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Xavier Denzel Barringer-Blakeney

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Xavier Barringer-Blakeney Obituary

HAMPTON - Xavier Denzel Barringer-Blakeney, 14, beloved son and brother, passed on Nov. 15, 2008.
Xavier was a student at Hampton High School. In addition to his parents, Amy Barringer and Willie Blakeney, he is survived by his siblings, and many other loving relatives and friends.
Viewing will be from 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Sunday, Nov. 23, at the funeral home. Funeral services will be held at 11a.m. Monday, Nov. 24, at Sixth Mt. Zion Baptist Temple 3100 Butternut Dr. Hampton, Va., with Pastor Jerome Barber, officiating.
Family and friends will assemble by 10 a.m. Monday at 624 Celey Street, Hampton, Va., for the processional to the church.
The Barringer-Blakeney family is receiving services of comfort at Nickelson-Cummings Funeral Home, 4304 Victoria Blvd., Hampton, (757) 728-0122. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

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Published by Daily Press on Nov. 21, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Xavier Barringer-Blakeney

65 Entries

MARCIA WRIGHT

January 30, 2021

Missing you always! Always on my mind! Love and miss you!

January 20, 2010

I love you Zae! And I miss you! Happy belated birthday!

LaTasha Morgan

December 21, 2008

Merry Christmas family of Xavier Denzel I hope that the holidays aren't too sad for you. I hope that there will be good memories of his life that will keep you going.
God bless you.

A Believer on Jesus

December 21, 2008

Rest in peace young one. Your peace and joy is enternal in Heaven. There is no more sadness or pain in Heaven.
Yes your loved ones are here in pain for they miss you so much but know that in your life they will find peace and joy. Know that your life will live on as people speak of you and remember your smile, laughter and touch.
Family know that as much as Xavier loved you he would not leave the comfort of Heaven to be with you again but he does shower down his love through the wind. FInd comfort in knowing that God in all His wisdom knows best and He is taking care of Xavier and He will take care of the rest.
God be with you...be sure to stay with Him!

Amy Barringer

December 21, 2008

My Dear and Precious Baby Boy,

There are no words to express the emptiness, the sadness of you not being here with me. I so looked forward with gladness, anticipation, love and pride, for so many things for you.

For the oh so short season of your life I thank God for the gift of you. You have touched so many lives with your warm, playful and loving spirit.

Xavier, you are immeasurably loved and will be enormously missed by your family and many many friends.

Not a day will go by without the thought of you "Little Boy," but God has now, in His infinite wisdom, called you unto Himself. I will strive and look forward to such time as I will see you again.

Also making the legacy of your life one of hope, peace and love. In as such, "Munchkin," I close in the meditations of this God's word. " The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away. Blessed be the name of the Lord."

I love you!!!!!!!!!

Always... Always... Mommy

Charles & Vera Powell

December 21, 2008

"I'll lend you for a little while,
A child of mine," God said.
For you to love the while he lives,
And mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years,
Or twenty-two or three,
But will you, 'til I call him back,
Take care of him for Me?

He will bring his chams to gladden you,
And should his way be brief,
You'll have his lovely memories,
As solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay
Since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught below,
I want this child to learn.

I looked this wide world over,
In search of teachers true,
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes
I have selected you.
Now will you give him all your love,
Nor think the labor vain,
Nor hate me when I come to take
This lent child back again.

I fancied that I heard them say,
Dear Lord, thy will be done,
For all the joys thy child shall bring,
The risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter them with tenderness,
We'll love them while we may,
And for the happiness we've known
Forever grateful stay.
But should the angels call for him
Much sooner then we've planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes
And try to understand.

Author Unknown

Grandma and Mr "P"
Always in our hearts

December 21, 2008

" Because the Angels Came"

No more grief or sorrow,
no more suffering or pain,
now there is everlasting peace,
because the angels came.

Only God knows what is best
and He gently holds Xavier's hand
guiding him to a better place
because the angel's came

When the sun rises tomorrow
and Xavier answers not his name,
please don't cry..... rejoice with him
because the angels came.

"Zay" now can rest in peace
as he never could before.
He answered the gentle knock
of the angels at his door.

So please don't mourn for him
as new wings he now claims.
He can take this flight to heaven,
Because the angels came.

Prayerfully Submitted
" THE FAMILY"

James Barringer

December 21, 2008

" A Brother's Love"

What is a brother's love? Is it when you play or fight with your brother? Can it be that countless times ya'll spent together enjoying each others company, or maybe it's the times when you see him hurt you cheer him up? What is it? My mind may never know, but in 14 years "Zay" you had to go. Sometimes I sit back and I ask myself why? Why did my brother have to die. Now I know they say everyone is here for a purpose, but in the fashion they took you it seems so worthless. So now I feel hate and I want to get revenge. But then I hear a familiar voice from within saying, "James don't cry. I'm in a better place now and tell Mommy and Josh to turn that frown upside down. So Why are ya'll crying cause I never went no where and I hope when you look in that casket you don't think I'm there. I'm in a place you could never imagine, looking down on ya'll seeing what's happening, because I've accepted it and know it's all in God's plan. Knowing that he makes no mistakes and his word is final. Because He's the man. Now to answer the question, what a brother's love truly is? It's not what you shared, did or sometimes tried to show.... a brother's love truly is letting go. I love you "Zay"

I'll always miss you and love you Baby Brother,
James T. Barringer

December 21, 2008

WE love and Miss you Baby Brother. Save a spot for us and watch over us. Much Love, James, Josh, Queeta and Baby Sister Fufu

December 20, 2008

Munchkin and Mommy

December 20, 2008

Tiffany

December 20, 2008

Tears Can't Express.......

Tears can's express
the hurt and pain in my chest.
I try so hard 2 not let it put me to rest.
But more and more I think of this stress
The more I tell myself I'm gonna be blessed.
God knows and God sees Everyones pain that is deep indeed.
So no more crying for now he is shining down on us.
While we're on our knees in distress
So lift your heads and do not shead
No more tears while he lay in his bed.
God has called him home to not be alone
But to be another to sit upon His throne.
So rememba tears can't express the happiness you should feel deep within your chest.

LUV

TIFF

Cuzzinz
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Lyfe

A person close by

December 17, 2008

Prayers for your comfort and peace will never cease. You may not see the people but the prayers will go on and on. Find your strength in Jesus this Christmas season and as the new year starts, focus on Zay's life and not his death and allow him to live on!

Brian Forrester

December 16, 2008

Our church has prayed for your entire family and will continue to do so. We love you and are here if you have any needs.

-All Nations Church, Newport News, Virginia

S. PLEASANT

December 15, 2008

IT SADDENS ME TO HEAR OF A YOUNG LIFE TAKEN. MY HEART GOES OUT TO THE ENTIRE FAMILY. ZAY WAS ALWAYS HAPPY AND FULL OF LYFE.EVERYONE IS IN MY PRAYERS. RIP LIL ZAY WE MISS U MORE AND MORE EVERYDAY

Ashley

December 12, 2008

I didnt get to go to his funeral but I wanted to.I just can't believe he's really gone.He was so young and happy and im going to miss him so much.I first met him at the ball park Phoebus Little League when he was with Kenny Boo and I know his brother.Zay and Kenny Boo used to come over and chill sometimes he was like 12.He was really cool and sweet and he was always be loved and missed and never forgotten.LOVE YA LIL ZAY....R.I.P.

RIP LIL ZAY

December 11, 2008

Yea I went to his funeral I knew him since kindergarten And Im missin him soo much I jus cant believe he gone...I used to chill wit him everyday from the time I came home to the time I went to sleep..I even had my first kiss with him..RIP LIL ZAY

A concerned and praying mother

December 10, 2008

Mother,I have never had to feel the pain of losing a child but truly my heart goes out to you.
Brothers I have had the pain of losing a brother but my pain and your pain can not compare. Yes I loved my brother but I still can not compare it to your loss.Xavier was special and you three have memories that no one else does, share those memories with your children so they too can know their Uncle who I am sure loved them very much.
Jesus send your loving peace to this family. Let them continue to be surrounded by love and support.
With each passing day with so much to remind them that Xavier is not here on this earth with them, help them to be comforted as they feel him in the winds, see him in the stars and as they allow his smile and love to live on.
Give them a closeness that they never had before.
Most importantly Jesus help them to reach out to you, giving you all of their cares and concerns as you said come unto me and I will give you rest. AMEN!!!
Mother and Brothers allow Xavier's death to bring life to others.Share the wonderful things about him and allow him to live on. They say that time heals all wounds, I hope that it is true for you three.
You are loved and prayed for and never alone. God bless you this Christmas season. My prayers are with you.

Eddie Boo

December 10, 2008

How you doing Momm Dis is Eddie Boo I just wanted to see how you was doing I know you are going throw some pain right now I am to Zay was my best friend and I was wit him before he pasted and it hurts to know I lost my best friend in the whole world and I am sorry for what happened I just wanted to let you know I am never going to see my right hand man no more.
I just wanted to sit down and talk to you about what happened.
My numberis 757-723-2460

Carla Sowell

December 5, 2008

Amy,
I'm so sorry about what happened to Xavier. You are a strong woman and you can get through this as long as you keep leaning on God. Keep trusting in him. Lean on your friends, we are here to help.
Love,
Carla

Sharon Ruffin

December 5, 2008

Amy,
May God's peace that passes all understanding be with you and your family during this time. Remember that weeping may last during the night, and it is night right now, but joy comes in the morning. May you find your joy through the host of love pour out on you from family and friends and the good memories of your son. It might take time but the pain will go away.
Sharon Ruffin (Lynne Galloway's sister

shakylah bryant

December 4, 2008

hey zay i just want you to know you will always be missed and never forgotten

Lynne Galloway

December 3, 2008

Amy I know everyone is writing things to Zay and if I knew for a moment that he could read it I would too, but this is for you,James and Josh.
I know that your world has been turned upside down and each waking moment you have questions and you are missing Zay. I do the same thing. I was blessed to spend the last week of his life with him and pray that I made a difference in his life as he did for my life. Yes we will miss him but I want you three to know that he will never ever be gone except for in the physical because each of us will allow him to forever live in our lives. My prayers and support for each of you will continue always and forever. Always remember that he loved you and he knew that you loved him. Let this bring you closer. I want to believe with all of my heart that as Zay looked up he was saying Lord forgive me and take me home and I know that once he did that he is with the Lord. So it is most important that each of you seek Jesus and give Him complete control of your life so that you will one day also be in Heaven with Zay. God bless you and I love you.

November 30, 2008

May God Bless your family in this time of sorrow. Know that this young man will forever be in the arms of God.I am going to miss Zay.

Malica Bellamy

November 30, 2008

xavier im really gonna miss the way you come up behind me and play with my ear. lol. yeah ima really miss you.

KeIsHa SiMpSoN

November 28, 2008

i LOvE u zAy BoO yAllL nEver b 4gOttIn BoOO

ANGIE GAMBLE

November 26, 2008

I AM MISSING YOU EVERYDAY ZAY PLEASE DON'T FORGET US 249

yana cobb

November 25, 2008

zay where do i start? first, off and for most you are avery special person 2 me you were the life of the party and i will neva forget that. you made the happiest moments the best. i remember so many good times and no bad ones. i will truely miss you rest in peace and i willl see you when i reach that special place called heaven
-yana

KAY SLAY

November 24, 2008

whats good lil homie u r gone but u will never be forgotten
i love u zay and i will truly miss u. See u when i get there.

Lonnie Williams

November 24, 2008

Amy,
Know that after Jesus, my love is there for you. Know for sure that all things are alright already. God is in control. Stay you.

rachael g

November 24, 2008

x was a close person to me like a brother i will always miss him for the things we use to do like when he would rub on my ears i will miss the funn time we had i am praying for you all and i am here for you all too..

Rev & Mrs Otis Sanders

November 24, 2008

To the family,
We were sadden to hear about your loss. Remember God is our Comforter. He is here to bring a ray of hope that will light your tomorrow, to carry you through in the arms of His grace and to comfort your heart with His boundless love. From the Word of God "Bless be God who comforteth us in all our tribulations." 2 Cor. 1:3,4
Rev. Otis and Jacqueline A. Sanders, Hampton, VA

mario galloway

November 24, 2008

my homie gone but ima live life up for us rrest in peace mad love zay

Angie Gamble

November 23, 2008

God Bless Lil Zay I am at a lost for words. This is to early for my little friend. I can't find the right words to say goodbye cause this is not forever but in the mean time I miss you and all the ear rubbing that you did you will truely be miss zay! Much love from your girl, A. Gamble, and you can rub my ears anytime you want.

Tonee Bryant

November 23, 2008

To the family I am sorry for your lost but to zay you have not lost you have gained and one day we will all join you but for now just save me a spot next to you and i'll be there in a little bit but to the family my heart and my prayers go out to you and zay dont forget me because i'll never forget you zay i will always love you I and hope you enjoy your trip up to heaven and say hay to my mom and god for me i know they'll welcome you and help you get settled we'll love you always Tonee' aka T-BONE

shelia george

November 23, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

nekeisha tann

November 23, 2008

i used to see him in my neighborhood and it is good that he was making changes to better his life.may he rest in peace and condolences to the family

Tonesha

November 23, 2008

The youngest in the hood . He was smart boy. He will be truly missed down here. All you need to know is that he's in a better place, where he can't be hurt,harmed or in danger. Zay while you up there watch over us because we got to get to where you at when the world come to an end.I give my Deepest sympathy to Mrs. Amy James Josh and other family memebers. All i can say is keep your heads up.

Sonja Johnson

November 22, 2008

God is good all the time. There is a time weep. There is a time for joy. Lord knows he is busy doing the role call. Xavier heard his name and he answered the call. My thoughts and prayers goes out to Ms.Amy, Josh,James and Mr. Willie and to his other family members.

TIARA WASHINGTON

November 22, 2008

I MISS YU ZAY YU GONE BUT YU WILL NEVER B 4GOTTEN R.I.P ZAY I LUHV YU MWAH

Jasmine Carrier

November 22, 2008

I've only known Zay since skool started n since den we bcame friends.I miss him very much,I sorry i rele dont kno wat 2 say. But I want 2 attend the funeral but i dont think i wud b able to handle it. To da family.God was jus ready 4 Zay to join Him and many othas in da best place eva. U guys r in my prayers.I will truly miss Zay n his ear feddish n jus 4 him i will rub my ear every now n den..lol...luv u Zay n CC duz 2 she wants 2 attend da funeral 2 as well as many othas 4rm our geometry class but we all r jus 2 scared but we luv u.

Minister Mike Carter

November 21, 2008

Amy, James and Josh I am truely sadden to hear about Zay. This is a time that no family member or friend wants to go through or can understand. It seem like yesterday Zay was running around the Lincoln Park Community Center with his brother. To all the family members and friends I will keep you all in my prayers. I pray that god continue to love on us all as we go through this together. R.I.P Xavier Denzel Barringer-Blakeney....You will be missed but never forgotten....

sharon haynesworth

November 21, 2008

r.i.p zay u will be missed

sharon haynesworth

November 21, 2008

r.i.p.x-man. you will be missed.to know that someone would actually take your life is sad. but to picture the smile on your face makes me betta. all of the time we shared growing up together was worth it. ima miss you bro a nd luv you. amy, josh, james keep you heads up and know that u still have god,.

Ramon Watson

November 21, 2008

Amy, JT, Josh and Willie,
Since We've learned of your loss, you have been in our prayers.
May God continue to bless you and your family.

Sincerely,
Ramon and Kim

jasmine

November 21, 2008

r.i.p lil zay, i miss yhu, i remember when we went to school together juhs chillin homie yhu is goinq to beh truely missed. watch over meh- much love.

janea B

November 21, 2008

R.I.P i am gonna miss zay , it seems like yesterday when i was at hampton seeing you in the hallway just joking around and playing in the lunch room . i will always have good memories of you .

Keyana Channel

November 21, 2008

TO MS AMY, JAMES, JOSH, AND Mr.WILLIE MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY I KNEW XAVIER AND HIS BROTHERS FOR A LONG TIME I JUST REMEMBER HIM JUST COMING TO SIT NEXT TO ME AND HE STARTED PLAYING WITH MY EARS AND I USE TO TELL HIM TO STOP ALLTHE TIME BUT HE WOULDNT. I JUST REMEMBER THE GOOD TIMES THAT I HAD WITH HIM.

mrs.fox

November 21, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

cj fox

November 21, 2008

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

JASMINE WOOD

November 21, 2008

ima miss him feeling my ear fam that was my homie why did i have to be him RIP LIL ZAY

Tyisha Johnson

November 21, 2008

danq zay its like yesterday i was chillen with yu out phoebus &nd now yu qone. its kinda hard to believe.i miss yu already...watch over me.
rip zay.

November 21, 2008

Dear Amy, James & Josh. I was saddened to hear of your lost. Just a few lines to let you know that my heart and prayers are with you all at this time of sorrow. I will never forget the times we shared at North Phoebus. God Bless you all.
Keith Rouse, Alexandria Va.

VICKTORIA WILLIAMS

November 21, 2008

i WILL miss you lil zay your in a better place now, it seems like yesturday when i seen yu in school
i'm mad you gone yo r.i.p
love poodie

F. Green-Stephenson

November 21, 2008

I was able to touch Xavier's life at Moton Elementary School, where I was one of his teachers. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers. May God continue to hold and keep you during your time of need. Be blessed!

nic knowlin

November 21, 2008

i will miss you lil zay i know you in a better place dont have to worry about nothing you will be miss. R.I.P. LIL ZAY

nic knowlin

November 21, 2008

I will miss you lil zay i know you in a better place now dont have to worry about nothing R.I.P. Lil Zay

patricia hooper

November 21, 2008

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Brittani Channel

November 21, 2008

i love you zay.........sleep on...

Mario Barrett

November 21, 2008

I will miss you lil Homie

L Carter

November 21, 2008

Xavier i didnt know him as well as others but he was a good person my cousin loved him and she cant get over his death but were going to pull through we love him and miss him so for his family i know what your going through rite now

Yorktown Mother

November 21, 2008

May God Bless your family in this time of sorrow. Know that this young man will forever be in the arms of God.

Patricia Moore

November 21, 2008

To Amy and Willie:
I am sorry to hear of the loss of your loved one, Xavier. Let the arms of God comfort you in this trying time and he will wipe away your tears and bring joy back to your hearts. I will keep you and your families in prayer.

Ronnie Chisholm

November 21, 2008

May God always be with this family now and forever. Our sincere sympathy to Amy, Mr. Blakney, James & Josh, James, E.T. and all the family. Love ya, Ronnie

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