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1956
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2021
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Joyce Nastu Obituary
Joyce Margaret (Arszyla) Nastu, high school sweetheart and beloved wife of Phil Nastu suddenly passed away on October 30, 2021. Joyce was predeceased by her parents Henry and Catharine (Larkin) Arszyla, father and mother-in-law Aurely (Ray) and Sofia (Cipu) Nastu, and twin sisters Barbara Pratt and Janice Ceisielski. Joyce was a proud lifelong Bridgeport resident, one of nine children who grew up in the South End. She worked in the insurance industry as an office manager for over 25 years at Hub International.
The pride and joy of her life, along with Phil, were here sons Christopher and Lee, devoted daughter-in-law Jody, and treasured grandsons Elijah and Jackson, who lovingly referred to her as their "Maia". She was their superhero, and they were her everything. Along with her family, anyone who knew "Butch" knew how much she loved the Mets. Winning or losing, she remained their loyal and true fan. She was a "career sports wife and mom" as well, never missing her boys' games.
In addition to her loving husband, sons, daughter-in-law and grandsons, she is survived by her siblings. Nancy and Jim St. Pierre, Karen and Mark Marko, Maureen Arszyla and Ralph, Ken and Marianne Arszyla, Tom and Sandee Arszyla, Cathy and Ralph Herndandez, sister-in-law Marie and Joe Norko, John and Deb Nastu, eleven cherished nieces and nephews, 16 great-nieces and nephews and a host of cousins, aunts, and uncles.
Calling hours will take place on Wednesday, November 3, 2021 from 5 to 7 p.m. in The Commerce Hill Funeral Home, 4798 Main St., Bridgeport. A funeral service will be held on Thursday at 11am in the funeral home followed by interment in St. Michael Cemetery, Stratford. To honor Joyce's respect for Covid protocols, face masks are requested. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Autism Speaks, 1060 State Road, Princeton, NJ 08540. in memory of Joyce. For online condolences, memorial tributes and to make a donation visit us at commercehillfh.com
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Donald Putrimas and Diane Elias
November 12, 2021
We are heartbroken at Joyce's passing. We send our deepest sympathy go to her family.
Robin (Arszyla) Rotondi
November 7, 2021
I am so saddened to learn of cousin Joyce's passing. My condolences to the Nastu and Arszyla families and to all the people who loved Joyce. I know she will be dearly missed. Rest in peace cousin.
VALERIE T INTELISANO
November 4, 2021
I remember Joyce from UB, going to her wedding and having her at my college graduation party. I am filled with sadness for all of you especially Phil. My prayers and love to you all.
Gail Adamaitis
November 4, 2021
So sorry to here of the passing of Joyce. My condolences to the Arszyla and Nastu families. RIP Cuz.
James Holbrook
November 4, 2021
My condolences go out to the Nastu family, Phil stay strong she is on the winning team up in heaven.
Cathy Casey Russo - Melbourne, FL
November 4, 2021
Phil and family and the Arszyla family, so very sorry to hear of Joyce´s passing. I have many great memories of growing up together in the South end and all those years together at SHS and Bassick. Such a bright light and always a smile, my deepest sympathy to all.
Sharon Speer
November 4, 2021
Sending strength, comfort and peace to all Joyce's loved ones. What a remarkable woman gone too soon!
Cathy Hernandez
November 3, 2021
Cathy Hernandez
November 3, 2021
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November 3, 2021
Cathy Hernandez
November 3, 2021
Cathy Hernandez
November 3, 2021
Nothing could prepare us for this day...there are no words for losing a sister like you. You will be in our hearts forever
Andrew Kennedy
November 3, 2021
Phil and family,
I was so sorry to hear about the loss of Joyce. I remember her as a student, one of four sisters who took my class. May your memories of your life with her lessen your grief and bring back sweet remembrances.
Andrew Kennedy
Retired Bassick High School Teacher/Coach
Madelyn and Keith Kleps
November 3, 2021
Joyce's personality was the perfect blend of happiness, humor and "friendly" sarcasm supplemented by a kind heart, a brilliant smile and an infectious laugh. She was a very special friend, neighbor and classmate. Our condolences and Love to Phil, the Nastu and Arszyla families.
Brokenhearted in South Carolina
mark harp
November 3, 2021
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Kathy Kleps Rule
November 3, 2021
Sending love and comfort to the Nastu and Arszyla families. I remember Joyce as always cheerful, positive and full of life. Take good care of yourselves in this time of grief. May your many memories bring you peace. Kathy
Elaine Bsissenden
November 3, 2021
Dear Phil and family, So sorry for your loss. Remembering you from our days at TEXTRON. God bless and keep you and your precious family.
The Daniels Family
November 3, 2021
To Phil, the Nastu and Arszyla families. We are still in shock and can´t imagine the grief you all must feel. It is hard to grasp such a loss. Our childhood spent as close neighbors, attending the same schools, many times in the same class, seems like it was just yesterday. Joyce will always be remembered by us as a genuinely kind, friendly and loving member of our extended family. We will miss her dearly and pray that you will find some comfort in knowing she will be with God and other family. Maybe rooting for the Mets with Gert.
God Bless you all and my she rest in peace
With Sincere love and sympathy,
Paul & Kim, Peter & Toots, Nick & Diana, Steph & Aaron, Laura & Jeff, Kristen & Jason, Stacey & Dan and the Daniels Grandchildren.
Joni and John
November 3, 2021
Heartbreaking loss - gone too soon. Joyce, will miss you and your ever-present smile. Holding a lifetime of memories in my heart. Love and prayers to the Nastu and Arszyla families.
Rich McCoy
November 3, 2021
To the Nastus and all of Butch's family, my heart and thoughts go out to you. Butch was a wonderful and kind person. Anytime I ever saw her - no matter the amount of time that passed; months, a year - she would always make it a point to say hi. She will be greatly missed.
The LYDDY FAMILY
November 2, 2021
To The Nastu Family....we were so sorry to hear about the passing of your wife/mother....you are all in our thoughts and prayers....
Bob & Joyce Toth
November 2, 2021
To Phil & the Nastu & Arszyla Families. I was really saddened of hearing the news of Joyce's passing. May God give you all strength and Love at this time. God Bless you all. With all our Love.
Mark Napoli
November 2, 2021
May God bestow peace and give strength to Phil and the Arszyla family, during this sad lost . Joyce was always a happy soul ! God bless you !
David Daniels III
November 2, 2021
My Condolences to the Nastu and Arszla , My Bassick high school classmate , Rest in Peace.
Vicky Klancic Szakal
November 2, 2021
To the Nastu and Arszyla families, my deepest sympathy to you all. Whity my heart goes out to you and your family. May Butch Rest In Peace.
Ed and Pam Finnegan
November 2, 2021
Our Heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Bruce & Therese Buchla
November 2, 2021
Our deepest condolences to the Nastu & Arszyla families. My GOD give you strength through this most difficult time.
Marianne and Michael Spinelli, Sr.
November 2, 2021
We are so saddened to hear of Joyce´s passing. Our deepest condolences to her entire family during this most difficult time. May you all find comfort and healing.
Gary Zingo
November 2, 2021
Joyce was an extremely pleasant person her entire lifetime while raising a beautiful family, may she Rest In Peace as you celebrate a life well lived.My deepest sympathy Gary Zingo Palm City Florida .
GARY ST. PIERRE & ANTHONY AMARAL
November 2, 2021
Our deepest sympathy to Joyce´s entire family. Joyce was a beautiful soul with a kind and gentle heart. She could brighten anyone´s day with her smile. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We wish you peace during your time of sorrow.
Alexis Morrill
November 2, 2021
Sincere sympathy to the Nastu family for your great loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ralph
November 2, 2021
Butch I never met anyone who knew so much about baseball. I will miss our Yankee/Met updates. Even though you Ioved your Mets you supported my Yankees. I think heaven is starting their own FAN radio and needed you to help out. I will always love you and miss you. Love Ralph
Rich Grosso
November 2, 2021
Phil and the Nastu Family, my sincere condolences on your loss. Prayers for strength for all!
Laurie Gildea St John
November 2, 2021
The Gildea Family is so sad about Joyce´s passing. Prayers out to Phil and family.
Dawn Arszyla Rivas
November 1, 2021
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of cousin Joyce (I am uncle Sonny´s daughter). May your happy memories of your times together bring you all some comfort during this difficult time. God Bless!
Craig & Kim Romano
November 1, 2021
We are so saddened to hear of Joyce´s passing. Our deepest condolences to her entire family during this most difficult time.
Sincerely, Craig & Kim Romano
Buff & Karen Bowen
November 1, 2021
Our deepest condolences to Phil, Lee, Chris and the entire family on the passing of Joyce. Our prayers are with you all.
Judy Smith
November 1, 2021
So sorry to Hear about the Loss Of Joyce.
Bassick High classmate of Whitey's.
Phil, Chris, Lee and the Nastu and Arszyla Families in my Prayers. Rest In Peace Joyce. Love, Judy Smith
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