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Vera Benham Obituary

BENHAM Vera Carlson Benham, R.N., age 80 of Shelton, wife of the late Kenneth Benham, passed away September 29, 2011 at Bishop Wicke Health Center, Shelton. Mrs. Benham was born in Shelton, October 2, 1930, daughter of the late Joseph and Martha Dutkanych Carlson. Vera was a graduate of the former Waterbury Hospital School of Nursing class of 1952 and was a graduate of Southern Connecticut State University, Class of 1974, where she received a bachelor's degree in Nursing. She worked as a Registered Nurse for the City of Stratford where she was a Public Health Nurse. She is survived by two sons, Douglas Benham and his wife Diane of Wallingford, and Dave Benham of Greenville, SC; one daughter, Marcia Cornut and her husband Charles of Monroe; nine grandchildren, Claire, Jacob, Kostya, Micah, Rebekah, Samuel, and Sona Benham and Daniel Horvath and Raven Horvath-Costa. She was predeceased by two brothers, Joseph and Val Carlson; and by three half-siblings, Sym Bruchal and his wife Julie, Luba, and Mary Bruchal. A memorial service will take place on Thursday, October 6, 2011 from 6 P.M. to 8 P.M. in the James T. Toohey & Son Funeral Home, 92 Howe Ave., Shelton. Burial will be private at the convenience of the family. In Lieu of Flowers, Memorial contributions may be made to the Institute of Neurodegenerative Disorders, 60 Temple Street, Suite 8B, New Haven, CT 06510.

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Published by Connecticut Post on Oct. 5, 2011.

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kim benham

October 6, 2011

May peace surround you as you grieve. Love, Kim

October 5, 2011

Douglas, David and Marcie, Don't be too sad, she is now at peace and with your Dad. Just think of all the wonderful memories you all have. Fred and I will also remember the good times we had together as families and also the many trips the four of us took. I have missed her as my good friend for a long time. Bless you all, Jean and Fred

John Mead

October 5, 2011

Doug, Dave, Marcia (and all)--Words surely don't suffice; while your sadness at your Mom's passing may be great, her suffering of the past years is now ended. We hope you will all be able to draw comfort from memories and stories from her life and all that she meant to you and to others.
Peace,
John and Leeann Mead

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