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Joel Parker Obituary
October 2, 2025
Joel Martin Parker, a beloved educator and family historian, passed away peacefully on October 2, 2025, at the age of 84. Born in Bridgeport, CT, he was the son of the late Samuel H. and Belle (Nadler) Parker.
Joel was predeceased by his brother, Stanley C. Parker, his brother-in-law, the Honorable Jonathan Kaplan, and his nephew David Kaplan. He is survived by his sister, Linda Kaplan, and sister-in-law, Beverly Parker. He is also lovingly remembered by his cherished nieces and nephew, Stacey Olin, Scott Kaplan, and Susan Price, as well as several great-nieces and great-nephews, cousins, and his new friends at River Valley, all who brought him immense joy.
A lifelong student and teacher of history, Joel earned his undergraduate degree in West Virginia and a Master's from the University of Bridgeport. He devoted 34 years to teaching history at Trumbull High School, where he inspired generations of students with his deep knowledge and engaging lessons. In his commitment to connecting history to real life, he was known for bringing community speakers into his classroom, showing his students the real life relevance of whatever subject they were studying.
His passion for history extended well beyond the classroom. Joel's expertise earned him credit in a published history textbook, and he never stopped sharing his love of learning. He hosted a high school trivia show, blending education and entertainment with his trademark wit and enthusiasm. After retiring, he volunteered at a local television station, where he remained active on the board of directors, continuing to contribute to his community in meaningful ways. A member of Mensa since 1991, he remained curious, creative, and dedicated to learning throughout his life.
Known as the family historian, Joel lovingly preserved family memories through digital "Smileboxes," reminding loved ones that every shared moment was history worth keeping.
Joel will be remembered for his kindness, intellect, and devotion to family, students, and community. His legacy endures through the stories he told and the memories he preserved.
A private service was held on October 6, 2025.
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Irwin Peck
Yesterday
I just heard about cousin Joel earlier today. Had I been notified at the time I would have come to the funeral. Condolences to Linda and Beverly Parker.
Beverly and Irwin Peck
Renee O'Neill-Jacks
Yesterday
Mr. Parker was my favorite teacher, one of the few I actually learned from. He taught me government. I enjoyed his class immensely.thoughts and prayers to his family
Renee class of 75
Lauren
October 28, 2025
I was lucky to have known Mr. Parker at Trumbull High School. Years passed and lo and behold there was Mr. Parker again sitting at a front table in River Valley....we shared smiles, stories and an introduction to my mom! He was one special guy!
Sharon
October 28, 2025
I am very sad to hear of his passing he was one of the most memorable and impactful teachers I had he challenged me, he appreciated my ongoing questions and he was very kind. Rest in peace Mr. Parker I will always have a respect for you
Mark Suchenski
October 28, 2025
So sorry for you loss. for your family.
Cathy Freiler
October 28, 2025
Mr Parker was my history teacher. What an impact he had on so many. My sincere condolences
Mike Valentine
October 28, 2025
He was à great teacher I had him as my history teacher at Trumbull High. Prayers for his family.
Frank Konecky
October 28, 2025
I remember Mr. Parker so well, he was really able to get through to me with love and understanding. Goodbye Mr. Parker rest in peace.
Lucinda Christino Timpanelli
October 28, 2025
As a retired teacher from Trumbull HS , I extend my sincere sympathy to Joel´s family. I remember his sincere dedication to his job and the subject he taught . May he rest in eternal peace .
Lucinda Christino Timpanelli
Ingrid Fagerholm
October 28, 2025
Mr. Parker was a wonderful teacher. I wasn´t the greatest student (I didn´t apply myself) but I remember enjoying his class and I learned a lot from him. Plus he was a very nice guy. Sorry to hear about his passing.
Gary Dalessandro
October 28, 2025
Mr. Parker started the change in my life. Our quiet moments after class where a quiet student would ask about the civil war and other wars how it impacted the course of the world.
I miss those private questions
Stephen M Henshaw
October 26, 2025
Mr Parker what's my high school history teacher and my favorite teacher. He will be missed dearly. Here is a photo from inside of my 1997 yearbook.
Beth & Jack Schless
October 24, 2025
We were truly saddened to hear of Joel´s passing. We were cousins &, as such, shared many childhood memories, though we had lost touch in later years. Our condolences to Linda & other family members.
Tommy Kelly
October 24, 2025
He was a great teacher at THS !
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