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Mom
April 27, 2019
Happy 29th Birthday Craig! With today's birthday, you've officially celebrated more birthday's in Heaven than you celebrated on Earth. I've got to be honest, that was a hard one for your dad & I to wrap our heads around. We went and bought flowers, mulch and new banners for the cemetery and gathered our cleaning tools; rakes, blowers and the such to work out there today, only to be rained out.
We had a wedding to attend today so that distracted us for a bit.
Then we met Kristin and Jay D at Applebee's for the traditional Blondie dessert and we toasted you with our spoons!
Not a day goes by that you aren't on our minds. Still so many questions, still missing a part of our hearts. We had over 300 people reach out to us today with thoughts and prayers.
You are so loved my son...so, so loved. Until we meet in heaven, I keep sane with knowing you are only one breath away.
Loving you, always and forever.
melanie baehr
April 24, 2019
Hi Craig:
Your birthday is approaching and you will be 29. I think about your mom after you died and how she grieved about you not marrying, not going to prom, not being a dad...all the things we dream about for our kids. This day, April 27th is the day my mom, you, and John were born, and now the day my dad was buried. I think about you a lot my dear child, I think about your mom, your dad, you sisters, and I think about you so often, Matt and Lizzie have fond memories as do I. Happy Birthday young man, Miss you! Melanie
Mom
June 17, 2018
14 years today...you've been gone from this earth for as long as you lived on it. I'm hoping you are dancing on streets paved with Gold up in Heaven. I still have a hard time comprehending this is my life without you here. Dad and I miss you so much, as do Katelyn & Kristin. Hugs and Kisses...love and miss you so much. We're only a breath away.
Mom
Mom
February 4, 2017
Thinking hard about you today...it seems recently I'm being asked a lot about you, by my friends who never got to meet you. Sometimes I can talk, and sometimes I just break. I don't think I'm weak...I know it's because of my love for you. The deeper you love, the deeper the pain...my pain is never-ending. Love you my dear, sweet, son. Miss you so much. My comfort is we're just a breath away from each other.
Mom
Mom
April 27, 2016
Happy Heavenly Birthday Craig. I'm not sure if you are still 14 - the age you were when you went to Heaven or if you are 26 today, but no matter...IT'S YOUR BIRTHDAY!!!
I know you are in good hands but oh how I wish my hands could hold your face between them and give you a great big birthday kiss...and totally embarass you! Love you my child...and I miss you with every beat of my heart...
Aunt Tracy
April 14, 2016
Craig - today is Bradley's birthday; we have been thinking so much about you the last few days.
Yesterday was bad for me - once again it felt like someone sucker punched me right in the stomach and I could not breathe when I was trying to figure out why you are not here with us. I still don't get it. I wish I could see what a fine young man you would be today.
I just want you to know you are always close to me, I continue to carry pictures of you in my wallet/cred case. You also traveled with me to Atlanta last week and I got to share you with my co-workers in another part of the country.
I miss you, my dear, sweet nephew so much and I have not forgotten your birthday week after next.
I love you, Buddy.
~Mom
June 17, 2014
My Dear Sweet Son, I can't believe it's been ten years since you've gone to heaven. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you, yearn for you and hope I 'feel' you around me. Katelyn is having another baby...a girl this time. Please watch over her during this pregnancy that it all goes ok. I miss you so much buddy...Hugs and Kisses to you always...
Mom
February 24, 2014
Hey Craig - I still think about you and miss you each and every day. We've been doing a pretty neat thing with your clothes...I found a seamstress who is making blankets, Teddy Bears and quilt blocks for keepsakes. And little by little, I've been able to give these pieces of you away to friends and family. The hardest part is letting go of them...but I keep telling myself that it's a little piece of you comforting and helping someone else to keep moving forward in this journey of grief.
You are going to be an uncle again, your sister is pregnant and due in September. Emily is about to have twins any day now...one boy - Hace and one girl - Houstyn...I'm not really sure why I'm telling you this, I'm sure you know already.
I'm having a hard time coming to terms this June it will be ten years since you went to Heaven...TEN YEARS...I never thought I'd survive this long without you on this earth.
God gives us what we need...this is the truth!
I miss you daily and I keep wearing my bracelet that reminds me we are only 'One Breath Away' from each other.
Love You Always and Forever...
Hugs and Kisses to you my dear sweet son...Hugs and Kisses...
November 8, 2012
Hey, just me popping in to say Hi! I have been thinking of you lately. I am working in Public Health and we have started by state requirement a child death review team...I don't think of you in that light but i think of you as this smiling face up in heaven who is a part of these kid's life. I know your Mom and Dad miss you everyday, I struggle not knowing you are alive and a part of their lives. So much has changed in this world. Just wanted to say I wish you were still here, think of you often Craig
Melanie Baehr
Aunt Tracy
June 20, 2012
Hi Buddy - Oh God I miss you. You have been in my thoughts non-stop. I still have your pictures in my credential and money case so I see you every single day. I have been here a few times because I am struggling with my words and what I want to say. I have shed so many tears I am surprised my keyboard is still functioning. Every day I say your name, I think about you every few minutes - all day long. Continue to watch over your Mom, Dad and Sisters - they miss you and love you so much. Watch over Baby Hank - I got to hold and feed him a few weeks ago - how I held and fed you when you were a Baby. Your Sisters are such beautiful and strong young women now, but you already know that. I love you Craig.
April 10, 2012
Hi Craig:
Just wanted to wish you belated Easter and to tell you I heard a Creed song today while at Chili's and instantly thought of you. I think of your Mom every Easter since you passed( not to say I don't think of her more often), it's alot about the living, but I think of you and my brother in law Jerry, I hope you have met him, I dream of the day when all our paths are defined and our interconnectedness is defined. That in and of itself should make me feel happy, but, it makes me feel sad as well
thinking of you, and YOU have a birthday coming soon blow out the 22 candles!
Love ya kiddo!
melanie and the rest of the Baehr's
Mom
April 8, 2012
Happy Easter Craig. On this day, Christians on earth celebrate Jesus rising from the dead and ascending into heaven. We are forgiven. I wonder if Jesus talks to you about this?
Baby Hank is growing stronger each day. His personality is beginning to show. Like you, he has beautiful blue eyes. Stunning eyes that mesmerize you. Every time I look at him, I see you. Oh, dear God...I miss you so much. I still have days that just take my breath away with my grief. I can't wait for the day when we will see each other again!
Continue to keep your hand on your nephew...he needs you.
Missing you everyday...
Love you,
Always and Forever
January 1, 2012
Happy New Year Craig
I wonder what the celebrations are like in Heaven? Someday you'll be able to show me. Your nephew, Hank is gaining weight and growing strong, although it might be another month before he can come home from the hospital. Please keep your hand on him. I miss you so much...
Love you...
~Mom
P.S. A little boy named KJ went to heaven recently...please welcome him with open arms and show him around.
Mom
December 26, 2011
My dear sweet son...you became an Uncle on December 20th. Katelyn and Jeremy have a little boy they named Henry Vincent and they are going to call him Hank. Henry is after Jeremy's grandfather and Vincent is after your dad, and you. Your legacy contiues through this child, your nephew. Baby Hank is still in the hospital as he was too eager to come into this world and entered 10 weeks before he was due. But God is keeping a hand on him and he is doing well. As always, we love and miss you so much. Please keep an eye baby Hank for us since you have a direct line with the Big Guy...
Love you...Merry Christmas
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Melody Hill
December 25, 2011
MERRY CHRISTMAS CRAIG!! I pray your loving Mom, Dad & family can feel your presence all around them everyday, especially at Christmas. God bless! XOXO
Melody ~ Angel Adam
Mom
September 10, 2011
Craig - you are on my heart so much each and every day. I miss you so terribly much. I wonder what your days are like in heaven...can't wait to find out!
Love you bunches and bunches
Hugs and Kisses
Heather Henry
April 28, 2011
Hey Craig!! Happy Late 21st!! wish you could be here to celebrate with us. I worked a double yesterday so i wasn't home to send you this but you were definitely on my mind. I miss you so much. Also I just wanted to say thank you. When I came by a few weeks ago I was really having a rough week and just needed to get away I had the perfect place to go and just sit and relax. Some people may think its crazy but I feel more at peace when I'm there. Well I have an appointment at 5 today so I need to go. I just couldn't bare the thought of not telling you happy 21st. I cant imagine what we would all be doing if you were here :P love you bunches! xoxo Heather Lynn
melanie
April 27, 2011
Hi Craig:
Happy 21st Birthday! You are always in our thoughts, be with your Mom and Dad as I know they miss you very much! We love you and miss you!
John, Mel, Matt, and Lizzie Baehr
Debbie VanLandingham
April 27, 2011
Happy 21st birthday Craig. I know how much your family misses you. Please let your mom feel your presence. I know how much your parents love and miss you. **Hugs Carol**
Mom
April 27, 2011
Happy #21 Craig. I hope you are having a tremendous day in heaven. We are filling the oceans with our tears down here. Can't wait until we are re-united once again.
Love you...always miss you
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
Mom
April 26, 2011
My dear dear Craig...you will be 21 tomorrow. I just don't know how we've made it this long without you. I still miss you so much each day. How I long to hear your voice, give you a hug, laugh with you, cry with you, be with you. You are NEVER out of my thoughts and you are always in my heart.
I love you...I miss you...
xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
~Mom
December 24, 2010
In the stillness of the morning
I bow my head to pray,
I ask the Lord to guide me
and show me his sweet way.
I pray for grace and patience,
Humility and wisdom too,
In all decisions I will make
In all I say and do.
Dear God be with me always,
In my heart and mind and deeds,
Let my actions reflect your goodness
Because it's you I strive to please.
To a Joyful Present
A Well Remembered Past
Merry Christmas to you in Heaven
I can't Wait to be With You at Last.
Hey Craig,
The prayer is what I wrote for our Christmas Cards this year. Thought you might like to see it too. The other verse is a revision of the verse I wrote for the inside of the card.
Merry Christmas Craig. Still miss you bunches and bunches every day. My days are not complete, a piece of my heart is still and will forever be missing.
I love you and miss you.
December 23, 2010
Merry Christmas in Heaven. May God Bless!
The Baehr's
Vickie Trout
June 17, 2010
Please know that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Terry Castro
June 17, 2010
Wish I could be there for you, Carol, I know how these days are, and how it continues on in our lives, forever! Please know that Craig will NEVER be forgotten and that God has a wonderful, eternal future for us with our kids. I can't wait for the day. Hugs, thoughts, and prayers be with you and candles will be lit here in California in his honor. Love ya, sis !
Kyle Lowery
June 17, 2010
Hi, Craig it's been 6 years and there hasn't been a day that's passed that I haven't thought of you, memories of being kids, without a worry in the world, a better time, just dirt on our hands and stains on our shirts. I miss you bro. but i know i'll see you again one day, im proud to have been your best friend. You've gone to a better place, but you'll never be forgotten. I miss you, I love you, may my thoughts and prayers be with your family.
melanie baehr
May 7, 2010
Hi Craig:
Mother's Day is on Sunday and your mom misses you so much. I believe yu gave her some diamond earrings for Mother's day 6 years ago... think about you often, we celebrated john's birthday in memory of you and your 20th birthday.
Reach out to your mom, she loves you and misses you a bunch!
Melanie
Baehr's in wisconsin
Mom
May 4, 2010
A Mother's Day Wish From Heaven
Dear Mr. Hallmark,
I am writing to you from heaven,
and though it must appear
A rather strange idea,
I see everything from here.
I just popped in to visit,
your stores to find a card
A card of love for my mother,
as this day for her is hard.
There must be some mistake I thought,
every card you could imagine
Except I could not find a card,
from a child who lives in heaven.
She is still a mother too,
no matter where I reside
I had to leave, she understands,
but oh the tears she's cried.
I thought that if I wrote you,
that you would come to know
That though I live in heaven now,
I still love my mother so.
She talks with me, and dreams with me;
we still share laughter too,
Memories our way of speaking now,
would you see what you could do?
My mother carries me in her heart,
her tears she hides from sight.
She writes poems to honor me,
sometimes far into the night
She plants flowers in my garden,
there my living memory dwells
She writes to other grieving parents,
trying to ease their pain as well.
So you see Mr. Hallmark,
though I no longer live on earth
I must find a way,
to remind her of her wondrous worth
She needs to be honored,
and remembered too
Just as the children of earth will do.
Thank you Mr. Hallmark,
I know you'll do your best
I have done all I can do;
to you I'll leave the rest.
Find a way to tell her,
how much she means to me
Until I can do it for myself,
when she joins me in eternity.
Heartfelt Words by Carol
In Memory of Her Son, Craig
used with permission
Mom
April 27, 2010
Craig...my dear, sweet Craig, Daddy and I hope you had a great 20th birthday in heaven. I'm missing you so much here on earth and can't wait until we're reunited. Kristin has a pretty cool boyfriend, Corey H., and I think you'd approve. She got to go to two proms this year...hers at Webber and Corey's at Mt. Vernon. Daddy just got back from Brazil on a mission trip, he was gone for two weeks as he went over to help and did build a church. I miss you dear son. I need you to reach out to me. Love you, miss you!
heather
April 26, 2010
Hey Craig. Been thinking about you a lot lately. Your birthday is tomorrow and i wanted to tell you Happy early
Birthday. So much has changed since the last time i wrote. Bryce and i will be moving in August :) and my mom lives in Hawaii now. That has definietly taken a toll on me as far as stress. I saw kristin the other day with her bf. They came into chili's for dinner before prom and u would have been proud. She looked so beautiful. Its crazy to think how much time has passed. I still miss you so much. Ill be by tomorrow to visit like always. I got a new car btw. 2007 VW Jetta. I love it. o and i got a new horse. Tennessee walker lol. Just for pleasure but i love her too :). Well bud I gotta go eat dinner. Miss you a ton and love you soo much.
Love you forever
Heather Lynn
Mom
April 15, 2010
Distance may separate us. But my heart will never let you go, For I carry a part of you with me always. It keeps me going through the day. It brings a smile to my face and tears to my eyes. It is a part of my dreams that I live for and cherish. That part is my wish, my only one, To see you gain soon. I know that wish will someday come true. But for now, I will hold in my heart the memory of you and never let you go.
melanie baehr
December 24, 2009
merry christmas in heaven!
I was remembering the christmas play at church tonight after lizzie reminded me of her lines. I also remember that you were not too happy when you and kristen had to play mary and Joseph lol.
Think of you so often, and your mom and dad are always in my prayers
give a hug to jesus,love ya kiddo
the baehr's
Amy Sneed
December 8, 2009
Hey Craig I know its been a long time since i have been on here but I was thinking about you so much today when I was going through pictures from horse shows. I cant believe my first semester of college is almost over. I have finals next monday and havnt started studying yet no big deal lol. I stopped in the highschool when I was home for thanksgiving and saw kristin. I talked to ur mom awhile back and she told me that she has a boyfriend now. I know if you were here you would deffinitly be the classic big brother that would be staring him down from the couch when he came to pick her up haha. But I know that ur watching out for her from heaven.
College is going great. And you would have loved the horse farm we went to today in animal science even if the quarter horses were all for pleasure lol. Their trophy room was literally packed and I have no idea how many barns they had and they had a couple of indoor areans that are being wasted because there arent any barrels in them!
Im ready to get home for christmas break and see everyone. Ill stop by on my way through. I think about you all the time and miss you so much. Ill be sure to say an extra prayer for your family with the holidays coming up I know they miss you terribly. Well I guess Im going to get to bed since I have class in the morning.
Love, Amy
melanie baehr
October 31, 2009
Hi Craig:
we missed Katelyn and Jeremy's wedding but, your mom sent me a beautiful picture of them. Matt dedicated his football season to you and guess what, they are now in the 3rd game of playoffs, if they win the next game they will be in the state championship. we think of you often, i keep your mom, dad, kristen, and everyone in my prayers. Miss you, miss your mom
love ya
melanie baehr
Craig's Mom
August 17, 2009
Craig - Here is another poem for you.
Mother and Child
We are connected, my child and I,
by an invisible cord, not seen by the eye.
It's not like the cord that connects us at birth.
This cord can't be seen by anyone on earth.
This cord does it work, right from the start,
It binds us together, attached to the heart.
I know that it's there, though no one can see
the invisible cord from my child to me.
The strength of this cord is hard to describe.
It can't be destroyed, it can't be denied.
It's stronger than any cord man could create.
It withstands the test, can hold any weight.
And though you are gone, and not here with me
the cord is still there, but no one can see.
It pulls at my heart, I am bruised, I am sore
but the cord is my lifeline, as never before.
I'm thankful that God connects us this way,
a mother and child, death can't take it away.
Loving you always and forever
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Mom
Craig's Mom
August 10, 2009
My Dearest Craig - I've really been having some tough days lately. I keep trying to 'give my grief' to God, but somehow that doesn't always work for me. Lately, I've been overcome with overwhelming surges of grief that I have to pull my car off the road because the tears come so powerfully that I can't drive. Some days I'm back to non-functioning. I think a lot of it is your sister's upcoming wedding. What should be such a happy time is marred by the fact you won't be here. YOU are supposed to walk me down the aisle, YOU are supposed to be one of her groomsmen, YOU are supposed to be in all of the photo's...the thought of you not being there is almost incomprehensible to me...accept it's my reality. OMGosh Craig, I miss you sooo much.
Kristin does too. She took your bible with on her recent mission trip. I also think she is designing a tattoo for her foot in memory of you. She doesn't say much, but I know she misses you terribly.
...and then, suddenly, all the memories come rushing up, all those moments and places that we were together when you were alive - they go on, all those moments, when I close my eyes they float past, a moment, an hour, another day and year, and it doesnt't matter where I am and where ever you may be, you are in my heart forever, for you are my soul.
Love You, Love You, Love You
Miss You, Miss You, Miss You!
~Mom
heather henry
June 18, 2009
Its so hard to believe that you have been in heaven for 5yrs now. I want to light a candle yesterday. I havent really talked to most of the people there since graduation so it was a little awkward but it was wonderful to see ur mom and dad and to share that time with the people there. I miss u so much and though i know its selfish there are so many times that i wish ur were still here. I wonder a lot what it would be like if u were. I know so many things would be different. well buddy i gotta go to work.. once again. luv u bunches!
The Kurwicki Family
June 17, 2009
Our hearts and prayers are with the Rudofski family on this day. May the fold memories of Craig that you hold in your hearts continue to become stronger as time goes on. Although he is gone from our earthly life, the memory of your beloved son and brother will live forever in each of us.
June 17, 2009
I was sitting here at work and realized i have not called your mom yet.
I can't believe it's been 5 years since you have been gone. Matt and Lizzie have changed so much, your sister is getting married...I received a note from your mom the other day and your dad's eyes have not regained the spark you placed there, the one we all saw when you guys were together. You will never believe this one, Brett Favre might play for the Vikings, I anticipate alot of ribbing from your mom and dad on that one, I am sure you would lend a word or two as well(ha)
we will stop by and say Hi when we get to Mt. Vernon. We Miss you Craig!
Mel, John, Matt and Lizzie Baehr
heather henry
May 4, 2009
Hey, sorry i didnt stop in on ur birthday. But trust me i was definitely thinking of you :). Ya know Jeff asked me a pretty serious question last night that i had never really thought about until then. It was hard to answer and tough to explain but you know what that question was and how i answered it. Whether you were there in spirit or not you were a big help. I even told him about the cave at saint louis city museum the week before graduation lol. Saw your momma at Chili's today. I didnt get to talk much tho cuz i was trying to leave lol. Im sick and wasnt feeling well so leaving work was one of the better events of the day haha. Anyways i love you and miss you. Im gonna go take a nap :D. MWAH!
Craig's Mom
April 24, 2009
Craig,
Here is another poem for you...written by a bereaved mom
I took pen and paper into hand to tell you how I feel,
How much I love and miss you, how I will never heal.
From the awful pain and grief that is always in my heart,
Because you left too early and it tore my life apart.
But how does a mother put words upon a page,
That reflects her true emotions.her anguish and her rage.
The only way that she can live the remainder of her time,
Is to try to capture the memories that float across her mind.
So as I sit and ponder things that happened in our past,
I try to ease my aching heart with good memories that last.
But I find my mind goes wandering along the span of years,
And the grief comes back to haunt me in a waterfall of tears.
Because this is your birthday month, I wanted to say things right.
I wanted to say, "Happy Birthday" even though you are out of sight.
I hope you know how much I wish that you were here with me,
So we could hold each other close, the way it used to be.
But I know and trust that you are in more loving arms than mine,
And that everyday in heaven is like a birthday celebration divine.
So until we meet again where joys will never cease,
I'll try to remember the good times and that will give me peace.
Love you...always and forever...
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Mom
Heather Henry
April 21, 2009
Hey Craig!.. just 6 more days till you're 19 :]. miss you soo much. Everything is goin good though. Emotions always seem to be stronger and harder to ignore throughout April and June. especially, it seems for momma carol. Your mom is such an amazing lady. And shes very right about your dad. I never really got to know him much but its hard not to see that he bottles everything up to try to be strong for the family. I pray that he is sent a release to let go of a lot of the sadness he holds on t. Help kristen through school. Its hard to see how much the decisions you make then effect you after high school and how much the people you're around impact those decisions no matter how much it seems that they dont at the time. Well bud i gotta go to work. miss you and love you u as always.
Craig's Mother
April 16, 2009
My dear, dear son...April is here and I have that feeling of overwhelming angst coming over me. It happens each year as your birthday comes close. You'll be 19 this year. I still can't wrap my head and heart around the fact that you aren't a part of this earthly world anymore. One would think the grief would soften or lessen after a period of time, but I'm not finding it so. My arms aches to hold you, my lips to kiss your cheek, my ears to hear your infectious laugh, my eyes to see your stunning smile, my nose to breath you in. Please know my love for you is never ending as God's love is for all of us. Continue to watch over your sisters, especially Katelyn and plans for her upcoming wedding...you know Craig, you will just love Jeremy when you finally get to meet him. Keep daddy close to your heart as he grieves so silently and holds it all in.
My beautiful child, my child of God, my angel among angels...how I love you so.
Hugs and Kisses always and forever.
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Mom
Amy Sneed
April 15, 2009
Craig I miss you. I know I haven't been on here in awhile, but you know I love you and theres not a day goes by that I don't think about you. Your mom has been writing me some amazing letters of recomendation for scholarships and both your sisters are such amazing people (as you already know) and so is your dad. I love u!
heather henry
March 11, 2009
Craig, hey buddy. im missing u still. does it every go away? went to ur headstone the other day. very peaceful out there. Still working here on Earth. I almost have enough for a car :]. im excited. if u could send some comfort my boyfriends way it would be appreciated. his best friend was brian and jeff is still having a very rough time dealing with it. especially since brians birthdy was the other day.. Help him like u help all of us. luv u craig. say hi to the big guy.
Debbie V. ~ Brian's mom
March 10, 2009
Craig ~ Keep a watchful eye on your family. They all love you and miss you so much. They need to know that you're always there to help them up when they're feeling down. You have great parents.
p.s. Could you give Brian a hug for me?
((hugs))
Brandon Loker
February 15, 2009
Craig, I love and miss you so much!!!!
Craig's Mom
January 19, 2009
Craig - Here is another poem. A friend of mine wrote it. Her name is Lisa Comstock and she has a child in heaven too.
I miss you so much, and my life is sooo changed since you've been gone. I love you so much.
I KNOW YOU
I know who you are...I see your face reflected in mine.
Ravaged by tears, distorted by the pain of a lifetime
You are a parent of a child who now lives on in your heart
Joined in spirit, though physically torn apart
To live between two worlds is now our task
To be recognized by others, we all have a mask
But in the abyss, in the darkness of the in between
We often fall to our knees, tearing away the pretense and silently scream.
I know who you are, your voice sounds as familiar as mine.
It calls out, vibrating throughout all of eternity, searching. Trying to find.
"Where are you my child? I hear you in my mind, but I cannot find the way.
Somehow I have gotten lost, where are all of my yesterdays?"
In the void, a child's voice has fallen silent. Deafening silence, echoing cries..
We are left to follow each other in the darkness, always asking Why?
Into the unknown, we stumble along. The sun will rise and another day will begin.
But the only light I can see is in the outstretched hand of a kindred soul, another grieving friend.
I know who you are.your heart is shattered, your soul is broken, just like mine..
And though the pieces may fit back together, one tiny fragment at a time
We will never again be whole, for there is a gap in our lives where our child should be
The child that lives in our hearts, dances deep in our souls, laughs in our memories.
I know who you are...I can feel your pain
We will never be the same
I cry the same tears
We have the same fears
Alone in a crowd,
We both cried aloud
As our dreams came to an end.
I know you, my grieving friend.
You are not alone, look in the mirror and you will see
Standing next to you...is a reflection of me.
Love you...mom
Katelyn Rudofski
January 11, 2009
Hey little brother,
Thanks for coming to say Hi in church the other day... I miss you! You were in my dream last night (sorry for hitting you on the head) haha just like old times I guess! I've got some really big tests in March that I am gonna need your help with so don't plan anything for the 13th and 14th! Em is having a baby girl and she is going to need your help....so please keep her under your careful watch! Stop by in my dreams or at church anytime... it is nice to know you are still around. (I promise I won't hit you next time)
Love you always,
Big Sis
Sharon Quick
January 10, 2009
Carol just stopped by to visit your Loving Craig.May Craig hold you closer today.sharon Q.
Mom
January 6, 2009
My dearest Craig,
We just had our fourth Christmas without you...but I know you were there in church with me on the 23. I could feel you around me and I could smell your cologne. I thank you for staying near. Katelyn also knew you were with her on Jan. 4 while John was signing his song. You have no idea how much we need to know you are still with us. Please don't stop leaving little signs around. We miss you so much. I didn't think the human heart could endure so much heartache and still continue to beat. God is in control and my mission on earth must not be done yet. Keep my seat warm next to you up in heaven. I love you so much!!!
Mom
heather henry
January 4, 2009
Hey Craig.. i got a new job... :D now im working at chilis and at the loan store so saving for school. things still havent worked out with the parents so financial aid wont give me anything.. but im gonna make it.. just another thing to give me character i suppose. Well i miss u so much.. o and btw i have a new bf who ive been with for almost 6mths and hes a lot like u .. very much the cowboy type lol.. and he still opens my door for me. i help him farm in the summer but now working two jobs its gonna be a little more complicated to work that in.. i gotta go get ready for work tho.. love u so much!
mealnie baehr
January 2, 2009
Hi Craig:
Just popping in to ask a favor, aliitle angel by the name of Emily kapke joined you in heaven yesterday. she is very shy, but oh so sweet, she has a smile like yours that's lights up the whole world. will you watch over her for her Mom and Dad, and Megan, she is only 8 and will need to learn the ropes. Maybe, you can teach her to dive like you taught Lizzie. Our purple ribbon stays on our tree in memory of you, we think of you often, we pray for your mom and dad, katelyn and kristen. Know you are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Melanie
Craig's Mom
September 10, 2008
Craig,
Here is another poem for you...or maybe it's for all the parents out there whose precious children are in heaven and we miss you so dog-done much we can hardly breathe at times.
Not a day goes by my son...not a single day goes by my son that I don't shed a tear for you.
I love you and miss you so much.
~Mom
I'll lend you for a little time a child of mine, he said.
For you to love the while he lives and mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years or twenty-two or three.
But will you till I call him back, take care of him for me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you and shall his stay be brief,
You'll have his lovely memories as solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay since all from earth return
but there are lessons taught down there I want this child to learn.
I've looked the whole world over in my search for teachers true.
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes I have chosen you.
Now will you give him all your love nor think the labor vain
Nor hate me when I come to call to take him back again.
I fancied that I heard them say, Dear lord thy will be done,
For the joy a child will bring, the risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness, we'll love him while we may,
And for the happiness we’ve known, forever grateful stay.
But shall the angels call for him much sooner than we've planned
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand
Tracy G. Cohen
September 5, 2008
Craig -
My nephew, my Godson - I am writing to you from Minneapolis, St. Paul today. I am up here to work a convention and you have been in my thoughts, my mind and in my conversation. A very good friend of mine has a brother who's son is an angel in heaven. His name is Anthony Lee Ford and he went to heaven on April 12, 2006. We both reminisced and cried. I miss you, young man - so much. I carry your picture with my credentials so I see you every day. Your Mom called me and wrote me an email this morning, and ironically I was already in Legacy to see and visit. Watch over us, buddy - we need it. I love you and miss you Craig and I want you here.
Love, Aunt Tracy
heather henry
August 25, 2008
hey went to the cemetary yesterday cuz ive been thinking bout u alot lately.. i miss u so much and its like every where i turn someone smells like u did or is wearing a hoody that i remember u wearing... i know ur so much happier in heaven with the lord so it gives me comfort to think about it... tell him to prepare my mansion around urs cuz cant wait to see u again and worship our god together.. love u craig!!! i will never ever ever forget u!
August 22, 2008
Craig,
I had the privilege meeting your wonderful mom and dad in April. Keep an eye on them and let them know you're with them everyday. I know how much they miss you.
Debbie V. ~ Brian's mom
Jessi Irwin
July 1, 2008
Craig,
Every now and then, you come to my mind, when I think about my sister Janie, and all her friends. Janie misses you alot. She was really upset the day of graduation. Im sure she and everyone else wanted you there, but they all felt you there. It saddens me to think that they are all out of highschool, and about to start their adult life without you. It amazes me how much your class cares so much for you and your family. I know it will never get easier for your family. You should know by now that you've touched so many people. They will never forget you. Your class, and so many more people have you in their mind daily. I hope you look after your beautiful family. Let them kow you are watching them, so that they can find peace. I always come here and read all the entrys, and I have to say, your mother is a strong women. She writes so many beautiful poems for you and about you. Im sure you know. I know we didnt know each other to much, but just to let you know, I do think about you. I will always remember you. Please help your family find peace.
Never Forgotten Craig.
With much love.
heather henry
June 18, 2008
craig its that time again that everyone is forced to recall what happened and it puts many people on edge because we all miss you so much... i didnt get to go to the candle lighting yesterday cuz i had to work .. ireally wanted to be there .. i miss you soo much as im sure everyone else does too.. i wrote u a letter that im going to drop by the cemetery sometime this week if i ever get off work .. im working 50-56 hours a week and am always so wore out .. ask god to give me strength and extra energy throughout the day as i go from one job to the next. well craig im at work so i gotta go i love u so much and willl never ever forget u! xoxo peace and love! mwah!
Craig's Mom
June 17, 2008
Craig - here is a Father's Day Poem I wrote for Dad.
I Will Always Be Your Dad
Years have come and gone and time has drifted by
I've searched for any answer yet I'm left to wonder why
The only thing I know for sure through the happy and the sad
No matter what the circumstance I will always be your dad
Not a day goes by that I don't hold you in my heart
My love reaches far beyond this space we are apart
These empty arms remember all the good times that we had
I may be standing here alone but I will always be your dad
Some won't understand so I don't bother to explain
They look into my eyes but they can only see the pain
Afraid to look too deep as they are blinded by the fear
If only they could know a father's love won't disappear
So when this road gets lonely and the journey seems too hard
And I get to feeling sorry that I didn't get a card
If I close my eyes I can almost hear you say
I love you and I miss you daddy...Happy Fathers Day
I know he would post this out here if he knew how...so I just did it for him.
Love you bunches and bunches.
Hugs and Kisses to you.
xxxoooxxx
~Mom
Craig's Mom
June 17, 2008
Hey Craig...just got home from the cemetery. We had a candle lighting ceremony in remembrance for you. So many kids from school were there; Kyle, Corey, Doug, Shannon, Rachel, Alicia, Samantha, Levi, Jenna (from 4-H) and her mom, Cheryl, Vickie, Don, Sarah, Hailey, Jim and Susan. Lots of other people stopped by during the day because there were tons of bouquets of flowers...some with names and some just there. It made my heart feel good that you were not forgotten today. Corey even left his graduation tassle for you. You were so loved, so very, very loved. I hope you know that. I don't think any of your friends are ever going to forget you...you touched so many people with your quick smile and gentle heart. I hope God knows how special you are!
As always, I miss you so much.
I wish you could send me a sign to let me know you are O.K.
Hugs and Kisses to you from me.
xxxoooxxx
~Mom
Marsha Morlan
June 17, 2008
Carol:
It is hard to believe that it has been 4 years since you lost your boy.
I've read some of your entries on this site and you are one amazingly strong woman.
I only wish I had the right words to comfort you on this day - please take care and know you and your family are in my thoughts.
Nancy Elliott
June 17, 2008
Craig,
The sun is shining, just a few clouds in the sky, I can't believe it has been 4 years since we had to say goodbye. Your smile, your laughter and kindness will not be forgotten. It is something that can never be replaced... Keep watching over us down here on earth. One day we will see your smile, hear your laughter and share your kindness once again. We miss you,
Love,
Gary, Nancy & Samantha Elliott
Kyle Lowery
June 17, 2008
Hey Craig, today it will be 4 years since you left this earth behind but I know that you have went to walk with jesus and talk to god. I miss you more than anything in this world, you was my best friend, my brother and you still are and always will be because I know your here in my heart, and no one could ever relplace you or all the memories I have with you. I will never forget the smile on your face when you put on your helmet before we left on that ride, just knowing you were happy, not a care in the world, it was meant to be and I understand that now. I love you and your family, and you will all, always have a place in my heart, a person to talk to, and a friend to turn to. So R.I.P. Craig Rudofski and ride it like you stole it in heaven
melanie baehr
June 16, 2008
Hi Craig:
it's four years since you left this earth and you are ever present in our lives to this day. coincidentally our neighbor Janie, has horses and one reminds me of Red. Craig, may god bless you and embrace your mom, dad, kristen, katelyn, stormie, Red, Blue, and all you loved.
We Miss you and remember your smile always
melanie, matt, john,and lizzie
Desra Lindemann
May 24, 2008
Once more your Mother amazes me. Craig life will never be the same for all those you touched, but through it all she has blown me away! I know you were proud to call her Mom, and so many of us call her friend, but she is an example to Moms everywhere.
Many thought of you last night and your classmates, your family has been in my prayers so much lately as another milestone passes and another anniversary gets closer.
Your smile and warm blue eyes will never be forgotten.
I praise the God who gives us the assurance of eternal life with him, which means we will all be together soon and celebrate his glory!!!!!
Until that time we will serve him............
Mom
May 22, 2008
Hey Craig...it's mom again. I've got a poem about graduation I'd like to share with you...
Fifty-Two, Less One
I arrive late and alone
This evening in May
And the music starts up
The time-honored tune plays
Pomp and Circumstance
Resounds through the room
But the uplifting notes
Displace none of my gloom
I slip into a seat
Far removed from the crowd
As the grads slowly walk in
Deservedly proud
I pause for a moment
My head is still bowed
But to honor these students
Was something I had vowed.
They had comforted me
In my hours of need
Since the death of my son
At the age of fourteen
They lost a friend
Whom they hold so dear
I want to hug them all
But…yet…not be to near
They take their seats
Fifty-two less one
I regain control
Though my heart weighs a ton
Speeches begin
They mention his name
Because they’re less one
They won’t be the same
A moment of silence
His empty chair
‘Cept a cap, gown and rose
Is all that is there
I know they all care
For a friend who is gone
That they, too, are sad
They are fifty-two, less one
My vision’s an ocean
Of blurred blue and white
As I try to focus
To see their delight
As they leave the gym
Diplomas in hand
Their parents are rejoicing
Beginning to stand
I cannot move
‘Til it’s over and done
Mortarboards are flying
This class of fifty-two, less one
I quickly slip out
The way that I came
Not wanting to dampen
Their dazzling flames
My tears run unchecked
I can’t stop them now
I’ve gotten through it
Though I’ll never know how
My one consolation
This moment in time…
Is that he, too, has graduated
But to heights much more sublime
Love you, miss you forever and ever
xxxoooxxx
Mom
heather henry
May 19, 2008
hey craig. its me again .... graduation is this weekend and we all wish you were here with us... i think if u were things would be so much different..i cant believe we are done with high school already it seems like it was just yesterday that we graduated eighth grade together :) but i guess now its time to go out into the real world and try to make something of myself...you have an amazing family they are so strong and your sisters are beautiful ladies now lol and both are incredibly sweet. we had to put myy horse to sleep a couple weeks ago she was really sick and there wasnt anything else to do bout it. i wish you could have been here for me to talk to then. btw if you can please talk to the big guy and see if you cant get him to let my aunt stay with me if not till i get married at least untill mygraduation i really want her to see me graduate... things arent so good with her right now but i know your with all of us and just wanted to let u know that i miss you terribly love you ....heather
Carol Rudofski
May 9, 2008
Craig - a Poem for you and me...
Just a dream away
I would give my life to have you back,
Said the Mom
I know you would, said her child.
I cry each night for you, said the Mom
And I catch all of your tears said her child
I pray for the day
That I can see you again,
Said the Mom
Just close your eyes and you can see me, \Said her child
I am always just a dream away.............
You are the first person who loved me,
And you are the first person I loved.
You were always there
when I needed you,
And you always knew
when I needed a hug.
I am here for you now, mom
In your heart and in your soul.
I did not take your heart with me
Instead I left mine with you to hold.
One day I will take your hand
And lead you to paradise,
But until then my beautiful mother,
When you want to see me
You only need to close your eyes.
I am always just a dream away.....
Love you, Miss you
~Mom
May 6, 2008
hey buddy man i miss you so much sorry i wasnt at the cemetary on your birthday i didnt no about it cuz momma carol said it was a last minute thing. Softball is better this year but the coach still kinda sucks lol... graduation is coming so fast and im kinda scared theres a lot to do and not enough time to do it.... well craigerz i gotta go i love you soo much mwah btw put in a word with the big guy for me lol and tell my uncle bruce i miss him!!
Mom
April 30, 2008
Craig - Someone sent this message to me. I just love it. I hope I can hold on to it in the dark times I have.
Death is nothing at all - I have only slipped away into the next room. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without effort. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was; there is absolutely unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of your mind because I am out of your sight? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near just around the corner. All is well. Nothing is past; nothing is lost. One brief moment and all will be as it was before - only better, infinitely happier and forever - we will all be one together with God.
I love you Craig. I miss you sooo much.
Hugs and Kisses
xxxoooxxx
~Mom
Leslie Martin
April 28, 2008
Craig, I know you had a wonderful day yesterday, but then everyday is wonderful in Heaven! I was so honored to meet your parents this weekend. We all share a bond and are trying to support each other till we are with our children again. Your parents are great people. Tell my Shelly her mom ithinks of her always.
Carol Rudofski
April 27, 2008
Happy 18th Birthday Craig...
I hope you got the balloons we sent your way. Brandon, Doug, Corey, Samantha and several others came out to the cemetary tonight for the balloon release. We wrote messages on the balloons for you. Corey and Doug wouldn't let me read what they wrote...so I hope you got their balloons. It might be bad if someone else got them! We also had birthday cake and shared memories of you. How we miss you so. I don't think the tears are ever going to stop, but I'm ok with that. It hurts so much to see your dad so broken with grief though...he can't fix this one kiddo, so you're going to have to have the big guy up there help your dad. On our way home from Chattanooga, we saw a sign that read "Life is Short. Eternity is Forever." ...God
It's good to know that you are already in heaven and will be there forever!
Love you, love you, love you!!!
Miss you, miss you, miss you!!!
Mom
melanie baehr
April 27, 2008
Hi craig
Happy 18th birthday, I wish we could be in Mt. Vernon to be with your Mom and Dad! I hope your day in heaven is Grand and you catch the ballons sent to you, we will release one to you as well
Love you,
the Baehr's
Carol Rudofski
April 26, 2008
My dear son Craig,
Your dad and I are in Chattanooga, TN. on a retreat with the women I talk to online all the time who have also lost children. I'm sure you have met some of their children in heaven.
I can't believe that tomorrow will be your 18th B'day. We're going to release some balloons for you, I hope you get them. Your graduating class hasn't forgotten at all about you. They are including you in the yearbook and in the video. You have no idea how happy that makes me. My fear as a mom is that you are going to be forgotten by your friends, but I don't think that is going to happen. Oh, my gosh, my yearing for you never lessens. Just to hear your voice again, to hear your laugh, to see your smile, to give you a kiss. I'm going to smother you in kisses when I get to heaven. We have Red back. I'm sure you knew that from Amy's post. Your dad wants to ride him, but I think it's going to be hard for him. Please help give him the strength. Well my darling son, I'll post again tomorrow, but I hope your birthday is just terrific.
I love you, I miss you!
xxxoooxxxooo
~Mom
Amy Sneed
April 23, 2008
Hey Craig. I hadn't signed your guest book in forever so I decided I had better. Wow I can not even describe how much I miss you and think about you, I miss riding and showing with you too we had some good times. We took Red back to your house last week, it hurt to see him go cause it was one of the only little pieces of you I had left. Im not gonna get to ride this summer because I had to have surgery on my ACL, but im going to be back riding as soon as I can. Your graduation is coming up and everyone is wishing that you could be there, its just not right without you. Your mom and dad are so strong and amaze me. I just wanted to let you know that i was thinking about you and will never forget you! Love you, Amy
heather henry
April 22, 2008
Hey Rudi,
I miss you sooo much! its been awhile since ive been on and wrote to you and with graduation coming up i think about you often and how much people, including myself, have changed. I wish you were here more than u know. there are times that i feel like theres no one in our class that i can really count on but thinking of you and how you were always there for everyone brings me comfort. I see your mom quite a bit now cuz me and kristin play ball together again :) shes becoming quite the young lady! Your mom is so strong and a wonderful woman she means the world to me so take good care of her buddy.well im gonna go i miss you bunches! love you forever and a day.--Shorty ;)
Leslie Martin
April 19, 2008
carol, I love the smiling pics of Craig. He had a smile so much like my Shelly's. It just lights up the room. Thanks for sharing him. What a day of everlasting joy we will have in Heaven with our children.
Terry C. Angel Jacob's Mommy
April 12, 2008
I love the cowboy hat, you look great, and have such an awesome, warm, and genuine smile. Tell mom to add more pictures, we want more !!!
Terry C. Angel Jacob's Mommy
April 12, 2008
Hi Craig,I know you are looking down on your mom, and I am so sorry for all of us that our children had to leave early, but....we know that you are so totally happy where you are, I just wish that we could get a glimpse, I know that it would be enough for me just to see you all very, very happy and having lots of fun!
marian wills
April 12, 2008
craig, i know you are near your mom, i hope she can feel you and it gives her some peace.
Diane Craddock
April 12, 2008
Craig,
Watch over your beloved loved ones left behind, they're struggling with the emotional upheaval of losing their precious son, sibling, and friend. I'm in an online bereavement support group with your beloved Mom. Send butterfly kisses to them in the gentle breezes and precious memories in their dreams. Can't wait to meet your Mom and Dad at our retreat in Chattanooga. Your loved ones are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless!
Becki Connelly
April 11, 2008
Craig, your mom misses you so much, I think you were such a handsome man. I am sure you are looking out for your mama down here below. I love the poems your mom has written. Can you say hello to baby Emily for me and tell her we sure do miss her.
Craig - On the Team
April 11, 2008
Alicia Ullery
April 10, 2008
Craig,
Hey Buddy. I havent wrote you in along time so i just decided i would say hey.. And i miss you so much...I still think about you all the time and about what everything would be like if you were still here. I still look at ur pictures all the time and just say how cute u are. lol i go up every once n awhile and see your grave site it's still so beautiful..i just sit out there and think back to all our memories we've had. Me you sam shan and kyle. we had some good times. i remember kyle would get so mad when we would always cuddle with you and not him..it was funny. So were gonna be graduating soon. I wish you were gonna be there with us so much. i cant believe its almost been 4 years. That just doesnt seem right. But i think about you all the time and i will never ever forget about you. you were one of my best friends and i'll always love you!..I miss you Craig!
Carol Rudofski
January 26, 2008
Craig -
Here is a poem for all of us on this earth who are missing our loved ones in heaven. I hope you like it.
It is not far away....the place where angels go.
It is just beyond the starlit skies; it's where the moonbeams glow -
And night is day and day is night....and sorrow comes no more.
Where love abides beyond the tides, upon a golden shore,
And we must wait here for awhile - until it's time to go.
Although we carry on, we will always mourn......
Because we miss them so.
Love you and miss you
xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Mom
Carol Rudofski
December 5, 2007
Craig - Here is a poem for you...I love you and miss you...always and forever...
What can I give you this cold wintery morn?
What gift to leave you the day Jesus was born? I can give you my heart though shattered and torn...But it has always been yours since the day you were born...I can give you my life, You made it whole...Now it knows only sorrow and grief untold...I can give you my dreams, the ones we were supposed to share...But now that you're gone they seem empty and bare...My joy, my laughter,my hopes, dreams and fears...I leave them at your grave with my unending tears...My sweet, sweet child, I leave with you my love...Christmas just isn't Christmas without your gentle hug...
Love you, love you, love you
Miss you, Miss you, miss you
Mom & Dad
Carol Rudofski
November 21, 2007
Hey Craig - I'm sure you already know this but I finally got a tattoo. I did this in memory of you. Katelyn went with me and we talked about you a lot while I was getting the tat. It's a horseshoe with a butterfly landing on one side of it. I had your initials put down the center of it and the artist used a font so the letters look like barbed wire. I had some flowers added to the sides of it and at the bottom is a piece of lasso rope. I think you would like it! It brings me peace. I miss you more than words can describe. Watch over us as we take a trip to Chicago for Thanksgiving. I love you, I love you, I love you...
Always and Forever,
Mom
Mom
July 4, 2007
Dear Craig - I wrote the following poem for all the mom's who have lost children. I hope you like it.
A child so dear
The same pain we all share, people look and sometimes even stare...Glad they're not one of us.
We cry at times others wouldn't
We cry places that we shouldn't
People think we've gone crazy (I don't care)
Thoughts for us are all hazy
Memories of our loved ones so near
Our children we can almost hear
Friends and family were there and helped the most
We're spread out from coast to coast
It's our grief that brings us here
To lose one more is our fear
I'll pray your pain be set free
Then you pray the same for me
None should lose a child so dear
That's what brings us all here
~Love Mom
heather henry
June 27, 2007
craig
i miss u sooo much .... i have been thinking about u more than usual lately and trying to imagine how things would be if u were still here and if everybody would be friends like we used to be....it seems high school has changed everyone including myself... most of us arent friends like we used to be and that hurts but maybe its for the best i dont know anymore.... im sorry i missed ur memorial again but i was out of town however i did leave u a pretty blue rose and every year i write u a letter and put it in a box that i have i write when im upset and need sumone to talk to and it always seems to make me feel better.... btw ur headstone is beauiful and the whole plot is gorgeous everytime im there it puts me at peace and i feel all warm inside its a hard feeling to describe tho i cry when im there they are tears that are long overdue and it makes things better to cry sumtimes.... i saw kristin the other day and omg shes so grown up now lol shes very pretty and u would be proud i just hope she knows how much she meant to u...well i guess im gonna go i miss u and will love u always
PS i still the have the earrings u got me at disney world and i still wear them luv ya ttyl craigerz
Katelyn Rudofski
June 25, 2007
Little Brother~
My 4th birthday without you is quickly approaching. I can't believe that you have been gone for 3 years. It's so hard to beleive, because I still feel you here. It's almost as if I can hear you sometimes. I have a favor to ask of you. One of my friends just lost her little baby boy... please look out for him, his name is Gavin. Our little sister isn't so little anymore. She is growing up into a beautiful young lady. She will be starting High School in the fall. Look out for her. I know she misses you so much. Keep Austin and Chris under your protection too. They will need it, keep them safe for me! Be with Mom and Dad too. Father's Day was rough this year. We all miss you very much, but Daddy does especially! Jeremy asked me an interesting question the other day. He asked me that if you were still here, what would be the funniest thing about you? I couldn't answer. You were always playing jokes on people and teasing me! I miss you very much! I love you even more!
Sissy~
Amy Sneed
January 14, 2007
Craig,
I haven't signed your guest book in such a long time. I dont know if anyone really gets on her much anymore but I just thought I would stop in and say hey. I think about you every day when I go to school, when I feed Artistic and Red, and when I ride. I rode Red this past year he's doing great for me and I got 1st place in the second division in Southern Illinois Speed Horse Assosiation with him. Im going to ride him this summer too. I didnt get to come to your candle memorial service this past year cause I was doing barrels and King City. I knew you would understand there. But you were on my mind the whole time i was at the show. I always wonder what it would be like if you were still here. I miss riding with you. Your mom, dad, katelyn, and kristin seem to be doing good...I don't talk to em as much as i should I try but it seems like since high school i keep getting more stuff to do. I just wanted to say I miss you.
Love ya, Amy
Katelyn Rudofski
June 28, 2006
Little Brother,
It's been a rough week. But I am sure you can understand. I can't believe that I am getting ready to spend my 3rd birthday without you. That just doesn't seem possible! Your little sister is growing up so fast! Stay with her, especially while I am gone at school. I know I haven't been to the cemetary much, but sometimes I just can't stand it. I'm sorry. I miss you so very much. I love you even more....
Love always,
Sissy
Patricia Lowery
June 18, 2006
Craig,
Its so hard to believe that two years ago you were taken up to be God. I see your family almost weekly at El Rancherito and you have an tremendously strong family. I know you are watching over them continusly. Not a day goes by that your are not thought of and missed.
heather henry
June 17, 2006
Hey Craig,
its been two years since you left and everyone misses you so much. i cant make it to ur memorial thing today for two reasons which im sure u understand. High Schools been fun and I think about you quite a bit and wonder what it would be like if u were with us. Graduation Day will probably be the hardest but we've made it this far. sorry its been so long since ive written anything but i didnt know the web address. well i guess im gonna go call everyone and see how theyre doin. i miss you sooo much and we all luv ya man .........say hi to the big guy for me ;)
Emily
June 17, 2006
Craig...
Today marks 2 years that you left us.. I am constantly reminded of you not only as being a person that I loved but a person that everyone loved.. I miss you so very much..I miss your smell and secretly I go into your room and spray your smell and it gives me a sense of comfort.. I still can't believe its been 2 years sometimes my phone rings and I still jump hoping its you but it never is..I never thought I would say this but I love the cemetery, I love being there, I go out there to eat lunch, I go out there to relax.. Its my comfort zone..thank you so much for watching over me I know you do everyday.. you still seem to amaze me...I'll love you forever
Emmy
Desra lindemann
June 17, 2006
Just a note to say you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Cliff and I went to the cemetary last night to ask God to give you all strength, peace, and assurance. That he would fill the air with his HOLY SPIRIT and that you can find comfort in his arms. Loving you ALL the Lindemann's
Mark Cordery
June 16, 2006
Dear Carol and family,
Please accept my sympathy and condolenses on the second anniversary of the loss of your son. I have his memorial card placed in my home where I see it everyday to remind me that life is short and to live my life as if today were my last. I hope that doesnt sound macabre but even though I never met Craig he did touch many other people in his brief time on this earth. Thank you for your inspiration on how to celebrate a loved one. May God bless you all.
Craig's Mother
June 15, 2006
My dearest son,
Soon it will be the two year anniversary of you going to heaven. Two years that have passed in the blink of an eye, two years that have lasted a lifetime. By the power of God's Grace I am still a somewhat functional human being. Living your legacy means everything to me and I am doing it to the best of my ability, but it's hard, so very hard. I often stumble and fall down, but I keep getting up and taking small steps and one day at a time. On June 17th, we will honor your memory with lighted candles. We will once again place candles around your headstone and invite friends, family and loved ones to share with us in lighting a candle in your memory. You are always in my heart and in my soul. I miss you...constantly. I find comfort in knowing you are just one breath away.
Loving you
Always and Forever
Mom
Patricia Lowery
April 27, 2006
Happy 16th bitrhday up in Heaven. Everybody misses u so much. Not a day goes by that u are not thought of.
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