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Marvin Gelfand Obituary
Marvin Bernard Gelfand, age 86 of Easton, CT, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, March 24, 2020, at Bridgeport Hospital. Marvin was born in Bridgeport, a son of the late Nathan and Anna Gelfand. Marvin was a long-standing member of the Fairfield/Bridgeport business community where he built his professional career as a Certified Public Accountant. He graduated from Central High School and The University of Bridgeport, where he received the E. Everett Cortwright Scholarship, was President of Sigma Lamda Pi fraternity, and was elected to Who's Who Among Students in American Universities and Colleges. He proudly served in the U.S. Army from 1956-1958, and was the Chief of Accounting at Ft. Gordon, GA. He was an original incorporator of Citizen National bank, serving as Director and Chairman of the Loan Committee. He served as Easton Police Commissioner for 15 years and Treasurer of the Easton Democratic Town Committee. He also served as Treasurer for the CT State Association of Police Commissioners and on various local boards and committees including the Easton Tax Relief for the Elderly Committee, the Easton Employee Pensions and Benefits Commission, the Easton Committee on Aging, and the Easton Animal Shelter Committee. In 2009, Marvin was recognized for his distinguished record of public service to the Town of Easton as a recipient of the John & Phyllis Neary Award.
Marvin touched the lives of many people. He will always be remembered for his goofy sense of humor, his passion for music and the arts, his generosity, his love of dogs and his steadfast love for his family. Marvin is survived by his beloved wife Joann Gelfand, his devoted daughters Amy Golding and her husband Joel of West Haven, CT, and Lisa Gelfand and her partner Brenda Coats of Waterbury, CT, his adored grandchildren, Carly Palmieri and Emily Golding, and all his cherished nephews and nieces. He was predeceased by his dear siblings Cyril (Cy) Gelfand and Edith Gelfand. A private graveside service will take place on Friday, March 27, 2020, at B'nai Israel Cemetery in Fairfield, CT. A memorial service will be held at a future date to be announced. Memorial contributions may be made to Jewish Senior Services. For more information, to share an online condolence, or join a remote attendance service, please visit: www.greensfuneralhome.com
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Steve Sabol
March 19, 2025
Always missed but never forgotten. Rest my friend.
My best always to Joann and family.
Steve Sabol
March 20, 2023
Always remembered never forgotten. A gentleman, loved and respected by all who knew you. Rest my friend.
Steve Jakab
April 9, 2020
Dear Joanne,
Please know that we are holding you in thought and prayer at this time of sadness. Marv was a very special friend to us with a wonderful sense of humor. We will miss him!
Wishing you peace and blessings as we celebrate the holy days of Passover and Easter.
With our love and sympathy,
Steve and Carol Jakab
April 9, 2020
Dear Joann and family
It is still unbelievable to us that Marvin is gone He was so full of life and love and stories We had so many good times together
We will love and miss Marvin forever
Sincerely
Kevin & Anita Gilchrist
Steve Sabol
April 9, 2020
Dear Joann, I was so very saddened upon learning of Marv's passing. I knew him for many, many years. Marv helped me when my dad passed and remained my accountant. My father's business was one of Marvin's first clients when he was beginning his career. My dad loved Marvin and would speak well of him often while remembering "the good old days". Though we did not see each other often, Marvin holds a very dear spot in our family's past. Joann, I wish you my condolences during this very difficult time. Please know that your husband, Marvin, will be remembered and deeply missed.
Beth Bailer
April 6, 2020
Dear Joanne and family,
I knew Marvin since I was a little girl. He always made me giggle. He will be greatly missed.
Diane & Ed McKeever
April 6, 2020
Dear Joann, Ed and I were so sad to learn of Marv's passing. We had been a client of his since 1969. We would make an appointment to see him on a Sunday in March. Ed would be on his way to spend time getting our boat ready for the season and I would come just to see Marv, which was always a treat. He would tell us about your latest adventures in NYC and which plays you had seen. He loved you and his family so much. He will be missed.
Florence
April 3, 2020
Dear Joann and family,
I was very sad to learn of Marvin's passing.
He truly loved life. I looked forward to seeing him, not only as my account, but as a person to enjoy those meetings with. I will miss him.
Stephen & Ellen Bailer
April 1, 2020
Dear Joann and family,
We were stunned when we heard the news. I hope you can take solace that he is definitely in a better place than we are right now. He made me laugh since the day I was born and I will miss him dearly as I know you will too. Please take care of yourselves.
March 31, 2020
Marv, I am and will always be a fan. I enjoyed every moment I spent with you. You were extraordinary in every way. I will miss you and remember you fondly.
Condolences to all you touched.
Brian Amoroso
March 30, 2020
Dear Joann and family -
Marvin was our family accountant for many years and became a dear friend to my dad John McDonald, before his passing back in 2011. Marvin was so full of life and we are so sad to hear of his passing. May he rest in peace.
With deepest sympathy,
Dawn & Dominic Ruggiero
Margot Abrams
March 30, 2020
Dear Joann and Family:
Jack and I will miss our cheery friend, wise advisor and longtime DTC compatriot. Our deepest condolences. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
March 30, 2020
Joann you are in my prayers. Marvin was such a wonderful soul. He is going to be missed by many.
Michele Britt & Family
Jacqueline Fleming-Tuozzoli
March 29, 2020
Marvin, I will miss you so much at the office. You worked tirelessly at the office.
All of your clients just loved you. You were always funny, it just won't be the same
without you. You loved your wife and children so much. I will always admire you. I will always miss you, good man.
Always,
Jackie
March 29, 2020
Dear Joann,
Frank and I were so sorry to hear of Marvin's passing.
We go back to Grammar School as well as High School. He was always the life of the party and
liked by everyone. I will always remember him as a fun loving guy. Please know that I will keep you in my prayers at this most difficult time.wishing you well and praying time will help heal you.
I was speaking to my Friend Ruth Hopco and she asked that I express her sympathies. Knownas Hoppy,I believe you met at our class reunion.
May God Bless and keep you well.
Love,
Frank & Mary rizzardi
Joseph Iannucci
March 29, 2020
Marvin was my Accountant and I was his Barber, but more than that, we were Friends for over 55 years! I will miss my good Friend.
My heartfelt condolences to you Joanne and your Family. God Bless You All.
Karl Peterson
March 29, 2020
I am so sorry to hear of Marvins passing. My deepest condolences to Joann, all his family, friends, and coworkers. Marvin will most certainly be missed.
Nancy Loshuk
March 27, 2020
I was introduced to Marv by my friend Kim Marie several years ago. He was a great accountant and I loved seeing him every year! He was a very sweet man and always talked so lovingly about his wife and family. Just a good and kind person with such a fun sense of humor. When I went to see him to do my taxes it was like going to visit a friend or a father figure and he always had a good story to tell and great advice to give. The world has lost a really good person. Rest in Peace Uncle Marv .
March 27, 2020
Joann, Our heartfelt sympathy goes out
to you and your family. We will miss
Marvin's smile and humor always.
He was a true friend.
Keith & Barbara Bennett
March 27, 2020
Our Deepest condolences go out to the entire family. I worked for Marvin for many years and he was just one of the nicest men and bosses I had ever had. May he R.I.P
Joanne our deepest of sympathies go out to you. Also our deepest condolences go out to all the staff at Fairfield CPA.
Sincerely
Ann and Anastasios Spanos
and Family
Jose and Nancy Montalvo
March 27, 2020
Marvin ,
Nancy And I will miss you greatly. Your smile , Your charming way about you. Thanks for all these years of service and God Bless you my friend
March 27, 2020
I am thinking of Marvin at this time with a heavy heart. All I can say is he was truly a wonderful person, blessed with charm, intelligence and a whitty sense of humor. On one of my April tax time visits to Marv I said to him "who knew getting your taxes done could be so much fun!" Marv gave me the look / eye roll... and my wife, Marv and myself all had a great laugh. I really meant it. Rest in peace Marv.
Condolences to Marvins wonderful family that he spoke of often, during this most difficult time.
Daniel and Michele Dwyer
March 27, 2020
So sorry to hear of the passing of Marvin. The kids had very fond memories of him , also a great neighbor. The Fogarty family
March 26, 2020
Joann
My sincere sympathy to you at this sad time he was such a nice man I know my parents just loved him may he Rest in Peace
Sincerely Lois Gaydos DeManche
Nunzi & Kathy Melisi
March 26, 2020
For those fortunate to have Marvin in their lives , you were truly blessed, as we were. Kind,compassionate, loving, generous, witty are just a few of your characteristics we all loved about you. Thank you for your open heart. You have made an incredible impact on so many lives which will be part of your legacy. We will miss you friend, but will never forget you. Sincerest sympathy to JoAnn, Lisa, Amy and your families❤
Anna and George Gal
March 26, 2020
Our deepest sympathy to Joann and family.
Marvin was a great boss and friend. I worked with him24 years. He loved his work and the people around him. He was a true entertainer in the office.Marvin, now you can antertaine your friends with your famous moonwalk up in haven.
May you Rest In Peace my friend. We will miss you!
March 26, 2020
What a wonderful man! I cherished his mentorship and friendship and will miss him dearly.
Neil Smerling
Kathy and Len Selezan
March 26, 2020
Words can not begin to express the deep and utter sadness we feel at the passing of this wonderful man. We would like to extend our heart felt condolences to his wife, Jo, his family and to all of his friends. We had the the privilege and good fortune to have had Marvin as a friend for over forty years. Marvin, you will be with us always. But it's the laughter, we will remember, whenever we remember, the way we were.
Tom Collins
March 26, 2020
Just the thought of Marvin will bring a smile to my face. He genuinely loved people and people loved him right back. Safely home, Marvin, safely home.
March 26, 2020
Oh my G-D I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Marvin. An incredible man who will be sorely missed. I just saw him a little over a month ago for my yearly appointment. I have known Marvin for at least 30 years he goes as far back as taking care of my Mom and Dad as one of his first clients. I extend all my sympathies to the family.
Darryl Schneider
March 26, 2020
Condolences to Marvin`s family. He was my parents' accountant for many years. Years later I met his children on a trip to Israel. We called Marvin and he was surprised to hear that we had met. Marvin was a wonderful man and would greet us on the holidays at B'nai Israel. He was loved by many people. May his memory be a blessing to his family.
Rhea Spiegel
Nina Telep
March 26, 2020
Joanne - we are so sorry for your loss - with deepest sympathy to a wonderful person Nina Telep - Rob and Nella Telep
Annie Forstrom
March 25, 2020
Marv was a true gentleman, with a twinkle in his eye and a smile on his lips. I think he got a kick out the envelope I'd leave at the office every year (loaded with my tax info).. I always addressed it to "Marvelous Marv"... because that's exactly who he was, he was Marvelous. Rest in peace my friend.
Lisa Gal
March 25, 2020
Sending our deepest condolences to you and your family Joann. We are heartbroken. Love the Gal-Bianchi Family in California
Molly Attruia-Hartwell
March 25, 2020
Dear Joann. John told me that Marvin died. We were both so sad. Sending prayers and keeping you in our thoughts during this difficult time. ❤❤❤ Molly and John
Molly Attruia-Hartwell
March 25, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
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