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Virgil Procaccini Obituary

Dr. Virgil V. Procaccini D.D.S.
On July 14th, 2020, Dr. Virgil V. Procaccini of Trumbull entered into eternal rest at his home, surrounded by his loving wife and children, following a prolonged illness. He was born in Bridgeport on August 13th, 1934, to Virgil and Patricia (Cingari) Procaccini. A graduate of Central High School, Virgil attended Fairfield University, where he sang in the University Glee Club and continued to do so as an alumnus for many years.
Virgil attended Georgetown Dental School, graduating in 1960. He opened his dental practice in his family home on Main Street in Bridgeport, next door to his dad's barbershop. Virgil loved his profession and was dedicated to his patients, many of whom became close friends. He continued to practice dentistry into his 80s. A colleague of Virgil's affectionately referred to him as "the oldest practicing dentist in the world!" The day his health forced him into retirement was a sad one.
Virgil was always ready to tell a joke or talk about a recipe. He was a member of the Bacio Italian Club and the Elks Lodge #36. He loved spending time with family, and of course, cooking for them. Sunday dinners were a family tradition in his home. He was happiest when he was surrounded by his loved ones. Lucky for him, that was often. His home was full of love, laughter, and noise. Noise, mostly provided by his youngest grandsons, Sean, Travis, Jaxson and Aiden. Virgil also enjoyed the occasional poker game at the club. The last months of his life were challenging ones, but he faced them in true Virgil fashion - a joke and a smile, with a touch of sarcasm.
Virgil leaves behind his loving wife of 40 years, Patricia, and their daughters, Tricia Johnson and husband, David, of Trumbull and Kelly Perry and husband, Nick, of Trumbull. Virgil is also survived by daughter, Deirdra Preis and her husband, Dana, of Easton, four sons, Virgil Procaccini and his wife, Joanne, of Newtown, Francis Procaccini of Stratford, Declan Procaccini and his wife, Lisa of Newtown, and Damon Procaccini of Bridgeport. He is also survived by two brothers, Vincent Procaccini and his wife, Joyce of Sarasota, Florida, Robert Procaccini, of Brandford, and twelve grandchildren.
The family is humbled by the care and compassion provided by the very special nurses and aides especially Angelica Retome, Kelly LaFrance, Molly Mitchell, Phyllis Ferraro and Laura Gallagher.
Due to the concerns at this time surrounding social gatherings, there will be no calling hours. A memorial service and celebration of Virgil's life will be held at a later date, when gatherings in larger groups are permitted. Please visit https://www.gatheringus.com/memorial/virgil-procaccini/4377 to share your stories and memories with the family virtually.

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Published by Connecticut Post on Jul. 15, 2020.

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Carol Ann Russo Lombardo

March 24, 2022

My deepest condolences to all of Virgil´s family. I worked for `Doc´ back in1955. It was my 1st job. he taught me how to assist him and prepare his needed tray for each of his patients along with billing, developing X-rays, sanitation etc. Being my very 1st job He was the best boss, patient to teach me, always in a great mood and a joke for every occasion. I even baby sat for his children...I enjoyed working with him and will always hold those years dear to my heart...memories never to be forgotten of that time in my life. May you rest in everlasting peace enjoying all of God´s best...joking with my Dad as usual

Sam & Pat Cicalo

August 11, 2020

Patty & Family,
Our sincerest sympathy to all of you during this difficult time.
Virg was not only our dentist , but a friend as well. Our dental appointments
Were always memorable because he always shared not only his jokes but sharing all the local grocery store sales on one of his favorite foods (broccoli rabe) that we also like, in addition to excellent dental care.
May he rest in peace in the arms of our loving Lord.

Pat & Sam

Trisha Reilly

July 27, 2020

Sad to hear this news. Virgil was our family dentist for several years. Virgil an my father were friends. The stories included that Virgil helped carry groceries to the car before he became a dentist. I remember his quick wit and was a great, funny guy. I remember Patty when she worked in the office. Best to all of you. He will be missed.

Pat Barry

July 24, 2020

Patty and family please accept our sincerest sympathy on the loss of Virgil. May he rest in peace. Bryan a d Pat Barry

Nyomi Pfeffer

July 18, 2020

To Kelly and Family: We all send our condolences on the passing of your Dad. As our dentist, in addition to his professional care, we were always treated to an impromptu standup comedic routine where even the repeated jokes were always funny. Of course, we couldnt laugh, but only with our eyes as your Dads fingers were working expertly in our mouths. We miss him greatly also. ~Nyomi and
all the Guberman-Pfeffer s

Dorinda Pizone

July 17, 2020

With Deepest Sympathy,
Joseph and Dorinda Pizone

Pat Carolla

July 17, 2020

My condolences to Pat and the family.
Virgil was our dentist for many years, always quick with a joke
and a special recipe. May he rest in peace.

Pat Carolla (Paul)
Southbury,CT

David and Nancy Lidman

July 17, 2020

David and I are profoundly saddened to hear of your passing. Your quick wit was always ready, with a joke or a sly comment. You lived life full of gusto with arms open wide. Holidays were always more festive in front of your hearth and at your table. The love in your home for your family was warmly felt by all who came through the doors. Thank you for your kindness and generosity through the years.
You will be deeply missed.
May you rest peacefully in God's hands until we are all united again.

larry laconte

July 16, 2020

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Donna Capozzi

July 16, 2020

Dear Patty and family, Virgil was my dentist back in the 60's when I lived on Garfield Avenue. He was always so full of fun! Patty, not sure if you remember this, but many years ago when your girls were young, the elevator doors opened at the Sands Hotel in Puerto Rico and there you all were staying in the same hotel as me! I know that you are going to miss Virg because he was such a great guy. My sincere condolences to you and the entire family.

Rosemary Ciuci DeFeo

July 15, 2020

Dr. Procaccini was my dentist in the early 60's

Kim Cavallo-Daniele

July 15, 2020

Virgil was one of a kind. I first started going to him at 5 years old and continued until my 40's, never afraid to see my dentist because I knew he always had a new joke to tell and made me laugh through every visit. He and my Dad had a special bond and I imagine they will be swapping jokes in heaven. My sympathy to Patty and the family.

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