grumpy, never negative, and even if you’ve had the crappiest day, or even if he had the crappiest day, you never left an encounter with Jeff without somehow feeling better. He knew how to bring out the smile in everyone. A very rare and special gift, that we will so sorely miss. We take comfort in the fact that Jeff definitely caught the Express to Heaven, and when Heaven becomes the next stop for each of us, we know that Jeff will be waiting on the platform for us, with that same big smile and warm hug, and tell us how damn happy he is to see us. Thank you, Jeff. I, for one, am looking forward to it.
tim lempke
January 3, 2009
I had the true privledge of knowing Jeff. He had a heart of gold and a vigor for life. No matter where our career path took us, I always knew I had a loyal friend. My prayers are with his family and everyone who loved him. God bless.
Mary-Jo Letsch
January 3, 2009
Debbie, thinking of you and your family.
tim lempke
January 3, 2009
I had the true privledge of knowing Jeff. He had a heart of gold and a vigor for life. No matter where our career path took us, I always knew I had a loyal friend. My prayers are with his family and everyone who loved him. God bless.
Becky Loban
January 3, 2009
Dear Garnet,
My heart, love and prayers go out to you, your Mom and your brothers. I can't imagine what you are going through. I mean it when I say please let me know if I can do anything.
All my love and a strong hug, Becky Loban
Paul Cohen
January 3, 2009
Debbie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Jeff was a close friend and will be missed. I can't imagine what the travel industry events will be like without Jeff. I will miss seeing his smiling face and huge hugs.
From our family trips to Bali (ok, your family trip that I was fortunate to be part of) to late night dinners throughout the world- Jeff was a big part of my life. He taught me the value of hard work, true relationships and persistence.
Mollie Bourne
January 3, 2009
The memories are many and filled with joy and love. Our son John and Jeff's first apartment at Oregon State: they forgot the key so we had to break the window to get in. Jeff visiting our home in Puerto Vallarta turning a dinner party into the "talk of Vallarta." Jeff putting us up in The Mansion at Turtle Creek on our way to the Caribbean. Taking us to brunch with a lovely young Debbie and a stunning toddler named Garnet--introducing them as his new family. when on business in Portland, driving all the way to our home on the Oregon coast, buying dinner at the Side Door Cafe for the whole family, then talking the night away with stories of his passions and adventures. His promise to come to Seattle next summer to spend time with John and us--not to be.
We will always miss you Jeff.
Love to you Debbie from Jim and Mollie
Jose Banzon
January 3, 2009
Though I hadn't seen Jeff in a couple of years, I was just thinking about him recently. We were relocating a beautifully framed New Yorker cover poster bearing my son's birthdate that Jeff had presented to me back in 1993. It was a very thoughtful gesture.
I thought of the last time I had met him for dinner in Richmond, VA a couple of years ago. He was at a different pub by then, but he was the same Jeff.
Always fun.
Always straightforward.
Always thoughtful.
And always genuine.
Thank you Jeff, for blessing us with your spirit.
We'll miss you.
Elizabeth Barron
January 3, 2009
Debbie, Garnett, Alex and Patrick,
My heart is with you! I couldn't believe the news that I got while down in Florida for the Outback Bowl. I was able to speak with your husband and father for a very long time a couple weeks ago with my father John and brother Jamie, we laughed over lunch at the ID talked about his many memories he shared with our father and mother. Let me say that there was not ever a silent moment when you were around Jeff! He definitly made a HUGE impact on my life from the beginning and to now this beautiful young women I am today! Garnett, Alex, and Patrick I want you to know your father spoke so very highly and a lot about each and everyone of you over our lunch at the ID, he was so proud of each and everyone of you! Stay strong Foley family and remember and charish all the great memories you have! He is never gone, just for a temporaily moment until you meet again! Peace be with you!
And yes Jeff, The Hawks brought back that WIN just for you!!!! I will see you soon friend!!
Sharon Hatch
January 3, 2009
I am writing to extend my deepest sympathies to Debbie, Jeff's children, his extended family and all who loved and cared for Jeff. I was so very sad to hear about his passing, he was such a compassionate, family oriented and fun-loving man.
John DeJesu, a mutual friend, first introduced me to Jeff several years ago and during that time, I had the wonderful opportunity to get to know him and his family. I will always remember his incredible wit, his infectious smile, his selflessness and his overall love of life.
May you all take comfort in knowing that an angel will be forever watching over you. And may the love of those around you help you through the difficult days ahead.
Angela Gaudioso
January 3, 2009
News of Jeff's untimely passing this week is still hard for me to fully fathom. In the five years we worked together at The New Yorker, there was no one I can recall who had more vitality or could be more endearing. He'd walk into a room and light it up—in neon. Jeff had an impish, mischievous way about him that was as disarming as it was hilarious. As good-natured and as generous a man as you will ever find...
Our comic office-corridor exchanges about encroaching (or more like, missed) deadlines are now the stuff of legend. Conversations usually began with Jeff's face turning beet-red in response to some pronouncement of mine, with one of us bellowing, "You can't be serious..." and it moved on from there, much to the amusement of the rest of the office. No matter what, though, we always respected and liked each other, recognizing that we were passionate about the great magazine we worked for. (Even after he left The New Yorker, he continued to call me from his Travel Holiday offices to kid me about imaginary deadlines.)
He was a big-hearted soul and a genuine gentleman whose rare warmth and kindness will always be remembered. Thanks, Jeff, for all the laughs and lasting memories! You will be missed.
My sincere sympathy to the Foley family in this very tough time.
Josee Lindner
January 3, 2009
To the Foley Family,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and yours.
Philip Eberlein
January 3, 2009
A true gentleman that will be missed by many, Jeff was a mentor and friend. My best memories were stories of our Midwestern roots, particularly our ongoing Iowa vs. Nebraska banter. My deepest condolences and prayers to the Foley family.
Linda Kornblum
January 3, 2009
To Our Debbie, Garnet,Alex, and Pat. We are so saddened by Jeffs loss. A more wonderful son in law we couldn't have asked for. We will always have fond memories of him. Our love and prayers to all of you. We love you. Mom and Dad
Susan and Dick Lawson
January 3, 2009
We loved Jeff. He was always smiling and upbeat. He was a wonderful Dad who loved his kids and all kids. He will be missed by everyone. Our love and thoughts go out to Debbie, Garnet, Alex, Patrick and all the extended family.
The Staff of Lesko-Polke Funeral Home
January 3, 2009
Offering our sympathies at this time.
Jeff watching his sons' and their friends at a waterpark in Rhode Island
Pam Foarde
January 2, 2009
Jeff was the fun-loving dad who enjoyed not only his own kids but everyone else's as well. He bemoaned the fact they were all growing up too fast. This was probably because Jeff was a kid himself and happy to be so!
We will remember his contagious smile, his love of life, the huge fires he loved to make in the fireplace and the wonderful heart he always wore on his sleeve.
Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you Deb, Garnet, Alex & Pat.
With much love - Tim, Pam, David, Brian, Chip & Beto Foarde
Garey Bell
January 2, 2009
To the Foley family:
Hard to imagine the publishing industry without Jeff. Always a smile, a positive attitude, boundless energy, and an infectious personality, and always envied the way he could work a room. A huge loss to all that knew him. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family, and hope that the memories Jeff has created make the days ahead easier.
Dan & Mary Thorne
January 2, 2009
My deepest sympathy goes out to all the Foley family. The world is truely a sadder place now. Jeff always provided a laugh or a smile whenever he was around. I was fortunate to meet Jeff at OSU back in 1976. We have been friends ever since. He had a tremendous amount of respect and pride at being a Beaver. I recently met Jeff and we traveled together to see the Beavs play Penn State. What a great time we had. I got to meet Alex and stay with Kimmie and Bob. Jeff provided so many gut wrenching laughs, it was Jeff at his best. I am proud to call myself his friend and so glad I know Deb and his family. Mary and I are wishing you peace in this very strenous and difficult time. Your friends always.
Carmen Lopez
January 2, 2009
Debbie and family:
Jeff was a light in all of our lives.
We shall never forget him.
All my love,
Carmen
Lawrence Sudlow
January 2, 2009
I knew Jeff when he was working for The New Yorker out of London and his visits to Madrid were certainly a high point in my calender. I visited him and Debbie and the children about 15 years ago and have fond memories of that time. My condolances to the whole family and especially to Debbie and the children. He was a great guy.
Peggy Bendel
January 2, 2009
As so many who have already signed this book, I am stunned and sad, to realize Jeff will never again bounce into the room wherever our ATME (association of Travel Marketing Executives) Board meetings are held, turning up the energy level the minute he arrived.
I've known Jeff since his time with Travel Holiday, and it's impossible to imagine the travel publishing sector without him.
Was there ever a day that Jeff did not make sunnier with his smile, more sane with his reasonable solutions for any problem, more enjoyable with his unfailing optimism?
Keep the sunshine coming from above, Jeff: we miss you already and always will.
Peggy Bendel, Senior VP, DCI and fellow ATME Board member
Patti Brestel
January 2, 2009
Elizabeth and I will never forget the rib-crushing bear hugs and hearing him recount his "how I met your mother" tale for the bazillionth time... Jeff lived life deeply, and was at his absolute happiest when surrounded by his family and friends. We wish you peace and strength in this difficult time, and in the days to come.
Sharon Fiyalka
January 2, 2009
I also had the pleasure of working with Jeff, both at Hachette when he was the Publisher of Travel Holiday and at The New Yorker. His boundless energy, great humor and passion for the business made him an exceptional work partner. My deepest condolences to Debbie and his family. He will be sorely missed.
Cindy Schreibman
January 2, 2009
Informing colleagues and friends about Jeff's tragic and sudden passing has been completely surreal. Just writing the words makes no sense... how can it be that someone so good, warm, funny, and caring, a person so full of gusto with a heart that had room for everyone, a mind that was ever curious and a body that never stopped, be taken away so soon?
Jeff had such passion... for his family and his friends, for "closing a deal" no matter how big or small or how far he had to travel to get it done, for college sports as long as he had gathered a big crowd to cheer along with him, for discovering new places and people.
We were "paired" at The New Yorker to help grow its travel business and often found ourselves in distant places across the globe; me trying to impose discipline on our efforts, Jeff, often frustrated by this, trying to teach me that sales is more about getting to know your customer than turning in requisite paperwork. In the end I guess we both did okay but truth be told, what Jeff taught me was much more valuable. (At the office we were lovingly dubbed "The Bickersons" married to our own stubborness but clearly fond of each other).
My prayers are with the Foley family and Jeff's closest friends. Your "Jeff" was quite a guy.
Cindy Gulliver
January 2, 2009
Debbie, Garnet, Alex and Patrick,
Jeff was truly an amazing individual...I've known him since 1977. I always looked forward to our long talks sometimes until the very wee hours. He always made time to spend with each of my children and they enjoyed him. We will miss him.
Cindy Gulliver, Elizabeth, Jamie and Chad Barron
Steve Rau
January 2, 2009
Jeff was a great friend. From the day that I met Jeff in London in May of 91, he never failed to remind me that he was a Beaver and I was a Duck. He will truly be missed.
Diane Silberstein
January 2, 2009
Dear Family and Friends of Jeff Foley,
So many are saddened to learn of Jeff's passing, but the hearts of those closest to him, Deborah, his children, parents and siblings, are hurting the most. I hope you will find some comfort knowing how Jeff touched so many lives. Jeff was a force of nature with bountiful energy, a "can do" attitude and a heart of gold. Jeff and I worked together at The New Yorker and I witnessed firsthand his commitment to his career, his family and his friends. We who lived in Jeff's wide web of friends grieve along with you.
With sincerest sympathy, Diane Silberstein
Peter Innes
January 2, 2009
Dear Foley Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time in your lives. Jeff was indeed one in a million - the type of person we were blessed to know and not soon to forget.
Kelly Ames Smith
January 2, 2009
Our sincere sympanthy and prayers are with you, your family and friends at this time
Norma Rosenthal
January 2, 2009
As so many have said, it doesn't seem possible that someone as full as life as Jeff is not with us.
When I heard the news all I could think was that Jeff has "favored nation status" in Heaven.
My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
donna beatty
January 2, 2009
praying for you and your family, debbie
Joyce Castleberry
January 2, 2009
Dear Foley family,
I had the great pleasure to work with Jeff at The New Yorker and experienced his great joy and energy--he was perfectly marvelous, full out and going in only one direction, straight forward. I will miss him so much.
Joyce Castleberry
Kerry and kristen The Ups Store
January 2, 2009
The Foley Family,
We have had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Foley through his son Alex who we have worked with for many years. Our deepest sympathy go out to all of you during this difficult time.
Deborah Warner/Connelly
January 2, 2009
Dear Foley Family,
Although it had been many years since I last saw Jeff he had a special place in my heart, including great memories of times spent in Hermosa Beach with Troup and Jack.
I always thought that when Mike and I reconnected with him it would feel as though all that time had not passed because Jeff was someone who you instantly liked and easily bonded with. I deeply regret that we did not have the opportunity to see him again; my heartfelt sympathy for your loss.
Love, Deb W. (& Michael C.)
Tim Corbett
January 2, 2009
Dear Foley family,
We have lost a great friend who will leave us all with so many memories. I have never met anyone who could match jeff's energy, love of life, or his love for family and friends.
john tebb
January 2, 2009
to debbie & family
As a 18 year old freshmen college student at Oregon State, I was alone and scared to death to be on my own ,when I met an engaging ,energetic guy from the midwest who overnight turned my short college experience into a a fulfilling time in my life . Jeff became and has been a bestfriend. he has touched all of my family,freinds and my spirit. his passion,energy and caring for others has been a mantra for my own life. I owe jeff so much for my outlook in this world
I feel for you so much,I wish I could take your pain away. I am so lucky to have been able to have known jeff, and at times lived vicariously through all his adventures and successes. We will all miss him so much . love you all
john tebb
& family
Willy Morgan
January 2, 2009
A great and very funny man who will be sadly missed.
Richard Brown
January 2, 2009
I first met Jeff when he was at Texas Monthly and then reconnected when he was Publisher of Travel Holiday. We had many great years working together. He was fun and funny and deeply passionate about his work and his staff. He was always an optimist and loved life. I will always remember him and miss him.
Deepest condolences to his wife and family.
Richard Brown
Hugh Riley
January 2, 2009
ieAmong the many things Jeff gave us, those that immediately come to mind are his fine examples of professionalism, dedication and true hospitality in everything he did.
Jeff loved the publishing industry and I always suspected that he held a special place in his heart for the travel component of the industry. I had the great privilege of knowing him for over twenty years and working with him in various roles connected to the marketing of tourism.
Jeff’s infectious enthusiasm for fighting challenges and his generous dedication of time and resources will remain unmatched. We will miss his youthful, energetic demeanor and that twinkle in his eye. Jeff has given our business - and our region of the world - much by which to remember him with love and gratitude.
On behalf of the Governments and People of the Caribbean, and the members and staff of the Caribbean Tourism Organization, we express or deepest sympathy to Jeff’s wife Debbie, to his children and the entire family.
Sincerely,
Hugh Riley
Interim Secretary General
Caribbean Tourism Organization
Alex Anton
January 2, 2009
“Blessed is the man who has the gift of making friends; for it is one of God’s best gifts. It involves many things, but above all the power of going out of one’s own self and seeing and appreciating whatever is noble and loving in another.” Thomas Hughes -
I shall miss you old friend. aj
Steven Heydt
January 2, 2009
We are all saddened by this most untimely loss. Jeff was a true gentlemen and I always enjoyed our many discussions about advertising for the Hospitality industry he will be missed by always in our memory. Steve Heydt
Rand\Jeff\ Friend around 1981 1010 Tigertail Road LA
Brad Brenner
January 2, 2009
To Debbie, Garnet, Alex, Patrick
As you know Jeff came into our lives some 27 years ago when he moved to Los Angeles to start his career in advertising at Foote, Cone and Belding as a media planner. Jeff did not know many people in LA and he and Rand became close a Foote, Cone and Jeff soon became part of our circle of friends.
He had a small apartment in Hollywood over a garage and would dive up in his beat up Datson 210 to 1010 Tigertail, which was a home away from home for Jeff and is full of so many great memories and 27 years later Jeff would always talk about Tigertail. Jeff would always complain that his landlord was trying to kill him because he would start is car in the garage in the morning and leave it running so the fumes would rise to Jeff's apartment above. There are so many more memories and not enough space. When I moved to New York I had not seen Jeff for 20 years it was as if the years had never passed.
We went into business together and it was challanging but through all of it we loved each other and of all the things I take away from that experince is that Jeff loved you all and wanted nothing more than to provide the best for you.
Now I want to share a picture memory of 27 years ago at 1010 Tigertail. I was taking the picture. This is Rand, Jeff and Rand's girlfriend. Jeff looks about 13 and Rand's girlfriend looks annoyed!
Jeff was a gracious host in your home and and even more gracious host in our home doding over Marion and everyone one else making sure everyone was taken care of.
Jeff I love you and will miss you.
Susan Black
January 2, 2009
I am so saddened to hear this news. Jeff will always be remembered as a warm, caring individual who was passionate about his family, his industry, and his friends. I remember first meeting Jeff when he was at The New Yorker - he was a tireless professional, who always made time to help others. His ready smile, inclusive manner and warmth will always stay with me and the many others he touched. He was with us for too short of a time, and will be remembered by the many who knew him with great fondness. I remember his legendary industry parties at his Connecticut home (the kids still talk about the Jump-o-lene and ice cream truck), and how he always ensured that everyone was having a wonderful time (including the kids!). Jeff was the real deal - genuine and caring. I will miss him.
Cece Drummond
January 2, 2009
To the Foley Family:
I had the pleasure of working with Jeff for 14 years in the travel industry. I along with so many business associates share your sadness. May you have solace in knowing that he truly touched the lives of so many of us with his passion, knowledge, energy and optimism. Most importantly, he spoke with such pride and love about his family. Our prayers are with you.
Derick Root
January 2, 2009
I met Mr. Foley at the UPS store. I work with his son Alex there. My deepest sympathies go out to the Foley family.
Jane & Haley Luckage
January 2, 2009
With all our love,thoughts and prayers
Marty Brown
January 1, 2009
Jeff would be teasing me about the mistake I made in this guest book forum. I hit submit before writing anything- oops. That is the way I have been since hearing from Jeff's brother of his death. I can't concentrate mainly because of shock. It doesn't seem possible than anyone as full of life as Jeff was, could ever die. I have known Jeff since he moved to Iowa in 1973. Everyone needs a fun friend and he was ours. He is my best friend and I can not imagine life without him. My husband and I met because of Jeff and he took great pride in that. He wanted everyone to be happy. He was as good a friend to my children as he was too us. The world is a sadder place, but he left us so many funny memories to last us the rest of out lives. We love you Debbie, Garnet, Alex and Patrick and we will see you tomorrow. Love Marty and Harold
David Kahn
January 1, 2009
I had the great pleasure of working with Jeff at The New Yorker. Was there anyone quicker to share an enveloping smile, a warm pat on the back or a joyous laugh?
This easy, emotional embrace spoke volumes about Jeff's character and spirit. He is truly someone whose life must be celebrated.
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