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Peter Barnes Obituary
Pete Barnes, of Newtown, CT, passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, September 27 in his favorite chair at his home that he had built with his wife, Carol. Pete was loved by all those who knew him. He was a devoted husband to his wife, Carol, of 35 years, beloved father to his son, Travis, loyal friend to many, young at heart, genuine, gracious and always grateful for all life had afforded him.
Pete's family was originally from Massachusetts and came south to raise the family in Trumbull, CT. He was never far away from his roots or his friends. He was a patriot, proud of his country and his service in the United States Navy during the Vietnam War from 1965-1969. He was also a lifelong fan of the Boston Red Sox. Pete's career started as an artist who honed his skills in the union as an ironworker, then turned to smaller contracting positions working as a craftsman on jobs with private clients and friends.
Pete was an avid golfer and will be missed on the links by his buddies. He has many nieces and nephews that gave him great joy throughout his life. He was predeceased by his brothers Charles (Rick) and Jeff Barnes. He is survived by his wife Carol, son Travis, sister Sue Barnes Coyne, brothers Steve and Donald Barnes, and numerous nieces, nephews and great-nieces and nephews.
The memorial service is planned for Saturday, October 7 at 1:00 p.m. at Pete and Carol's home.
The family would like to express their sincere gratitude to Officer Adam James and the Newtown Police Department for their support and kindness during this tragic time. To leave an online condolence please visit www.spadaccinofuneralhome.com.
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Lawrence Cole
October 11, 2017
I grew up along with Pete and the other "Barnes Kids" who lived across the street from me. I remember them all very well. We had hundreds of childhood adventures on Canoe Brook Lake and in the surrounding woods and fields. Pete was one of those memories - a good guy who will be forever missed by all who knew him. Please accept my sincerest condolences at his loss.
Norma Cole-Brewer
October 11, 2017
So saddened to hear of Pete's passing. I remember when the Barnes family built their house in Trumbull. What a joy to have playmates. And play we did. It's amazing the strong feelings of love and loss after all these years.
October 9, 2017
Carol, Sincerest condolences. Very sorry for your loss. May your memories help you through this rough time. God Bless
Nancy Rivera
Karl Prokop
October 6, 2017
Carol,
We have never met but I met Pete as I was driving home in Stepney one day and he was getting the mail at the mailbox where I had many times seen the name and wondered if he was from the Trumbull neighborhood where the Lattanzio's and the Dominko's lived. We talked briefly and it was apparent that he was one of the friendliest and nicest people I had ever met. My condolences go out to you and the Barnes families.
Karl Prokop
Marianne and Chuck Davenport
October 6, 2017
Dear Carol and family,
Our sincere condolences on Pete's passing.
May he Rest In Peace.
Janet Gowans, Peluchette
October 5, 2017
To Carol, Travis and the Barns family, my sincere sympathy to you all. Pete was always sweet and kind to all who knew him, We grew up together and his Mom was my gym teacher in the high school days. He will always be a wonderful memory for me. RIP my old friend.
October 5, 2017
Peter was a great man. Pete's brother Ricky and wife Betty loved him very much He loved his wife family and friends. Pete will be missed by all.
With love from Shirley, Doe, Billy and Jessica Szekeres
Sandy Sime
October 5, 2017
So sorry for your great loss. Pete was a very special person. He would do anything to help you. My thoughts and prayers are with you Carol and your family.
Dennis Brinkmann
October 5, 2017
To Carol and family - Sincerest condolences. Very sorry for your loss.
Dennis Brinkmann (St.Vincent's Med Center Pharmacy).
anthony siciliano
October 5, 2017
I saw Pete at the gym we both used, in Newtown, a few years ago. He looked very fit and not much different than he did in high school.
October 5, 2017
My sincere condolences to the Barnes family.
Jay Sliva, Highland Beach, FL
Brenden McDonough
October 5, 2017
I am saddened to hear of Pete's passing. My sincere condolences to his family. Pete was one of the good guys. Great sense of humor, good laugh and a wonderful smile.Had the good fortune of playing softball together way back in the day and had a real good time doing it. I will remember Pete fondly and keep you all in my thought and prayers. God Bless.
October 5, 2017
So sorry for your loss. I grew up a block away from the Barnes family on Canoe Brook Lake. My condolences to the entire family.
Donna Dubin Cassino
Bob Caserta
October 4, 2017
My condolences to the family. I was from the THS class of '64 and knew Pete along with Jeff and Don.
Mary-Alice Citrano
October 4, 2017
Carol,
So very sorry for your devastating loss. You are in our prayers.
Our deepest condolences.
Love, Mary-Alice and Greg Citrano
October 4, 2017
Carol and Trav,our deepest sympathies, Pete was a kind and wonderful Friend. We will all miss him terribly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both. Jim and Deb Taft
Rudy Mauritz III
October 4, 2017
I worked with Pete during his early days as an Ironworker. I remember Pete as a hard working fun loving guy that always had a smile on his face. God Bless Pete and his family.
Ginny Ginand
October 4, 2017
Carol I just found out about Pete. What a shock I am so sorry. I am thinking of you. He was just too young
The Staff of Spadaccino Funeral Home
October 4, 2017
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
October 2, 2017
Carol and Travis you have our deepest sympathy on your loss. Pete was a very special man who loved everyone. Chip and I were blessed to call him our friend. We will miss. love to you Travis.
Chip and JoAnne Stowe (Easton, Ct.)
The Sova Family
October 2, 2017
Prayers sent to the Barnes family on the passing of your loved one. We pray for peace & comfort in your hearts today, and in the weeks, months, years to come. May Peter rest in peace.
God bless.
John Jr. Sembrot
October 2, 2017
Carol, Pete was bigger than life for me as a child, he will always be one of the biggest men in my childhood memory. Carol is disheartened to not be here for you at this time. She sends her regrets and sincerest condolences.
Larry Davidson
October 2, 2017
Carol and Family I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of Pete. My prayers are with you.
Larry D.
September 30, 2017
Carol and family,
We are so sad to hear of Pete's passing. He was a kind and genuine friend. We hold wonderful memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Chuck and Diana
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