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Kelly
May 4, 2025
Hi Dad. 3 years came and went and we are just numb. We have started your collection of fake flower arrangements. The most recent was an Amber design for the anniversary of your passing. I did your birthday arrangement. I know you'd say mine is better. Competing is the Ponticelli way. And we both know you favored me as the favorite child, but we'll just keep that between two of us.
I miss you. You know that though. Autumn was talking about Delilah, William, and Zoey this morning and a small sense of peace came through me as I pictured you with them. Again as the favorite child, I'm the only one that supplied you with instant grandkids to keep you busy while you're up there waiting for us. I hope they got to try your rice patties, pork roast, and coffee cookies. I made some not too long ago. Best gluten free ones I've ever made. You might have even enjoyed them even though you claim you never would if gf.
Your picture is in the dining room now. You're sitting in a chair and your eyes peek out from the table. Cole says you're watching us during weekly speech. You have been in our bedroom for a long time. Thought you might like a change in scenery.
It's Spring so throw a cardinal my way to let us know you're still hanging around here some days. I always catch your 11:11 sign, so I know you're trying. I can't wait to talk to you about that. I still think that's the time you passed away, but maybe it's just a sign you knew I'd catch on to from the start.
Kids are ok. Lots going on as you know. Working through lots of stuff. Trying to do the best we can.
Give everyone a hug and kiss from me. Please pet Willow for me. Miss her and still pretty broken over her passing. No one in this family can die without it being very traumatizing. We'll have to work on that some how.
I miss you. Terribly. Thinking of you always. Love you lots. Kel
Steve ( Stosh ) Milanesi
November 9, 2023
Sam. I knew you will in HS. Let me ride around town in your car. Played a lot of sports together. You were a class act. And one heck of a pitcher with a wicked curve ball. Thanks for being a friend. RIP. When I get up there you can try to strike me out again.
Stefan Bucher & family
April 21, 2023
A year after Sam's death, we still feel great pain at the loss. Our family, as well as our business, has a history of more than 30 years with Sam. We are deeply grateful for his commitment to our company, but all the more for the incredible trust and mutual respect and friendship. We will always be filled with gratitude and joy for numerous evenings spent at our home and Sam's joy over a home-cooked roast, which he loved so much. Our father and company founder Karl Bucher passed away just 8 weeks before Sam. Just hours after receiving the information about Karl's passing, Sam offered to come over promptly to help the family over here in Germany. Sam describes this selfless behavior best and has always been the basis for our trusting relationship. We will always miss this unique friend and partner and keep him in lasting memory. Our thoughts are still with his family, friends and employees of Austin Chemicals.
Kelly
April 20, 2023
1 year. We are no better today than we were the day we got the call. Anger, depression, sadness, disbelief. It's all still there. We have gotten by, but it's just the motions of living. No one is living the same.
Your marker is overseas being made. We hope that you love it cause it was hours of research and calls and edits. I'm sure you laughed at how many times we annoyed them with our small changes. You raised us to be picky, so it's your fault really. We wanted nothing less than perfection.
I don't know what to say about today other than it is just as awful as all the others. The only difference is that my mind allowed me to think of that day, and how it transpired. There are parts I don't remember, like how I managed to drive to your house and now have zero recollection of doing so. Then there are parts that will hurt my heart like seeing you when we walked into your room. I felt my heart break. It physically was harmed that day and I know Amber felt it too.
I miss you, Dad. We miss you. Nothing is the same without you here. Nothing is as exciting as it once was because we can't share it with you. I live every day thinking it's not real, and you'll just appear at your house and yell at the state it's currently in.
I know you know we are doing our best with trying to get things the way you wanted them. If there is anything we want to honor, it's the wishes you had for when this day would come. I can't believe it has been a year. I just can't. I love you, Dad. We miss you with all that we have.
Kelly
August 8, 2022
Almost 4 months and still no more at peace with you being gone. We could all use a sign or some sort message that you're ok. We miss you. More than words could ever describe.
Kelly
June 20, 2022
2 months. We miss you a lot. Not any easier. I don't know if that will ever happen. I know you next got over losing Papa. I now understand what you went through. We love you a lot.
John Anderson
June 5, 2022
I got to know Sam during the years that I worked in the chemical industry in Michigan. I retired in 2019 and had not chatted with Sam since then. I was just asked to help someone with a need for a raw material and I thought I´d see if Sam could help. I was very sad to learn of his passing as I attempted to reconnect with him. He was always very professional and very helpful. A good and patient man. My best wishes to his family.
Kelly
May 18, 2022
It has been 4 weeks since you've been gone. None of us feel like this is real. We can't bring ourselves to accept that you're gone forever.
We weren't ready. We didn't get to say goodbye. I didn't know that the last hug and I love you on Easter was the last one I'd ever get with you. I would have hugged you longer if I had known.
I'm not sure how any of us will we be able to carry on like we did before you left. It seems impossible at this point.
I lost the person that got me most. I just want you back here with us. We need you, Dad. This hurts. Love you.
Armand De Pasquale
May 3, 2022
I was saddened to hear of cousin Sammy's passing from my brother John. Please accept my deepest sympathy and best wishes to Sammy's family. I am sending a memorial membership Mass card to Clare in memory of Sammy.
Bill Finestone
April 26, 2022
I am so saddened by Sam´s passing. Although our relationship was primarily business in nature, Sam was such an honest, humble and good man that I considered us friends. My sincere condolences to his entire family. I will , like so many others, really miss him.
Karen Murray
April 25, 2022
My sincere condolences to the Ponticelli family on your sudden loss of Sam. I met Sam almost 28 years ago through Austin Chemical, and I considered him a good friend. While we met for business discussions, I think we actually spent more timing exchanging stories about our families. Sam was a true gentlemen and will be missed. Again, my sincere condolences.
Susan Morgan
April 25, 2022
I enjoyed interacting with Sam at Austin Chemicals- He was so proud of his family. My condolences to his family.
Brian Roden
April 25, 2022
I am so sorry to hear of Sam's passing. I've known Sam for almost 30 years. I recall every time meeting with him being one of laughing and enjoying life, even when business wasn't quite so good. He was one of those people we always looked for in a crowd so that we could spend time catching up. We'll miss you, Sam.
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