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Sandra Cox Obituary

HAMPTON - Sandra Countryman Cox, 51, a native and lifelong resident of Hampton, passed away peacefully at her home on Friday, Sept. 29, 2006, following a time of illness. Sandy was born to Russell and Vera Countryman on Dec. 19, 1954. A 1973 graduate of Pembroke High school in Hampton, Sandy attended Central Bible College in Springfield, Mo. Sandy worshipped at Calvary Assembly of God and later became a member of Warwick Assembly of God, where she actively participated with children's, youth and adult ministries. She was very gifted in music and loved to use her gifts in Christian service. Sandy traveled with the David Hargis Trio and toured worldwide with The Celebrant Singers of California. Recently, Sandy served as an administrative secretary at Warwick Assembly of God and as instructor of Voice and Piano at the Fine Arts Academy at Liberty Baptist Church in Hampton. Sandy will always be remembered as a wonderful and loving person with a great sense of humor who exuded warmth and openness towards everyone she met. Her departure leaves her family and many friends with a profound sense of loss yet an abundance of fond and cherished memories. Sandy is survived by her parents, Russell and Vera Countryman; her husband, David L. Cox; her sister, Linda Countryman Hargis and her husband, David M. Hargis; her niece, Shanna Tatem, and her husband, Rusty, and their children, Justin and Jacob; and her nephew, Bill Hargis and his wife, Holley, and their children, Samantha and Elijah. Sandy leaves a mother-in-law, Barbara N. Cox; two additional brothers-in-law, Gregory S. Cox, and Eric L. Cox; two sisters-in-law, Bonnie L. Cox and Lisa K. Cox; three stepchildren, Aaron Cox, Stephanie Griffin, and Amy Shaw; five step-grandchildren, Nathan and Erin Cox, Hayden and Noah Griffin, and Lillian Shaw. Sandy also leaves behind many other relatives, friends, and her beloved cat, Tucker. A Memorial Service in Sandy's honor will be held at Warwick Assembly of God, 1228 Todds Lane, Hampton, on Tuesday evening, Oct. 3, at 6:30 p.m. Rev. Gregory S. Cox will conduct the service. There will be a dinner and reception immediately following the service for all in attendance. Flowers should be sent to the church. Memorials may be made to Channel to Brazil Ministries, c/o Warwick Assembly of God. For additional information, please call Warwick Assembly at 826-3000. Arrangements by R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home, Downtown Hampton.

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Published by Daily Press from Sep. 30 to Oct. 1, 2006.

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David Cox

September 24, 2019

You were a wonderful woman and a wonderful wife. I did not deserve you but your love shined through into my heart. I so look forward to seeing you again dear Sandy. My heart remains heavy at your passing but I am filled with hope that we will see each other again. Blessed be the Name of the Lord our God. David

September 29, 2007

Our dear, sweet daughter. A year has passed since the morning you went to be with our Heavenly Father. We think of you constantly and miss you terribly. It is still hard to believe you are gone. We will join you in Heaven someday and have a great reunion with our Heavenly Father, family members and friends who are waiting for us. We will always love you and miss you. Love, Mom and Dad

Linda

September 29, 2007

Well sis, this is my last entry in your guest book. I can't even begin to tell you how much we love and miss you. Seems so weird without you. You will always have that special place in my heart and I will forever cherish the wonderful memories of all the great times we had together. Thanks for always being there for me and being the best sister ever! Though life is empty without you, at least we know you are in a wonderful place. To my sweet sister, best friend and singing partner. Love, your sis.

David Cox

September 29, 2007

Dear Sandy,
It has been a year since that last night vigil before you went to be with your Father.
Though you have departed I can still see your warm smile and the gaze of your beautiful blue eyes into mine.
I continue to hear your sweet voice speaking words of love to me. All of your giggles and tickles and outright laughter continue to bring cheer, comfort and joy to my heart. Your passion for Christ and your immutable faith continue to provide a sense of meaning and purpose to everything we experienced.
Though our time on the Earth was short, we lived and loved as though we had always been together. Thank you Sandy for all the love and acceptance, peace and hope you brought into my life. Though you had to go, you left me a wonderful Mother, Father and Sister, who continue to love me as you did. I will love you forever and will forever be grateful for our time under the sun.

Shanna Tatem

September 28, 2007

Aunt Sandy-
I think about you often, this past year has gone by so quickly. Its still hard to believe you are gone. I miss your smile and the special touch you added to everything. I found this cute little poem and thought of you. Love and miss you.
Your niece,
Shanna

Perhaps they are not
stars in the sky,
but rather openings
where our loved ones
shine down
to let us know they
are happy.

Gregory Cox

September 26, 2007

Sandy,

The first time I met you I remember thinking you were a very special person. Working with you only reinforced my appreciation for you. I never dreamed you would one day become part of our family. I miss your wonderful smile and delightful sense of humor. What I miss most, however, is the joy I would see on David's face whenever he talked of you. You touched his life and he will forever be the better for it. Thank you, Sandy. We all miss you so very much.

Jerry Megilligan

September 25, 2007

Sandra
I think of you often, as well as my cousin Linda, Uncle Russ, and Aunt Vera. I just learned that Linda's husband David has joined you in Heaven. We will all join you someday and have a big family reunion. Life is short but eternity with Christ is forever and forever. God bless!

Amy Shaw

September 21, 2007

Sweet Sandi, I can't believe that almost a year has passed since you went to be with Jesus. You are often in my thoughts, it makes me smile to know that you are dancing with Jesus and looking down on us with love. I cherish the times that we spent together and look forward to our reunion. You are loved and greatly missed dear friend. Love, Amy

Jean & Larry Feller

September 21, 2007

Our dear niece, It seems like only yesterday that you were visiting us here in Florida. We miss your vibrant and loving personality, but you will always be in our hearts and memories, Aunt Jean and Uncle Larry

Mom

September 19, 2007

My sweet, precious daughter, I can't believe it is almost a year since you passed into Heaven. I miss you so much but you will always be here with me. I miss our little shopping sprees together and you helping me with my decorating. You were always so good with colors. I know you are enjoying all the beauty where you are now. Your Dad and I miss you terribly and look forward to the day when we can be together once again. We thank God for the wonderful years we had together. Love, Mom

Linda

September 6, 2007

Well my sweet sister, it is almost a year since you left, though it just seems like yesterday. We miss you so much! I wanted to write just one more note before the guest book is taken down. Know we will always love and miss you! Love, your sister.

Linda

May 31, 2007

My sweet sister, I can't believe it has been eight months since you passed away. It still seems like yesterday and we love and miss you so much! Wish you were here to talk to, but I know you are in a better place. Love, your sis

Linda Hargis

December 28, 2006

My sweet sister, Christmas seemed odd without you being here and now December 26th, my husband of 36 years has passed away to join you in Heaven. My two singing partners now in Heaven. I look forward to the day when we can be together again. Love, your sis, Linda

Linda Hargis

December 19, 2006

To my precious sister. Sweet and wonderful memories I think about daily, but especially today. HAPPY BIRTHDAY today! Words can't express how much we love and miss you! Your sister, Linda

David Cox

December 17, 2006

As Christmas draws near, I miss you so, yet you are here with me. Your love for the season and the Savior brings warmth and hope to my lonely heart. How I love you and thank God for our time together.
Merry Christmas my love!

Geoff and Jill Ludlow - Full Sail Ministries

November 8, 2006

We worked with Sandy throughout her time at Celebrant Singers and grew to love and admire her. Her love for Jesus and passion for souls ran deep and was contagious. Our thoughts and prayers are with her husband and family. Their loss is great, as is her reward. May the peace of Jesus sustain you today.

Sandy

November 4, 2006

Sandy, so cute!

November 4, 2006

Louise Moody

November 3, 2006

David Hargis is my close cousin and although I didn't know Sandy well, years ago I filled in singing for her in the David Hargis Trio and did come to know what a wonderful person she was. I am so sorry for this loss and I am praying for the family.

Sandy

October 15, 2006

Sandy, her sister Linda and brother-in-law David

October 15, 2006

Sandy and David

October 15, 2006

Sandy and David at their wedding 2004

October 15, 2006

Sandy and Dad

October 15, 2006

Sandy and Mom

October 15, 2006

David and Sandy Cox

October 15, 2006

Chuck and Donna Romer

October 8, 2006

We
first met Sandy in California more than 20 years ago. She was a dear friend to
both of us. We traveled together on several music tours... and worked together
for several summers in an office in Visalia, too. She touched many people
with her smile, her voice and her love for Christ. We will always remember
her joyful spirit, wonderful smile and faith-filled life. She was a faithful
friend, and she will be deeply missed.

Bonnie Pachanian-Finch

October 5, 2006

I am sad to hear of Sandy's passing, as I had hoped to see her again in this world. I will look forward to meeting her in the next. I had the privilege of knowing Sandy during our time with Celebrant Singers. I remember her gifts of empathy and kindness and the way she blessed my life as a friend and roomate. I enjoyed a visit to Hampton and a tour of Williamsburg with her. She was the best! I remain ever grateful to have known her. To all those closest to her, may the Lord hold your hearts as you miss her presence among us.

Angela Walker

October 5, 2006

I am personally saddened by Sandy's death, but I know Heaven is rejoicing. She welcomed me as a new member of Celebrant Singers and left an indelible impression of kindness, laughter, joy and servanthood. I know Heaven is richer, and it makes me long to go there a little more. My prayers are with her family.

ReNelle Stemkoski

October 5, 2006

October 5, 2006

I just heard of Sandy's passing this morning and am deeply saddened. I knew her in the years she was traveling with Celebrant Singers and have such fond memories of her. I know she will be missed but we have a hope of seeing her again in heaven some day. She just got her reward earlier than the rest of us. She is now part of that great cloud of witnesses who is cheering us on. May God's peace rest on her entire family.

Tim English

October 5, 2006

I traveled with Sandy in the Celebrant Singers and was with her on four of the five tours I was on -- including West Africa. Sandy was one the teammates I admired the most, and I shared a special bond with her. I am so saddened to learn of her passing, and my prayers are with the family. I look forward to seeing Sandy in heaven where I can once again sing with her!

Rosalie Davis

October 3, 2006

To the Cox family i did not know Sandy well but she was a lovely lady. My thoughts and prayers are with her family during this time

Lori Wilson

October 2, 2006

I had the opportunity to meet Sandy through a mutual friend a few years ago. We all three had a nice evening together at a hotel in Williamsburg. After that night I came to know what a sweet person Sandy was.
My thoughts and prayers go out to her husband David and the whole Cox and Countryman family.
May God comfort Sandy's whole family at this difficult time.
Lori Wilson

Cousin Jerry Megilligan

October 2, 2006

To Uncle Russell, Aunt Vera, Cousin Linda (and husband David), and Sandy's husband David, my prayers and thoughts are with you during this time of sorrow. We will all miss Sandy, but are greatful with the knowledge that this is not final; she has just preceded us in Heaven. We will meet with her again and have a great homecoming. And there will be no cancer, no pain, no sorrow in Heaven. Sandy sang like an angel and now she is leading a chorus of angels making beautiful music. God bless all of you and may his love give you comfort.

Gigi Rosenfeld

October 2, 2006

Sandra will always live on in my thoughts. Her sense of humor, kindness, generousity, and faith. I miss her and our deepest sympathies go out to you Aunt Vera, Uncle Russell, Linda & David, Shannon & Billy, her beloved husband, and the rest of the family. I love you all.

Gigi and Jeffrey Rosenfeld & Family

October 2, 2006

John Gibson

October 2, 2006

We will always remember the love Sandy had for her family and her gift of music she gave to so many. Our prayers go out to her family and especially to Russ and Vera. I am sure my parents were there to greet her as she entered in the presence of Jesus.

Gerald & Shirley Frix

October 2, 2006

Our memories of Sandy are great ones. It seems that we have known her forever. She has always been special to us and we will miss her. Our love and prayers are with all the family.

Jeanne Buchanan

October 2, 2006

I did not know Sandra very well but I remember her warm smile and friendliness when we would work out at Curves in Hampton. When I lost my dog, SuzyQ, she was there with a hug and encouragement. I am so glad that I got to know her for such a short time.

Kathy Feller

October 2, 2006

To Vera, Russell, Linda, David, and Sandra's husband (whom I never met), I have you in my thoughts. I will always remember my cousin, Sandy, who played imaginative games with us (even though we must have been pesky younger cousins) and became a beautiful and talented singer and who was always a wonderful person.

Kathy

Arthur Hunt

October 2, 2006

My thoughts nd prayers are with the family on Sandra.I will cheerish the moments and privelge of being in her presence.

Jarvis & Janet Edwards

October 2, 2006

Sandy was our daughter's piano teacher for the past 5 years. We will all miss her and will keep her family in our prayers.

Darlene and John Gibson

October 2, 2006

How sad we were to hear of Sandy's passing. What wonderful memories we will cherish forever.Sandy singing her heart out for us at Bethel in MD. Aunt Sandy playing with the kids. Always we will remember Sandy's smiling face and her sweet sweet spirit.

Although time and distance separate us, there are some people who remain in our hearts forever. The Countryman family will always be very dear to us and we hold you in our hearts and prayers at this time. Heaven is all the more exciting, knowing we have loved ones waiting there for us. Sandy must already be practicing in that heavenly singing group!

Darlene and John Gibson

October 2, 2006

How sad we were to hear of Sandy's passing. What wonderful memories we will cherish forever.Sandy singing her heart out for us at Bethel in MD. Aunt Sandy playing with the kids. Always we will remember Sandy's smiling face and her sweet sweet spirit.

Although time and distance separate us, there are some people who remain in our hearts forever. The Countryman family will always be very dear to us and we hold you in our hearts and prayers at this time. Heaven is all the more exciting, knowing we have loved ones waiting there for us. Sandy must already be practicing in that heavenly singing group!

Debbie Price

October 2, 2006

Sandy was a wonderful person. I had the pleasure of becoming friends with her mom and dad after we frequented the same place for lunch. We had some wonderful lunches and on occasion Sandy would join us. I am so sorry you have lost such a kind and caring daughter. I miss our lunches and look forward to visiting with you soon. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Debbie

Joey Feller

October 1, 2006

We will miss you and will always cherish the memories we shared since childhood. Uncle Russ, Aunt Vera, Linda, David & family you are in our thoughts & prayers.
With all our love, Joey, Damaris & family

Karen ( Crehan) Wilkison

October 1, 2006

How blessed I was to have known Sandy during my early teen years. Her and her parents made a wonderful impression on how a family is suppose to be. Sandy's smile always seemed to brighten up a room. I will truely remember her as the angel she was to me..

Patricia Castleberry

October 1, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Sandra and I used to roller skate in her driveway as kids. Sandra was much better than myself,because I think I remember breaking a bone.

Jean & Larry Feller

October 1, 2006

We will cherish the memory of Sandy and her kindness and thoughtfulness. We will miss her so much. Our love and prayers are
with the family.
Sandy's Aunt Jean and Uncle Larry

Lara Rotter-Tomazin

September 30, 2006

My prayers are with all the family of sandy.

Vicki Feller

September 30, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with you Russell & Vera, Linda & David and other family members at this time. God will help you thru this.

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