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Michael Joseph Malecki

1951 - 2021

Michael Malecki Obituary

Michael Joseph Malecki died needlessly from Covid-19 on Monday, November 15, 2021, at the age of 70. He did not believe in masks, tests, vaccines, or the virus; he was ill for less than 48 hours. Born in Schenectady, NY, on March 26, 1951, Mike was a son of Joseph and Jessie Malecki. He was a member of the last graduating class of St. Columba's High School (1969), and attended SUNY Albany (now UAlbany), Maria College, and Hudson Valley Community College. While living in the Capital Region, Mike worked as a bartender in Latham and Albany, most notably at the Moon Restaurant, with Nick Cavaleri. In the late 1970s, Mike moved to California, where he continued working in the hospitality business. By the mid-1980s, Mike had relocated to the Dallas, Texas area. He most consistently worked in sales, selling investment shares in oil and gas exploration and drilling. As he had since the 1970s, he also traded commodities and commodity options, which he continued to do up to his death. Throughout his life, Mike was interested in weight-lifting, souped-up cars, and smooth cigars. A brief marriage in the 1970s ended in divorce. He liked to say he lived his life according to his favorite songs, "My Way" and "I Gotta Be Me." He was certainly him, and it probably killed him. Mike was predeceased by his parents, many aunts and uncles, several cousins, his brother-in-law John L. Polnak, and at least one favorite dog. He's survived by his sister, Maryanne Malecki (Schenectady), and brother, John Malecki (Christiane Wittek; NYC). He also leaves behind his life-long friends from his youth spent in the Stockade section of Schenectady, and hanging out in Riverside Park. Mike didn't like going to funerals or any services related to death, and attended very few. Out of respect for his feelings, it does not seem appropriate to make him start going now. Instead, the family will sponsor a memorial bench in the park near his childhood home, where Mike liked to walk along the Mohawk River whenever he visited his parents. Donations in Mike's name can be made to either National Foundation for Infectious Diseases (https://www.nfid.org/), 7201 Wisconsin Avenue - Suite 750; Bethesda, MD 20814, or Doctors Without Borders (https://www.doctorswithoutborders.org/), USA Headquarters, 40 Rector St., 16th Floor; New York, NY 10006.

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Published by The Daily Gazette Co. on Dec. 23, 2021.

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Frank Pasternak

June 1, 2024

I knew Mike for many years when he worked with Billy Huddleston in Dallas. I am very sad to hear of his death.
But he did live life to the fullest and did his way

Clifford Stern

January 22, 2024

I just saw this. Mike was my roommate at SUNY Albany. He was quite a character! Weight lifting was his passion at that time and he was fairly well accomplished. So sorry to hear of his death that might have been avoided. May his memory remain a blessing to you in hopes that he rests in peace.

Denise Garrah

December 29, 2021

Maryanne, sorry to catch up with you this way. I read your beautiful piece in the TU. I sincerely hope you & your brother John will always feel his presence as he was enjoying "his" life. Peace

J. Phillips

December 24, 2021

I don't know your brother or your family, but just wanted to thank you very much for writing this obituary and sharing it with the world. I originally saw a story about it on MSN & Newsweek.

Brody

December 24, 2021

Thanks the best obituary I ever read

Dawn Montavon

December 24, 2021

I am sorry for your loss, but grateful for your truth.

Rachel P.

December 24, 2021

I can only imagine the frustration you must be dealing with and I´m sorry for your loss.

Tommy P

December 23, 2021

Wow! What a way to honor your brother with words of love! You really went the extra mile to cement his legacy.

Debbie

December 23, 2021

My 67 year old husband is still refusing the vaccine. Thank you for your honesty here. I hope Michael has found peace, and I offer you my sincere sympathy.

Anne Marie

December 23, 2021

I think you´re honoring your loved one in an amazing way. I´m sorry for your loss. And thankful for your effort.

Paul

December 23, 2021

Sorry for your loss. Appreciative of the honesty.

Diane Ulrich Lawrence

December 23, 2021

I am so sorry for your loss,Maryann.I was part of the 1969 graduating class at St Columba´s.Michael was such a nice guy. RIP,Michael.

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