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Thomas Pecor Obituary

PECOR Mr. Thomas Edison Pecor Jr. age 55, of Stratford, beloved husband of Sharon Beach Pecor, died Saturday January 9, 2010 at home, surrounded by his loving family after a long illness. Born on January 28, 1954 in Milford, he was the son of the late Thomas and Jean Cook Pecor. Thomas served with pride and honor in the US Army during the Vietnam Era. He was a long time resident of Milford and truck driver for the city of Milford for 28 years before his retirement. He was also the owner of Toms Home Repair. Tom played softball for many teams throughout Milford and had coached baseball and basketball in Stratford for his children. He was a member of the American Legion Post 196 Milford. Tom was an avid fisher and camper but most of all loved spending time with his family and friends. Besides his beloved wife Sharon of 32 years, survivors include three sons. Thomas E. Pecor III and his wife Jasmine of Milford, Justin Pecor and his fiance Rebecca Guggenheim of Stratford , and Matthew Pecor and his wife Heather of San Clemente, CA; two granddaughters Andrea' and Cailey Pecor of Milford . Three brothers and a sister; Michael Powers (Maryann) of Worcester, VT, Glenda Delle (Lanny) of York, PA, Roy Pecor of Milford, William Pecor (Christine) of Sneads Ferry, NC and Timothy Pecor of Newport, VT. Also several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his daughter Jessica Pecor and his nephew Roy Coover III. A funeral will be held on Wednesday January 13 at 11:00 a.m. in Grace Baptist Church 400 Burnt Plains Road, Milford. Burial at Kings highway Cemetery Milford . Family and friends may call on Tuesday form 4 to 8:00 at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street on the Green, Milford . www.codywhitefuneralservice.com

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Published by Connecticut Post on Jan. 11, 2010.

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January 15, 2010

Dearest Sharon,Tommy,Jr,Justin,Matt and all of your extended famiy,
What A Loss! Take your time missing him But remember the life you all shared and Fun times not the last 3yrs. of suffering that all of you went through together! Tommy's memory card gave me so much strength.Tommy was such a great brother and his hugs just were priceless to this sister who was not in his life for so many years. It was so hard to let go of him again. Sharon, Thank you for kidnapping me for a day and giving me that Day with both my brothers and you my precious sister-in-law forever!! You all gave him so much that he did not have as a child! REMEMBER ALL OF Your Loving,FUNNY and PRICELESS moments.
Love and prayers,
SIS and LANNY

Mike & Mary Ann Powers

January 13, 2010

Dear Sharon,Tommy,Justin& Matt,
Mike and I have been reading all the beautifull notes from the rest of your family and friends.
Tom was certainly loved by all who knew him. We will miss his coming to Vermont, but will remember the good times we had together. He was one of very few people that could get his brother to go out to eat.We have those memories and a few pictures.
We were so glad you made it up here in Oct.. What a strong person Tom was, he certainly put up a good fight.
Our church sends their love and prayers to you. Sharon you'll always be a part of the family ours and WUMC. Come see us anytime. We all are thinking of you. If there is anything we can do please ask. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless all of you.
Love,
Mike & Mary Ann

Darlene Cavaliere

January 13, 2010

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

January 13, 2010

Our family is very saddened by your loss! We were away and just found out. Our prayers are with you and your family.

The DelBene's

Judy Knapp

January 13, 2010

Dear Sharon and Family,

My heart goes out to you and your family at this very sad time of Tom's death. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. I wish that Mike, Mary Ann and I could have been with you today, but you know that we are with you in spirit.

Our Church family (Worcester United Methodist) remembered you this past Sunday and Pastor Jerry conveyed special prayers for you and your entire family.

May God be with you and we welcome you to come to Worcester whenever you can, as you have many family members here that love you.

Take care and know that our hearts are with you. Tom will be greatly missed, but there are many great memories. Hold on to them!

With Love,
Judy
(Mary Ann's sister)

January 13, 2010

Dear Sharon and Family,
Our deepest sympathy to you all in the loss of your husband and father. My prayers for strength and courage are with you during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Tom & Teresa Fedor

Cynthia Weiss

January 12, 2010

Dear Sharon and family,
We were so saddened to hear of Tom's passing. Please accept our deepest sympathy. Remember the good times that you enjoyed together. "The Lord is close to the broken-hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Psalm 34:18. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Cindy and Chuck Weiss

Brenda Reid

January 11, 2010

Dear Sharon and Family,
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. Tom was full of life and enjoyed his family and friends. He always made me laugh with his great sense of humor. He will be greatly missed by everyone. I love you Sharon xx

Toni Romano-Kemp

January 11, 2010

we are so sorry to hear of Tom's passing...may he rest in peace..
God Bless All
the Romano Family

Agi Toth

January 11, 2010

Sharon, Tommy, Matthew, Juston and family:

Please accept my deepest, heartfelt sympathy of Tommy's arrival in Heaven. While it was way too early in his life to have departed us here on Earth, he is finally out of pain and suferring and is totally painfree and happy reunited in Heaven with his loved ones. He is enjoying a Paradise that none of us here on Earth can even imagine what it's like. And Tommy will be there waiting with open arms, ready to greet each of you when your time comes and then you will have all of eternity to spend with him them.

I've known you, Sharon, for almost 40 years and consider you another sister of mine. And I've known Tommy almost from the time you were dating and then got married and having your sons, even though it was long distance for so many years, I always enjoyed seeing and talking to you and Tommy when home on leave, even if sometimes only on the phone. From one Army Vet to another, Tommy & I had many conversations about the Army. Those conversations will always be very special to me. I will always be thankful that I was able to talk to him right before Christmas and New Years.

My heart is breaking for you and your family during this very, very difficult time. If there is anything you need or want, please free to call me any time day or night.

With all my love.

January 11, 2010

May the Lord bless you, and let you draw strength from him at this difficult time....Our love to you,
Tim and Andrea Keenan

Samantha Uliano

January 11, 2010

To Matt, Sharon, and all of the Pecor family -

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. There is nothing I can say to ease the pain, but I know Mr. Pecor will be missed by everyone who was blessed enough to know him.

DOUGLAS HATTON

January 11, 2010

TO SHARON AND THE PECOR FAMILY: SORRY TO HEAR THE LOST OF A FRIEND. MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY MY GOD BLESS YOU IN THIS TIME OF NEED. GONNA MISS YOU TOM. DOUGLAS HATTON U.S.ARMY

Neil Przybylinski

January 11, 2010

Dear Sharron and Family,
I am truly sadden by Tom's passing. He was a past co-worker, teammate and a true friend. I as well as you will miss him greatly.
Love and peace to you and your family.
Sincerely
Neil Przybylinski

Roberta & Irwin Langewisch

January 11, 2010

Dear Sharon & Family ,
Our sincerest condolences to you and your family. We are so sorry to hear of Tom's Passing. He and your family have been thru so much. I know it's no consolation, but the pain and suffering is over and now he can rest in peace ,pain free. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Feel free to contact me if I can be of any support.

With Our Sympathy,

Roberta & Irwin

Kathleen Schreckengost-Stolz

January 11, 2010

To Sharon, Thomas III, Justin and Matthew,Family and Friends,

WE are sadden to hear the news of your Husband and Fathers passing. You and Your family will be in Our thoughts and Prayers. I remember Tom and the Family go camping during the summer...How he enjoyed getting the camper and the family ready..Tom will be sadly missed by all who knew him.

With Deepest Sympathy,
Kathy,Casie,Zack and Ryan (old neighbors of West Ave)

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