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Reagan
December 21, 2020
Tomorrow will be 6 years since you’ve been gone and it’s not gotten any easier. I miss you fuzzy head. I love you.
linda sigler
January 3, 2015
brian,and family so sorry for your loss joe was a great man always could make me laugh,he will be missed (trouble) thats what he called me :(
CHARLES ( skip) BOWMAN
January 2, 2015
To my dear best buddy Joe. Joe was my mess sergent in the va.national guard. Joe and I was a team along with our fellow cooks and friends. He will be sadly miss. to all of Joe's Family my Prayers and thoughts will always be with you all.
Karen
January 2, 2015
Sharon,
Death hits us with a terrible blow that takes much time to recover from. Your Dad was a remarkable man. He brought the sunshine to a rainy day. May God comfort and keep you at such a dark time in your life. My heartfelt prayers are with the family.
Jenny Stanley
January 1, 2015
Dear Grandma, I cant put into words how sad it makes me to see you so sad. I have never seen you like this before. Stay strong for that is what Joe would want. I know things are going to be different for you now but cherish the wonderful memories the two of you made. He will always be in your heart. Always REMEMBER WHEN! I love you and I'm always here for you. Also my thoughts and prayers go out to the rest of the family, hope time may ease your pain. Joe thank you for making my Grandma the happiest woman, she misses you dearly, please watch over her. RIP with love.
Larry and Mindy Trevathan
January 1, 2015
After years of working with Joe as a member of the Bay Days family, he will truly be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
charles hood
January 1, 2015
Joyce, So sorry for your loss, even though I didn't know Joe, I am glad that He was part of your life.
Tina McCurry
January 1, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that God wrap his BIG arms around you and comfort you during this sad time.
Friend of Wayne and Nancy
Terrie Kyle Registrar, retired
December 31, 2014
To the Brendle family,
I have had the pleasure of working with Joe for over 30 years, as he was our Chief Election (Machine) Coordinator he was my savior many,
many times. Joe took pride in every task and always kept the highest level of election integrity for the City of Hampton. I appreciated his loyalty and mostly his friendship. We spent many hours just talking. A great man that I am so glad I had the pleasure of knowing.
Melissa Love and Michael Patrick
December 31, 2014
So sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathies during this difficult time.
Glenda Owens
December 31, 2014
So sorry for your loss. Praying for your whole family! Friends of Wayne & Nancy
December 30, 2014
Joe was a good guy and I enjoyed working with him there at the City of Hampton.He had a good since of sense of humor and will be missed by all who knew him.My thoughts and prayers go out to all his family.
E Hairston
December 30, 2014
My deepest sympathy. May God's Holy Spirit be with the family. I pray that he brings comfort to you all at this hard time.
December 30, 2014
So long my friend. We had over 50 years together.Sherry and Brian I'm sorry for your lost. He loved you and your family dearly.

Dallas & Patricia Sheene
December 30, 2014
Mom ~ Dallas & I are so sorry about your loss. Joe was a wonderful person and loved by all. And He sure loved you. I found this quote that I think he would have liked.Grieve not, nor speak of me with tears, but laugh and talk of me as if I were beside you. I loved you so—it was heaven here with you. ~ RIP Joe... we will miss you.
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