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Robert Norcross Obituary

Robert Bonner Norcross died December 27, 2023, stolen by Early Onset Alzheimer's at 62.

But Rob lives in the wind in the trees, in the ripples in the water, in the flap of wings, in the flash of a white tail in the woods at Hatchie Coon, and in the hearts of his hunting and fishing friends there, and in the deep brown and now sad eyes of a beloved Labrador, Shug.

He lives in the unlikely combination of homemade gumbo and a Manhattan. He lives in the unlikely combination of a tiny town and a big city, as comfortable with his hand in rich earth as his hand in the realized vision for the transformation of a cityscape.

As much as anyone in Memphis history, he lives in our built places, where we live and work, where we play.

He lives in the memory of a man who barely looked old enough to drink that Manhattan or legally buy a beer. When he talked about what he'd done, he had that sparkle in his eye and that gee whiz tone in his voice that young people have – anything is possible, everything is an adventure.

He had that to almost to the very end, and Alzheimer's can't steal the memory of that sparkle, of that gee whiz in the promise of every day.

Rob leaves his wife of 37 years, Jill, and their children, Phoebe and Brandt Norcross. And Shug. He is predeceased by his father, Bob, and Bob's two brothers, Rick and Bill Norcross as well as his uncle Bill Prest. He is survived by his mother, Ginger Norcross, his sister, Helene Norcross Rayder, brothers, Jon Norcross (Scott Paterek) and Michael Norcross (Mira), his aunts, Barbara Prest, Jeanie Norcross, and Julie Norcross, his first cousins, Herrick Norcross (Lucy), Gary Norcross (Amy), Jenne Williams (Tom), Bill Prest (Jennifer), Tommy Prest (Shelly), Christopher Prest (Jessica), Amanda Norcross Brody (Stu), Matt Norcross (Jessilyn), three nieces, four nephews, brothers from another mother, Mike Sullivan, Pierre Landaiche, and Scott Van Der Jagt.

He started on a big cotton, rice, and bean farm in Tyronza, Arkansas – a wide spot in the road not far from Memphis, and Rob is never far from there. His past is part of his present, his family – past and present – integral. His respect for land and its use came from there. His fascination for form and structure came from there, too, roaming among the bones of old farm buildings and foundations. And there he learned that things don't move until people pull together.

He was a proud graduate of Marked Tree High School and the Fay Jones School of Architecture and Design (formerly the University of Arkansas School of Architecture). He made friends for life there, in the School, in his fraternity, Phi Delta Theta, and he met Jill in his final year.

Three years later at their rehearsal dinner, Jill rose and raised her glass for a fun toast, "May he serve me well," she laughed.

And so he did. And his kids, and his family, and his friends, and his church, and his profession. And his city.

Rob was an architect's architect, licensed in seven states. You may not think you knew him, but you did. And you liked him.

The next time you walk the broad and shady concourse on a hot day in AutoZone Park, or spill a beer at the crack of a bat or the joy of a goal, raise that beer to Rob. The next time you see Grizzlies growl at FedExForum, or Tigers roar, or the entire building rock at a concert, wave a towel or tip your hat or dance in the aisle for Rob.

He was the architect for, hands down, the most acclaimed minor league ballpark in the country, and for the commodious and boisterous home of first grit and grind and now Penny and Ja – places where we get together and come together to cheer.

And if you ask Rob about either of them, he'll just smile and say something that defines him as much as the landmarks he's designed, as much as the big ideas he's had.

"I was part of a team," he'd say.

And he's right. He was a principal in Looney Ricks Kiss, and for the last three decades he was a principal player in the firm's unquestioned influence on this city's built environment. In Rob's estimation, the credit for all of that is shared, all the accolades and awards are shared, all the ups and downs, all the all-nighters, all the elation and rejection – all shared.

That kind of recognition of others and that kind of humility in someone so creative is to his credit and his colleagues' benefit.

To our benefit as a city.

As South City continues to transform one end of downtown and St. Jude the other, as Soulsville grows, know that Rob had a hand in that. When you have a drink in Eight & Sand or dinner in Bishop, or anything in the Memphis-centric, reimagined Central Station Hotel, he had a hand in that, too. And in the Memphis-Shelby County Land Use Control Board, the Memphis Landmarks Commission, many of the homes in Harbor Town, and in AutoZone's headquarters, and in the FedEx World Technology Center in Collierville.

And more, and in recognition Rob was awarded the prestigious Francis Gassner Award by AIA Memphis in 2020. Scott Van Der Jagt, AIA, cited his friend and colleague's many accomplishments in the nomination, among those not already mentioned:

Leadership Memphis

Memphis Leadership Academy University of Arkansas Deans Circle, Fay Jones School of Architecture and Design

Grace-St. Luke's Vestry St. Columba, outreach ministry of the Episcopal Diocese of West Tennessee.

Regional Memphis Design Center, Founding Committee Member

Boys & Girls Club of Memphis, Board Member

All that being said, Rob was as comfortable and at ease in all those rooms as he was with his friends at Hatchie Coon, or with the guys at his Tuesday lunches, or with his buddies on a golf course. As comfortable in a conversation about city planning or about his 1957 Chevy.

All that being said, if you asked Rob what his proudest accomplishment might be he'd probably tell you passing all sections of his licensing exams in a single setting, or the people he's mentored, or maybe how far he hit a four iron that afternoon.

And then he'd tell you about a putt somebody else made.

Rob Norcross's vision is in the Memphis we see today, and that vision has helped set the standards for the Memphis we hope to see tomorrow.

He lives in that vision. He lives in our hearts.

A Requiem Eucharist will be offered Saturday, January 13, at 11 a.m. at Grace-St. Luke's Episcopal Church, 1720 Peabody Avenue, in Memphis.

The family asks that you wear blue or red, Rob's favorite colors, to his funeral service. We have grieved too long. It is time to celebrate as a community in honor of this fine man.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Grace-St. Luke's Episcopal Church, St. Columba Episcopal Retreat Center, or The Walk to End Alzheimer's Team RoBoNo http://act.alz.org/goto/Team_RoBoNo.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Daily Memphian on Dec. 29, 2023.

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Chris Ciaccio

March 5, 2024

Jill, I am so deeply sorry to hear of Rob´s passing. Although many years have passed since our days in Miami, I remember those days fondly as we were all far from family and somehow became family. Please accept my sincerest condolences on this great loss for your family <3

Danny and Angela Fleetwood

January 3, 2024

We are so sorry for your loss, may God bless each of you in your time of grief. Phoebe we have been praying for your family every day.

Susan Parker

January 1, 2024

Jill, Brandt and Phoebe, I´m very sorry for your loss of Rob.

Anne waring

December 31, 2023

I am so sad at his passing, he was so very kind in the practice of architecture. Especially to me, love to his family in this very sad time. Rest in peace

Karolina Mallahan

December 30, 2023

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. May your memories fuel your laughter and celebration of your time together.

Berry Jones

December 30, 2023

Rob was always a gracious and kind man. As Architects we kind of live in a balance between mutual respect and a competitive veil. Rob rose above that. Always gracious and kind to me. He will be sorely missed.

Tom Corona

December 29, 2023

Rob and I met working on the Redbirds Stadium and we were friends ever since. He was so talented, kind, and endearing, everyone that spent any time with him wanted to be best friends with him . He will be so missed. Rob left a legacy showing us all how we should be.

Leila Dodge

December 29, 2023

Jill, I just saw an email from GSL that Rob just passed away, & I was completely shocked! I had no idea that he was even sick. What an amazing human being Rob was and a human being who was loved by everyone who knew him. I first got to know Rob at U of A where he was a Phi Delt and I was a Phi Delt Lil Sis - we shared many mutual friends & good times. I Loved him there, & then we ended up at the same church in Memphis - Grace St Luke's - raising our kids together. About 7 years ago, I moved out to Horseshoe Lake and therefore away from GSL. It has been years since I have seen Rob, but in so many ways seems like yesterday.

Just wanted to tell you Jill how much I thought of your husband and that I will be keeping you and your precious kiddos in my prayers. Can't even imagine how much you all are going to miss him. Sending you and all of his family much love, Leila Dodge

Karen Cordes Spence

December 29, 2023

I was in first year at the School of Architecture when Rob was in fourth. We both were orientation leaders that summer, where he met Jill. They hit it off immediately-Rob was so kind and helped everyone-we let him do all the signs because of his lettering. Jill was so quick-witted and kept everyone laughing, especially Rob. They were great together from the very start. After that summer, I thought Rob would forget me-but every time he´d see me in Vol Walker he´d talk and even help with my designs. He was a wonderful person, and i will remember his kindness and his talent as an architect.

Bill Maury

December 29, 2023

I´m so sorry about Rob! He was a great friend and fun hunting buddy at Hatchie Coon. One fall afternoon at Hatchie Coon, Rob, I and some other members played numerous holes of golf around trees, the lake and parking lot with limited flight golf balls. We all had so much fun and could not stop laughing. Rob was a job to be around and will be missed by many. When I see him again, I will have a few clubs and golf balls.

Jane (Gadd) Carter

December 29, 2023

Jill, Truly a wonderful tribute to Rob. I am so very sorry about his death. Know things were very difficult for you. Sending love & sympathy to you & your sweet family.

Dan Conaway

December 29, 2023

One of our very, very best (fathers, husbands, siblings, cousins, friends, arhitects, colleagues, visionaries, role models, companions on a project, in a meeting, in a boat, in the woods, at lunch ... anywhere ... all of the above. We loved you, buddy, and we always will.

Andre Watson

December 29, 2023

One of my favorite memories of Rob was when he had finally mastered the dance called 'The Bump' and he flashed that infectious smile.
Andre Watson, MTHS Class of 79.

Rollie Carson

December 29, 2023

What a beautiful and wonderful tribute Rob and to a life well lived- may he rest in peace. Praying for comfort for your family in the days ahead.

Connie wooten

December 29, 2023

What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful man!

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