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John Neilson Obituary

Longtime Huntington Beach resident John Alan Neilson died in his sleep May 23 from ventricular fibrillation. He was 75.
A musician from an early age, John played drums in several bands during the 1980s and 90s, including Nickels and Dimes and Backseat Boogie.
In November 1984, while playing at Johanna's in Costa Mesa, he met Marian Wolff. They married in 1985 and had two children Justin Samuel Neilson in 1987 and Angela Faye Neilson in 1994.
John was born in Dallas in 1949 to Oleta Ruth Neilson (Pilgrim), a homemaker, and Samuel Lester Neilson Jr., a building contractor. He was named valedictorian of MacArthur High School's class of 1967 and studied electrical engineering at Southern Methodist University and the University of Texas at Austin.
John played the trumpet in high school and gravitated to the drums after being influenced by the style of Buddy Rich. Over the years, he gained an encyclopedic knowledge of music and collected instruments and vintage stereo components.
John worked for Pioneer Electronics in Texas before being transferred to the company's Long Beach offices in 1982. His career at Pioneer ended in 2009 when the company cut 10,000 jobs after suffering a loss reported at $1.4 billion.
He excelled at snow skiing, tennis and billiards where he commonly held the table for hours to the frustration of many who tried to beat him.
Even after relocating to Southern California, he remained a loyal Dallas Cowboys fan.
John loved the San Bernardino Mountain communities, especially Green Valley Lake where he owned two homes, one of which was destroyed in the Slide Fire that burned 275 structures in 2007.
In addition to his wife Marian of 39 years, son Justin and daughter Angela, Neilson is survived by a grandson Flight Neilson, a half-sister, one cousin, two nephews and a niece. His older brother Samuel III passed in 2012.
A Celebration of Life will be held at Restland Memorial Park in Dallas on Thursday Aug. 1 at 2 p.m. where his ashes will be buried next to his parents and brother.

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Published by Daily Pilot on Jul. 7, 2024.

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Diana Jones

May 24, 2025

My condolences to the family. Heartbroken for you.

flight

August 28, 2024

hi, it's me flight I'm in fourth grade now wish you could see me pop pop why did you have to leave so early everyone loved you I had great memories with you like you going to my baseball games and me in your car always trying to get your phone to watch shorts on YouTube because my dad wouldn't let me. hope your time in heaven is great I will always remember you LOVE FLIGHT.

Marion Alexander

July 8, 2024

Hi Marian, it´s been a while. I´m so sorry to hear about your husband. Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you lots of hugs, and I know he is with you in spirit. Rest in peace John.

Trees Hill

July 8, 2024

Dear Marian,
I'm so sorry to hear about John. Please accept my condolences and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. With love and friendship, Trees Hill, Westminster, CA

Lydia Duncan Berkau

July 8, 2024

A great person in high school. Absolutely a wonderful Drum Major for our band at MacArthur High School. Prayers for his family. Rest in Peace!

Beth

July 7, 2024

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Beth Lucier

July 7, 2024

Besides musical aptitude and good looks, John was an amazing father and doting grandfather. John was a man with integrity and always made me feel welcome when I came into his home. Our children and our grand children have played together in the past making this a long time friendship of both John and Marian. We spent holidays together and many other important events which came up during life. John was always a humble and steadfast man whom you could rely on. A great role model for his family, a lover of music, tennis, and animals. He had such a good countenance and always tried to see the good in others. It has been an honor to know John and have his family in my life, he will be greatly missed.

Dan Henderson

June 30, 2024

John and Ivan Nicodemus and I worked together summers during college for the Texas Highway Department elevating I-35E over downtown Dallas. One weekend we brought John´s go-kart to the blocked-off freshly paved freeway and had a ball.

One football game when John couldn´t be there, I was picked to replace him as drum major, since I was the only other person in the band who was as tall as he was so I was the only one the uniform fit! My arms have never been so tired and sore!

He was a terrific person, an excellent trumpet player, along with Craig Wagner and Dana LeTendre, a great drum major, brilliant and a good friend. Plus, he was the only person I knew who had a pool table, a go-kart and a high end stereo system.

Even though our last contact was a phone call several years ago, I will miss him.

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