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Derek Haire
October 26, 2023
To Lain, Reagan, and Nancy Kate, I just found out the news and it's wrecked me. I had the privilege of knowing John not just as a fellow congregant at Redeemer Lutheran as a child, but also as a political adversary as an adult. Not to put too fine a point on it, but he whipped my butt both times, metaphorically speaking of course. I always found him to be a worthy foe, even when I wasn't up to the challenge. He was always gracious and kind to me when we battled, no matter how heated or passionate the conflict.
He was, and forever will remain, the peerless ideal of a Republican in my mind. I first learned what that word meant because of him, and to this day, no one else I've encountered in my career has ever lived up to the rigorous standard he set for himself to exemplify what it meant. He was a partisan in the highest sense, a true and steadfast asset to his party. The world is a poorer place without him, a statement that I am certain means something very different to him than it does to me. If there is a capital gains tax in Heaven, he will certainly abolish it. Much respect and love to a real warrior, whose commitment to his cause inspired me greatly, even if we did not share the same cause. May your husband and father rest in peace.
Robert Horne
September 24, 2022
Lain and family,
I was saddened to hear of the loss of your husband and my friend, John. My sincere apologies for not responding earlier, but I am just now learning of his passing. Even though our paths over the years only crossed at the occasional White Station Class of '67 reunions, I remember both of you fondly and deeply regret not staying in touch to follow his
exceptional career. During our time together at White Station I was always impressed with John as a remarkable student and good friend. Even in those early years, I could tell that you and he were meant to be together. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
Your Friend,
Robert Horne
Pamela Moses
May 27, 2022
Sorry for your loss my condolences.
Phillip Langsdon
May 23, 2022
Dear Lain and family. I was so sorry to hear of John's passing; only early this morning. It has been years since I had the opportunity to interact with John in local party matters. He was a true intellect. I wish I had had the opportunity to work with John more. Please accept my condolences and very best wishes for Gods' grace for you and your family!
Jerome Ryans
May 19, 2022
Please except my sympathy ,John was well respected and a great friend God bless his family.
Leslie Wineland Goss
May 19, 2022
To Lain, Pat, Peggy, and families,
I am so sorry to hear of John's death. I have SO many memories of John and all of you--and so much gratitude for your taking this Indiana girl under your wings when I moved into White Station as a junior.
I was on the debate team with John and quickly recognized how incredibly bright he was. He and Ed Pultz led the team and were an inspiration, for certain. I learned a lot from them! John's storied career and multiple interests reflect a life of commitment and creativity...a life well-lived.
And then there was the BPI sorority. Again, you took me under wing, and I thank you.
How I would love to come down for the visitation/funeral and see you in person, but there are some obligations on my calendar I can't move, regrettably. Please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers, especially at this time, and that good memories will continue to be cherished. Leslie Wineland Goss, Monticello IN
Bill Bruce
May 18, 2022
Although we were sometimes on opposite sides of the political fence, I regarded John as a friend as well as a highly respected colleague. I extend my sincere condolences to his family and colleagues.
Peter Feaman
May 18, 2022
I am the RNC Committeeman from Florida.
John was a mentor and an inspiration to me during the time that we served together on the RNC.I will never forget serving with him on the 2016 Convention Rules Committee in Cleveland.
He was a true patriot.
Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
Peter Feaman, RPOF National Committeeman
Clark Bensen
May 18, 2022
As a fellow believer that politics requires persons of every kind to work diligently, at some level of politics, to protect the process whereby our collective civilization can empower all in their own quests, I am saddened by the loss of John Ryder who exemplified this model.
I first met John decades ago in Washington and we worked on several projects together from then on. In fact, we were in the middle of one of these projects, in Nashville on 9/11. Ever since then, we made it a point to connect on each anniversary of that sad day. It was only then that John mentioned his health issues. Yet, he was still able to participate in the overall projects on which our paths crossed, even beginning to wear baseball caps after chemo.
John's attitude towards life, family, and politics was uplifting and his active interest in history was well-known by fellow politicos. He was a true gentleman who was able to ably participate in the back and forth of politics and law.
My condolences to his family, who were, despite how we all took him away from them, were the most important part of his life. His sage advice and calm demeanor will be missed.
Betty Westmoreland
May 16, 2022
The retired faculty, staff, classmates and friends of John Ryder at White Station High School send our sincere condolences to his family. His contributions to Memphis life and politics were countless. May he rest in eternal peace.
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