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Adam Austin Schuler

Adam Schuler Obituary

NEW KENT COUNTY - Adam Austin Schuler died at Sentara Williamsburg Regional Medical Center on Sunday, Aug. 20, 2006, at the age of 25. He was the cherished son and only child of Douglas and Barbara Schuler of New Kent, formerly of Hampton. Adam was born in 1981 with a rare, genetic condition called Severe Combined Immune Deficiency. After receiving a bone marrow transplant as an infant, he dealt with numerous medical challenges throughout his life. He faced every challenge bravely and steadfastly. Adam's first bone marrow transplant began failing in early 2006, and he was scheduled to undergo a second bone marrow transplant next month. His health declined suddenly and quickly prior to receiving the second transplant. Adam graduated from Kecoughtan High School in 1999. He attended Christopher Newport University for one year, and then worked several different jobs. He moved to Lafayette, La., in 2002, but returned permanently to Virginia two years later. In 2005, Adam began a rewarding and challenging career with Verizon Communications, living and working in Manassas, Va. Shortly before his death, Adam returned to his parents' home in preparation for his transplant. Adam will be remembered by those who loved him as a compassionate, loving, and gentle man. He loved and cherished his family deeply and enjoyed being with his aunts, uncles and cousins above all else. Adam was preceded in death by his paternal grandfather, Jack A. Schuler; his maternal grandparents, Dutch and Mog Schulze; and an uncle, Stacy Glenn Schulze. He is survived by his parents, Douglas and Barbara Schuler; his paternal grandmother, Ann Schuler; and a host of loving uncles, aunts, cousins and friends who enriched his life with their unconditional love and acceptance. The family wishes to extend their heartfelt thanks to the nurses and doctors at Sentara Williamsburg for their extraordinary efforts to save Adam's life. Their compassion and professionalism to Adam's family during this time will be remembered with extreme gratitude. The family will receive friends at First Presbyterian Church, 514 South Armistead Ave., Hampton, at 2 p.m. on Saturday, Aug. 26, followed by a memorial service at 3:30 p.m. in the church. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Adam's memory to the Northern Virginia Cued Speech Association's Cue Camp Virginia. NVCSA, P.O. Box 2733, Fairfax, VA 22031-2733.

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Published by Daily Press from Aug. 22 to Aug. 24, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
for Adam Schuler

Sponsored by all his friends at Forumopolis.

55 Entries

Kathy Goff Kelly

February 25, 2007

Hi Doug and Barbara...
I just found out today about Adam. My heart broke as I heard the news...and my prayers are with you! Adam was always one of my favorite all time students. I loved working with him. He always made me laugh...his writing was the best I've ever seen...and his gentleness and kindness overflowed from him. My deepest sympathy is with you.

Jean Drudge

September 28, 2006

Barb and Doug,
I am so sorry to hear of your great loss. May you find joy and blessing for your precious time with such a wonderful young man. While it was short, you were truly blessed with him. God Bless you and comfort you.

Andy Payonk

September 14, 2006

Barb and Doug:

I am sorry to hear about this. My thoughts and prayers are with yall. Adam was a great friend to have all these years.

Sandy Rotermund

September 3, 2006

Dear Barbara and family,

Words truly cannot express how my heart aches for you at this time. There can be no greater loss than that of a child. I only hope that your moments forward are filled with the wonderful memories you shared with Adam and he with you. I am thinking about you and pray that, in time, your pain is replaced with peace.

Katherine Schulze

August 31, 2006

Family is the most important thing in my life, and to lose a family member is like losing a piece of my heart. But Adam was so special and such a miracle that he will live on after his death. He was my fellow Lord of the Rings and Harry Potter nerd, and I think I'll read the last instalment of Harry Potter out loud so that he can hear it and see how it all ends.

Jeff Minnich

August 31, 2006

Barbara and Family,

You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I'm sorry I didn't get to know your wonderful son.

Sending love and sympathy,

Adam and Jessie - Nov. 2005

August 31, 2006

Adam with three of his cousins - Nov. 2005

August 31, 2006

Eric Gillé

August 31, 2006

I find it hard to type the right words, so I only want to let you know that your son managed to make a lasting impression even on people like myself, who live in so remote locations like the tiny Grand Duchy of Luxembourg (Europe).

I will surely miss him online.

Andrew Hays

August 30, 2006

Schuler Family,

I didn't know Adam, nor did he know me, but I must say, Adam has a tremendous effect on an online community, Forumopolis. To be so compelled and brought to tears by someone I never met, and only knew through text is an amazing thing.

Adam will not be forgotton.

DuctTapeGoose, a member of Forumopolis.

Chris Winkler

August 29, 2006

I regret never having the opportunity to meet Adam in person, but my contact with him on Forumopolis was definitely a blessing, and he will be sorely missed. I'm terribly sorry for his loss, and both family and friends of Adam are in my prayers

Betty Brandon

August 29, 2006

Just a note to let you know that you are in my prayers. There is no greater loss, than that of a child. May your memories and love for Adam comfort you until you see him again. GOD Bless you and your family.

Corey and Ann Marie Rodgerson

August 28, 2006

Mr and Mrs. Schuler,

My husband and I first met your son last December when he came out to a meet for Forumopolis. From that meeting, he became a favorite regular in the group always laughing and enjoying his time with us. We were honored to have a chance to know him, and we hope that you will remember the fun times with him, as we always will. Our most sincere condolences on the loss of a great young man.

After watching a movie with the Forum people, Dec. 2005

August 28, 2006

Adam dining with Forumopolis people, Dec 2005

August 28, 2006

Allan Cline

August 28, 2006

Dear Barbara & Doug,

God Bless you both, I have good memories of Adam when he was a third grader, I remember his wonderful smile ( and great questions when I was Officer Friendly), He is an Angel that went back home.

August 28, 2006

Barb and Family,

There is no greater loss than that of child. I hope that you will find peace in the loving memories that so many have shared with your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.

Laurie and Chris Dahir

Williamsburg, VA

Mike Zapata

August 28, 2006

My condolences go out to those whose lives Adam touched during his time in this world.

Michael Luipersbeck

August 28, 2006

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Schuler,

I, like many others, met Adam through Forumopolis. I count myself to be so very lucky that I had the opportunity to meet him in real life and hang out with him even the few short times I did. He will be missed by a great many people.

My sincerest condolences,

Erica Stephens

August 28, 2006

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Schuler, as well as all who loved Adam,

I am deeply sorry for your loss. As others from the forum have expressed, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Stephanie Coll

August 28, 2006

I, like many others, knew Adam as BeaR through Forumopolis. I can honestly say he was one of our members whose entries I looked forward to reading. He always had something worthwhile to say, and always had something nice to say with it. What a wonderful, wonderful guy.

Thank you for sharing him with us and everyone, each life he touched is better in it's own way, thank you.

Kristie Lauborough

August 28, 2006

I knew Adam on Forumopolis, much like many people here. I remember talking to him on many occasions and remember he was such a positive, upbeat person.

People such as him who face an illness like his with such courage are an inspiration to everyone. He will be greatly missed by all of us.

Michael Griffin

August 27, 2006

Like many others posting on here, I knew Adam as BeaR on Forumopolis. Adam and I were both alike in that we lost our hearing at a young age. I never got a cochlear implant, but it was inspiring to read Adam's posts about them on the forums. He will be missed.

Kelly Willits

August 27, 2006

Adam made all of us smile. He was always strong, sweet and kind. He will be in our thoughts and in our hearts forever.

Derek Harris

August 27, 2006

To Adam's Family,

Like others here, I only know Adam through Forumopolis, as BeaR, and am sad that I will not be seeing that grinning face in future threads, or be able to read his comments (or be confused for him). I hope that you all make it through this trying time alright and are able to remember all of the happy times with Adam.

My deepest sympathies to you all.

Theresa Eastman

August 27, 2006

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Schuler,

Thank you again for embracing the internet crowd at Adam's celebration service. He was a cherished member of our community online as BeaR, as well as a fabulous, caring friend in real life. We were truly honored to be a part of his time here, and will keep him in our hearts forever.

Michael Hassinger

August 27, 2006

I only knew Adam by his online persona of BeaR on Forumopolis. I had the pleasure of reading his posts, and even playing poker with him a couple of times. He struck me as a wonderful person, and his loss diminishes us all.

My sincerest condolences to his friends and family.

Jonn Woodard

August 27, 2006

To Adam's family.

I knew Adam as BeaR on forumopolis. He was always upbeat and positive on the boards. Even though I never met Adam in person, his presence was felt on the boards, and he will be greatly missed.

You have my prayers and my best wishes, along with my condolences.

Brian Jacobs

August 26, 2006

Mr. and Mrs. Schuler,

Your son was a great guy, and he always put a smile on our faces. We'll remember him and cherish him forever.

Michael Canny

August 26, 2006

Dear Doug and Barbara:

We were shocked and sorry to learn of Adam's untimely passing. Your unparalleled dedication to him as his parents will live on, and serve as an example to all of us. You have our support, prayers, and sympathy during this difficult time.

Mike, Susan, and Megan Canny

Annette Rogers

August 26, 2006

Adam was a truly good soul. He remained upbeat towards his friends throughout his ordeal. His strength and bravery will never be forgotten and will continue to be an inspiration to us all forever.

Adam will be missed tremendously.

Sandra Thompson

August 24, 2006

Barbara and Doug,

Words can't express the sympathy that's felt for the loss of Adam. We hope you can find some comfort in these messages from people who cared about and loved Adam. Our hearts and prayers go out to you.

Love, Sandra,Tony & Samantha Thompson

Barbara Lee

August 24, 2006

Doug and Barbara,

I am so sorry to hear about Adam. I was unaware of his illness. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I remember Adam from Cue Camp Virginia. Everyone who knew Adam shares your loss.

Helen and Jim Janele

August 24, 2006

Dear Barb and Doug, My husband joins me in sending our very deepest sympathy for the tragic loss of your young son. Although we did not know him personally, he must have been an exceptionally courageous and giving young man. We pray for your strength and forbearance in facing this grievous trial.

Helen and Jim Janele

Martha Dunn

August 24, 2006

Adam did visit my home in the mountains of Harpers Ferry, WV around 15 years ago to do some snow tubing. He was very close to my family the Mckendrees (Susanna, Roddy, Juli and Will), my sister Betty Berge and of course Mama (Iris). We all loved Adam as a brother, a son, or nephew. I thought of him as another nephew. God has Adam in his safe keepin, he will never suffer again and will always be in our hearts and memories. I was one of the fortunate people to have known him alittle. xxooo aunt Kink

Betsy Kipila

August 24, 2006

Words cannot express my heartfelt sympathy at this time. My prayers go out to you now and may they remain with you always as does His presence. God Bless.

Debbie Lang

August 23, 2006

Dear Barb and Doug;

You are two of the best parents I have ever met. You gave Adam your hearts full of love, your shoulders to lean on and be supported, and your beauty as people to relate to others. He was a wonderful young man that you and all of us were so proud of. May he be at peace. We wish you both peace knowing that he touched many of us with his determination and spirit. Much Love, Debbie, Shlomo, Lavie, Danya, and Savyon Lang

Sarina Roffe

August 23, 2006

Barb and Doug

I am so sorry about Adam. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I cannot even imagine how you ar efeeling. Adam was so happy and vibrant during the conference. Please know that I am here for youif you need me tor ANYTHING.

Ryan Eure

August 23, 2006

Mr. & Mrs. Schuler,

I am not sure if you will remember me but I babysat for Adam a few times. He was such an amazing young man, his disablity only inspired him. He was a lot of fun, full of life and the sweet taste of experiencing as much of it as he could! My heart is hurting for your loss. Myself along with my family, Hank, Brooke & Kip Eure send our thoughts and prayers to you and your family. God bless!

Pamela Beck

August 23, 2006

Doug and Barb:

My thoughts and prayers are with you, as are those of many others in the cueing community.

Rick and Brenda Welborn

August 23, 2006

Barb and Doug,

Rick, Ricky and I wanted to let you know how deeply sorry we are to hear of the loss of your beloved son, Adam. We remember the happy times we spent with all of you in church and on the baseball field. Adam's smile and positive outlook was a " spirit lifter" for all of us who knew him. We will keep your family in our hearts and prayers. God Bless. The Welborn Family

Pat Blake-Rahter

August 23, 2006

Doug & Barb

Doug you probably won't even remember me from high school but Debby told me of your loss and I wanted to let you know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Gary Nace Sr

August 23, 2006

Doug &Barbara

I am very sorry to hear of the loss of Adam.I remember him as a young child as Doug and I served together on the Hampton Police Dept.My Heart goes out to you.

Kassandra & Mike Bond

August 23, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Julie McKercher

August 23, 2006

Doug and Barb,

Our hearts are broken for you both in the loss of Adam. I can not imagine your pain and sorrow. Please know that you are in many thoughts and prayers as you walk the road ahead. Bless you.

Mark, Julie and Claire McKercher

Liz Abeyounis

August 23, 2006

Barb and Doug,

I don't have words to express myself at the loss of Adam. I hope you can find comfort that you provided Adam with a supportive and as normal as possible life until the end. My fondiest memory of Adam is a drive home from Camp Cheerio when he was five or six. He made the ride very entertaining. May you someday find the peace that Adam has now.

Love,

Liz Abeyounis

Kelly Bowman

August 22, 2006

Dear Doug and Barb,

It's Tuesday night, 11:15 and I have just been notified about Adam. Although I am 5 hours away, you both are in my thoughts and prayers. Adam and Josh were such great friends, and he was an inspiration to me. You both are the most wonderful parents, and I strive to be more like you. I love you both, and I am praying for you and your entire family.

Lindsey Semon

August 22, 2006

Mr. and Mrs.Schuler, I just wanted to let you know that I am truly sorry to hear about Adam. I met and became friends with him back in elementary school and I know that he was an inspiration to many children. I still remember some of the cued speech that I learned years ago through him. Thank you Adam for keeping your head up when I know times were rough and thank you Mr.and Mrs.Schuler for raising an amazing young man. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Donna Wallace

August 22, 2006

Dear Doug and Barb

Charlie just called me and told me of your loss. My heart is just breaking. I mainly remember Adam as that little boy who had so much to deal with at such a young age, but always with loving and devoted parents by his side. God Bless you both. I know that somehow God will provide comfort to you as he keeps Adam by his side.

Donna (Semon) Wallace, Hampton

Becky Barnes

August 22, 2006

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss, Only another parnet who has lost a child will really understand your pain.Please check in to "Compassionate Friens", a support group for parents who have lost a child. I lost my only son 12 yeara ago Aug. 30th. I KNOW YOUR PAIN. Max's Mom

Ray & Tricia Waldon

August 22, 2006

Doug and Barbara,

We just wanted to let you know that you are in our hearts, our thoughts and prayers as you go through this most difficult time. May God bless you and your family and give you strength as you face the days ahead. We'll be continuing to lift you up through our prayers.

Love,

Tricia Michael

August 22, 2006

Barb and Doug,

I am so very sorry to hear of Adam's death. You both were such dear and faithful parents to him. May God bless you and keep you during this difficult time.

Love,

Frances & Bill Weaver

August 22, 2006

Barbara & Doug,

Our hearts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. May God grant you both extra strength as you face the days, weeks and months ahead. We are here to help you in any way we can. Please do not hesitate to call on us.

Much love,

Sheila Daly

August 22, 2006

Barb & Doug,

My heart aches for you both.I cannot even comprehend the depth of your loss. I thought alot about Adam last night and I just wanted to tell you how importantly he touched my life and my children's lives. He was a brave and courageous person who inspired so many who witnessed his life. You are a very special family who coped and overcame so many obstacles always creating the best out of so many challenging situations. I am so sorry for the physical loss of Adam in our lives. But I want you to know his spirit will always be in my heart. He is safe and at peace.

Lori & Ole Olson

August 22, 2006

Doug & Barb

We just want you to know how truly sorry we are to hear of your loss.

If there is anything we can do for you both please don't hesite to ask.

You have are deepest sympathy.

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