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Mary Middendorf Obituary

MIDDENDORF Mary Cribbins Middendorf, age 98, previously of Derby, entered into eternal rest on Thursday, February 1, 2007 at Hewitt Memorial Hospital, Shelton with her loving family by her side. She was the widow of Robert Middendorf. Mary was born in Shelton, July 9, 1908, daughter of the late Malachi and Catherine Doran Cribbins and was a lifelong Valley resident. She attended the Shelton Schools and worked in the Star Pin Co, and later as a teacher9s aide in the Derby Public School System. Survivers include her three loving daughters, Kathleen Fraulo and husband, James, of Woodmont, Maureen Foley and husband, Daniel, of Derby and Alice Fritz and husband, Ross, of North Carolina; 12 grandchildren; and 11 great-grandchildren. She was predeceased by a son, Edward Middendorf; two daughters, Barbara Fitzpatrick and Mary Conklin Frances; a brother, Malachi Cribbins Jr.; and granddaughter, Lauren Fitzpatrick Wasilkowich. Funeral services are on Monday at 9:45 a.m. from the James T. Toohey & Son Funeral Home, 92 Howe Avenue, Shelton and at 10:30 a.m. in St. Joseph Church, Shelton for a Mass of Christian Burial. Burial in Mt. St. Peter9s Cemetery, Derby. Calling hours are on Sunday from 2 to 4:40 p.m.

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Published by Connecticut Post on Feb. 3, 2007.

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Alice Fritz

February 12, 2007

miss you and know you are loved...glad you have a new residence and you taught us to love and be kind and be a servant...not a day will go by that we don't think of your kind ways and serving others...The Lord blessed you with a long life...

Ed Cloughessy

February 11, 2007

My deepest sympathy for the loss of your mom. She was such a wonderful person, whom I enjoyed visiting whenever I went up to see my Mom. I'll never forget her, or the day she stood on her chair with her arms outstretched and said to me, "Come on over here, big boy, and give me a hug!"

Love to all, Ed

Rita Cloughessy

February 10, 2007

To my dear cousins...you were so good to your Mom, and I always admired the closeness you all share with her and each other. Thank you for always including my mother and my family in your kind visits. Aunt Mary and Uncle Bob have so much to be proud of. Love to each of you and your families. Love, Rita

Robert Conklin

February 6, 2007

Dear Gram,
I'll miss you more than you could ever know. Please say hi to my mom when you get home.

Love Always,
Bobby

Paul & Dody Criscuolo

February 5, 2007

Sorry we could not get to the Wake on Sunday. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Paul & Dody

Christine Rowland

February 4, 2007

I will miss Grandma Mittendorf's arts and crafts, the crocheted booties and the little laced decorative hats she made (I still have one at my parents' home). I will miss her gentile smile. My love and condolences to Mrs. Fraulo and to all of her family. I am sure the angels in Heaven will all have new booties and blankets to keep them warm in the winter. Rest in peace.

Kelly McNulty

February 3, 2007

Dear Mrs. Fraulo and extended family,
We are so sorry for the loss of your mother. We are thinking of you all, keeping you in our prayers, as you honor a beautiful woman and her wonderful life. Love, Colin and Kelly

Kathy O'Brien

February 3, 2007

Dear Kathy & Jim,
I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. I am sure that you hold many special memories of times together. Keep them close to your heart. Love, Kathy

Kelly McNulty

February 3, 2007

Mrs. Fraulo and extended family,

We are sorry to hear of your mother's passing and we will be keeping all of you in our thoughts as you prepare to honor such a beautiful woman and wonderful life. Thinking of you, Colin and Kelly McNulty

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