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Vincent Como Obituary

Vincent Joseph Como
Vince passed away peacefully in his sleep at home. He was born on July 22, 1929 to Joseph and Lillian (Cipriano) Como. Raised in Cranston, Rhode Island, he is survived by his wife and high school sweetheart Patricia (Sciotti); his son Scott of Monroe, CT and his son Christopher and wife Patricia of Monroe, CT. Vince served in the Korean war and returned to attend the University of Rhode Island, graduating in 1955. Additionally, He served as a battalion commander at the post in Fairfield where he attained the rank of Lt. Colonel. He began his Career with Aetna insurance and later co-founded Como & Nicholson, Inc., a firm that specializes in contractors' insurance and bonding. He was passionate about his career and served in many volunteer roles which included: President, board member, and chairman of several committees of the National Association of Surety Bond Producers, Connecticut Utility Contractors association, Board member of the Council of Insurance Agents and Brokers, Executive committee member of the National Construction Industry Council, to name a few.
Vince was very civically involved and served on the Town of Fairfield RTM, Board of Finance, and ended his long career when he served as the chief staff executive to the First Selectman of Fairfield.
He enjoyed skiing and golfing and was a member of the Patterson Club in Fairfield for 54 years. Until a couple of weeks before his passing Vince thrived on life, and will be missed by his friends and colleagues.
A Memorial Mass will be held on October 7 at St Pius X Church in Fairfield at 11AM. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the Como & Nicholson fund part of the Fairfield County Community Foundation. [email protected]

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Published by Connecticut Post on Oct. 1, 2022.

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Bob Russo

October 9, 2022

Always a Gentleman. A role model for us all.

Constance Richardson

October 3, 2022

Mrs Como, I am so sorry to learn about the passing of your husband .I first met you 1974 and always remembers your kindness towards me Only what we give away Enriches us from day to day , For not in getting but in giving Is found lasting joy of living, For no one ever had a part in sharing treasures of the heart Who did not feel the impact of The magic Mystery of God's love .Love alone can make us kind and give us joy and peace of mind you live with joy unselfishly and you will always be blessed aboundantly
Peace and blessings to you and all family members Constance Richardson

Bobby Miller

October 3, 2022

May he pass peacefully into rest

Ken Flatto

October 2, 2022

So many memories. Dear Vince: one of Fairfield's finest citizens and boosters. Your civic career of service and love of community will long be remembered. Young Turk, Sully advisor, confident and honored colleague who helped our team so much to achieve the many accomplishments for Fairfield!!! Our sympathies and best to Patt and the entire family.
Ken Flatto and our family

Milton Jacoby

October 2, 2022

Sincere condolences on your loss.

The Duffy´s

October 1, 2022

Our condolences and prayers for Vince. Truly a great neighbor and friend. He will be missed. His patriotis and dedication to public service coupled with Kindness will be missed.

Thomas Fedele

October 1, 2022

R.I.P.

The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home

October 1, 2022

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.

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