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for Kyle Schneider
Deirdre Murdoch
April 28, 2025
Another year has come and gone, Kyle... I met you through your grandmother Francis remember... It was Thanksgiving and we all helped out with dinner. Your father was there you were there and I was there in France that watching us all. I will never forget you The brief time we spent together I found you to be an amazing young man filled with a tremendous incredible future. Sorry your life was cut short... Left an impression because every year I come back and I pay my respects to you. Sending hugs to your family that remain on earth.
Deirdre Murdoch
April 28, 2024
Good afternoon, Kyle... Know that I remember you. It was Thanksgiving dinner you your grandma Fran and me and I think your father all had Thanksgiving dinner together. When I heard of your death, it shocked me to the core. It made me so sad and so frustrated with this world. You may have been taken from us, especially your family, but you'll never be forgotten ever. What I remember of that particular day was you were polite, you were helpful, and you were wise beyond your years. We had good conversation and it was nice that you were able to come and spend Thanksgiving with your grandmother. Thank you for that beautiful memory. And to Kyle's family, I want you to know your son left a mark on my heart. I don't think I'll ever ever forget him. I say this with love and I hope that you find comfort and knowing that he touched many people. Deirdre , RN
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January 17, 2022
Kyle, we still miss you. I pray that justice will prevail.
Dee Murdoch
May 1, 2020
I met Kyle one thanksgiving at his grandmothers home when I worked at the hospital where I met Francine Buchanan. You could not ask for a more polite young man. My life was truly blessed and enriched for knowing him. I will never forget you Kyle or your family. Forever and always my sympathies. ❤
Dee Murdoch
April 28, 2019
I will always remember the day I met you Kyle. It was thanksgiving 2006. We talked for hours while I helped Grandma Fran get dinner ready. Hearing of your death was devastating to me and I felt the world lost a wonderful, kind and gentle young man. Always in my heart and not far from my thoughts. Wherever you are Im sure you are surrounded by love and joy... love always Deirdre the Canadian Nurse...
Thomas Rodrigues
May 1, 2009
we will never forget
Victoria M
January 26, 2009
"Oh Gods who rule the dark and silent world,
To you all born of a woman needs must come.
All lovely things at last go down to you.
You are the debtor who is always paid.
A little while we tarry up on earth.
Then we are yours forever and forever.
But I seek one who came to you too soon.
The bud was plucked before the flower bloomed.
I tried to bear my loss. I could not bear it.
Love was too strong a god, O King, you know.
If that old tale men tell is true, how once,
The flowers saw the rape of Proserpine.
The weave again for sweet Eurydice,
Life's pattern that was taken from the loom too quick.
See, I ask a little thing,
Only that you will lend, not give, her to me.
She shall be yours when her years' span is full."
--From the myth of Orpheus and Eurydice
I miss you Kyle, you're forever on my mind.
Deirdre Murdoch
December 14, 2008
Dear Kyle...
I just want you to know while looking for your grandmother, I found an article that talked about your death. As I sit here feeling an immense sadness, and loss for your life and the family that mourns you, I can't help but be grateful to have met you and known you. The brief encounter will be forever etched in my mind...
Mary...I cared for your mother and kept in touch with her for years...Now I know why I lost touch...She lost a precious grandson, as you have lost an amazing, loving child.
I am so sorry. There will never be enough words to share with you or to help you get through this...If there is ever, anything I can do for you or your family, will you please let me know...
*sigh*
All time has stood still...My prayers are with you...
Deirdre Murdoch, RN
Raydene Labatore
July 13, 2008
Mary and family,There's nothing I can say that would convey how heavy my heart is.God doesn't give us our children he only lends them to us.You will be in my prayers as you have been through out the years.I'm here if ever you need me. I am so sorry. You are in my heart.
Nick and Anni De Marco
May 29, 2008
To the Schneider family and the Buchanan family:
We are heart broken..
Please know you are in our thoughts and in our prayers each and every day! May our Lord Jesus Christ strenghten you and fill you with His peace and hope!
Nick and Anni De Marco
Christopher M. Kehoe
May 19, 2008
Dear Mary,
I had been away recently and upon my return home I learned of the tragic passing of your son, Kyle. I wanted to let you know how deeply saddened and sorry I feel for you and your family. At a time like this it's difficult to know what to say. I just don't have the words to adequately convey my sympathies. I'm just so, so sorry.
I wish you and all your family peace and love.
Emily Buchanan
May 12, 2008
You will be forever and loved and missed. You will always have a special place in my heart, my twin. <3
Roberta Diaz
May 12, 2008
Dear Schneider Family,
I met Kyle last year when David introduced me to him. I didn't know him well but David told me he was the funniest kid he had ever met.
I am sure that justice will be served and I will continue to pray for God's peace upon your family during the coming weeks.
barbara barnett
May 9, 2008
Mary and family members:
With utmost sympathy we mourn with you-
Love, Barbara and Al
Linda-Ann Licari
May 8, 2008
My thoughts and prayers to the family and all who were friend of this young man. Keep Kyle in your heart and thoughts
I do not know you but my heart is breaking for you all
Sincerely
Joan, Tim, Christine, Mike, and Matt Ross
May 8, 2008
Dear Mary, Doug, Dougie, and Rachel,
We are so shocked to hear about Kyle's passing and we want you to know that we will keep your family in our prayers.
We haven't seen Kyle since he was a young boy living in Wilton, but we remember him for his kindness and his humor. We will never forget how he helped Matt out when he fell and hurt his head at Dougie's and Mike's Little League game. We have told that story many times to many people over the years and it always brings a smile to everyone's face. We care deeply about what you are going through.
With love and sympathy,
The Rosses
Katie Riley
May 8, 2008
Rachel, Mary, and Dougie,
We cannot even begin to express just how sorry we are, all of us. We all loved Kyle. We are all here for you if u need us.
Sincerely,
Flavia, John, and Johnathan Riley
Rachel,
I can't get you, and your whole family off my mind. I miss you all so much, and I want you to know that i love you, and you will always be my best friend. I'm always here for u if you need to talk, and I've got your back.
Love forever<3,
Katie(Kay,KayKay, Kayz, or KT) Riley.<3333
Joanne Rivers
May 8, 2008
To: Mary, Doug, Douglas and Rachel:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time on the tragic loss of Kyle. May God give you all His Peace and comfort. Love the Rivers Family
Thomas Balch
May 7, 2008
Dear Mary, Rachel, and Doug,
I'm really really sorry that this happened. I hadn't seen Kyle since he came up last spring, but all these memories of when you guys lived down the street, and when we used to carpool in to school in the morning. They're just swarming back. It's just so unreal, so unbelievable that this would happen. It just doesn't seem true. I'm sorry I couldn't be down in Farfield for the service. I really wish I could be. I'm thinking of you guys up here. I wish you the best of luck with all of this, I'll see you when you come back up.
Thomas
Paty Matrai & Barney Balch
May 7, 2008
Dear Mary, Rachel, Dougie and Family,
we are so sorry for your loss. Please accept our condolences and hugs
Stephen L
May 7, 2008
Kyle was a great guy he maid everyone happy in school he was the adrenaline of WARDE
lori
May 7, 2008
kyles death is not just a tragedy for his family but for a whole community
Lindsay R
May 7, 2008
Kyle was a great person and will always be missed
Katlyn Eaton
May 7, 2008
To the Schneider Family,
Kyle will truly be missed, he had such a huge heart, and amazing personality. My thoughts and prayers go to you all in this time of grief.
Kyle will live on through all our memories.
Cheryl Baity
May 6, 2008
We all know that you are in a better place. The joy you brought to so many in your short life will always be remembered and cherished. You will be missed profoundly, prayed for often and loved eternally. Thank you for being in our lives.
We are going to miss you. Cheryl, Ryan and Connor
Tyler K
May 6, 2008
Kyle you will forever be apart of all of our lives , you were funny and optomistic .Your father should be proud.
Eesha Malick
May 6, 2008
"You walked out that door without a clue you won't walk back in...everyones still waiting to pick up the phone and hear you on the other end. everyones still waiting to see you're name come up as "online"...everyones still waiting to open that door and see you standing there...You're the fire that can't be put out no matter what. Your flame burns eternally..."
-Unknown
My condolences go out to his family and friends. I know this is a tough time, but you will pull through it. Be strong and always know that your son and your friend is in everyones hearts. We are all praying for the day we see you again.
Gary & Joyce Seaman
May 6, 2008
Doug & Family:
May you find peace and happiness in the many memories you shared.
We are here if you need us.
your friends
Joyce & Gary Seaman
Joyce & Gary Seaman
May 6, 2008
Doug & Family:
May you find peace and happiness in the many memories you shared.
We are here if you need us.
Your friends
Joyce & Gary Seaman
Rita Schneider
May 6, 2008
Doug, Mary, Dougie, and Rachael,
I wish we could be there to support you. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you now and always!
Karen Thompson
May 6, 2008
Mary, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
McLoughlin Family
May 6, 2008
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Rosie McLoughlin
May 6, 2008
Sympathy to his family and friends, he will be missed by all, including my daughter ashling. God give strength to you all.
Dana L
May 6, 2008
Even though I had never met you I've heard so many nice things about you. My cousin went to school with you. I would like to send my condolences to the family and friends.. Kyle you will be missed so much and we all know that you will be watching over all of us as our Guardian Angel... May the Lord be with you always and may God Bless your family. Take care..
Joseph Hoermann
May 6, 2008
The world will surley miss you. Your smile when you were a young boy , always warmed my heart. Your intillect was inspiring. Peace be with you....
Victoria Merwin
May 6, 2008
Kyle, you were one of the most generally nicest people have ever met. Its odd how I talked to you that afternoon, then learned the next day you had died. You did not deserve this, you had so much more ahead of you. Forever and always will you be in my heart and mind. The amounts of hearts you touched was truly amazing. I'm honored to say you were my friend. I will always be thinking of you. I love and miss you.
Fairfield
May 6, 2008
Deepest condolences to the family.
Our prayers are with you.
Please know that Kyle is safe sitting next to the Lord.
A Fairfield Resident
The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home
May 6, 2008
Offering our deepest condolences during this time.
The Lyons Family
May 6, 2008
We love you Schneider and Buchanan families and grieve the loss of Kyle with you. Please know you are continually in our thoughts and prayers. May God in His mercy and grace bring you comfort in your sorrow, until you see Kyle again in the presence of the Lord.
Sarah Jensen
May 5, 2008
With love and deepest sympathy to all the Schneiders, especially Mary, at this very difficult time.
Steve & Alison S.
May 5, 2008
We are so sorry for your loss. It is comforting to know that each one of us has a Higher Power, and right now, Kyle is with his in peace, and he is being comforted. Please be at Peace with your Higher Power, we all pray for you, for Kyle and your entire family.
Rebecca
May 5, 2008
kyle-
you have touched more souls than you will ever know. i hope your family knows thisa and i hope they live in pride knowing the impact you have made in everyones hearts. ill never forget your generous smile and gratitude, or the way you cheered me up when i was down. i truly feel blessed to have known you, i wish the whole world could have. and to his family, i send my deepest condolences, but just rest assured that kyle reid schneider, will remain a legend in our eyes forever.
hayley coppola
May 5, 2008
R.I.P Kyle. You will be missed by everyone
Steve and Renee Coombs
May 5, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Victoria
May 5, 2008
live every day like it's your last because you never know what is going to happen tomorrow.
we love and miss you kyle.
Wolff Family
May 5, 2008
Our extended family in Christ has suffered and is suffering. His peace and wisdom from Him is our prayer for all. Teach us Lord, to pray.
The Wolff Family
Tom S
May 5, 2008
R.I.P. Kyle. You will be missed by everyone
Brandi Hennessey
May 5, 2008
im so sorry for this family, you didnt deserve this.
sam k
May 5, 2008
my deepest sympathies to all of kyle's family and friends. i have only heard good things about him. God bless Kyle and those who have been touched by his life and passing.
The Morgans
May 5, 2008
We are extremly sad and can only condole ourselves with the thought Kyle is just waiting with God for you on the other side, a safe peaceful side:
Love never disappears for death is a non-event.
I have merely retired to the room next door.
You and I are the same; what we were for each other, we still are.
Speak to me as you always have, do not use a different tone, do not be sad.
Continue to laugh at what made us laugh.
Smile and think of me.
Life means what it has always meant.
The link is not severed.
Why should I be out of your soul if I am out of your sight?
I will wait for you, I am not here, but just on the other side of this path.
--St. Augustine
Jackie M
May 5, 2008
I'm sorry for you loss. please except my condolences.
Ricki Waltz
May 5, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Katie W
May 5, 2008
I am very sorry for your loss. Kyle was a great person and friend to all who were fortunate enough to know him. We will miss you, Kyle. Rest in peaceand know you will never be forgotten because a part of you lives on in us all.
David H
May 5, 2008
Our deepest regrets for the loss of Kyle. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Frank Bachard Jr.
May 5, 2008
Death is a Part of Us
Death is a part of us
Each day,
Each week,
Each month,
Each year, and
Each lifetime
No matter good or bad
No matter happy or sad
When it comes down to
One person that we lose,
Or has been lost,
We cherish day in and day out
What we thought of that person.
What we think about is what he or she
Was like,
Was feeling,
Was thinking,
And what a good friend he or she was
Before and after this tragic death that
Had happened.
We would think about all the
Good times,
Bad times, and
Everything in between, and
Remember why we loved him or her very much.
No matter if it is a
Family member,
Friend,
Companion, or
Loved one.
We still believe that death is a part of US and always will be.
R.I.P. Kyle Reid Schneider
You will always be in our thoughts and prayers
Maucieri
May 5, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Victoria Kubel
May 5, 2008
Kyle was a great person who was always fond of music. He will always be missed in school and definetly amoung friends.
Death is something that is painful
but life after death is always there
Pain iwll always lye in our hearts
But it will soon be replaced
knowing Kyle is in a better place.
Sam Zhou
May 5, 2008
Kyle, I miss you so much. You made such a difference in my life, even if you didn't know it. I'll miss going into school today, and not seeing your smiling, laughing, cheerful face in band. By the way, you got a 3 on your spotcheck on Variations of America. Congrats! But you didn't deserve this. But hopefully, you're somewhere better than we are right now, somewhere where you're relaxing, and laughing at us. Watch over us, and know how much we miss and love you. I know we'll meet again someday. Until then. R.I.P. Kyle Reid Schneider 5/1/2008
Nicole Bok
May 5, 2008
Homeroom will never be the same.
Rest In Peace.
Anne Marie L.
May 4, 2008
There arent any words i can say to express how truly sorry i am for your loss. Kyle was a great person and a great friend. We'll all miss him.
matthew weaving
May 4, 2008
kyle was a good friend and a great inspiration i miss him so much already
Pam Lanza
May 4, 2008
We will miss Kyle greatly. Our hearts go out to his family and we send then our love and prayers.
Alison R
May 4, 2008
I'll always remember the sweetness that was evident in everything Kyle did and said during his time at CTL in Maine. I'm deeply sorry for your loss. Kyle's sensitivity and kindness will live on in the hearts of everyone who knew him.
The Krauchick's
May 4, 2008
Our hearts go out to this wonderful family. We all know Kyle is in a much better place, but the loss of such a great kid is hard to take.
We have you in our prayers.
Rev. Glenn Campbell & Family
May 4, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Luise Lichtenberg
May 4, 2008
There is nothing one can say at this moment to give comfort. There are no words. I am truly sorry for your loss, and even that does not and will not say enough. Have faith enough to put yourself in Gods hands and believe enough in the fellowship of man to know that this to shall pass.
Mary I love you and Rachel and Dougie very much, you are in my heart and my thoughts and my prayers. My family and I are always with you.
With much love, Luise, Charles, Valeska and Whitman
Kim G
May 4, 2008
When all is said and done, Kyle's spirit will forever soar in the hearts of all who knew him.
Rock on, dear Kyle
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